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no matter what ship shin pinka says that
that
girl or boy is huge
you're born a girl wasn't your choice
who your parents are
that's very big right well your parents
are very big
not your choice who your parents are
even though i never saw it someone told
me there's a story in charmaine before
you come you pick your parents and
and some girls are like i don't believe
that because there's no way i would have
picked those people but um
they say you pick your parents you pick
your siblings you pick this you pick
that i i don't know i never saw it i
never saw that it doesn't the shaman
comes sees the world and swears that
it's not going to do a very stuff like
that but it's not your choice who your
parents are it's not your choice that
you're a girl or a boy it's not your
choice you're born a jew unless you're a
gay
that's huge you want a muslim you can be
born a christian you're born a jew
you're a girl those are your parents not
your choice how many siblings or who
your siblings are not your choice
pretty much where you live till you're
married wherever your parents live south
dakota brooklyn flatbush wherever it is
is not your choice and
who you're going to marry is not your
choice
rabbi wallistein don't tell us that
because 40 days before you come to the
world they say boss this girl
is going to be married to this boy
so they announce it 40 days before you
get here it's very beautiful dry terrace
so if that's the case why do you need
the emotion of love
i'm going to get myself into trouble
here because there's a lot of people out
there that say you don't need that you
get married you find it later i don't
come from that school
i don't come from that school but yeah i
have whatever i'm not i'm not going to
get into this the whole discussion but
why do you need emotions of a boy and a
girl why do they need emotions if hashem
already said this girl's marrying this
boy you don't need nothing just you
don't need check on them you don't need
emotions you don't need to do your hair
you don't have to you don't have to go
on a date you're going to pick out a
certain pair of shoes you don't have to
get a matching dress you don't have to
be nervous the guy's ringing the bell
right so what do you need there for and
the turret is amazing that even if
hashem
says who are you going to marry if
there's no input of the boy and the girl
it won't work
there has to be input
it has to be emotions it has to be a
relationship
not just hashem says the names
whatever that means so who are you going
to marry girl or boy jewelry not you who
your parents are who your siblings are
no choice
so what
choice do you have
what's your big choice as human being
uh i'll have a chocolate oh and i like
vanilla no i'll take a strawberry
what's your choices in life
i like red i like blue
that's your choices that's why shem
brought you to the world
so shim shim pinkis says
the only choice you have in life
is what you do with the things you have
no choice
step in
or step out
step up
or step down that i am a girl that i am
a jew but these are my parents that
those are my siblings that this is where
i live
that this is my iq
some have 165 in this room and some
don't have 165. i have a good memory
some don't have a good memory
but i'm a redhead that i'm a blonde and
i below that you could change
you could dye your hair but
what do you do with the things
you have no choice
most of the stuff that happens in life
definitely trauma
the kid did not choose
for sure not
so the question is
if i didn't choose it a holocaust the
inquisition
my parents are divorced
somebody died i don't have a parent i
didn't choose any of this stuff
the chimpjimping says so what's your
choice and the choice is what am i going
to do
with the things i have no choice am i
going to
step up
and help others
or i'm going to get depressed
lock myself in my room cut for show and
hurt myself
and do nothing with my life that's no
i'm not saying that you're going to be
judged badly for that
that's your choice
everybody has that choice
you could say no some people could get
abused so badly
that they don't have a choice
could be
so then they need to get help
so that
they could at one point make a positive
choice
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