Zera Shimshon Parshas Vayeishev with Rabbi Simcha Bunim Berger at Bais Medrash Ohr Chaim

okay good evening good evening also to T anytime thank you for emanating to to all of cloud tonight's zerim is sponsored by razor clicks eCommerce emailing marketing done right and we are also learning should be shal for elazer Ben mat one of our one of one of the fellows who learns with us every single week needs okay letter letter sh page sh letter tonight we're going to learn about how to bring BR into your house bring to your house the most successful there's a rain maker and then there's a br bringer he brings BR to your house his name was Y what it says in the now I'm going to read for for you Z brings you theer of three or four we begin with he starts with was brought to he was P purchased by the MIT the the head of the butchers par one of the one of the assistants one of the Servants of par so y was brought to a very place this is where the Z begins quoting pay attention and it was Hashem as y with and it was he was which word is repeated three times you get one choice that's kind of excessive as the is going to ask usually it says one here is three obviously the PK wants to make three different points number one next and the master sees that hem is with him everything that he does he has so y found favor in his eyes and he became not only involved as an EV in his house he became his personal his personal masarus he started serving him his own Butler a fellow can have many servants in the house somebody takes care of the horses somebody's taking care of the bathrooms no YF is taking care of P he's his own personal masas why because and it said in the previous he was then it says that's even a higher level Not only was he his own masarus he just became Chief of Staff he just took over the house and all that he had so he's really now not just his personal M but he's Al if you know what that means he's taking care of everything interior and exterior up Final from the time excuse me was him over the house sounds repetitious the Egyptian this MIT became extremely successful big of course because everything was under his domain y's domain and there was the of in everything in the house and in the field why did deserve such because of because of why let's see let's see we can come up with those are the let's go to paragraph two with the questions as we mentioned when we read it it was pretty obvious obviously the wants to make a point of this the fact that wasem was with Y he was a is and he was in the bias of the MIT those are the three that's for one question the order of the is first it says he found favor then you would think that maybe because he was serving him they was exposed they saw each other he got to know him then he was seems to be was first little bit backwards says theion isn't it usually you hire somebody you like the job that he's doing and then you want to give him a promotion you don't like like him first and then give him the job how'd you get to know that you liked him you have to first give him get get to know him that's two what is the that we're referring to question number four it say two times why the repetition of the the is being M he's asking what's going on and really where the Z's going as as we said in our little introduction this thesim these Pim tell a story of how a it means a cursed person can have in his house that's what this p is all about we certainly want BR in our house and the teaches us a lesson so learning we have to learn from this how how to bring in let's learn the we'll start on the who so says I'm going to read you the source he again brings us just Snippets let's learn the source peric P this is the one who acquired was acquired the owner the rol switched the owner became the servant that's what the medish says how so what do you mean says usually an is taking away from this house the master has to supply and the EV are taking is bringing BR into the house he becomes the source of BR in a sense he's becoming like the boss he's bringing in the when you get an you have to be worried about a g GLE you know a person sometimes has workers come to the house has sometimes m in the house right you have to be careful who you let in your house you never know right a you have to be careful right not this one not this one this he's Gathering the money he's got he's honest you have to be worried about them you have to be worried about inappropriate actions not this fellow she's making advances he says no is so different than any other evid you don't have an evid like that says the Z this is the quot thank you this says the Zer is what the is hinting to the quality of y y the says is acquired by is acquired by the and different than all other it's immediately you can see he's not the same like everyone else has Integrity says the number one which means to say he wasn't he had a c by the fact that you could see with him he had a to him he was holy he had a he didn't need to steal he had a he wasn't down and now he had no pressure on the contrary everything was like the Golden Goose whatever it touched worked out even though was a house this house did not deserve any what exactly did this MIT stand for that this MIT deserves Rabbi K's question and yet is with because becomes like a magnet to bring BR into his house when the master realized that whatever did no matter for whom he was he saw that y was like a lucky charm he saw y's as something which was get the interesting the Z on his own must have lived in a time where people were writing and the that the person wrote was he got that type of reputation the was the fact that he was able whatever he was doing once he saw that the go was smart enough to know and to be humble enough to know that that where who's buttering his bread very good Shane who is and where is he a person with an ego a person with GAA wouldn't be able to stomach this and would see this as competition and would see they would send him out of the house he would have lost all of his BR the lucky thing that this potifa had is that he had enough SE to see that and let him run with it because whatever he does ultimately reflects good on you so therefore so that the should be in his house because of soon we're going to see an opposite story as soon as he placed them on the house herish as soon as y became in charge everything in the house just started to have his animals his Fields the what grew in the house that was just everywhere so the wants to make a point of actually giving credit to potifar for at least having the humility and understanding that it's because of him that is giving because of YF opposed to yov working for love oh the next we just started Sanhedrin is there a Sanhedrin gar here maybe we just started sanedrin if we and let's open up a gar sanedrin please and see an opposite story exactly what you mentioned while while waiting for that how can we mention don't know about it I'm giving you the because and is the so that's the reason the brings a garan hedin you're going to get there beem in about 37 Days the gar says like this 38 there was a king aov was a rusher of a king aov had oaja working in his house [Music] Alem he had tremendous said to him you're not such a big sadic you're not such a big sadic you're a faker Aaj you're a faker you know how I know you know how I know when yob was in the bias of L who is a Big R I know that thanks to you y I got in my house all of my sheep when yob asked for his love and acknowledged that you brought to my house because of the MIT because of Y the bias of the the MIT became full with BR said you've been working for me and my house has no [Applause] thought you're big when a comes into your house you get broke in the house when when a uh when when a person collecting money comes into your house you bring him in give him something to drink when him it's sometimes even worth more than the check or the or the cash that you're giving him you give him respect you give him respect you show him that he's welcomed in you let him speak you give him a drink and that's brings to the house and is saying you can't get BR in your house you can't in your house ask what's the why was it that Y and yob could bring BR into the house L was a cursed person and yet there what's the let's go back to the let's go back to the it says exactly like we read the was was in the was how is it possible that there's by the there shouldn't have been BR in his house that's what the med means when it says that a who he purchased him the purchaser became purchased the master had the humility to say bench take it bring BR into my house I'm not going to get in your way the Mitri had enough humility had a little bit of Anova to understand let him do it so many times you have bosses that have workers and their ego gets in the way of their own they can't stomach the fact that they have a worker who's doing so well and they are their own biggest enemies they're their own biggest enemies because Yen brings BR to you let him shine that's the one that this had going for him believe it or [Applause] not and he kept it he was the king and he wasn't going to squander give away any type of because this should be house it's a cursed house because you're if the house identifies by you and you're a g and you're cursed you're not going to have BR in the house was smart enough to let it be like y's house once it became y's house it became full of br even you know what he did they P Lo went to play golf that was it I got yob I got the he's taking care of everything I can just go I'm busy I don't have to worry about anything it's exactly the reason that he gave me everything is for a the reason is because I'm not I keep I'm honest I'm not being I'm doing everything so you want now I should do this with you all the br will disappear everything that he wanted how can I goad and do this the adds the following when YF came in his master would say I want something hot Joseph would say a few words and he would give him hot water I want something lukewarm y would say a few words and he gave him and the water was lukewarm the the says comes his hisab what are you Whispering oh one second it's beforehand he saw that hem was with him he saw with his eyes the Mal 91 90 plus the one he saw came and took care of him he saw the Mal with him he saw y said something like it says in the he said I want whatever he wanted he used the name purish shame me shalom what's called the shame me that's why it says says the meav me for therefore he saw the shame of Hashem in y's name and Y was able to do whatever he wanted says the now watch when he was whispering the medis says he asked him what are you doing you're bringing Kish you're bringing sorcery into mitan he says no he says I'm I'm benching my food I'm making bras whenever I eat something I make a br whenever I do something I talk to I'm giving a I want to see Hashem I want to see him I want to see the oh my I'll tell you something you see this son he's called sheemish you know why he's called sheemish cuz he's a shamish he serves Hashem he's one of thousands of sham can you look at the sun you can't even look at the shamish you see you want to see the master how you going to look at you can't see the how can you see him now listen he was not it says that the did all of the the one every there's one because of that he listen recognize that Hashem was Z so became he was the one who was in control of all of the food of Egypt was the one who was to bring down all the I want to tell you the following I want to tell you a the story is 10 years old maybe I said it over the last few years my uncle who passed away about during he came his last name was wolson not to be confused with the Wolfson that live here in Far Rockaway and Lawrence a different family the wolson family came from England and the family as R is saying not Zev wolson richer more money May the wolson Sedaka fund has a billion pound pounds in it just the Sedaka font okay they built sches and they built whatever the woles and Towers like one of the things that what's that the neighborhood the whole neighborhood and and in in and in and in and etc etc 10 years ago after PES 2014 one of the cousins had his 80th birthday and invited the entire Mish to England a hotel named clares they said 14 years ago dinner that Friday night dinner for 287 people was a million pounds that's what he Sal how much it cost how much how much they ate that's what it one of the fanciest hotels in England that the the Mish the Z had I think 11 kids three boys eight girls of all the kids one was from his name is SCH had one kid his name was the he was from that was Uncle Azar's father there was then Isaac who was known in England as sir Isaac wolson he was The Mastermind behind the business and son-in-laws Etc the G was there a few hundred people the Azar Reb Azar his side of the family made up most of it and they were there's B today called wolson which can has a thousand it's called the Wolfson Academy's son's Yesa they were sitting together was the end of the suda everybody had gotten up to speak the last speaker was of one of the cousins named Jeffree Stern and he said the following he said Sir Isaac although he was not 100% Orthodox but he was traditional one of the things that he was mackid on was that whoever ever sat at his table would bench and sing benching with him from the beginning till the end I have with my is because I always thank Hashem for what he gives me when I sit down to eat we all bench together and we bench together and whoever was at his table from not from didn't matter you sat in the table for two hours you could spend five minutes seven singing benching takes seven minutes seven minutes not two not the people sit at there for two hours three hours and benching isn't two minutes later they're done two seconds I'm not no no I'm seven minutes you're there for two hours we tried it when I came back from England I was so impressed my kids thought after one month okay T you know the way it goes one month was two months three months four months five months it's been 10 years but I can tell you from the time we started benching together the amount of B by Mir was Mish above and beyond everything that we had until then everything escalated in everything I heard from others who tried it and they didn't give up after two weeks three weeks or month but they kept to it and from that time on they brought BR into their house that's what the says he wasn't he wasn't intimidated by his surroundings he couldn't care less what anybody else said Ben like there's an organization it's called bench VI mench right bench like a mench blam I think it's called Krauss he was M benched he benched anywhere says listen to what he says call like is because he [Music] was he was the one who and if a wants to have broke in his house try it I Dare You b sing it sing it with your Mish that was sing the benching sing it with your we ate for a meal for two hours you ate for two hours benching is only two minutes time wise how much time does it take and the kind look at you really look what happened to Aba yeah and then you do it again and you do it again and you do it again all my kids do it now all of them we're doing it right for 10 years there's in the house they're all teenagers they already have already teenagers you want to bring into your house we ask the one the the one BR the which is how many times you have M so we shouldn't bench you know how you're shooting yourself in the leg do you understand what you're doing I can't bench let me have Aus I'm not going to get into it whether how kosher that is anyway right yeah pizz pizz are and when you make and you have and it's a like everything in life bring BR into your house the only BR in the Tyra right you bring into your house in your house you become and like you become a pipe to bring BR down into your house [Music]