🔥מתפלל כבר שנים – ולא מרגיש חיבור? מנהיג הדור הגרמ"ה הירש מניח את היסוד שיחבר אותך לתפילה

for the says that is one of the things that what is the way to truly improve Ina one first of all has to understand what filler is why consider avoided give me this give me this give me this why I'm not avoided you're asking so one I'll quote says and this is more or less in in the same the same you find that in you find that in in in from his understanding as realization that he has nothing. He asks you come to the bunch and saying I'm nothing. I have nothing without you. I'm totally ble to you and therefore please give me that's the first person should understand the of the is if person knows that it changed a little bit his own attitude towards is very important for you to learn to learn the the also they don't even So the each word more or less people will know but there's if you learn the I say the tim with such the whole becomes a different filler totally different entirely. So if a person learns that fillet is very very important another I think important is a person gives up proper time to dab people come the last moment if you give yourself enough time to dab you come in ru and you dab in quietly then the dabbing is if also so I understand part of The is before the prepar preparation to learn the uh how much time what should one ideally invest daily or weekly in this kind of >> I think a person if he invests weekly daily is hard to say but weekly so between a half hour and an hour even then with the time he'll have a a Big [clears throat] before the prayers are more unfamiliar than the is long and challenging and devote extra time in preparation. He should go he should go over before before the should find time to go over to see that he understands what's going on there. You should understand about it and you what it means to overdo it. After a filo that was said without proper cavone, should a person feel sorrow and distress over this failure? Or should you instead rejoice that he at least was to perform the mitzvah itself and thus emerge from the with a good feeling? It's hard for me to say have a good feeling because the the number of shame hashem that is the person said rather proper is very distressful to know that it's but to feel the stress is never good. You have to know that I I I didn't have a good filler. I'm going to try next time have go with a with a with a positive. I'm there going to have a better filler next time. But not distress, not a good feeling. What's what's better? Should the focus be on speaking in a natural and flowing matter like a conversation between a person and his friend even if one cannot concentrate f fully on every word with exact in intention? Or should one the aim to be to directing each request with all the is desired? isol many people don't have they learned [laughter] they they involved in all in this ph is talking it's a very interesting which rebell somebody came to when he was in in in in So somebody came in bash m and they said what did you see? I saw the every everybody was dabbing and an old man in front was talking to somebody. That's chill. Chill is chill means that you're talking to the he gave you a chance to talk to him and not you don't learn. You talk to him. If you're not talking to the you're gonna you're gonna explain that many feel that after the deep investment in the prayers of yim all of it dissipates within just a few days. How can one preserve and carry this spiritual elevation theal of those throughout the year? I mean the the the the of every field is totally how much do you do you connect with? Do you feel you're talking to the fact doing the number of times a person will feel hopefully that he connects he's talking to the and he has to to remember what was it at what point in the field did he feel it and he can remind himself that feeling and he get back to the feeling of talking to the and is everybody before it should put it on now I'm talking to that put it to his mind I'm talking out to and try to put his mind I'm talking to and remind himself that's a good way is in particular during the when much of That fel is focused on how can a person genuinely work to connect this with his feeling. If a person will realize talking to the and think that the of the the bigness of the what he does the bigness of that's your mind that that itself is a coach mind that a person who feel that itself a coach And very often the devil will will come with that a certain feeling of of wanting that that will come hopefully naturally but the person should work on realization they're talking to and think what is then from that can come a feel of mind >> it's I think when you think of woman.