Becher for Kiddush - The Best Choice Shiur by Rabbi Nachum Scheiner at Beis Medrash Ohr Chaim

I would like to devote and dedicate tonight's yearas my grandfather f y side is tonight you Thomas the son laser shiner this mock Tyrant runs and continues to flourish just for a brief moment bring out one Auda that I feel we could all learn my grandfather was a m of mar for over 50 years in TAS and other places and he second s there was a certain his loved him when he used to come to and we were walking came from the other side of the street to come to say hello to we find in this week's para when M asked the for a to said I need a man but somebody that's going to take care that's going to care about CL like by himself went but he saw heed and that's was asking somebody should take him over somebody to cure my grandfather was a re that you hear it constantly from somebody over here in the Sho that said that his password is who is his favorite teacher was RAB sh he the felt that he cured but it's to everybody we're holding now the three weeks the three weeks is a time you want to rebuild the B mdash so every person in their way could care about somebody else you see somebody that's a little bit of down you give them a smile a good morning you give somebody a hand you give everybody a help something that we could all be everybody in their M we're learning KES we learned Sim and Al the The KES spoke about what type of wine to use there's one aspect that's not brought up over which is a very important you have the proper wine the best wine you know the ofes and say and suda but you need to put the wine somewhere you need to put the wine somewhere see KES is different you could even have a fancy silver holder but you don't you don't need it you could keep your EST without any cover a Talus bag could be it becomes a certain kadas but you don't need a Talus bag even without a Talus bag to make Kish you can't just you it's not just will try to go through a couple see how much we could cover you want to go and you want to get a you want to get a be so the first thing is is what size what's the sheer I like to always say over says over every year goes to he says some people get very pressured in the they can't drink all the kis they can't eat all the mat they don't have they have too big of sh so he says that the silver store is not the one that determines the she of the good you could get as big as big as you want but if you see a small B the has the she what's the shear the sheer is a r you need to have a r you don't have to drink the r you drink but the has to be a it's nice to have a beautiful huge but a you have to have that you see if you only have exactly a and then if you drink from it you're not going to have but the minimum for in a later place that you should see that the Kish By Night being that it's the you should go with the of what the she is that's a she for itself these different but to go with a bigger for KES by night as opposed to KES by day KES by night is in they bring that Rin said that if the Le s is Friday night you want to see that the first K of the should be to a bigger Shear of we're not learning now but Le he's definitely a mile of drinking so if you're GNA have a big an 8 seven oun be is a lot as opposed to if you have the she and then you could still go with the it's not so much so the first if it's Friday night R should be for the biggest she good so we covered that you got yourself a be the right sheer there's another D that the be is supposed to be sh whole what's the M that the be has to behold what's the M for that we'll soon see where it's brought in but what's the the says 10 items that are needed for a and only four of them are brought not all 10 only four we'll see if this time maybe will go we'll go through the gamar a little bit also but the gar one of them the gar says what does it mean k to tour as well as this third in not on that but a blot earlier in understands that means it's alive it's sh it's a it's a whole that not brought in however we learn towards the beginning of says that the of have to be like the so if we turn TOS you're supposed to have a whole a full a whole what that it's not crack and also LA and even not some Beckers have a stand on the bottom even the stand shouldn't be cracked that would be a in a whole I think so a dent I looked through all over I didn't see that a dent should be an issue however po po now does POG mean even explained even if it's on the lip of the which is very you have a and it gets like it could happen it gets knocked onto the floor so I don't know if the means that it's p it chipped off or even if it dented in but even a little bit even even if you're going to say that it chipped off but even a little bit the sh even a little bit that goes into the that you don't have a that that you should not use it in this which means chip already but not supposed to use asks sh from the the lists out three different places that these call it or however you want to call it to break the Bon and even a p if a whole even a little p even a drop makes the so theor says and then says something else also says says the other doesn't say and the says what's the why doesn't the gar say he says meaning to say is the is speaking about everything that's this is even ifes is even is to say that a p not the is only speaking about which pus that are gay when when we're talking about Thea now so said that the has to be has to have a r she too small of a is not good the has to be whole and that's dick because it could happen that the co could be bent in I'm not sure if could be chipped but if it's cracked you should not use such a CO let's go over now we're talking about what type of K let's go over now to a disposable cup RAB kimman spoke about it I think only briefly but we'll go in a little bit more and bring it out to see what we're speaking about now the different so what should be the problem with a disposable cup why shouldn't be good what's the problem CH says the small CH and he says not to use not to use a disposable cup he says if you have a gorgeous silver be that has a little chip it's pel drosa for sure a disposable cop is worse than a chi beautiful be may you shouldn't use it the same thing also the sh mayor byne was a r London brings couple of different Chas but he himself also says to be he's actually in and it brings a story that when he was in Switzerland after the war he wanted to sit down to eat and they only had a disposable cup and he waited for a very long time till they brought a proper cup to be y it's we're going to continue now in disposable but it's you go on a trip to get a cough you go to the the place that you get a cop of plastic C you figure it out get the water the bathroom the paper that you you figure it out the cup is a disposable cup so it's a sh if you could use it Raa speaks about the speaks about should be no difference we'll get to it in a minute should no difference oh oh so we'll get to that in a minute itself it's good we'll get to m in a minute Thea they both say and this is important they both say that if you do not have a different K you could use that you don't have to make K you could use a a disposable C says he also says not to use a disposable cup but he says if you do not have a regular be you should make Kish on the wine bottle one second one second very good very good and also says you make kdes on the wine bottle that you might say wait a second the wine bottle is not full so it's CLA that the be does not have to be fully that St on a side note sometimes you buy kidish and you see that the person you know the be is not full you could it's it's it's nice to try to get it full but somebody you 100% can make K even if the is not full what you say one second one second good good very good very good together with supp to get back to also then I want to go on M oh being the wine is going to be so I I forgot if somebody res if not I think somebody says it you don't have you don't have to drink from the bottle would drink from the bottle you can pour out from the bottle into the paper cup The KES didn't beades on the so make a KES on the wine bottle but I'll so make it under wine bottle then afterwards pour it into the cup pour it into the cup and MMA the wine bottle is not going to be pgum everything's going to be galic on the bottle yeah but it doesn't bring you over making or you don't have a they they both the I saw his son sh brown stuff they give out AA paper every week I saw it's brought over there and and he brings that that when you only have a disposable cop making the bottle making the bottle that's CL ra says that if if you don't have anything else you can do it on the Disposable they say do it on the bottle these matum that hold that you could Rosa says that you could make on a disposable cop you can make KES so you're asking is asking what what's the sad so I said over before from Raa Raa says it's not very clear but Raa says that it's it's it's worse than a a chi but what what I could say is to what you're saying the same also as the they both say this explaining I don't want to get go into that particular but they say the is that it does have a meaning to say is it to say not maybe doesn't have so what's the problem but it has what's the for this sud you using it you'll throw it out right after the Su you roll up the tablecloth and you throw it all out but for right now you're using it has a speak it out clearly that means what is that it doesn't have but they say no it does have because for this sud you're using it let's say it doesn't have a so then what is the problem so it doesn't have a so what's the that also goes into that it's not what's the problem when it's chipped when it's shipped also it's not shom it's not whole so when it's also not a what's of the problem what say I I can't answer you but I think that the is that a chipped cup is you shouldn't use a chipped cup even if you're a person that your kisas are Chi that's the so you want to know that could be if to depend on with so let's good I want to get to that Mish in a minute that's inant point that you're saying Mish in a minute what what we mentioned before that even the mater that say that you could use a disposable you have to make sure that it's not dripping which means you could use a paper cup you could use a plastic cup you could use any of that however a paper cup eventually starts dripping and if it starts dripping then you're also doesn't say it's a g he says Ro not to use such a kit some want to handle about that if it's not ma because it's a we're going to lead into your in a minute in another timely Shila just a minute I also want to go back to this that it's some say that if you double up the cops it's good so he already spoke about it but it's interesting in that stickle Maya brown stuff where he says someone asked him disposable is not good but could you out upon him use two disposables so he says with two disposables you have two cups that are not cost and this leads in to what you were handling the maybe if it is very interesting brings that the that the Disposable be he doesn't say that it's but he says even though you can't use disposable cops this is better why cuz this he say even people use it also meaning to say a little bit like the it's also disposable it's also clearly the norm so to speak you use it by a kidish they buy it with the paper G goods and everything you buy five of them all over the table and after the kid you just throw it all out it's also disposable but it has more of AAS more of a kashus which really we can handle together we can Wonder and this goes into the level what you saying third world country and what level what's if by a kidish they have paper goods but the paper goods are Mish fancy paper goods so and the cups each cup cost $2 and half dollars so that's the same as this disposable B that cost 99 Cents here's a new be that they wanted to make hope they made it even in there to stroll they always come up with new inventions and make it practical a collapsible be seems like it's a it's a I see in the they ask for the son BR they asked him to sh they wanted him to give a on if he give they'll Mass produce it practical you travel and you come and you put it in the suitcase and it gets banged around this is very it's collapsible not even so much the space it's more that it should it should stay if not the be Falls bangs in bangs out so first he also I'm not going to go through the whole Tru but first he goes through a m meaning to say is before you build a and now you're making it a before it's nothing you're making it into now it's good that's we're not learning it now yes handles about it what say I don't think he I don't think he brings in ban as well so for that you have you're going away for shabas and you want to take a collapse so make it before shabas okay so for that he says it's if I understand correctly it's doesn't then he goes into disposable it's the same idea that it's not a it's he says it's like from a broken be what does he mean from a broken be this is better than a broken be because here you build it back up but it's not gar from that it doesn't have a king so it's also the same idea the same type the same so to speak the same issue is another part that know if it's going to be a part two once you fill up the want to try to make up I always finish late finish a little early I just want to be with one more one more then the gar we said over there says 10 10 things that a needs one of the 10 one of the T is supposed to be what's means around it like the says these only four out of the 10 that's this is not brought this is not even though it's not it says of Kes to put small around you see some my grandfather used to have around but it's interesting the Goan actually says in a different place he says not only to put the beas around but actually to fill up the beas so tonight we covered the just the be itself they still what to talk about when you fill up and one more one more one more we still end on time one more did before fing up the be and putting in the wine is one more D is the din about that the be the gor says something else to rinse it out to rinse it out what say so the etum once it's clean I don't know where the paper I'll say it from outside I'll try the once it's Rin once it's if it's clean you don't have to rinse it out only have to rinse it out if it's not clean however M says you only have to rinse out if you take out your back you cleaned the shabas and you took it out of the China closet and it's clean you don't have Med you don't have to clean it BRS you're always supposed to rinse out the you're always supposed to rinse out the this week's I want that I try to look up so I took out the to look it up my side didn't understand anything in the is when it's things that you can understand it's in regular and if it's a it's in rash I didn't find brings this then also the says he brings the Z and he says what the Z explains the reason why you're supposed to rinse out the that c reason is relevant even even when it's not dirty it's not only for dirty the reason so then you have to rinse it brings many like that it's brings it so this is this is already a din once we move away from the itself appearing to make many but I wanted to get this in also from this