Yom Kippur That Falls On Shabbos - Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith

this like to welcome everyone to 718 851 8651 emcom Smith I'd like to share with you a really delightful we have this coming week and as we'll see there are different regarding the people that have to eat regarding the neigh the daving the hav and we'll even see a treat regarding the if there is one and that is really the Su as we see really what really one that we have to try to clarify y has a very interesting Essence to it the end of is y is the greatest y even have but then again as we know it's not not a typical yam we don't have a suda we don't make Kish obviously from this we understand that who said yam has to be eating you know we do many things as the points out that we try to be like one of he says is also says that the the is to to get rid of the and for a day we live like a there's a lot to say about that but to put it very you know simply once asked on a random day what is the happiest moment of the year and he said without even thinking when I make the I'm going into a day of such you know us to refer to as a of but let's understand it's the biggest Y and there's no suda what's the is the that really we should have a suda and KES but we have to fast we're very illogical right it's much more to say that yum is the biggest y with a different agenda you don't have to eat you're not allowed to eat in fact so therefore it would make sense even a or a cotton that has to eat who said this kides there's no there no so that's the question regarding y it's pretty has a different to it it's a Y without eating but a little more challenging is let's put y to the side it's shab sh this coming shabis you know when I was young I always grapple with this question how do you look at chabas is it a regular chabas in other words maybe we'll say shabas there is a like every other shabas but we can't do it has to make regular KES by night and by day or maybe even that is illogical to say that are they can't make a sud maybe we'll say somehow that the shabas like the it's not a typical chabas it's not a CH we have much better than a than a g we have a day so there's no would be doesn't doesn't have to have and maybe not doesn't even have to say so a little more G to the question because it's really theight of today we also have a TI of there it's we push off to Sunday why because and shabas is the biggest the Tish is a shab no a is not a you know someone told me he was teaching young boys in a camp Tish and he asked them what's the saddest day of the year you know one boy said a total lack of the sadest day of the year is the happiest day of the year but what's the essence of the day so maybe we'll say just like is without maybe [Applause] also so we'll say in I think it's hard to believe that that are they can't make AIT doesn't sound right but here's the beauty of the I don't have a and the truth is as we'll see there's probably 15 Shas maybe more even about is it a regular shabas or not none of the sh is in one of the sh regarding Y is in so we have to look at the regarding and extrapolate what is the essence of shabas and apply it to all the other Shas and it's challenging because there's no and only there's no except for one of the discuss if someone ate a real meal does he have to bench on so to us about this P how can you not bench well some suggest maybe since it's in so it's like he atber in the has to bench he didn't do an and then he says not only has to bench but has to benching why so he's saying that is like a regular Y and this is quoted in in the end of I we said doesn't have a so obious is saying but there is and therefore you have to say to use his words so he's saying a big he's talk about a regular it is a for those that allowed to eat now there is a big cuz even if you hold you say it doesn't necessarily mean that it's we say so maybe once you're benching you could say Al but wait this is all regarding Y what about that you say in benching you certainly should save it say it's more because shab is and I believe that's in in he says that the r and say you have to near the same is true you have to add and the truth is it's more because could say maybe it's not a full Y in this respect but is so we have a beautiful start if eats enough the bench he has benching and he said I don't understand and he his Lo is he's not talking how could you say on this there's no he says someone has to eat because he's an but you don't say when you bench and in other words he's saying clearly you have to eat has to eat but and it has not the only one it's just that allows him to eat so this is a gold mine of information this mus to is he's saying on a not talking about there's no and there's no and certainly no KES so therefore we our question of about now himself seems to agree in in theory to and he definitely says that mustat should not cannot make it's there's he says maybe you should also should not say but he says listen if you say so so you might as well say like you know and that's is you could say it like very power so we have the and the both in essence are saying it's not really AES both days if you say and in sh he's more decisive di meing is like say if he ate enough to bench but he does make a compromise and he and forgot to say even though on a regular has to this not that's the the goes a step further let's say but he didn't start yet the fourth he just finished so on a regular even if he forgot to say make a special short that that cones the that we don't do I think it's very very why are you allowed to say but this is a fact so therefore we see that the Y is pretty power of say it okay if you forgot don't say it if you forgot don't add the special and this is the of it's not as simple that it's it's like in between he says let's see a person ate cake he he says why not just like you why not there now I'll ask you a question but it's not so simple this was all on a regular what is does perhaps the T agree that would say because shabas is shabas who said they would say you don't say so in the in the newed they have they have he says he believes that the is that you definitely say because shabas is undeniable shabas is shabas but the M doesn't didn't see that obviously but he says like you don't say in Bening or say Bening when so regarding as we as we saw the makes the compromise that's the Miss try to say it if he forgot to say if he forgot to say it go right next question is when does eat does he make does he take this is M and what we said Till now because if you hold it's a regular y like we saw from say because it's why not but the would say no it's not a regular y it's and that same SLE near but say kick but his is from a different angle as well because let's think did the M fall a double portion on arip see he proves it had to be for the that had to eat wouldn't fall so the is convinced that you take both on and certainly however thees he says because of it's not it's so we have a few turned around what is the ident idty of this and what's go with the with the do with the that the say go with the not to take for some reason does not quote does not site an opinion I'm not sure why and said if could do it let him take in other words it's it's pretty much advisable but not and I would add if you have a that has to eat and he's depressed enough as it is that has to eat which is really wrong because is to eat I would advise give him and make a big mat out of it you know like the new word they say today let him know he's not doing a he's doing a Mitzvah of and also why not we say we say we now the is is like you can't lose no no like like like wees so let him know that it's if that helps him so then it's worth for that alone but I would mention the the end of he says must eat you say and he says basically so if someone does have to eat he shouldn't feel guilty he's doing the that has to eat it's logical that you don't have to get is only we hope when he becomes and and beyond that he won't be sick he won't take talking about in the end of he says no and probably the is there's no for this now question according to the again would there be any more that you take in other words according to don't take maybe this shabas is different in the very end of he says that you don't make Kish but you should take even like on a regular because the end of the day it's chabas so that makes it even more understanding why we do take now a much more serious question this coming for Friday night and that is a or whatever whoever has to eat and they're eating regularly do they make Kish this coming what's the forget about and especially if you hold that Kish is only a the so the question is once he's eating maybe has to make Kish and for the rest of us that will be G and not going to eat maybe at least we have a dinner of the r of Kish and you in daving or whatever something you should say to that could be all agree not because ofer a regular there's no they never was never the day of but why is it worse than regular shabas says tically there's no on the page he has to make a regular other he'll pick up a and make the full now what exactly is the that's tricky because it's illogical to say you say because there's no doesn't make sense probably the is a regular like because it is a regular shabas now this is is famous and thez not that he's arguing on the see is right there's no because they never butab has he's a great but making regarding however as we know that's not the and the has to be like we said earlier just like is not a regular Y is not a regular the way the day for the it's like a regular weekday you I saw a fascinating cha from the someone was felt very bad that a this coming shabas does no Su the shabas so he had an ingenious way of making sue the shabas this coming shabas he said if you hold me with eat a k this coming Friday night because really the the the is only a which is almost double if you hold me is not awesome maybe it's [Music] an and not violate so obviously it doesn't sound you know too conventional like but the has a whole is a few but his that I think is most relevant to us says the question is based on a mistake you're trying to be there is no in other words our original he is addressing very headon that this coming shabas there is no this is the one shabas of the year there's no but I can tell you a lot more than that and that is the he says an insight into this coming to make this shabas as a shabas that's has the overwhelming power to make when we have a from we that he doesn't make Kish what he's saying is yeah shabas this shabas is not a shabas of CH and potato coule it's a shab it's a double shabas it's a shab like 26 hours and it's the happiest day of the year for us and it's a and like and say we are living for 26 hours first felt who needs CH then C so what's important for us he spells out that the essence of shabas is not a regular shabas and therefore there is no Kish you should know brings regarding bonus that override the regular because this shabas is a different type of shab I corrected a certain say for that printed to say sh on this sh to say Kish and he said the is not like there's noish even so that's why it seemed that the is used to say a is worth more than and that's fact is very much but we don't in fact says that we don't make and he quotes he doesn't say what he says I think he once tells I didn't forget to I saw it but it's not so it seems there is no even though this might be a but it also gives us a clar in the identity of the shabas now people ask if you know history the famous story when the epidemic theia epidemic so you people have to eat because otherwise they they have a low resistance they get sick and The Story Goes he got up in the and he made KES so is made KES so one thing it seems the historians verified that that y of theia was so but you have a r that he went but first he probably made it by day if he did by day all you make is a gin a gin you can't lose the only sh is making the kidish B which is a now you might ask but if you didn't make it at night so you have to make it by day I don't think he was worried about that I think his real point was to make a very dramatic statement that I'm making KES if he just made a girlriend then there's no R whatsoever because you had to drink wine if you have to so that's can't bring a r there was no kidish ever on this type of shabas wait but we're not yet finished the question now is that as we saw the identity of the day is a different identity maybe at least what we should do is we healthy people we should make minimally that is not a Ste toas in other words somewhere in ouring when we say a mention of shabas we have to have a mind the Mitzvah of just like on a regular shab we hear someone's very sick in the hospital he's on intervenous he's not eating there's no Kish so there's no purpose for him to to hear Kish what does he do he's try to maybe we all should do that this coming shabas and that's part of did accept that's not a adds two points once you talking about then make even a and also once you make sure they have a mind now even by is not accepted and the reason is p because like who said doesn't make sense so I don't think the is for this part of but the first part we see an important for this coming Friday night somewhere ining probably you mentioned when you say the end of the first say have a mind and you have that in the from the the green World family he has that have a because that's the on now the he quot one of that says the applies on this so it's not really only it goes back to the if someone is even saw quoting I didn't find it inside but quoting felt that maybe once a year and that is because have the same like man they have to make a and there's no wine and they should that's a big but at least say something that they can't go to they can't have at least I guess they can say is definitely but have in mind the mitvah of Kish next question which is very NE asked this question listen you know he feels bad enough he has to eat should he try to minimize in the you know maybe should have dry and water whatever whatever he needs just to get away with it so this we discussed once in the difference here that although some hold it's to minimize the but I think the overwhelming majority of hold that if he's not fasting so why not have a decent sud and seem to say if he's eating he could eat a normal meal now we do find something similar but it's very different when to eat on even says they should eat to Bear minimum even because that's AAR of Cl and if he can't fast at least be M somehow in the but is not a it's the biggest y so if he's not fting he might as well have a an now I'm not saying there of making KES Kish not but if he's eating eat some I must must tell you there's no the shabas but it doesn't mean that if he does he's so we could say that it should be a normal sud had had a feeling that St dessert that doesn't add anything to his you know health and well-being maybe that doesn't maybe that's inappropriate not a fancy ice cream that really doesn't add much but a normal suda again it also should give him a little of of an appreciation what he's doing is not an a it's a Mitzvah next question which is is a lot better than it sounds shab which is TI so the has a different form to it very interesting we make a right away before makes Sunday night question what happened to if you're making a so make the ter is TI is an Aus and it's inappropriate to start smelling in fact there are some sheas that an OV when he makes he does not take is not like that but it makes sense that very even has so is not the right time so now the question is maybe also we shouldn't have some but we see people go around then they make a the ter is theha doesn't begin y are the very opposites Tish is a some of them doesn't fit in is a it's the biggest but we can't eat so we don't eat we can't make Kish we don't make Kish but if we could have a little bit why not so that's another between and even though you know it's maybe there would also be a unless you go but no doubt about it it's certainly as opposed to two places andest he also urges another reason to take to take on because we know there's May every day including shabas and shabas we run a little bit of a deficit because the are smaller but we have extra sudas and we have and we smell like okay is the biggest deficit we are short either 32 or 33 BR that's a pretty big agenda so the are say that there's no other choice we by saying a m to the of the laning with Theus and there's two laning don't forget so you add up the if you listen closely that's this year the good news is you have an extra so the end of the day if you listen to all the laning with all the that is you only show two or three so you almost have it some say to supplement whatever you're missing also works obviously so said that's not the real problem if you keep in mind that we have to hear the each and say properly and then you have may I'll tell you an interesting question this in he quotes from the TR we don't have but he quot thetion of this that said that people by in his sh they smell tab tab and it seemed that it's had such a powerful effect that you didn't feel hungry so this re of the was very upset he said he said very sarcastically he says what are you doing you taking away the why you doing that you're supposed to feel the that's we see we smell but maybe held is basically but there's no on Tobacco that's p but I did see something in the from seems to come from a different perspective the the famous he speaks about the the what you allowed to wear what foot gear you allowed to wear on you can't wear anything any shoes or even plastic shoes or sneakers or Crocs you have to feel the ground that's the's famous if it's not leather what's the problem and he says if someone's M for no reason and he calls himself he's on the of that's how much he holds it's a yum it's a yum that you have to fast and you can't wear leather shoes but if it's m to wear Crocs to why not now others don't say that but it's interesting he took that point that is and there an of now that's probably very different than the but I wanted you to know what I found about this now someone else asked me he just got a new suit should he wear it or save it for so that's easy the Em Say although there was no bigger y but Yip is not a day of dressing up but not wers why there no is very striking saying you don't you're not allow you can't How could a person say how isn't he doesn't he have could he do it so is although but not regarding we know the end of that supposed to be special now it's hard with the with the children satisfy them with big shabas to have a whole new wardrobe big I know is challenging but is more than shab but that does not apply Tove the now the only thing I should mention this doesn't mean means there should be tablecloth clean shirts it should be laundered that yes some people have a special white yam some people still wear white Bard that's but the of is only the not we shouldn't dress with all of the women should Dr with all of the the the different jewelry there has to be a certain sense a very important question a double question this year and that is are we allowed to D in for personal needs for on and this so the embes that we should know this the same discussion but we'll talk about y today the say as we know in the end of you're not allowed to dive into personal needs in fact we is not particularly the time for our own needs is day of Mal says if people have their own he says it's wrong it's like like we're saying have have give give is is a day of of why why are we getting mixing in our personal needs but it's interesting I once collected a number of G the list is growing this will won't work in our times because if your we don't D of our own needs then we won't relate to the we won't feel the this he says although ideally one should not D person but if we don't person today in our times he writes it's a lack of am we don't believe in that's how much he made a change and said this said this and many have said this there has to be a a feeling of of what ran is all about you know said it's wrong people every word is g g g you know that's wrong but there's got to be you know at least a little bit for our personal needs now that is true even where the already was very critical of those like I think it's easier to understand that there's more of a or car for personal needs cuz as I told is a m of when else should we D for ourselves so if by which primarily is we are today certainly should not be a problem the only question is maybe shab is different because we have the not to ask a personal request but then again here we'll use the and a little bit that they both understood that Yip takes away from shabas its identity as shabas Anda Yip is a day of and and all all the urgency of and that's probably why the is to dive in for personal needs of course it has to you know be appropriate where you put it in as is a good place but but today it has to be we have to understand that you know we're fighting for our lives literally and that's the time to do it another point which is exclusively a shabas question in the says it's inappropriate or it's wrong to cry on shab but as we know like the says that's not soaked with tears is not not a that will even be on is quoted in that would cry and even wow even though really would say well maybe shouldn't cry in shabas butel did not seem to differentiate and how much goes into definitely definitely the is and to cry the in and said it's inappropriate to cry rash because he Ted the criticized Isel but they were very depressed of don't cry but the girl said the you know and this is he gives like those that it says in the cry now that's wrong but if a person cries from from emotion that's cherished by says a person try to bring out tears because so I know it's a bigger agenda than I it's a bigger than I just did but it seems that the Yip is the biggest y but the the essence and we have to try to make sure we get that the only question you might ask From perspective is how could we say this is true tce twice the says that we don't say when it's when it's so the question is how can we say person needs we don't do that regarding was a that was composed specifically you look in Theus it was composed when they was in Rain also and he says that really we said already almost 10 days and so if you leave it it's only but he discusses about saying the that some say by the so he says very he say very emphatically there's no put a whole new identity is a day of so that certainly makes us a little more comfortable with what we're saying that the the is the tears that is the essence of the day and I could prove it because on a regular shab we have to the is on we make him and we don't say why not obviously it's not a v it's not breach in because those are the days when we do D another interesting sh a question we once heard a sh someone had a baby during the week of and that year what you do about I know someone that was waiting an for his first anle to be born and the baby was born in between and and he went out and he bought every imaginable and unimaginable um that that that's on the market I told you should give a test for her whoever comes what are the five bras and what's the order I wonder who's going to pass that test but anyhow now this is what he did but I did see the P say I don't have that says said make make the next shabas after the BR why I make it so my feeling only was if someone now I'm not saying that sh is a regular party but the is a day with so much to accomplish in so short of a time you know we need at least two days but one day is just never enough you know would wake up his an an hour before wake up every moment his precious used to tell that he when was sick they had a minion in his house and there was time in between the and the and they was St smoing so told them that you know it's we l them the the when they realized that it was y's fault of big storm he says pick me up and throw me into the ocean so BL said why do you have to say sun of course you have to pick him up to throw him in so he was stressing give me another second pick me up do it slowly so I can enjoy and then throw me in because it was a moment of Chua he was doing chuva sh in that moment says every moment ofip is so precious don't let a moment go by not being used so maybe again we don't see because maybe these felt that to make a sh people come what do you do you know youo it just not within the spirit of the day now if someone makes sh fine have no problem but definitely these G recommended maybe every moment of it used properly and not to squandered even something as holy as a shom I once saw a fascinating question this is typical of who asks a question this coming shabas we deprived of theah of Kes and sud shabas why don't we have a an interesting solution to the problem we'll make early shabas Friday have a sud shab sud shabas with we'll bench with r we'll bench a few minutes before the man and then after benching we will be and early sh not early and we have a sud we going to so his ter is p is you can't spout a day you can't divide a day if it's but I was thinking and the the doesn't begin there is no on this shabas so why do you have to struggle and come on the the patent of making a div division so that ter I think is probably as good as a ter is No On this day but you see how many we have from this simple question of identifying the status of the day a point I must mention that many people D in in their Sho you know not with and very often they have to drive to get there so for men is not a problem you go early but the problem is for women that want to light at home and then go to their Sho for so people are programmed you light NS with the tonai and then you drive and then you're okay but that's that's only first of all even on only when okay but your special but you also make a and according to most when you make so that wants to go into car or do any if you think it's you let to make it tonight but don't make what's like the man making the if she's afraid she might forget get so make you get alone but to say it and then get into a car like many not a good idea on as you start y also this coming shabas we have an a longer of the it's not just we often forgot to mention one of the two so I must tell you it's we have two upcoming and that lead into a regular shabas for two days the women and then the third days we hear it's the wrong now you with the fine but not with the it would be ideal for to hear a from someone else she she make a on these neighbors the is if you have to say two and you only said one I saw a number Place say is good if on you you only not even though we said not so at least on we do things right so tell the remember it's not something that used to this this we make two things and more importantly Su going into shabas going shabas tell that changes a few quick points about the daving interesting we say every year that's that's Le together with clel this year we have cab shabas what should be the right order what goes first or shabas so in we would say what do you mean cab shabas is and he says that indeed goes first that's the seat of the and however and clearly passing like this no we have to make the and then and there interesting two reasons why if you're going to make the shab and thenu it looks like the is going back on we just say more than that's a minute he quotes one of the I mean you have to whatever you say that's not but I he has a whole about and he says if first first maybe you can't beas afterwards because does not M because Yip has shabas plus so maybe there's no way to m y so therefore you have to first be and first first and then otherwise says you're not anything you have to be to the of course but that's not the the as I told you make and then we don't say the word like we usually do on a regular y because it's not that full-blown y we don't say say because a day of ESS is not a day of nothing wrong with the ESS but it's just not a day of very important in speaks very highly of someone that says either this year is at risk especially for I'll tell you why we usually say three times we only say it once not in not there after and when they start the at least 50% are still daving and they finish different times but they finish they jump right into whatever the saying whatever something important who remembers to say it's the only way going to say you're not going with say three times but once you should at least you should say so I was thinking they should they have a new I don't make after they finish they should make a you probably have 100 people saying together but otherwise again it's at risk you might miss it because P it's not in our program we don't do such a thing that we don't have an someone asked me if is anything he heard it's it's it's wrong to make it this to feed his have to eat so I left silently the has a whole Simon tough R test that's inappropriate on AR to keep food on the fire what's wrong so says it looks like Glutton like the only thing you have a mind is you should have a know what are you worrying about your food so if that's the case and it's says it's only a din of putting away food for a healthy person but to keep child on the for for a cotton absolutely nothing wrong whatsoever and now the last part interesting do we take so this is a beautiful on a regular there's no reason to take was taken because gave to create that has no to Reg [Applause] presuma we don't make that's the in the question is this coming is also do we take so the child is there there's no there's noish but the end of even because there was no because there's no and that's the of the however was that do sud has and he says and if you make make you make a you can't be what's the problem that's that we do say the this coming but it's tricky because there might be a different problem let's say I'm making so I make then I make the if indeed there is no so the is ack and that's the taz's problem what do you mean no problem there's a problem maybe not but have so some make the BR before AB some make it after ab and some have a minute that one of the make because he can't there's no he he's not drinking the wine so I have no problem of he but maybe I'll make the before but you want to have in the regular I'll smell after the not making a says no the smelling is the so that's why Dominic seems to be most make the is regularly it's not as we know is this is less of a can't say it's not a at all some say you should have but if someone doesn't have it it's okay I'll tell you an inter thing about the post the question Zin is the first that is there of this coming because he is convinced as that the is a takeoff of shabas that we enjoy throughout the shabas if there's no sh there's no so he understood it is it's the end of but the truth is no one said this and the truth is you look in the B the whole about say has two reasons for one is and also the special bone that only has sustenance from both those reasons should apply now we do have a anyhow keep that in mind but then after before in Germany that the they only say why which is very convincing that really that was made only look how many times talk about convinced that originally it was made for GR so even if you don't say in a regular we are [Music] theree fore [Music] we learned today no doubt about it is the biggest y it's not a eating y not a but it's a day of great opportunity that's why there is no there's no we do say that's not a steer that's part of the like by daving so benching but basic basically it's is a day of that was our focus of today there a very good reason to believe the same idea it's maybe a big chabas not a chabas of c and CH it's a chab of but doesn't have the regular Essence the regular M of shabas that's why the meaning is not to make KES and you use not not it's just why not but it seems that b basically that it's not a regular shabas it's a sh will say a it's the king of all shab no if you have it it's better to use it especially for but we can't say it's even we don't make even both understood that it's not a regular shabas even regarding the basic all agree should make have a mind to do with should try also be they the same like men the basically there is no but if a person is eating let them have a regular good suda and the truth I forgot to mention that eats and and eating food he doesn't enjoy is not satisfied he has to end up eating more so it's to eat a good sud and be satisfied with what you have is a form of that we take on also to supplement the may we don't take Su but again are the very opposites May short if you listen to laning in all the three so a little bit extra and you're okay we saw some say da don't take it to in the said just the opposite don't increase s unnecessarily a little bit of friction about the but definitely the the white that's very much part of the but the extra special that's personal request even tears is the essence of the day is tears is delaying it either the next night or that shabas don't make an early shabas to to have the sud because there is no sud the make sure you say the right the right when it goes from shab from into shabas if you want to light n and go in the car don't make a and then daving we we don't say make sure to say theas the CH on shabas is perfectly okay we do make we do try to get and yes we do have [Music] soon that you break it pass e e e