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okay all right hi everybody thank you
for coming again and uh tonight's share
is dedicated Raa for all those whose
Health has been affected by the war and
of course a special prayer for the
continued success in release of the
hostages uh a number have been released
but there are still many that are in
captivity and of course uh even those
who are released may be suffering uh
trauma and we need to be concerned for
them this is not an easy process uh for
anybody and
Al uh in memory of Ruan Ben
yose by my friend in New York
Kimi and Aon mayor Ben Pinas and man
menel Ben Alazar Rael Bas yit by Y and
shiffer fredman and then dedic also
another dedication by Alan fine in
memory of his grandfather's yor site Shu
B aor hohen and in addition uh he is
beginning uh Alan fine is beginning the
fourth cycle of writing weekly D Torah
and the par can try to get on his list
he writes very very fine uh thoughts and
in honor of every bright whose
encouragement words of Torah have been
an integral part of my learning thank
you uh special thanks for all of those
who have already donated to the citizens
fill in funds uh IUN has sent 18 pairs
of Fillin to the front lines amazing 10
more are on the way and CIS as you know
uh we cannot make fast enough for the
demand it's really an amazing
amazing and Awakening of spirituality
that that the are experiencing and
finally we have the anonymous
sponsorship uh that Hashem brings
quickly and safely the return of all the
hostages with complete Health to their
homes and for the N of all of our
soldiers so they may all return home
with health and victory soon and we
Merit Thea now
amen the par of this week is
Parov is returning to ER Israel after an
absence of 20 years now actually it's
much more than 20 years but the Torah
documents that he worked seven years for
Rael and he wound up with Leia then he
worked another seven years for Rael he
got Rael actually just a week later but
he had to work seven years uh so that's
7 s and then another six years to build
up his own fortune so he was in Lan's
house for 20 years however Rashi gives
us a very intricate calculation that I
will not go through that there was
another 14 years in which Yakov studied
in the Yeshiva of Shame and a before he
went to Lan's house so you have 14 years
and 20 and now Yakov is finally
returning to erit Israel and he
thought that perhaps the anger of Asa
has gone away after so many years but lo
and behold he hears that ASF is coming
after him with an army of 400 men ASF
still wants to kill him there's an
interesting makus among MIM and among
MIM that maybe the initial mistake was
yakov's because if you remember Yakov
initiated contact with as Yakov said to
ASV hey you know I'm coming and some
suggest if Yakov would have kept a lower
profile maybe ASA would not have gone
after him so mlus some mid Russian quote
a in Proverbs a in M that
says uh to get involved in quarrels when
you don't have to do so is like grabbing
the ears of a dog right imagine a dog is
sleeping and you want to pick up the dog
by the ear so even a kind Labrador
Retriever is likely to bite you at that
point and therefore some say Yakov
should have just forgotten about ASV
others say it was not because of that
but be as it may yakob is now afraid so
the PK says when Yakov gets word that
ASV is coming after him so the PK says
vov Yakov is very afraid and he's very
distressed why is there that kind of
repetition afraid and distressed so
Rashi brings a fascinating medish Rashi
says he is afraid lest he be killed
because even though God promised him
that God would take care of him but as
Rashi say as BR says sadim are always
afraid that they' Sinn it's interesting
it's only the sadic that the Russia is
not afraid that sadic is afraid that he
sins and he has forfeited Divine
protection so yakob is afraid he will
get killed but he's distressed because
maybe he'll have to kill this is quite
fascinating this IND take that a Jew is
distressed not only over the loss of his
life but the Jew is distressed over the
need to take the lives of others now
this is a pretty amazing thought to
think about on one hand it's obviously
the case that we are not pacifists
someone tries to kill us someone tries
to kill our people we fight back and we
even kill them
right someone who's coming to kill
you or you kill them but we don't find
joy in that we don't find Sim in that we
don't celebrate that we do it because we
have to do it and there are times that
we have to do it and then we have to do
it but the notion of
celebrating is very very foreign to
Judaism and even within the sa which is
not necessarily a religious body this
kind of ethic of not
glorifying in the destruction of the
enemy doing the job very
conscientiously but not know celebrating
glorifying is very deeply engraved in
the idea that is why they send all of
these warnings for people to get out of
the way last time I checked Kamas did
not send a warning on October 7th saying
hey we're going to do a massacre in an
hour please you know anyone who wants to
leave should leave that is why Israel
goes out of the way to avoid I mean
contrary to what everybody know the
international Community is condemning
Israel over and over and over and over
again there is no army in the world
including the United States of America
that so conscientiously tries to avoid
civilian casualties as does the IDF I
don't think I'm being an apologist I
think this is absolutely accurate but
what do you do what do you do
realistically when Hamas situates itself
in hospitals or in schools or in
residential areas and they use human
Shields not only our people as human
Shields but their own people as human
Shields you got to do what you have to
do but you do it with sadness just as by
C yam when the Egyptians are drowning
and the angels want to praise and sing
to God and God says my creatures are
drowning it's not a time for Joy now
note Hashem didn't say oh I'm not going
to drown the Egyptians because they're
my creatures they have to be destroyed
they have to be dest
but you don't celebrate it you don't
celebrate it and that's what Rashi is
alluding to know there's a that yob is
afraid not only that he he might be
killed he's afraid he may have to kill
because for a Jew that is not a
celebration
what so is is is understood in this
sense that we would have been happier
had there been Chua meaning I'm not I'm
not taking Glee in destruction I'm
taking Glee that the evil that was
perpetrated by these rash is no longer
here and therefore they can no longer be
a force for evil but it's a it's a
second level Sim that the real Sim would
have been had there been had there been
a Chua had there been an opportunity for
Shalom you know there is a quote of gold
de mayor a famous quote an Infamous
quote and I hasten to add that I do not
accept I reject the first half of the
quote so don't Lynch me as I say it but
I think the second half has some genuine
truth to it she once said that we can
forgive the Arabs for killing our
children that's the part that I
disassociate myself from but we cannot
forgive the Arabs for making us kill
their children and there there is a
truth to that because that's
the and that is what Yakov a was
expressing uh his fear of I don't want
to be a murderer I don't want to kind of
get involved in this uh this is not what
a Jew wants to do a Jew does it because
they have to do it not because they
glorify it now then Yakov prayed to God
and remember kazal say that before Yakov
confronts asov Yakov has three
strategies he prepares gifts which are
overtures for
peace he makes preparations for war if
the peace fails and he prays to Hashem
right these are the three basic Jewish
strategies try to make peace be ready
for war
and of course turn to God for assistance
and in any of your endeavors because
without Hashem there will be no success
at all so when yov prays he
says please God save me from my brother
from the hand of my brother save me from
the hand of ASF so that too is a
redundancy because after all yakob only
has one brother why does he say save me
from my brother save me from
ASF so so there's a well-known
explanation of the Bas of Ley that in
the confrontation with ASV Yakov is
afraid of two things that's besides the
kill or be killed he's afraid of the ASV
who comes to kill him but he's also
afraid of the ASA that welcomes him as a
brother because one is a danger to his
body and the other is a danger to his
soul in other words uh as we know one of
the great great dangers to the Jewish
people there are certainly toot where we
suffer persecution the Holocaust
Crusades
plrs even now I mean the war the war in
Gaza C although we're we're in our in
our land and in our country but this is
physical danger physical endangerment
and Jeopardy by an enemy that wants to
Slit our throats and decapitate our
children that's the as of or in this
case ishma but that's the as of that
comes as a destructive force but then
when you look at the situation of Jews
in Western
countries although anti-Semitism is
resurging there too but classically the
problem in in the United States was not
people who want to kill Jews but rather
it was inter marriage it was
assimilation be my brother let's work
together let's come together why do you
keep your separate Jewish identity and
that's the n that's the trial of the ASV
who comes as your brother because the
ASV who comes to kill me is attacking my
body but not my soul the ASA Who says
let's be friends that's a bigger danger
in some ways that attacks the soul you
know it's
interesting that um in the 19th century
uh when Napoleon was conquering
Europe so uh as we know Napoleon's last
major campaign was against Russia
and Napoleon was defeated in Russia he
was not able to conquer Russia so there
was a mlus among the great cic
leaders in Europe should we pray for
Napoleon's Victory or should we pray for
the victory of the Zar now life for the
Jews in Russia during that time was
absolutely
awful uh they were confined to the pale
of settlement which is a small area of
land and uh and that the boundary of
that uh land was were constantly
changing so you could wake up any
morning and say you have to move 50 km
to the north uh by the next morning or
whatever it would be there were the
canonist the awful idea of children
being forcibly conscripted for up to 30
years life was awful full of persecution
Napoleon promise and he actually
delivered emancipation Freedom right in
the aftermath of the French Revolution
there was a great movement towards
emancipation and Jews would be allowed
to go to universities and Jews would be
allowed to enter professions and Jews to
be allowed to own property so some
rebies took the position let's pray for
Napoleon because life under the Zar is
so
bitter that Napoleon will give us
freedom the one exception was the alter
rebi who lived in Russia the alter Reby
said life under the Zars is truly awful
but under nap holy and it's even going
to be worse because desire destroys our
body takes our property makes life
miserable for us but our nishat are able
to function on a high level Napoleon
will give us freedom but once there's
Freedom there will be ass similation
indeed in the aftermath of the French
Revolution we have the reform movement
we have the rise of intermarriage many
of the Notions of the disintegration of
the ghetto which we normally say ohem
that's a positive thing
had many many negatives to it um again
it's a little bit of a paradoxical
notion uh Judaism sometimes flourishes
better under oppression than freedom and
as laichi put it it was easier to be a
Jew in Siberia than Suburbia except in
Siberia you couldn't forget who you were
you weren't allowed to forget in in
Suburbia every Jew is a Jew by choice
and by the way this is directly relevant
to Kaneka now it's true Kaneka involved
military battles and Kaneka involved
danger to life and Kaneka involved a
military Victory but the Genesis of the
military struggle was a spiritual one
antios uh was not trying to kill Jews
antiochos was not Hitler in fact in some
crazy perverted way we could even
describe Antiochus as a relatively
enlightened ruler because he was willing
to give Jews full
civil and political rights on the
condition that they give up their
Judaism assimilate go with the plan uh
adopt helist culture and you will be a
member of our society so although Kaneka
did involve a physical struggle it was
absolutely a war of the spirit in like
this is the famous comment of the Lush
of Mora of the 16th century why is there
a Mitzvah to have a meal on porm on porm
there's a Mitzvah to make a festive meal
there is no Mitzvah to make a festive
meal on Kan I mean customarily we do it
but there is no there is no obligation
to make a meal on any day of Kaneka
except chabas because it's chabas so the
L says very simply porim represented a
danger to our physical existence so when
God redeems us from a physical threat we
thank God in a physical Way by eating or
drinking kanah did not pose a threat to
our physical existence because if we
would be willing to assimilate antias
would have called off everything Kana
was a threat to our spiritual existence
so when God enables us to be victorious
over that threat we celebrate in a
spiritual way the lighting of candles
that commemorates or brings to mind the
light of the Nish the light of Torah in
other words spiritual Redemption is
commemorated in a spiritual way physical
Redemption is commemorated in a physical
way so in many many ways if you compare
kanaka and porm these are the two faces
of ASV porim is the ASV that comes to
destroy
me khah is the asce of that comes in the
guise of my brother that through
assimilation as it were although I
understand that it transmuted into
violence and battle but once again had
the Jews assimilated and let me point
out a majority of Jews did the mbes were
a small
minority within the Jewish people and
they were regarded as Fanatics many many
Jews disassociated themselves from the
makim uh because they said hey you know
let's go with the Greek culture that
seems to be the better way to go that's
the more successful route that is the
route of a
simulation so something to think about
uh even inel where the problems of
intermarriage are are much much less I I
wouldn't call intermarriage a major
problem I not it's not that it's not
existence it exists here as well but
it's not a major problem in the United
States seven out of 10 depending on the
part of the country but on the average
seven out of 10 marriages of a person
who is Jewish are inter marriages that
means seven out of 10 if it's a marriage
that has one Jew in it the other person
is a non-jew and that is absolutely that
is absolutely devastating obviously if
the woman is non-jewish that ends the
Jewish line lamry The Descendants are no
longer Jewish and if the woman is Jewish
so the kids are technically Jewish but
most of the time they're going to be
lost most of the time children of
intermarried couples eventually either
they or their children event eventually
just get lost yeah there are B there are
Exceptions there are many Bal Chua from
intermarried homes and so there's always
there's always a chance but just
statistically eventually they simply
vanish uh from the Jewish people so
people don't like to talk this way it's
not politically correct to use Holocaust
terminology but some have pointed out
that the number of Jews that have been
lost by
intermarriage is actually much greater
than the number of Jews that have been
lost in the Holocaust and therefore in
effect things like intermarriage are a
silent Holocaust I don't mean to give
any type of moral equivalence God forbid
I am not I am not comparing a Jew who
intermares because of ignorance to a
Nazi I I don't mean to personally attack
anybody know people make mistakes they
don't have the education they don't have
the background so the point is not to
condemn a person but just to understand
that the loss es to the Jewish people
have been as catastrophic if not more so
than the Holocaust itself so if you
include intermarriage assimilation and
abortion for that matter as well which
in the Jewish Community is a fairly High
rate higher than the general population
you're talking about so many
nishat that have been severed from the
Jewish people so jakob's fears are well
taken uh and this was the AL rebman that
you know maybe were better off with
thear than we are with Napoleon uh
because Napoleon will give us
opportunities for assimilation that
thear would never would never would
never give us okay so that's the double
thing save me from ASV save me from my
brother but then the night before the
great
Encounter of asov In the
Flesh Yakov has a mysterious
encounter with a man he's initially Des
described as a man and then later he
morphs into an
angel now either way whether it's man or
Angel it doesn't give him a name at
all Kaz however understand this to be
the guardian angel of
Asa but again that part of it is not in
the narrative directly Angel and man do
appear but not as and yet say It's s as
that's somehow before Yakov can be
empowered to fight the ASV of the
flesh he needs to confront the ASF of
the
spirit and it mentions that this was a
battle at night wrestling match and
yakob is all by
himself why is he all by himself what
happened to his I mean he had a family
and he had servants so the answer is the
gamar explains a little bit of a
backstory he had already
crossed the river
yabok and his family and himself were on
the other side of this River but Yakov
went back to
retrieve small Earth and wear
jars that he had forgotten so he's by
himself everybody else is on the other
side already he went back to retrieve
what are
called why would do that I mean if I if
I left behind some insignificant Earth
andwar jars why would I go back in the
middle of the night to retrieve Earth
and wear jars so the talud has a bit of
an amazing comment it says
sikim what does that mean righteous
people care more about their money more
about their property than they care
about their own personal safety he is
willing to jeopardize because even
though yakob doesn't know an angel is
going to attack him but it's dangerous
you're going back by yourself at night
you know you could be attacked by an
animal you could be attacked by anybody
but yakob was willing to put himself in
personal Jeopardy in order to retrieve
some property because sikim their
property is more beloved to them than
even their physical safety What on earth
does that mean it thought it cares about
his money it thought it cares about his
property what what's the big deal the
other way around we would normally
associate a sadic as being very you know
non-materialistic and not really caring
about this
stuff so the morale explains that exotic
understands that every resource that God
has given him was given to him for a
reason now the reason might be to give
it away the reason might be to give
stuck not not that you keep it for your
own personal gratification but there's a
reason if I have two
pens then a decid I should have two pens
in case one runs out or whatever it is
in other words for sad there is no such
thing as something
Superfluous everything has a use
everything has a Tas everything has a
purpose so I don't just waste things or
throw things away I go back to retriev
fact thefor say this is why when Yakov
describes his wealth he says call I have
everything when asov describes his
wealth he
says I have a
lot now the maam offer two different
interpretations of what is as saying
some look at it in terms of greed I have
a lot but I don't have enough I want
more right kind of greed I have a lot
but I want more others Give A Different
Twist which I think is is a deeper more
f fasinating idea I have more than I
need because you see if you live for
physical
gratification at some point you may have
more than you need uh person has 30 cars
you know uh whatever it will be like
Barber strand once said you can only eat
one pastrami sandwich at a time you know
I have more and more you know people
have houses it's I was reading I read a
very interesting article years ago about
a school
in uh Denver that trains high-end
Butlers there's a higher title for It
Whatever domestic managers home managers
meaning if you want to work for a
billionaire and you want to manage it's
more than a butler you're kind of the
manager of the homes there's a lot of
skills you have to have and one of the
ideas is that these billionaires like
have have 10 houses that are fully stock
you know in different places and he said
that sometimes they don't even remember
they have a house in Switzerland you
know they don't even know they have some
house that's filled with everything and
you know you have to be the one that
reminds them you know you have this
Chateau you know in the Els or whatever
it is so ASF says I have more than I
need but for a everything has a function
so again this is not a selfish idea that
doesn't mean I have it to keep it maybe
I have it to give fora or supportive
Torah but everything
has now so the gumar basically says that
he was being a little compulsive in a
good way that I have to re retrieve this
job but there's a tradition and again
it's a little perplexing to me because
you would expect that this type of
tradition would be recorded in an
authoritative Source like the gor or the
medish or the zo as far as I know it's
not in the med of the zor but it was an
oral
tradition that was preserved among so I
can't really vouch for it but it's
brought down in Forum that the jars that
yakob was looking for were very special
jar that is connected later to the khaka
story how so you may remember when uh
Noah is trying to determine if the
ground has dried off enough to be able
to leave the ark he sends the different
birds but the last bird that he sent was
a
Yona and the Yona came back with an
olive
branch uh in its beak and that showed
Noah that trees were growing and that
was a sign that it's a you're able to
get off so these sarm say that on the
Olive Branch there actually were some
olives and Noah took those olives and he
squeezed the oil into a jar AS kind of a
remembrance of
Hashem regenerating the world in his
Mercy after its destruction and he kept
that oil in that jar as a permanent
momento not to burn it not to use it not
to consum consum it but to keep the oil
as a reminder of
the and that jar of oil was passed down
to shame Noah and eventually from shame
it went down to Abraham and then Y and
Yakov and when he says he went back for
the Pim he went back for the jars that's
a reference to the jar of oil that he
got that was no jar and some say that
somehow
that very jar because the word which is
the plural for is is the same word that
we use to describe Thea
oil that the oil of Kana was the oil
that Yakov went back for it was the oil
of Noah that he got from the Yona that
brought back the
alth that's an amazing thing but once
again as I say I can't I'm not aware I
am not aware of any kind of
authoritative rinic Source but this is a
thought that is recorded in a number
ofas connecting thean of yov with
the of the on
okay so after that yakob goes back and
yakob is
attacked by a man by an Angel and they
are wrestling all night and sometimes
yakob is on top and winning sometimes
the man is on top and then comes the
break of dawn and yakob is in a
Victorious place and the angel says let
me go because it is morning and Yakov
says I will not let you go unless you
bless me and the angel said your name
shall no longer be yov which is the
heel your name shall be Israel you have
triumphed you have been
Victorious over God and from that point
onwards Yakov essentially has two names
he didn't lose the name Yakov in fact
Yakov is mentioned more than Israel but
Yakov is the name of
subservience and
tribulation the heel that's in the dirt
Israel is the name of Triumph but
yakov's victory was not without cost
Yakov is limping because the angel smote
him on the thigh dislocating the sciatic
nerve and to commemorate that we do not
eat the Gan we do not eat the sciatic
nerve that's why you can't get a good
surine steak because the way it works um
at least in America is that the Gan is a
huge nerve that has many many branches
that is located in the hind quarters the
back half of the animal and there is of
course a method methodology to remove
the ganha that's called nikor but it
takes a lot of time and it's a skill
that U most kosher butchers do not have
and therefore the custom among ashes was
that we don't eat the hind quarter cuts
at all because of the Gan and therefore
the kosher slaughter houses in the US
sell the entire hind quarter to non-jew
and that's why things like sherline
steak are not available Main in the
United States now in countries where the
supply of meat is less like AR they
actually do practice
nikor and that's why uh you can actually
get cuts of meat in Israel that you
can't get in America although the meat
as a ho is inferior that's SE that's a
separate issue but the particular Cuts
you can actually get here that you could
not get uh in aerica F minan I think f
minan is I think a cut of meat that um
is from behind quarters that was is not
generally available in the United States
because of GID
GID now what is all of this about what
is this mysterious Encounter With An
Angel so
the gives a very powerful
message God is communicating to Yakov
something not only about the encounter
with asov the next day but with the
encounter of it with Asa throughout
Jewish
history and he's telling yov there will
be a long night of Gus the Jewish people
will not will not have an easy way in
this world there will be long night and
in that night there will be struggle and
sometimes the Jewish people will be on
the ascendency and other times they will
be
oppressed but the promise is that
eventually after that long
night there will be a
day and when that day comes there will
be Redemption
it will not be without cost when that
day comes you'll be limping when mhia
finally
comes we will have suffered plenty
because of
mashiah we will be
limping whether it was The Crusades the
pams the
Holocaust the different Wars that Israel
has been engaged in and is engaged in
the anti-Semitism in the world we're
going to be limping mashia is not going
to come when we're going to be in the
greatest of Health we'll be limping but
that day will come and when that day
comes even the
enemies that wanted to destroy you are
going to give you a blessing are going
to acknowledge are going to turn to the
Jewish people and
say you're good you're right you stood
for kadus you stood for God you stood
for
Morality we've seen the beginnings of
this in the abrahamic Accords in which
I'm kind of a biget of I've mentioned
already a number of times partial
beginnings and I understand well the ABC
Accords or the Abraham Accords are
really motivated out of Economics not
necessarily spiritual
transformation who knows there's
probably a little bit of a mixture in
everything uh the Kamas War has thrown
that off the tracks right now but God
willing it'll come back there as well
but be it as it may the is
painting a very moving picture there
will be a
night and in that night there will be
persecutions and there will be
difficulties but there will be a day and
just as the famous saying that the night
is darkest right before the day so too
before that day before that Dawn the
darkness will be
intense but you will emerge
and you will emerge triumphant
Israel he who has been Victorious with
God and your
enemies will bless you so every time you
don't eat
get we don't think about that there's a
powerful idea that I'm expressing my
belief in GAA in Yeshua that as dark as
life is there's going to be a light
after the
darkness and by the way this this is
primarily conveyed as a national message
to am
Israel but if you extrapolate it a
little bit it's also a message for
individuals who are
struggling with their own
Darkness people have elements of
darkness in their lives their depression
their despair their
Sadness the estrangement of husband and
wife or parents and children
mental
illness um not being able to make a
living not being able to kind of put
your life
together and a person often feels very
hopeless helpless and
hopeless and
despondent but in some ways this vision
is a vision not only to Claus
real but it's also a vision to an
individual person
that out of Darkness will come
light
that out of the struggles that we go
through will come something very
beautiful and we shouldn't give up we
can't give up as long as you have hope
there's hope when you give up then
indeed that becomes a self-fulfilling
prophecy there is no hope when you're
hopeless so this may explain another
interesting anomaly that people
ask two of our aot had name changes it's
why didn't have a name change that's an
interesting question which I'm not going
to address but let's compare Abraham and
Yakov so Abraham's original name was
aam and God added a hey making it
aam yakov's original name was yakob and
the angel gave him a new name Israel now
there is a very big difference though
when Abraham's name was changed the old
name was totally dropped we we are not
allowed to refer to Abraham ainu as AB
the old name is
canell when it comes to Yakov we use
both names Yakov is a name that we use
the ter uses it a lot and Israel in fact
a person might be you can give your son
a name yakob Israel it's a relatively
common combination so why is it that the
Sho Hashem of Abraham preempts the old
name and the Sho Hashem of Yakov both
names are
maintained so some want to say has a bit
of an
arus that
Yakov canotes the notion of
struggle the heel like your heels are in
the
mud and Yakov gets the name after
wrestling in the night now who is he
wrestling with so he's wrestling with
the angel of ASF but let's take it in a
bit more of a metaphorical even maybe
even an imaginative way the tal
hasus what did this angel look
like according to one opinion the angel
was an axe murderer he looked like a a
real bad guy according to the other
opinion the angel looked like
AAL with a white
beard so someone to
suggest that the
angel that Yakov is wrestling
with is none other than
himself he is wrestling with what you
might call his inner
demons because after all Yakov did
engage in
behavior that on some level was
unsavory the fraud that he took the the
Bros the um Birthright story in which he
took advantage of
hunger and before
Yakov is able to confront this Ace of
enemy Yakov needs to examine his motives
he needs to examine his Purity in effect
he sees in
himself these two faces the
T and the axe
murderer and this is a lonely struggle
this is the struggle of the middle of
the night in which you think about your
life you think about your actions you
reflect you introspect you do cha so
when the when the gamar says that the
angel either look like an ax murder or
or
a it's not two different opinions it's
actually saying there was both things
going on and the angel is none other
than the mirror image of yakob in that
sense that within yakob there's an
element of as of just says within ASA
there's an element of yakob they are
twins after all as different as they
are so it's and that's a lonely struggle
that's why it's described as the middle
of the night it's described as by
yourself because with other people
people will tell you oh you're fine
you're great you're exodic what are you
worried about what are you agonizing
about but a righteous person goes
through
this
and through
the of honestly
confronting even the flaws within
yourself no coverups no
denial that is your Key to Greatness and
Triumph so you see the reason
why yakov's name doesn't get taken
away when he has the name of
Israel is because the ability to Triumph
under the name
Israel is connected to the struggle of
the name
Yakov without that struggle without
that you will not achieve spiritual
greatness you're living a life of
hypocrisy you're living a life of fake
you're living a life where people are
calling you AIC where you really haven't
examined everything you've gone through
and therefore the Yakov is not just the
name that gets
superseded the Yakov is the necessary
prerequisite to the element of Israel
again it's a powerful idea to be honest
not to fool the cut used to say when the
Torah says
M do not distance I'm I'm sorry distance
yourself from lies he says the most
important part of that commandment is
don't be a liar to
yourself okay and we often lie to
ourselves because we we don't want to go
in certain
directions and Yakov had that strength
to confront the reality and work it out
in various ways but now I just want to
focus on another point about this
encounter from
the and that is the raises an another
interesting question why do we find that
the only one of the aot who is attacked
by an Angel who wants to destroy him is
Yakov of we don't find such an encounter
in Abraham's life and we don't find such
an encounter in y's life although you
know we don't
find fighting
with said the
following tells
us the world stands on three pillars
this is a very
famous the study of
Torah divine service by prayer and coros
and acts of loving kindness right a very
well-known idea that the world stands on
three pillars the tell us that each of
the aot who are the founders of the
Jewish people
exemplify the Divine connection to one
of those pillars Abram who lived the
life of loving kindness represents the
idea of he he perceived God through G
I had mentioned last week that the
chicken and egg problem did he perceive
God's because he was an is or did he
become a because he perceived God as
benevolent but be as it may AB is
the who was willing to die as a coron to
God is the epitome of
aod and Yakov who spent 14 years in the
Yesa of Shane a represents the epitome
of Torah so in a way it's a little
problematical because in P the order is
Torah
of which is really going
backwards one might have expected to
follow but be as it may the
three inos correspond to
Theos that's a very wellknown that's a
very wellknown idea now all three of
them are important there's no question
If a person says the only thing that's
important is to learn
Torah he's making a big mistake you need
three but of those three Torah has a
greater importance than the other two
and the reason gives is based on thear K
the Kad says
T through Torah you will get the
knowledge and the incentive to do mitz
meaning to say when I learn Torah I will
will be gravitated towards keeping
chabas and kajas on the other hand if
I'm simply keeping Mitzvah that's not
going to give me an understanding of
Torah so Torah in a sense is what you
might call first among
equals there's a Latin expression for
that term which I don't remember but the
first among equals it's a translation
from a a Latin
expression so
says the angel of asov is symbolic of a
Yater hor that tries to take Jews away
away from Hashem theara is a strategic
thinker meaning to say theara Lets Jews
do mitzvot as long as it's pretty sure
there's not going to be
continuity so with respect to
AB the the the says let the Jews
do I don't care because without Torah
will eventually not last and their
descendants will leave yish
so the angel does not fight against abam
let the Jews do fine with
me let the Jews build beautiful
synagogues it's fine because there's not
going to be continuity once however
there is Torah Torah learning creates
what you might call
intergenerational
continuity
eternity perpetual
uation that is what the eight Sahara
will not
allow in Truth uh again I'm I'm more
familiar with the history of Jud of Jews
in the United States so I'm going to use
America uh I think a similar thing may
have happened in other countries this is
exactly the pattern of Jewish
immigration to the United States now the
first immigrant LGE large scale I mean I
mean there were Jews from Colonial times
and before but the first major
immigration from Europe of Jews to the
United States was in the mid 19th
century 1860s 1870s and they were mainly
German Jews who were affluent who were
well-educated
uh and largely assimilated either
largely reform or even converts to
Christianity and uh these are some
famous names Goldman Sachs a lot of the
Jewish Investment Banking houses were
established by that German population
the main thing they did was to create
fraternal organizations societies so
benevolent societies they created Jewish
hospitals there are still Jewish
hospitals today but you know they don't
necessarily have a great reason for
existence because General hospitals are
more or less just as good but there was
a time that Jews did not always have
access to Medical Care init so there was
a concept of Mount Si you know generally
speaking Jewish Hospital they created
country clubs which I'm not sure if I
would call ited organizations but in
some way it's kind of a place where Jews
can hang around burial societies which
of course are always necessary so that
first generation were primarily osake in
fessed they were not religious in any
way and what happened to them was that
their children or grandchildren kind of
disappeared from the Jewish scene I'm
not saying everybody but but a large
number did the second major
immigration came in the aftermath of the
Russian prgrams in the 1880s and
90s uh in which you had many many Jews
from Poland and Russia coming now this
was a group that uh well number one
there was a lot of animosity a lot of
friction between the affluent German
Jews and the Polish and Russian Jews who
were largely poor they were pedlers and
junk dealers and uh Lower East Side Etc
and the German juice again I am
generalizing but they actually were
embarrassed by what we called I Yen
meaning East the Jews from the East and
many felt they had much more in common
with educated goam than they had with
these kind of poor uneducated Jews now
that
population uh to a large extent was
Orthodox they were
observants but they were not Torah
learned they didn't they weren't a able
to establish isot they established some
Tom Tores some some but they did
establish different
schs and once again aod right so the
first immigration
was the second immigration was aod many
many shs some of which are magnificent
others were but once again that was
called largely a Lost Generation because
uh what happened was there weren't day
schools there weren't Yos uh there was
not Torah education the Next Generation
saw their parents struggling to keep
chabas and they said why should I suffer
this is a free country right the dangers
of assimilation and the stories of I
mean you read story after story after
Story in Yiddish literature that's been
translated into English about the
religious parents that have these sons
who totally assimilated they changed
their names they may have
intermarried and what a heartbreak it
was for the Zade who came to America
with a long beard
to see what was happening to their
children there were even great raban who
came to America whose children and
grandchildren totally left the third
major immigration was after World War
II and uh that was very very different
already because that already involved
the creation of day schools the creation
of Yesa the creation of
Kim uh and Jewish Education became a
major priority and of course obviously
most of the in America are not Orthodox
so I'm not saying there was some magical
change of everything but the real
strength of the Orthodox Community grew
only after the establishment of Jewish
Education so the is 100% correct when
there is Jewish Education there is
continuity a Judaism that's not based on
Jewish Education May last for a while
but eventually it gets rejected and it
gets replaced and that is why the says
the angel of asov only attacked Yakov
the angel of asov or the kak of RA did
not attack Abraham and Y because that
kak was willing to let ABR and Y do
their thing because it wasn't going to
last now makes another point the angel
of asov was ultimately
unsuccessful because Torah will always
exist among Jewish people no matter what
the persecution there will be Jews that
will learn
Torah but the angel of ASF had a partial
Victory yob is
limping what is the significance of the
dislocation of the thigh so the brings
the Z that says just as the thigh
supports the
body the thigh represents the support of
Torah the angel of asov couldn't destroy
Yakov but the angel of ASV created a
situation where the support of Torah
will always be precarious and
vulnerable and that's why yot and day
schools struggle that was asf's partial
Victory remarked any that does not have
financial
problems one must question how authentic
its
mission majority of youas uh do fall do
qualify uh for this uh and it's an
amazing thing because if you look at the
amount of money in the world that is
available for every type of
entertainment every type of diversion uh
billions and billions maybe trillions of
dollars when it comes to Torah when it
comes
to everybody struggling everybody's
struggling why is that so that's the
partial victory
of the angel of Asa the thigh is going
to be dislocated so now you may ask a
question so someone comes to you for a
Torah cause and asks you for money so
you might say hey I'm not supposed to
give you money you're supposed to
Suffer Well the same argument was made
by Christian
theologians when anesthesia was
introduced to help women in child birth
some Christian theologians argued hey it
was the curse of Eve you shall give
birth with suffering what gives you the
right to alleviate it so these Christian
theologians all of whom were men said
women in sh birth have no right to
Anesthesia they have to suffer the
maximum amount of pain now we don't say
that right so what do we say to that but
didn't God say you shall give birth and
suffering the answer is there's a
difference between a curse and a Mitzvah
God did not command I command you to
suffer God just said this is the nature
I'm creating I'm creating a te where
child birth has suffering but like
anything else we are permitted to
alleviate pain and distress hasem is
just telling us this is the tea tea is
not a Mitzvah it's just the reality of
things and we are given R to try to
improve our
reality same thing here God did not say
thou shalt not support
of course he didn't say that he said the
opposite God is saying I'm just warning
you that by virtue of this encounter the
economic Foundation of Torah is going to
be weak and that creates a greater
obligation on your part on our part to
try to alleviate by the way I want to
point out a final point that the notion
of support of Torah is not only a
reference to economic support although
that's the term I've been using it also
refers to emotional support the no that
we are obligated to convey to our
children to people who are learning
Torah that it's a good thing again I'm
not getting involved right now with
issues of how do you balance it with
military service and the like you know
those are difficult issues that one can
debate and one to discuss I'm not even
talking about how do you balance it with
secular education on parosa you know
those are issues and those are important
issues uh that we can discuss and you
know we have discussed at various times
but I'm simply talking about the Naked
Bear idea that Torah learning is
something that is important it's not
enough to write a check kind of throw a
check and you know give it to a beggar
there has to be a notion that this is a
thing this is a worthwhile Endeavor
that's also support of Torah support of
Torah is on in the emotional realm and
not just the economic realm be this it
may um I guess arila is as as the
dedication said that we are still in the
long darkness of the
galot and uh things seem very very dark
at various times but may we be Z to see
the light to see that Breaking Dawn
where even the enemies that try to
destroy us will acknowledge the
greatness of the Jewish people and they
too will give us a blessing so thank you
very
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