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okay hi everybody good to see you
i guess we're getting more and more uh
live people although uh
every day the government is changing the
rules i hope as that's
shown we will be able to uh uh to
continue
and uh first uh today's share is
dedicated uh for a reformer
ben hoda may all of these have a
reforged leima
israel and in addition
aliyah shama in memory of the following
people
ruvain pinchas ben khayemyakov
david ben arya lab
i believe these are the relatives of
alan fine who is a very very good friend
who gives the shir a torah
of his own and this should be uh
nishma and as well as binyamin israel
then who was the heroic
young man that we were praying for for
over a year and unfortunately
he was nifter and his parents the
ganchors are still
generously supporting many shiorim and
miriam bat
shimon again all of these nisham out
should have an aliyah in the merit of
the
torah learning that we are doing
it's very very interesting that we are
approaching uh the month of ello
and those of you that have experienced
life in yeshivats
especially i know that the montevello
has a special
resonance rabbi shaw solanter who lived
150 years ago described ello when he was
a child and he already said that it had
changed
that when the khazan benched rosh
chodesh this coming shabbat they're
going to announce rosh chodesh elder
there was like a cry from the women's
gallery and women literally were
fainting
and that was not because of the
difficulties of cooking for a three day
yamcha
but rather there was such a palpable a
matadin
kind of a fear of god's judgment on rosh
hashanah
god decides who will live and who will
die and eloh is already the preparation
for the mahadin the days of den and
yamim narayam
and there was a tremendous parkade in
lita in lithuania
the saying goes that in the month of
ello
even the fish in the ocean tremble and
quake
and again the the litvisher the kind of
the
in lithuanian culture and in yeshivats
and all of the non-hasidic yeshivo today
are primarily based on what we call
litchfire right now
in every cell for example when you
identify yourself as a litoi
that does not mean you're from lithuania
but it's a certain culture
a certain mindset and elo was very very
known as for the
the ema and the pakhad the
the trembling uh if you look in the
prayer in the santa together which is
one of the highlights of the
rosh hashanah yom kippur service it
talks that even the very angels in
heaven
quake and they tremble and who can
withstand
hashems did in truth we can't deny
we cannot deny the fact that on rosh
hashanah in a little bit more than a
month
no god is deciding who will live who
will die
uh if a preliminary decision is made on
rosh hashanah
we call that kitiva and then the final
decision is made on yom kippur who will
live and who will die who will be
healthy
who will be sick if we think about all
the tragedies of this past year
especially with corona
we have to recognize they were nizar
they were decreed
last rosh hashanah yom kippur so serious
things are happening
but we also have to understand that
although this is an undeniable aspect
of yemen it is not a complete story
because as i say sometimes people focus
on this aspect and they either become
anxious
they become depressed or they tune out
because since they don't want to be
anxious or depressed they just don't
want to
think about it there really is another
side to the story and
this is can can be best expressed by
looking at the famous acronyms
that our sages have devised for the
month of elle they have found ello
murumas alluded to in various
sukim and the like and i want to give
you three of them
the first one everybody knows i'm sure
you've heard of the other two are maybe
a little less obvious
but also carry a very powerful message
the best known
uh acronym for ello is the uh
the verse in shira shirim shireshirim
the song of songs
is uh written as a romance a passionate
romance but ghazal
almost got centered there were rabbis
who basically said the song of songs
does not belong in the jewish bible it
is sensual it is romantic
it is a secular love song or actually a
collection of
wealth songs in others people don't know
many commentaries interpret the word
shireshi rim
not qualitatively not it is the song
that surpasses all other songs
but quantitatively it is a song that is
comprised of many smaller poems
sheer of shirim and in the refrain
the young woman says about her lover
anila dodi
i pledge myself to my beloved
vidodee lee and my beloved pledges
himself to me
and khazal say that the young woman is
israel and the lover
is god and essentially what amy israel
is declaring is
my loyalty and my love is to my creator
and my creator's love and loyalty is to
me
and what is the famous message the
rasheed the first letters
of those four words ani li dodi with
though delhi is hello
so instead of looking at elo as a time
of pakha
fear like we're preparing for the court
case
which you know in a month we're going to
be standing in trial for our lives
in front of a judge and a jury that's
kind of out to get you
anilo d under underscores the fact that
ello is a time of love a time of
reconciliation
a time of relationship and khabad
there's a very very famous famous
mushroom if
you have any connection with i'm sure
you have heard this more than once
it's from the altar webb that ellen is
the month
that is hamelech in fact in a week or so
you'll see a lot of signs
from the different houses and what is
the analogy
that the whole year the king is in his
palace
and yes he's open for appointment you
can make an appointment but if the king
is in his palace
you need an appointment but there's a
time of year where the king goes out in
the field and anybody who wants to
approach him
can approach him he's accessible he's
available
and ello is said to be the time of year
hamel
it's a different view of ello ello is
not this scary
time where i'm shaking and i'm quaking
like when we saw solange
described it padella was a time of love
of loyalty of reconciliation
remember that moshe rabena went up to
get the second luchot
after the first ones were broken after
the federal ego
he went up rosh chodesh and they came
down on yom kippur
so the 40 days from rosh chodesh
to yom kippur are called through yom
kippur
uh when he came down with the second
lukat are called yame
ratzon for mim
ken i think uh you know particularly you
know we're kind of a weaker generation
and sometimes when
the musser is very harsh and very very
critical
it's a little hard for us to take and
it's important to kind of understand
now again i i have to be careful here i
don't want to distort anything there is
a reality that god is deciding on yom
narayim
who will live and who will die we cannot
really get around that
i mean we don't have the choice it's
going to it's going to happen whether we
like it or not
but you have to understand that it's in
a context of anila dodiva dodie you know
i remember
when i was a um uh when i was a college
student
so uh i took a course one of my courses
was in uh
earlier early american literature so one
of the i think i mentioned this more
than once
one of the excerpts they have in
anthologies of early american literature
was a very famous sermon given by a
prominent
puritan preacher jonathan edwards
which basically described sinners in the
hands of a wrathful god
and this was really kind of a real
mustache moves he basically speaking to
his christian
congregation and he's saying you are
like a repulsive
insect that someone is holding over a
fire that all he wants to do is
squish it and throw it into the fire
and that's how you are in front of god
who is disgusted with every aspect of
you
well i suppose that is an approach one
might take to bring their congregation
uh to but that doesn't seem to be the
way ghazal are describing it anila dodi
bedo de li i want to do chuva
not because i'm afraid god's going to
hurt me if i don't
but i want to do chuva because i love
god and god
loves me so i want to do what's right
when i love someone
i want to make them happy i want to give
them
just as hashem wants to give us brachot
and the like
right so that's the first drummer again
as i say that's probably
very well known and i'm sure most of you
all of you probably have heard
anila dodea with doji lee but what's
interesting is
anila dodiva dodi lee is in shira shirim
and that's the most famous remis but
there are two other ramosm to the
montebello that are actually in the
torah itself
one would have assumed if it's in the
torah it would actually be more famous
but it's actually less
a little less known than anita dodiva
dodi
ali and that is uh one of them is from
later on in the book of devarim
when it talks about uh umal hashema loke
et le vavra
god will circumcise your heart
and the heart of your children milan
and it's the same idea et's
is encoded in a pasuk
that refers to circumcision of the heart
now this of course the term circumcision
of the heart is a metaphorical
expression
obviously we don't want our heart to be
circumcised quite literally
that would pose a severe health risk to
kind of take the heart and
cut away some of the heart tissue but
rather
the metaphor is very very simple we know
for circumcision
that until the brit until the foreskin
is cut away
it's called orla so orla is that which
is blocked
and the cutting away exposes that which
was covered
same thing with fruit i mean the reason
why fruits
for the first three years after you
plant the tree you're not allowed to eat
right you can only eat the fruit after
three years
what is that fruit called or or allah
means
it's blocked it's removed from use
or allah so consequently orlav
refers to a condition where your heart
is blocked
you're not able to connect to what you
really feel what you really are inside
when you're blocked in your connection
with other people
you're blocked in your connection to god
and you're even blocked in terms of
really connecting to yourself
that's the condition that is called or
lots of
and even if a person is religious and a
person is observant and a person is
doing mitzvot
but a person is kind of going through
the motions
and they don't have a genuine feeling a
genuine connection to things
they're blocked that's called or allah
so the second dramas of elo is
that the month of ello is a month that
we can achieve a circumcision of that
heart we can
release the blockages or get rid of the
blockages
and connect to hashem in a positive
loving way
so it's not just the protestation of you
know
anila dadev dodie but the actual removal
of the impediments
that prevent us from living authentic
integrated unified
lives of authenticity and reality
again it's something to think about you
know uh
sometimes we're so involved
i mean rightfully so in some ways that
don't get me wrong we're so involved in
the details of the mitzvot
that we lose sight of the purpose of the
mitzvot
the purpose of the mitzvoth is to have a
connection to hashem
now remember just to give you an example
of how absurd things are
many many years ago i was talking about
this idea
about developing a relationship with god
so somebody said and one of the people
said i'm very uncomfortable with that
language that sounds too christian
jews don't talk about a relationship
with gods
we talk about mitzvot now there actually
is a kernel of truth
to that observation because in a sense
god is unknowable right so so we only
know god through the
medium of the torah but i think it also
highlights
what you might call almost an
occupational hazard so to speak
of even an orthodox religious jew that
is we're so
fixated on the trees
maybe even the leaves of the trees the
branches of the trees
that we don't really ever think about
why am i doing all this what is it
supposed to bring me to
and how do i get there and that's called
orla talev there's kind of a blockage
there
and ello is a month where we could
achieve
the milata lev um
that's the second drum is the rebel
now the third rammus of allah goes all
the way back to parashat's mishpatim in
the book of shmot
although in the mitzvah various
mentioned in this project or last week's
project as well
that is irma city of refuge
what is city of refuge well we know i
think we talked about it more than once
a person kills another person
inadvertently without malice
but they're negligent if it's a totally
unavoidable accident you don't go to the
ear mclaugh but
there was a certain carelessness you
didn't look both ways at an intersection
you went through a stop sign at two
o'clock in the morning where you thought
nobody was around
and god forbid you hit you hit somebody
in other words there's a certain element
of
negligence carelessness
legally to use the secular term would be
called manslaughter
not murder so the torah creates a whole
punishment system a very interesting
punishment system
where the person goes to certain cities
of refuge
and he remains in those cities a very
strange sentence
until the kohang gadol dies
very very strange we talked about that a
few weeks ago uh if the cohen godol dies
a day later goes free after a day
cohen gadol dies 50 years later he's
stuck for 50 years
if he dies before the cohen godol he's
buried in the aramic lot
and his body is not exhumed to the
family plot
until after the current god all dies
okay we spoke a few weeks ago about the
indeterminate sentence but i just uh
want to bring out ire macleod now in the
parasha vir mikla
it says the following a share load sada
he who did not wait in ambush with
premeditation
elokim inaudible
god prepared for him a protection
i have given him a place where he can
run
now there is the air machlad so in that
pasuk
same thing ina liado
god has prepared for him
so this pasuk tells us elo
is an ear
very significant anir mclaughs
is a place of protection and refuge
for those who committed unintentional
murder
irmiglot is normally a spatial concept
right there's a certain area
but what we're being taught is that just
as there's an ear miglat
in space there's a concept of
ir miklot in time
and hello is the heir miklot
and what that teaches us is this
in a sense every sin
is a form of murder it's really a form
of suicide in a sense because god gave
us a life
god gave us time when we waste our time
we don't use our time properly we
essentially have taken the gift of life
and we have destroyed it right when
people say i waste time
wasting time or doing bad things in our
time
is really a form of suicide because
you're taking the substance of life and
dissipating it
so all of us are murderers
sometimes we murder other people by
humiliating them but but all of us with
all whatever virus we have
we're murdering ourselves but god knows
that we don't do so with malice we don't
do so with evil intention
we're wrote shogenko we're shogek
we don't think we're careless we don't
always focus
things happen l
is the spiritual equivalent of the ear
michelette
that allows therefore to be an atonement
let me point out that people sometimes
make a mistake they think the purpose of
the aramic lot
is to protect the rhodesia
from the blood avenger who would be
allowed to kill him
it's a protective function now that is
true that is a function
but that's not the only function because
let's imagine that the retsaya is a
wealthy guy
and the rochefort would say well thanks
a lot for offering me security in the
year mclaughs
but you know i have a much nicer house
and hurt salia and i can afford
my own private security that's a lot
better than the emergence you see if
your mcleod would only be a security
device
then the rotator should have the ability
to say i'll handle it myself
but the answer is he's not given that
option he must go to the year mcleod
no matter how good his private security
is because it is not
simply security it is actually
an atonement which we we give to him
whether he likes it
or or not so these are three ramazim
for the month of ello the idea of
loyalty and love that is reciprocal
between god and the jewish people anila
dodiva dodi li
ello is a time in which we can overcome
our blockages and inhibitions
and that's the idea of milata lev
um
and the third is elo is the time of
reflection it is the ear mik lutz
that can be an atonement for the sich
that we commit with the substance of our
own
of our own lives so all three of these
messages are really very very
positive messages i know that refrasco
levenstein used to always the greatest
great masjid the great paul musser
always talked about ello as golden
golden moments of time that we can use
for good uh purposes and of course
obviously we we have several weeks for
the ryan so i will be talking about this
more than more than once but i think
it's important that we
we look at it in a positive way in fact
the safer even says
that the fact that we go through this
annually is actually a
hashem because it allows us to look at
our life
in small increments imagine you know
imagine if we would have rosh hashanah
yom kippur every 10 years
every 20 years so that means i have to
look back at my life
over 20 years and try to fix things
that's a very difficult task
hashem gives it to you every year you
know
how much could you mess up in a single
year well we actually we can do quite a
lot but
but still it's a more manageable type of
thing
and therefore karish parker kind of
gives us a frequent
tests so to speak so we're able to
work with smaller increments in
improving ourselves and the like
now if you look at the jewish calendar
it's almost always the case
that parashat rea the parsha that we're
reading
this coming week is either the shabbat
before rosh chodesh
as it is this year or it's the an
black it's always the first parasha of
either shabbat mavorhim
or shabbat or rosh and as is always the
case there's always going to be a
connection between the parsha of the
week and the calendar
a date and the maforchum have identified
a number of ramazim
in parshat riye itself that pertains to
the start of the season of chuva
which is elul rosh hashanah yom kippur
and i'll just mention a few of them i
don't want to mention all of them that
would go on
quite a long time but i want to mention
number one
when mosher abenu lays out the idea that
behold i have set before you
the blessing and the curse you may
notice and perhaps
an early person always mentions the cleo
car so perhaps you already mentioned
this
but the cleo car points out that in the
hebrew
there is a grammatical shift between the
singular verb
and the plural verb
see
i am putting before you in english you
know you don't see anything but in
hebrew
rei is the lash and yakit lift
is a russian rabbit
right but what is the idea of of
combining
a singular and a plural uh here
and the kliyokar says that this is a
remiss
that each individual must know that the
decisions they make
impact on the whole community the idea
of calli israel i raven's
that each of us are responsible for each
other
means that i'm not only responsible to
god
for my mitzvoth and my average but i
bear a responsibility for every other
individual as well so it's kind of
reciprocal on one hand
that sibor is obligated to be concerned
about the yakid
but the akhid also knows that his
decisions
impact and sibor you know we sometimes
say if i want to go to hell that's my
business
what do you care you know it's none of
your business but the truth of the
matter is the talmud you saw me gives a
very famous mashal
to people sitting on a boat and let's
imagine i'm sitting on a boat
and under me the boats as a whole and
water's coming in
and when you come to fix the hole i said
no mind your own business
it's the hole is under my seat well the
answer is the water gets in under my
seat
the whole boat is going to sink and
that's exactly our predicament so the
kleoker says
the rea and the lyft nephem is a
reminder
really that every individual matters
and every individual's behaviors impact
andet sibor as a whole you know
for example in a yeshiva or a mignon if
some people decide you know
not to participate in the learning or in
the
or in the mignon that creates a certain
weakness
with ripple effects that can actually
bring down a lot of people
so we have to realize that we do have a
responsibility
towards our communities and our
communities have a responsibility
towards us
we can't let people fall between the
cracks
we can't ignore people because they're
insignificant or they're not
our group they're not our clique they're
not you know
our people so to speak because
there really are no uh me and
them the me and the them are all the
same
we're all on the same not necessarily on
the same page
because people have different views and
rightfully so
but ultimately we are in the same book
and in the same boat
and when something endangers or hurts
any part of amithrael
it is something we have to be concerned
with that is rem is number one
rem is number two is that mosher ebenu
seems to say
that there's only two choices in life i
have given you the path of blessing and
goodness
and they have given you the path of
death and destruction right you have two
roads god is saying there are two roads
in life
the road of mitzvot the road of torah
the road of abu dhabi
that will bring you blessing and
goodness in this world and certainly in
the world to come
and then there's the road of death
destruction uh the road of averts
the question is isn't there a third road
isn't there something in life that we
would call
neutral meaning if you look at human
actions
it seems there are three types of
actions there are actions that are
misvotes
that you're supposed to do there are
actions that are they wrote
that you're not supposed to do and then
there's a whole bunch of stuff you can
do it if you want and don't do it if you
don't want
right hand connection always gets these
questions like people ask for clam
kaneski questions
i mean i'm just giving an example like
uh should i eat the corn flakes or
cheerios for breakfast
so iframe kaneski will answer
kiertsonecha
do what you want i mean i i didn't see
this particular but
people asking these these questions of
like you know optional things
and they'll say do what you want what
are you bothering me
so why isn't there a neutral here
why is there only the path of death or
the path of life
what about neutral so the truth of the
matter is
but actually writes
there is actually no such thing as
neutral in life
every single thing we do
is supposed to bring us closer to god
and if it doesn't bring us closer to god
then it's putting us further from god
and we try to avoid it now let me
explain this because you can again
misunderstand it
uh this is not suggest like people might
say oh so according to the clubhouse
i'm not allowed to take a vacation i'm
not allowed to eat ice cream
i'm not allowed to read an enjoyable
secular book because it has to be a
mitzvah activity
there's a more subtle point here
the krebs and the rambam for example
recognize
that there is a role in a spiritual life
for vacations
there is a role for relaxation there is
a role for recreation there is a role
of playing basketball or golf or
whatever it is
we're not saying everything has to be a
technical mitzvah
there's plenty of room in life for
optional activities
but the goal of the operational activity
should be something that energizes me
that relaxes me that positions me
to be able to serve god in a better way
so even when you go on vacation there's
a way
of thinking about it there's a way of
envisioning it
there's a way of integrating it into
your spiritual structure
you could go to the grand canyon and use
that as an exercise
in contemplating the wonders and the
beauties
of god's creation although i'm not
suggesting that you need to go
leave israel for that i mean hashem we
have on a smaller scale to be sure but
we have wonderful wonderful
things to see in eric israel
as well that wonder of cook you know if
cook was a very very hard period of his
life
uh around world war one uh ref cook
happened to find himself outside of land
of israel
during the beginning of the war and
because of the uh the war and the like
he was stranded he was not able to come
back
was with his wife he was not able to
come back to arizona for almost five
years
five years for a while he was in
switzerland
and then he became rav in london to a to
a lithuanian congregation in london
and he made an explicit condition that
the day
that they eased the border restrictions
he has the right to leave i mean he made
the condition
that no matter what he gets to leave
immediately
when the restrictions were lifted but
lamaisa he was a rev in london i think
he was in switzerland i think only for a
year or less than a year
and then he was in london for four years
and
it is said that rough cook refused to
you know you know
england has you know very pretty
countrysides he refused to see it
he says he didn't want to take his mind
off the beauties
of eric israel he did go to the british
museum
because he very much enjoyed rembrandts
now rembrandt painted quite a few
pictures of rabbis and the like and
he said rembrandt was a guy but
rembrandt has kind of a jewish
sensibility in terms of the
aura and the whites and the like so he
did enjoy rembrandt but he would not
look at the natural beauties of anything
outside of of eretz
of eric israel but be this made the
point i'm making simply is this
that when the saliva says
there's no such thing as neutral he's
not saying that the only things you're
allowed to do
are mitzvoth but he's saying that even
when we do recreation
vacation whatever it is we do it with
the intention
that i want to grow in my avodah hashem
this gives me energy this gives me
relaxation
this gives me enthusiasm and then as the
rambam writes
the vacation or the jogging or the
running or the touring
actually become mitzvahs because they
are stepping stones
in your avodah and this is what moshe
rabbenu is marames
by saying there's only two choices in
life you're either engaged in the
blessing path
that brings you closer or by definition
you're going further one
might compare the game of life
to an escalator that's going down i
don't know if you ever did this when you
were when you were younger i used to do
it i haven't done it recently
uh do you try to run up a an escalator
going down see if you could go faster
than they
again i haven't done it for a while uh
but
uh you know it's a little it's a little
hard it takes a little bit of an effort
because the escalator is going down
and you want to run fast enough that you
can go faster
up then the escalator is going down now
if you only stand still
you'll be going down so the velma gown
says not quite this way
that life is like a downward escalator
if you're not actively trying to go up
you will go down you never stay
in place the person can never say i'll
just stay
in place it doesn't work that way if
you're not actively
working to grow you get pulled down
by life and the escalator is a perfect
pic you know metaphor or muscle for that
type of phenomenon
and that's the lesson of the two
pathways blessing
curse there is no middle
ground and the third idea so one is the
plural
singular the other is no middle ground
and the third is the word hayyom
very significant hayyom
behold i am putting before you today
you may recall if you have a good memory
for the rosh hashanah's avenue you may
know that
the word hayyom is kind of a word that
appears actually quite often
in the rosh hashanah dabbling it's
almost like a highlighter right at the
end of musaf
you know after we've been dominating for
a few hours
so we have it's sung usually to a jaunty
today
this is the day god will give us
strength i i know
this is that's a partial page if you
look in the boxer
it doesn't go through all the letters
but but you see it's the start
of an olive base
to god leno to
and this in its original version if you
ever look at a moxer like
professor goldschmidt's very excellent
master not not to be used for davening
because
there are so many interesting side
things you're not going to die when
you're going to read all the comments
but
but uh well the vermont is as they what
we say but but
professor goldsmith gives you all the
original pu tim the original readings
and uh and he gives you the whole olive
base the whole
22 letters of ayom which eventually got
shortened
but the word hayom today today today
and i don't know if it was connected to
the torah's usage of it but in real
rease
something very great and powerful every
day
is a new decision see a person can
sometimes envision his life
i'm on the bad road i've been on the bad
road for years
i can't get back on i don't i'm no
longer at the fork in the road
but the image that is being presented
here is
every single day
you are standing in front of two roads
so the road you took yesterday
does not dictate where you need to go
today
every day and really every minute
is a new opportunity that's very
significant
because sometimes people might feel
they're the point of
you know beyond beyond the point of
return they're already
right i've been going thousands of miles
right uh many many years
on this bad road i'm no longer at the
fork where i can just
go on the good road and that's why robin
ryona
who wrote the great great one of the
great great books on shiva robeno yonah
who was the ramban's nephew
he wrote the great immortal classic
gates of repentance it's a book that
people often learn this time of of year
says that although chuva does require
contemplating my past
but that comes afterwards initially
you have to feel like the saying goes on
the t-shirts
today is the first day
of the rest of your life in other words
you forget about the past what i did is
what i did
but life is full of new opportunities
and what i am today doesn't have to be
dictated
by what i was yesterday
and without what i can become tomorrow
is not controlled by what i am today
that freedom to move on
the freedom to change the freedom to
grow
that's the meaning of hayyon don't get
bogged down don't get discouraged
by whatever my past may have been
and that's why the word hayom is so
important
because you know just like the saying
goes you fall off the horse
you got to get on again that's life you
know all of us
we fall off horses many many times
all of us have made many mistakes all of
us have done things
that we regret but that doesn't mean
we can't fix it that doesn't mean we
can't go on
that doesn't mean that we can't discover
new channels of light and growth and and
the like
so those are some ramasim in parashat
riye
that we need to think about in terms of
yamim narayam in terms of
ello and the like now let me
bring out another aspect of this we know
that before the ninth above we have
three half taurus that deal with
paraneos deal with catastrophe deal with
tragedy they're called the
shlochad de paranusa three haftarus
of tragedy two of them are from the book
of year miyahu
and of course the one right before tish
above is khazon yeshayahu it is the
vision of
isaiah and these are about tragedies
perennius god's warning that will be the
destruction of the temple
but right after tisha buff we then have
seven half tauros of comfort
this is called the famous shiva
den the seven have tyrus of comforts
and all of them come from one prophet
all of the observers come from one
prophet the nabi
yeshayo he was he's the great uh prophet
of comfort
and the like and that's going to take us
all the way
till rosh hashanah meaning all of the
parshiots
until rosh hashanah are going to be the
shiva
the seven of toros of comfort
now after the seven of terrorists of
comfort we already have
rosh hashanah shabbat shiva
and we have toros that deal with shiva
and repentance
so let's think about this i i want to
clarify something just a little bit of
information here
first of all what is the origin
of haftara we know we have a torah
reading
and after the torah reading on shabbat
on yomtov we read haf torah
which is from the prophets so when i was
a little child and i first heard the
term so i came up with a real ingenious
shot i said oh yeah the prophets are
less
important than the torah so it's half
torah
yeah that's what it is there's torah and
there's half total
it's pretty good but when i got to half
dollar i i didn't i i couldn't figure
that out uh
what is this half dollar at the end of
shabbos so uh so i thought my shot must
be incorrect
now obviously haftara i mean it's not
even spelled like colorways with a tat
means announcement and the historical
origin of the
torah actually dates from the time of
antiochus the time of the macabre
because at some point the greeks did not
allow the public reading of the torah
but for some reason they didn't mind
other prophetic books so the original
idea was
the haftarah was a replacement
for the inability to read the torah
it was a substitute when barak hashem
the hasmoneans were able to re-establish
the public torah reading
they thought there was still a good idea
in keeping the prophets
as as well and
according to rashford shabbat shabbat
minsa they would read a haf torah from
ketuvim in other words very very
interesting shabbos morning
torah and the vm shabbat afternoon
a haftarah from kesuvan whether it's
tehillim or the book of evil or whatever
or mcgee laughs whatever it would be
for some reason that mina got
discontinued but that actually was an
original minute
that on shabbat there was a torah from
the ketuvim but be it as it may
anyone that ever looks at any hamish
knows
that there's a tremendous tremendous
diversity
of minha gim for what is the haftarah
for a particular parsha
ashkenaz yeki
italian has some unique minhagem etc
and that is because the gemara does not
standardize what the huff toros are
it's a general idea that the torah
should either be connected to the parsha
or connected to the occasion and it does
not tell you what the haftaris have to
be
so every kihillah had the freedom
to make their own decisions in other
words there are certain aspects of
jewish liturgy
that were never standardized and it was
left to individual congregations to make
their choices
with the general guideline but one of
the guidelines that ghazal did say is
mandatory
is that you must follow the pattern
of three haftarus of tragedy
followed by seven haftaras of comfort
followed by haftarat of they didn't tell
you what they have to be
you could choose anything you want but
you have to follow the pattern now
what's the pattern again
paranoid
that is a mandatory pattern
so here's my question if you look at the
torah
you always see that the process is
actually in a different order
from tragedy from galut from
quran we do
and from the chuva
comes the redemption and the comfort the
pattern is not
tragedy redemption shiva
the pattern should be tragedy
shiva redemption we see this in the
humish itself
itself describes guru as coming from
chuva we see this in davani
consider the amidah right the amida says
hashivainu avinu help us do
so forgive our sins
and then go elena redeem us go el israel
and the rambam says as well
ain't israel negan
the jewish people are redeemed
through repentance now hashem now that
may scare you
if the jewish people are not going to
redeem unless there's repentance
we're in big big trouble but the rambam
says hashem promises us
that the jewish people will repent and
come back to god's
and there will be a gaulah so the
question is
why is the pattern of torah
tragedy followed by consolation
followed by redemption
it should be the other way i'm sorry
followed by
in other words it goes tragedy
it should actually be tragedy
now i understand that that doesn't work
with the calendar dates because that
would mean
when rosh hashanah comes we're reading
about comfort and redemption okay but
putting that aside
schematically and thematically it is not
following the proper sequence
of events right do you see they see the
problem in other words the pattern of
the
route is inconsistent with the humish
it's inconsistent with fila and it's
inconsistent
i mean you know being inconsistent with
the hummus should be enough more than
enough
but it's inconsistent with the rambam's
ruling
that ain't israel nigalin
see that's the problem so let's go back
a little bit and think about the seven
of terrorists of conference
first of all it's very important to note
that that's more than double
the have terrorists of tragedy three
afters of tragedy
seven have taurus have come but one of
the problems that people have when they
study tanakh
especially when they study nivea
machronium like ishayo
is there seems to be so much repetition
saying the same thing over
and over and over again so if i were to
ask you
give me two sentences what is that first
tough torah of comfort shabbat nakamura
what is that about says oh yeah god is
comforting the jewish people and
telling us he'll bring us a redemption
from our suffering okay good
next shabbos what is the second half
torah about
uh god is comforting us and telling us
that
he will bring a redemption towards
tsarot okay
i thought that was last week's afzar
what's the next one about
same thing what's the next one about
same thing
okay how many times do you have to say
the same thing over and over and over
again
i mean okay i got the idea and that's
the problem that's why it's actually
hard to learn
via macronum sometimes because whether
they're talking about sins they keep on
talking about that uh over and over
again
and when they talk about the good things
they're talking about that over and over
again
you know so how do you understand it so
the truth of the matter is there are
different approaches
if you take a commentary like the malbim
so the malbem tries to make every single
word mean something different so
if it talks about sason simcha
so the album will laboriously give you a
different
meaning for each thing so there's never
repetition
and i think most of us intuitively might
think that that's the right approach but
the truth of the matter is
many we shine them are very very ha
they're perfectly willing to live with
repetition
the ebenezer has a very common
expression
k fell horinyan the milim show note that
it's repeating the same idea milam shown
up
and the question is why would a holy
book
waste words by repeating the same idea
over and over and over again
and i would suggest to you that
if you understand the function
of prophecies of comforts
you understand why there has to be a
repetition
they say many children remember i
actually actually remember it myself
the first time that they were lost or
separated from their parents let's say
in a shopping center
i i mean i remember this i'm sure you
know most a lot of people remember it i
was with my mom and we were
going through uh i was going shopping
she was taking me to the apartment store
and i was attracted to some toys
somewhere
so i wandered off and then i looked
around
and i didn't see my mother and i
remember there was this feeling of
terror i'm
abandoned you know i'm banned i'm lost
forever you know where am i going to
live
type of thing it was only like 10
seconds you know like 10 10 seconds
thing
and in those days things were safer
today god forbid you have all these
kidnappers and whatever
then life was relatively safe then but
still i had this terror
somebody started crying and my mother
allah shalom
takes me and says i'm here i love you
i'm here i'm here
now i didn't
i can't tell you how many times she said
she loved me whatever it is
but let's say she said it five times
now alumnus a person might say why do
you have to tell me you love me five
times you said it once already
so i know the answer is
that the language of the heart is
different than the language of the head
i may have heard you love me and that
went into my head
but when a person is broken when a
person is scared
when a person feels abandoned
they need to be reassured again
and again and again you can't be a
brisker
london and say why say it twice you
could have said it once
and you have to understand when the
jewish people were devastated
by corbin by gollus
by persecution and they felt rejected by
god
and they felt god did not care about
them and god hated them
god couldn't just say oh don't worry
about it guys i love you
let's go on god has to say it
through the prophets over and over
and over again because we need it and we
need
to be reassured we need to
feel the reality of god's relationship
and that's why there is a lot of
repetition here
it's as if hashem is saying i know
you've suffered a lot i know you've been
through a lot
i know you feel rejected i know you feel
devastated
but i'm here for you i'm with you
i'll give you strength i'll give you
courage
don't worry don't worry i'm here
i'm here i'm here i'm here
you understand the issue of why does god
repeat it
doesn't really apply because it's like
the mother
that's why it's very good actually
sometimes when you learn the vm
you have to remember that these were
originally
oral addresses they're addressing an
audience
so they're telling the jewish people god
has told us again and again and again
right in a book you can read the same
book a hundred times
but if you're talking about an oral
address they have to hear the message
many times in fact uh one of the ways
you could teach the vm
is to actually make it like a play i
don't know if that's sacrilegious or not
in which somebody plays ishayo
somebody plays the audience and uh
certainly the navi shayar was actually a
very very beautiful
language just to kind of use it in a
dramatic sense and i think
you get a sense of how what it really
was like which we don't really have when
we're just reading the book
so now let's understand this
when a person feels rejected by god
they don't really have the psychic
energy to do chuva because they think
god hates me god has rejected me i'm not
worthy of being with god
so in order to
be energized to do shiva
you have to internalize the fact that
god loves you
and god cares about you there's a
there's an idea here
that no person becomes better
unless they understand that they are
already good
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if i think i'm worthless
that does not energize me to do chuba
that creates a despondency
and a despair in which i just give up or
don't care
so here's how it works in terms of
actual chronological sequence
suffering brings you to chuva
and shiva brings you to comfort and
redemption you're not going to get the
comfort and redemption until the juba
so chronological the chuva
precedes the neha
but psychologically i have to
internalize the idea
that god loves me and wants to redeem me
as a precursor to the chuva that i need
to do and therefore
our preparation for the process of truva
we have seven weeks in which we
internalize
god's love for us and god's desire to
redeem us
and comfort us so there's enough camina
there is a difference between the
chronological sequence
as it will actually unfold and the
psychological stages i need to go
through
to go through that process
chronologically
the chuva brings the gala
but psychologically i have to have an
awareness of
love my redemptibility
as a condition for the chuva
and that is why ghazal enacted
the sequence of the
preceding the goula chuva does not
emanate from a sense of my worthlessness
chuva emanates from a sense of my
preciousness
and that is why i focus on the kama
because that
allows me to internalize the love
that hashem has for me for i'm israel
and the like
so again i wish we want to wish everyone
a a cho de stove
and uh may indeed may all of us merit
uh to be soccer to all of the great
great blessings
that the montevello brings and may that
be a precursor in turn
to the shannatova metukam
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