Rabbi Aaron Dovid Poston: Is the Wayward and Rebellious Son a consequence of your actions?

[Music] good evening everybody welcome welcome so we are parshas ki Tate say and that is found in Deuteronomy chapter 21 verse I'll read in the English and the Hebrew when you go out when you will go out to work against your enemies just notice it's plural against your enemies and the Shem your God will deliver him I mean right away you should say what is what's going on here you're talking about enemies and yet God will deliver him it's singular him into your hand and you will capture his captivity okay so we have to figure out what all these words mean the verse in Hebrew is key takes a little milk um ah I like that huh upon your enemy when you go out to war upon your enemy very strange all means from above coming down it should say and will see against your enemy I know in English it says against your enemy but the Hebrew it doesn't say against your enemy but that's what it means but it could have used a word which more literally indirectly means against your enemy as opposed to from up coming down when the ton know and God will put him is its enemies what does it mean God will put him it should have said God will put them into your hands a Chemeketa be a death huh fish of Vita Sevilla and the last part you would capture his captivity all this needs explanation and that's just the background of the verse we're gonna get started with so the clear car the famous clear car begins by telling us when you go out to war against your enemies with the extra good there's a olive you had bet you the cuff there's two goods it means plural enemies like that's a P you'd rush and Robbie it's definitely many enemies after cajamar but later on in the same verse it says units ha now which means and he will place him so the clear car who knows Hebrew a lot better than you and me and everyone put together in this room how would Leila may Mar what it should have said it was gonna be consistent which we expect from the one who created this language and knows all the grammatical rules he's the grammarian of grammarians right so it says he should have said with a tongue mom but it doesn't therefore we need to explain why also it says owl I've ever upon your enemies where it should have said can- that huh which literally we've talked about a woman of a wife being a nazar connect oh right the word connected connect though it means literally opposite the person a woman your wife is your helpmate who is opposite you not just that she likes this kind of wine and you like the other kind you put your toothpaste one your toothbrush like this and she likes the toothbrush like that not just when it's too close for her but it's too hot for you but opposite you literally against you meaning she's you're helping against you she will bring you towards perfection because of the friction and telling you all that's wrong with you and of course it was the other way around - it has to be something against you in order to cause you to grow we boil a them if I should have said connect it but it doesn't so now he quotes a mesh which is going to give us some insect name he's gonna quote the Madras but what he's going to do after he quotes the measures is then dissect the mattress ok to go into it and why is the measures written in the way that it is what does it mean so he says the measure is brought down in the name in the citrine the Citroen brings down the measures Zell hashanah this is how it goes even though the words in our tourists said our that's our pond your enemy it that it look definitely means a gastronomy okay an autonomous chef alluette via data and God will place him into your hand and then there's a continuation so it was conditional God will place your enemy in your hands if you do all that is spoken about in this paragraph in this regard eat a Sita coal ham or being young then there's a comma so shush America no new Fiat fo that in the end Hashem your God will place them in your head nobody's only if you do or previously you do all these things that as a result the Shem will close your victory right that will bring about the victory you will place him in your hands and that's where the measures ends at least that's where he quotes - and the clear car says I really don't understand what's going on and then he asked questions that if we were reading the measures this was so beautiful he teaches us how to be critical we should read a metric and think like someone who's brilliant who knows the language what is it that's being brought out in the metric she says what I don't understand is what exactly does it mean that you do what is said in this Indian what exactly does that mean ma who are more being odd so then he takes a guess if it's speaking about no I know we didn't read more than the first verse but let me tell you we're talking about what a man goes to war and he sees amongst the capped is a beautiful woman and he decides he wants to take her home as a wife but she's not Jewish and rape is not an option although there is a discussion amongst the rabbi's whether relations on the battlefield so to speak meaning while you're before you bring your home is permissible or not but everyone agrees that you know how to raper that's absolutely forbidden so this is to bring down the passion to bring you know pit men when they're out in war the adrenaline and the the passion could go wild whether it's for blood or for thievery or for sex and things can get out of hand as we well know if you just look at the history of most words in this world what actually takes place and I will stop here just to tell you Israel and if you see anti-semites are listening to this I want you to hear this really well that Israel has never been I'm not talking about the modern-day State of Israel it's army no soldier has ever been accused by the enemy of raping their women now we know this world is an illusion it's full of fake news and we have anti some Semites that won't give up so even though they hear these facts they turn around and twist them and say hmmm it must be because the Jews are racists that's why they don't rape our women so this is something to eat raised that that no Israeli soldier has ever been accused of rape and according to the Torah that's certainly forbidden and here you want to take this woman your passions your high and what I'm telling you now God placed in the Torres scheme a scheme to bring down the Passion of the ADA hurrah and also if you beat it we'll see that's this paragraph for in later on it's gonna say and if you have two eyes how to deal with that nose you're bringing this woman home for your wife and then the next paragraph talks good if you have two lights also you should know that having more than one wife is not desirable all never was there are of course reasons why one may take a second life but it was very rare and certainly not desirable not to the other wife not to either one of the wise and it's certainly not good for the man either then if you notice though the paragraph following that is a Ben saw Remora the wayward and rebellious son it's almost like what I'm gonna tell you is you bring home this woman you're gonna have disastrous result the next thing is going to happen is you're gonna have plenty of problems with her then you're gonna have problems with the other life and then you may if this eventually comes to be even have problems with such children that will come or may come as a result of this relationship who was never desirable to start with okay but before we get to all that we're still here and he says so what is this idea that you know you're gonna bring home the woman and she's going to you're gonna shoot her hair is gonna be shaved and her nails are gonna grow long and she's going to remove her I don't know maybe beautiful clothes and you're gonna put on these very drab the clothes of mourning and she's gonna sin she's gonna cry for 30 days and then as we're learning in the laws of things about this Yaphet or whether or not she becomes a full convert if she accepts the 613 mitzvahs or she can accept the seven Noahide laws and remain in the status of a Gentile that a high status a very high status considered almost the highest of highs amongst the Gentiles which would be like a Cohen good or like a high priest and so she doesn't she become Jewish but she wants to remain a guys you leave her free not to become not to be your slave and not to sell her in any way and but to let her go free and the the Kings the book of the kings and their Wars discuss the first the idea was asset combatant she wasn't combatant otherwise she would have been captured that the combatants are killed so perhaps she should have been killed the question is why again but that's the general procedure with the Yaphet all are if she had decided not to come a Jew and not to become a righteous Gentile then there's pretty much no use for her sorry to say not a good ending for her so the clea car begins by telling us okay if you're talking about shaving her head that means the rake Kivar Natuna Theodore Cottam should also ha were being yet it's very strange because she's already in your hands if she's in your hands what does the mattress mean that in the end shall be given into your hands or your enemy given into your hands so the truth is he wants to eliminate that and I'll explain in this in a second he says if you should put me men who shed the even dying a minute to be adult how is it you capture captive and you yet still didn't have the whole enemy in your hands well that's really an easy question to answer and I think that's because we know there are POWs from both sides and eventually the word still not over eventually the war ends and there's a transfer so POWs right the capture of combatants do happen early on in the world it doesn't mean it's at the end off in temp salome are so even if you want to say Shane Ryan with a shuya that there is no proof just because of the captain even if I mean you should be Chevy boom look haha sometimes there is a captive captured in the middle of the war a FEMA dying in Hawaii in Serbia though even if the enemy has not been completely handed over and there's a proof just he wants to he wants us to know to not he wants us to know the scripture and if you look in numbers 21 one which you could file in the source sheet would be number one the Canaanite king of Arad who lives in the south heard that Israel had come by the root of the spies he waged war against Israel and took thumb damn a captive but you know who won the war right with it so just because you took a captive doesn't mean that the enemy is necessarily handed over nevertheless it still remains a difficulty model a lane marking could wait can you say such a thing to explain the word moon attano it right what does it say and he will be given over right God will give him into your hands so Rashi there says and I think it's actually number three it's rossion Deuteronomy 21 14 and it will be okay sorry maybe I don't have it okay but in the end in the end she will be given over injury and that's what the mentor said so maybe the explanation is she'll be given over into your hand immediately in other words that would help resolve the question of what does it mean that he'll be given over into your hand the major said in the end she'll be given over into your hands so I said that Hashem would be given give her over maybe means immediately like where did the mentor skites he's really bringing out the question of the measures where does the mattress come that in the end why not now so he begins the clave cart begins with his explanation by saying Venera it seems that what was really bothering the author of this measure shakaal about measures that is this word when at I know that he will be given over meaning the enemy and he stresses when the Tanami it should have said they they would be given over and Levada Shama da bear you know what he's concluding we even though we said you go against your enemies he will be given over right so what is it how can it be you have enemies but one enemy will specifically be given over he is concluding that it must be oh yeah that's hot one particular enemy trotty what I read him and the vibe - and the DA Bearpaw oh you're that hot party it's certainly speaking about one particular enemy sure high up the cloud are you that Hara beam she is care come on that it was included that one particular enemy is included in your many enemies that was mentioned already and this I love his language is right out of the book of Esther me who's ed the ADA who and who is this which one is this Ames Hakeem SAR the UH a penny me it's none other then your most inner rival them the inside of you your enemy who's inside of you and who's your enemy that's inside of you you who suck time who Yeats a Haram it is the sub time it is your evil inclination we all have right we have to love Hashem with all our hearts double vodka with both sides of your hearts two bets in fly and Madhava with all of your measurements all the different character traits of the Shem gave you which some of them are not so useful on the good side but we'll find a way service sham with your gates are as well and what is this eh state Sahara do he's in the car track videotape the shots the cardigan will come up as we mentioned last week he comes to prayer should prosecute you even more at a time of danger such as war as we mentioned the last week's Barcia when we mentioned the word keep they say them they'll come out when you go out when you go out to war that was in chapter 20 verse 1 if I'm not mistaken yes regarding that it says when the tano ship mellow careful Bo devil and God will place him into your hand if that's so then we're still left with the question and ready for this a hoob Mufti ho shi nae who could his barfoo be other how is it that maybe it's motion or maybe it's the mattress how is it I think it's the metrics how is it that the mattress is able to promise you that God will cause you victory that he will place no doubt the enemy is your hand it's a prize like a promise array occurs in their mind immediately after that after this statement you have this issue I'm calling it an issue the challenge faced with this beautiful woman that you captured no war this is a very important trial and this is why I hope and understand then even though the Rambam says that it's forbidden for a non Jew to learn Torah that statement itself needs to be understood almost everyone agrees right off the bat allowed to read the written Torah they're just excluded from certain parts of the oral torah well guess what the written Torah cannot be understood and number two this statement shallow deep rhetoric elekid negative Sahara are you telling me that non-jews don't have a gate Sahara of course they do so they need to know how to develop themselves as human beings the ethics of our fathers right Abraham was kind you shouldn't be kind of course everybody in the world should be kind in fact the Jews are the way to the nation's and there are so many non-jews turning to us and saying you guys have something that I want a relationship with God a just society I like your laws well there you know kosher and America is like I mean there's only I think it's 2 percent of the American population is Jewish less than half of that probably keep kosher I think they like 20 25 percent of the business in America is kosher products like probably even more but it's just like demanding in other words not just happens to be 20% of the population demand kosher products now it is true that some of them think it's healthier or cleaner it's true but a large percent of them are do it because they think that it's even healthier on a spiritual level which we already saw on the Rambam that a non Jew can keep at least if you read it the way I read it all the menses but at least let's say 99% of the misses and in the 613 a cashew so as long as you do it that time the way it's done properly which how would it not Jun know how to amidst them properly if they didn't come and learn and something else we learned this week right when we cross the Jordan and came to the mouth of the blessing and the curse Drizzy man out there you know what happened we took these stalls from the Jordan and we wrote on them like a bear to eat a v' a very clear message what was that message according to many it was the whole Torah in 70 different languages which is a miracle in itself we plastered over we didn't last over but let's not go into details why in the world would God want us to write the Torah on these rocks on these stones in 70 languages what is this number 70 represent the 70 languages the 70 nations each language is a nation so we saw pointing to many it's because the the non-jews would come to Eretz Israel who would come to Eretz Israel to learn Torah if you're gonna live here you got to know what to do if you want to be a deer toch off you're allowed to keep the missus and you have to do them right according to a minor opinion it was only the 613 commandments but again what why write it with 70 languages anyway let's continue on amazing stuff hooray I mean Rowan should ode to Matobo we see the wild lead the passion while the contamination is still on him shahuri law at circo a la boca naked you throw a chick she lo be off the star the avatar is that that he's not really capable of hoping himself back against his inclination until he trips over and meets up with this beautiful woman and then he he of course will then keep the prescription were explanation when he should have he should behave they after ha but still how is it that there's a promise that the enemy will be placed in his hands so here comes the explanation regarding and he will be placed in his hand that's what it means so she may be a dead cop in the end God will place him in your hand only if you do everything that the Torah describes McGee Lua Rocha you cut her hair the new the nuvvula and caused her to be disgusting not to litter Ivan what does it say immediately after the prescription of how you should treat her or how she should behave but what you should do in terms of her hair and her fingernails and the way she dresses that she should be crying la jolla loca thoughts to bow it will be if you do not desire her you lost your desire if you lost desire Rashi says that it's not if it is actually a proclamation that in the end you will hate her so then vide I with absolute certainty you - masseur Biondo your inclination your evil inclination will be pinned over into your hand it's your enemy you'll get an enemy your Yates around will be put into your hand she is not o top and you will hate her so we see here the effect of boola zoic adduction and mark that the prime setup that God is workers trading here for you is what it says in Ecclesiastes we all know if you were faced with going to a wedding or to a few what is the answer which one should you go to now I'm referring when everything's the same it's not your first cousin who's in the funeral on your third cousins getting married or vice versa everything's equal they expect you each bird each of these parties expect you to show up but you can only go to one for some reason so it says in lamentations chapter 7 verse 2 it's better to go to a house of mourning than to go to a house of feasting okay why is that why is it important to go to the house of mourning rather than the party certainly going to a party is definitely much better right more fun right but his life about fun the fact is Luke there's no word in Hebrew for founded by the way so there's plenty of words for joint oh okay like Eskimos have I don't know hundreds of words for snow there's so many there's countless amounts of words for joy in Hebrew KIU things that see by going to the house of mourning you screw your mom Issa you remember or you'll remind yourself of the day of your death that's a little bit chilling what do you mean to remind yourself of I you know what's gonna happen as a result with qohelet King King Solomon the wisest man in the world tells you it's better to go to the house of a Vevey of the morning that to go to a feast because then with certainty you yeat Sahara will run away will leave you because she he bulkhead and now we understand the the orchestration is going on the prescription that God tells you that you have her sit in these clothes of mourning and crying over the loss of her parents miss IVA was availeth a lady havana Hema while she's crying and mourning over her parents her mother and her father hooray who he the husband knew the the warrior the guy that brings his woman home he's Yosh a vase of Delta me he's sitting in a house of mourning his own house has turned into a house of mourning it's a little bit depressing perhaps IEDs that and through this scheme use curly it's ro he's actually reminding his own youth Sahara young honey the day of its death Roz vada ASSA ah for sure the hrrahh wants you alive the intro has no use for you when you're dead well Tisch coat Tophet oh and his desires will lessen it actually means to quiet down but are you things there yes not at all and through this he will come to despise her will the fee she member shim IVA cerclage yourself college listen oppa as Rashi says them we can explain it further that it's a proclamation it's an announcement it's informing that in your end you come to hate her that's why it says in the measures so shush and look at her no snow field fr then the aunt of Shem will give your enemy into your hand and the reason for all this we Matata who took the forest we need to explain when it's cetera is will you go out against your enemies that means again you said I'll upon your enemies we said it really means against your enemies there's no doubt it means against your enemies but it didn't use the word so what's the Russian out like L ow right on high ow above right now we are not pod look get stuck came the star milk AMA highball miniature Mao Mao then we're gonna learn something very fundamental that all physical wars are thought in the heavens amongst the heavenly beings before they're fought here so whoever is supposed to win it's already been determined we just have to show up now translate exactly what he says why is it using a little of the language Wow you cannot justify this language except in a regular war the physical war against your enemies because that that type of war is coming from the head above a regular war Istanbul sama from heaven is fought earlier on and it uses the words coca veeneman solocom from the orbits from the stars and their orbits now we have a class in astrology we're not really dealing with the strategy right now but you are we talk too fast today with revving up the laser and we talked about them there is a metaphysical world somewhere between where we are and where God is and that's a very dangerous place to tread if you don't know what you're doing but in the meantime he wants us to look at judges judges chapter 5 verse 20 you could find this on number 5 on your associates it literally says minhas min Qiang Maggie mill kabal it's from heaven a thought from heaven they thought the Stars and their curses Kohath enum single tom it's the language he brings now for us we can become few more familiar with the Tanakh with the language of the Bible then they fought down below against Sisera but the fight against Sisera took first place in the heavens amongst the administering angels clear so far I know I got a bunch of believers everyone who's watching this is a believer so I don't have to convince knowit if you already pushed that button to watch this video you're you know it's you believe in the Tomas and that's why we're reading it and if you don't so join join join the club we're we're happy if you join us now however from the fact that the verse says but I know you and God will put him into your hands it's a singular language which is very strange because you go to war against your enemies if you don't mind also pouring you some tanks but you go to war against your enemies but God will place him it's a language of singularity so we're forced to say about Kirkuk attack sorry Faraj the far show there's no question you need to explain this concerning your evil inclination your Yeats our Hara and if that's the case when we said earlier he takes a Bluma the mill , I'll lay that off when you go to work instrument and amis we said that is plural that he says certainly vadai this includes two types of enemies whenever you speak plural you mean at least two there's got to be a minimum of two so go with the bare minimum he at least two enemies and that includes two kai types who are they hey no agent Sony hey are you a penny me you have an external enemy and you also have an internal enemy and if you're not familiar with your internal enemy I don't know tell you get in touch with who you are man and the Koch anguish ah so Sakana maybe you're a completely righteous person but we know that both enemies either one will come at you and try to persecute you at a time of danger the HR aisle is that we even have a proof for this because in parshat shows team we said key takes a little Kamala vaca meaning in Deuteronomy chapter 20 verse 1 it was a single enemy you were coming against it was only with one unit in the word that madhab it was done by a Vlad that was for sure talking about only one particular enemy but here it says plural enemies but that extra good so this is talking about multiple enemies which is odd night cloud sony Happiny me i thought we're actually talking about both and remember rabbi brighter with said why is this talking Rashi mentions that this is a optional word because and and yet you're capturing this woman because you're supposed to deal with an optional war the same way in terms of your panini in terms of how to deal with unique Sarah the in na as if it was a mitzvah right does it miss the war and there's optional words you must deal in an optional war the same way you need to deal with you and it's alright as if it's a midst award because it is a Miss for that's why it says on attano Hashem will place him guess what this means that out of your many enemies you have to one of them will be first because that's what it says you go against your enemies God will put him one of them which one needs to come first okay so you think you'll fight all your external Wars and then you work on your character or perhaps you need to work on your character first and then maybe that will have a result a consequence and you'll be able to actually win the external one which one is it well I think you guys know he says a cot mayhem you take tequila one of the two is gonna be giving it over first and which one is that that's vada I ate Sonora it needs to be and it will be your evil inclination she in a midst Rinna to be auditor Sheila because if the inner war was not fought first if your evil inclination is not handed over first into your hands he says this ain't no Yahoo let not say us are you could see moves that there's no way that you're meant to win your external enemy you won't have the blessing you won't have the help Hashem is willing to help but you have to start clothes Mancha whom in Lockland Malou clock beset you're not going to be able to conquer your external enemy the whole time you are ruined or dirty with sin cane hoots rackleff Irish that's why you need to explain it when it says all I've ever against your many enemies it's connected not upon your enemies but against your enemies that's how to explain can milk Amash emigrate Zara anal Bommel Amala because when you're fighting your Yeats rrraaahhh that's not like a regular world we said the regular war is fought above in the heaven and then we just show up but the eight Sahara is fought between us inside it's an internal fight we have to take the initiative it's coming from down below and then going up as opposed to a regular work it's all very counterintuitive I want to introduce you to the idea that almost everything in Judaism will be counterintuitive but once you absorb it you realize deep in your soul that you know it's the truth you know that when you're going to fight the war as we will see when the army is fighting amongst each other and they're backstabbing and talking lush and Jara that's the worst thing for a an army you need Brotherhood you need people who are gonna you know where they say when they're running out in the open cover me oh yeah right after you just got a bigger argue with this guy you know you're gonna trust is gonna cover you right and you're gonna run out and be vulnerable because right you have to have such love and passion and Tom Harari with each other so to it on your on your insights you have to be a peace with yourself I know it's just counterintuitive because we're thinking of what's what is a an external where I have to do with how I feel at peace with myself or with my neighbor so we'll get to it the once you're into the metaphysical you understand that is a prerequisite as a non-believer this is just baloney everything we're saying right the weight we're gonna get this a really hardcore proofs that you must be at peace with your with your brother in order to win the war so I'll just read that last line right even the word I'll write has two meanings yes I'll literally beings from above coming down but we keep saying over and over again it definitely means against right it's starting here it means connect it because a mil comma because a war with you get surah is not coming from above but keep Adam sorry 302 Mozilla it's the man who must be the initiator and Hashemi ignore all Yago hashem then we'll finish it off for him as it says remember we said what does that thing mean in the measures when it says Sascha Miller Catherine knows no Bo Decker that in the end Hashem who plays him into your hand because Hashem is your help to Shemesh your salvation and he will be there at the end but you must take that initiative in the beginning I knew either called Hamas teamshit hasta mean your name into uh the talk gulags negatives here huh remember what it said if you do everything that it says in the parsha if you do everything that the table prescribes first to try to bring down the passion such as kodkod cutting her hair and shaving her head and letting her nails grow and giving her these clothings of morning so that's the mid stuff so once you start to do that it's just symbolic of all your actions your actions down below they're gonna have an outcome a successful outcome and this is the scheme that will work against your inclination gosh Andy Schleck Ezreal is so Hashem will send you all the help you need to finish it off to end in the end you win I have a beast and Osama but when we talk about an earthly word Hodari birthday everything works the opposite that's why we say everything in metaphysics in Judaism is counter intuitive when it comes to regular words the opposite keycode the machete he note the leap club with saintly milk um ah remember we said it's fought in the heavens that even before you go out and prepare your heart to go out to the war come on new comely mo miniature Mayan the war has already been fought and finished but with you it's our ah it's brand new every day and you got you be there to be willing to conquer it the otago man do you think about the heavenly words they're already fought but you have to finish it off when it comes together I you have to start nichelle finish it off the chef's therefore the chef loves you and he wants you to win he wants you to win but you gotta take that initiative I know some of you guys took a big initiative this week kedai sheets carry a simcha in order that what that the war will eventually be called by your name because you'll be the victors right you have to show up if you don't show up leave and we have the 67 right before in 70 all these words are named after the Jews right because they're the victors I don't know what they call me in Egypt but even till today on your cue for or whatever babies I've told or something rather they have Victory Day Parade by the way they still think they want the war okay I mean this is like a crazy road Olivia but we call it the Six Day War it's called the Six Day War and they studied all the the greatest boutique law military schools all over the world I know for I'm sure America does they study and study and study and they all admit they really don't really know how but they know it's you know the war of the Jews is Josephus with their would call one of probably the best-selling books next to the Bible so before we begin the next piece I just want to mention that according to the Rambam it's really Judaism in itself it's forbidden to start a new religion men and women that I know who are bona fide 100 percent than they not know that they cannot begin any new trends there's no such thing as a new trend let's all get married with seven candles let's do it like they decide they want to do something interesting for their wedding seven camels or something like that I know that's what they choose to do for themselves but it's not a new religious right you're not allowed to make a new religious right you can follow the seven and add on to that the laws of the God gave to the Jews as an option not optional free will and effort you're not obligated you're not obligated to do any to wear citrus you want to wear them wear them tuck them in you want to put a mezuzah put it up but put on the inside of the door right do everything modest do it you want to celebrate Shabbat because the date according to what I'm going to tell you when you're in public yeah you should do it correctly when you're driving you can do whatever you want especially if you're Garrett Oh shopping you live living in Israel so you know that you can't just ask a non-jew to turn on a light and you'd but you know in the laws of Shabbat you'll know hey that you just asked me to turn the light on so it was in a synagogue he can ask you directly because it's for the sake of the the many but it private home so you can help them by just knowing the lights off he says oh he'll click come down to the street see you walking by sethe we're sitting in the dark how would you feel sitting in the door you want to comment join us for some you know come and eat with us and you walk in and say wow it's dark in here you turn the light on you can watch you sit down and join us of course you have to go on your way but he can't ask you directly he can't even you know there's certainly can hit to you but he's he what's your help you should be Fred you come and join us and then you'll and you'll be able to help them anyway without going to all those details it wouldn't hurt for a Gentile to know the laws of Shabbat if the living in his remarks Jews and many of the Gentiles who work in hotels and work for Jewish families actually know the laws better than most Jews and cashiers when they cook they you know of course a Jew has to light the flame but many of them know the laws of keeping kosher more than many Jews okay so let's get on when you go out to war this is the next paragraph when you go out to war if you want to know what does it mean when you go out teeth.take say why does it use when you go out when you go out why doesn't it say when you go or when you fight so I'll just read the words Harvey Lila Mae MA it should have said keep telling when you walk o ki til I hang when you fight what does it mean to the war lit mill , it should have said to fight lil calm look home when you go to fight but doesn't says to the war but what does it mean to the war it's inferring that you're not actually doing the fighting which is backing up the idea we said about the fighting happens man earlier in heaven Keith even the Mon wrote Mill , but it's only going to see the war that you're going out like that up I'm your enemy again it should have said connect it and not only that this shelita Shiv yo cap during caption it's captain all these languages are very strong and it's this last part captain capturing its captive is a double language it's the same word obviously with a different even an English captor its captain's same word Vasavi Tasha vo why even according to what the rabbi's had mentioned Shabaab the robbers Kaname bishop otoko now let me just time we talked about coming into the land when we when we capture a city well we want to see make a siege on the city we don't go directly in and just kill that one out we first offer them peace and we've only surrounded on three sides we must leave one end open now there's a lot of positive consequences to this number one if we had if we had closed the entire city off on all four sides each combatant has every reason to fight for their life and they're going to be much fierce enemy and you don't want that you want to cause cowardliness and fear and so when you leave that fourth side open you say anybody doesn't want to fight leave and you'll see a few people will leave and a few more relief and hopefully with all these but anybody that stays behind as a combatant and that's why you'd like to kill them all because you couldn't kill combat now why am i bringing this up because some of the Canaanites who lived here when we came in fled and they became slaves and captured by other nations so now we go out to war as this Mohammed or shoot other countries some of the captives we may have captured were Canaanite women meaning it's not in the land of King we're in but we went out to Syria Turkey Lebanon wherever we are and we found these Canaanites those who once we're talking about even then it's called at least this is the question but he mentions that it includes these types of people nevertheless it should have said the chavita Chevy not yo captured a captive not captured its captive it's it's in other words if it said Vasavi Tusheti that means you captured a captive but it turns out that when it says for shitty fish Veta yo you captured its captive what do you mean what does it mean it's captive first of all everything we're learning has many many levels really learning one level you read the ayahs all you'll find a whole nother level that's a much more metaphysical level so that's what's the questions he's laying out now in this paragraph and he's gonna answer him a malcolm ET lafarge nebbish nape honey this is now the place to answer this question in two very different ways the first way is like the way the ROM body not commodities explains this on a verse now this verse will be found in Chapter in Deuteronomy chapter 23 10 do you know what it says over there it's number six when you're sore sheet when the camp goes out against your enemies which I'm a Jewish camp an army can't keep Tate's a Makana Olivet huh when the camp goes out against your enemies nish mark Tommy called over ah you shall what guard yourselves against all evil things you shall be where you shall guard yourselves from anything evil what do you think it means I mean we know that so that's why the Torah is a book of morality right is the desert yes the truth is you are supposed to set up latrine you're not allowed you know one of the 613 misses right could you imagine it applies only to a soldier he has to cover carry a shovel with him okay it doesn't have to be a big shovel can be one of those little hoes you know when you're gardening at home you know what I mean why because when you're out in the field and you have to go bathroom you must cover and when you're in the camp you can't go to the bathroom in the camp you have to do it outside the camp so we'll never guard yourself against anything even when your camp goes out to war and you'll see and that paragraph talks about carrying this spike or a shovel but guess what you must guard yourself against anything evil according to the ROM bond he says kind of deed more rock even the where it says davara d'Ivoire is a thing but it's also a word against evil speech not just against anything evil such as feces which is disgusting right it has a rare from a disgusting smell of bats needles we're talking about blushing Hara right and now we're getting into the nitty-gritty of what it means to have camaraderie amongst the fighters conditional yet being they and math look at you don't want arguments amongst the combatants you know in your own home team the Jakub they may have Mathura blah blah ode and what happens when you start talking Russian Hara you you become separated into divisions and then the the hit of the punch amongst each other is much greater yeowch I mean even it's certainly worse than what your enemy had plans for you right and you hit each other hate each other this is what it means devar evade of are ah and this is very clear Zed the VAR board this is very clear because she ain't Shalom bayit Aloha Mead when you do not have peace amongst the fighters and we're talk about the same team here arrey hain minuttes oxime then he will certainly lose it's the opposite of victory kimochi Cara the free saying Israel but by its Shanee that's what happened to the elite and the arrogant during the Second Temple that right-waist we say why was the sentence and temple destroyed because of causeless hatred because of the divisions of the brothers Lacock armor now we understand when it says when you go out when you go out it's singular rush on get CR but let's forget the singular he's showing that you're going out of somewhere you're going out of your home city you're going out of your hometown you're leaving home so what does it mean it's me 8 no company me if it's going out it means it's excluding the inner world meaning you're going out you have to have the internal unity within the city you your city has that piece you're going out for the work the war should not be happening in the city meaning in you every human is like a city each person is a universe your own city there shouldn't be a war with and then again in your own city meaning your brothers right you go out of the city you're fighting some external enemy right sidharthak is good say tu caja eartip rush cop Pekka I know I skipped something and we go back me eight will come up to me me talk her ear this idea of going out is the language of leaving exiting which would come to exclude a internal war a monster city you need a united front it specifically means Kafka could say to come here we're leaving the city which is to throw kappa cleb Mahamaya meaning your your your your hands your reaching out towards a ward is external so now we understand when it says about toka air but within the city Yehia Shalom bang Nathan there must be peace amongst you DAF this weird sense to the word you're going out to the world we'll come on it's true the word you're going out but not from the world you're not going from you're going to the so what so that means there has to be peace within your city you have to create that piece first specifically a lie that they say it's on your enemy you're going out not on the people you love right because we have this idea after we're home offices in Torah that love your friend as yourself though I have that color a Yamaha know you're going against your enemy not your brother so then when it says the Savita she do you captured its captive its captain the enemy's captive he he had a captain she looked in that case let suit at kavika been the Troodos Allah when you're going and capturing capturing its captive of the enemy not that you're looking to trap your own friend you don't want that you don't set a trap for your friend he called a divine mozzie candle milk Hama they will ruin your chances and more of ever winning in ethical Eilat I say and therefore if you do all this eyes then as a result the shed will place him into your hand but the low zoo lotsa but not aside from this this is the prescription prescribed we have to do it and then he will win the word the external would that's the first explanation he gets another explanation Derek she Nisha Belliveau tailed Agadir Farah this Holstein is there in order to negate your evil inclination I sure you see yeah hello my you Tyson's you say this is what your evil inclination says do you know what it says to you you are the Almighty you are the power of the shadows it says like this hello should we use it but I got the edema Italia D are you they Kosovo Chianti did it this captive come as a result of all my strategy and planning right at my might I'm the one who is responsible for overcoming my head of me the NIC nasty this is a kind of spoon we'll come on ah neat Shakti I was the one that entered the battlefield until we were victorious yah teal hashem alai Colton I'm hallo Leute Mickey Lewis the needle so why is it that a Shem is placing all these conditions on me then that if I take her why am I doing this I'm the one who's responsible but yet God is telling me to shave her head let her hairs and her nails grow I have to think about this I'll came hick team la la la that's why we can immediately say to this person checker at tattooing your claim is a lie look you love the cop job beer gig bar it's not because of your strength of you want rock at the shame Hruska hashem ott rush it's only because of the chemin of god as long as it a sham right this possession that I took it was God that gave it into my hands a map Taha look him you didn't even fight all you did was left your house to show up and walk in the direction of the war rocky Tate save me basically road to mill comma you left your house to see the war I should cut my octave I'm gonna show mine a koha being min soo-ah time that was already and proceeded to fight in heaven you didn't do anything don't take credit this is one of the biggest problems facing Israel today because our successes can go to our head anybody your successes can go to your head and will only cause a further downfall it doesn't need to be that way immediately after the six-day war every Jew news miraculous everyone knew from the most secular to the most religious but you know what it wears off it wears off and then you begin to thinking hear all the stories of carriage and whatnot but you've really asked all these people they would admit to you it was also a miracle but you know you're waxing fat and you god forbid Rebelle so this is a warning that's done over and over again and this is what it means again Lulla milk about to the war to that war that had begun already in heaven I like that huh when we said al Ayanami as a lob mamas really upon your enemy from heaven became not against them load me naked means I'm not not against you you go you should like a ship drops off your feet same Hashem already spread the arrows it's amazing what the Israeli army calls you know David's sling and I mean all these names I don't know whether all the names are but they're all very biblical you know we go to war and there are the biblical names and we talk about our the ingenuity of some of the defensive capabilities we have they have names to these things amazing attributing them to a shell fish evita ship yo and you captured its captive of Hashem meaning Hashem already captured through the work - whatever happened above kicker von nish bot Ali am no sama you captured its captain again it was already captured in the words in heaven the yard he came for to Shimla so car God's ultimate desire is to do for you a great and glorious name in the world that Israel the name of Israel should be glorified to the world and that the world will be named upon you that's why it says and God will place him into your hand says your hand there near the kolodny peeler yacht-club us it seems that all the nations as if they are in your hand they remained the year flew ahem and then hopefully they do Tuva otherwise they will be destroyed all of them met a new king but there's not the case in other words don't Craig take credit kion Hashem hasta so it was a shallow dinners and may have kavod nitin be Odessa but for your honor he placed them into your hand you the Jewish people Israel you give honor to God and I don't God will hire you back know that it was from a chef and don't fear the name your name will be placed upon that war no doubt okay we're going now to verse 11 now I don't think I gave you the copy of this page all you have to do is go to know it is on this date okay but later almost seems it's it's 18 it's now on the stage okay but 11 is the Rita de Sevilla and you will see amongst its captivity a woman a beautiful form this is what we call a you thought toe are a beautiful form a woman of beautiful self but what does it mean Bocchetti amongst its captivity this Shiva why does what does that word come to include we're at teamollie should remember what in the world is a woman doing in a war situation we don't send women toward they're not recruited okay maybe a modern Israel but that I think is a big mistake and you heard me say okay I think it's a big mistake that women are recruited for at all but at least let's say for combat maybe they could help fill the sandbags work with communication sit like my daughters when they served in the army their job was to actually only one of them serve in the army and the other two went to wash a room with me but she sat behind the computer screen looking for infiltrators coming in but she was in a very safe bunker and they'll know where and load the city actually ok so what does it say here what is a woman doing in war it must be for the sake of prostitution right we all know that at least in Vietnam I guess it happened there happens anywhere in war they know to send through the for the combat units when they go to the bars and drink and this will bring down the enemy and we saw it bye-bye bill up right they tried to curse Billa mahlock tried to curse the Jewish people they didn't succeed try try again they still didn't succeed so they came out with a plan to send these prostitutes to entice them to idol worship and of course then you could try to curse the Jews meaning it's like self from self-fulfilling prophecy they tried to curse the Jews but they couldn't so get the Jews to sin and then they separate themselves from God and then they can see that bringing the downfalls of the Jews so anyway what in the world these women doing in the middle of the war it must be for the signal prostitution that's why I'll cane hug him in a really shitty baseball differ when this righteous Assad he goes this Jew goes out fights a war and bring this woman home to his wife and as his wife to his life he it's certainly fitting to be discussed or repulsed because of her kilo you knew Akshay but to Russia our goodwill Siddiqui because the rod of weakness wickedness shall not upon the righteous that's the part of the verse I want you to see and that would be found I'll tell you where [Music] that's number eight it Psalms 125 three for the rod of weakness wickedness will not rest on for the light of the righteous who went out to war we already discussed this before they went to war the conv shook the anointed Cowie become mushy off he goes and he says whoever fears being killed in a war whoever built the house engine living again whoever is first year of marriage whoever planted a vineyard but hasn't yet redeemed that the grapes or drank from the wine all you go home who's left we've discussed this last week of the week before it's only the righteous so how would the righteous ever get in the situation where he's gonna bring home a prostitute if I thought what I'm saying it's not gonna happen for the rod of witness witness wickedness so I'm not rest upon the light of the righteous but you know what's gonna happen VM you see after you throw I'll come on it shall raise up rise up your evil inclination nevertheless alkyl pundit well how shocked a bow right it's gonna have your your desire is gonna be for it as Lacock toluca Louisa then you better take her as a wife now what does it mean take her take her for you it says look hah take her for you as a wife meaning for you is extra could as you said take her as a wife what in the world does the work are doing there take her for you as a wife because because I'll tell us the word Lascar means you know how to bring a whole bunch home for your brother and your uncle and your father and your son you only get one for yourself nevertheless you're able to express this on a whole nother level what does it mean to you to you and not your seed what does it mean this is not going to benefit your seat it's all going to benefit you why because the meaty pleasure keep tellin me Dom isn't a maquila car because whatever benefit you can imagine you're gonna get it's only gonna be for you but when you come to have children from her these are gonna be the worst kids you can ever imagine had of her mazak this is going to ruin things because in the end it will be for you the misery Hebrew Killa Sophia la Habana Bonet de lo Mai alia because you know you've been half from her a very bad child and that's why we saw in the beginning of this parsha I mentioned this partially to give the paragraph is talking about the beautiful woman then the next paragraph is talking about what having two wives not a good idea and then the next part is got the rebellious son it's the natural result of allowing your Yeats of Haram allow allow your evil inclinations take a hold of you you better be aware that there are only going to be very negative consequences not just for you but for your family and for the world and we're gonna get to been summer that's right the chef is next few minutes but that ends that paragraph then if you go to verse 12 it says and you should bring her the hay lot about how they talk I'll talk baked s lon you shall bring it into your house but the Hebrew says I'll talk will L talk means mama SH inside meaning inside another room you when you bring a woman like this home you better be ashamed of yourself you know you have guests people come at the door you know the Salvation Army wants to collect the March of Dimes and and they open the door and you got this with a rabbi but I come knocking on the door your neighbors they baked you a cake and you're like doctors woman sitting with her shaved head and the nails growing and she's crying aren't you ashamed of yourself right you just came from from more your the earth the hero and you have this ex-prostitute of a act I said X maybe she's not even the next prostitute and you took a cruise your desires we're so strong that you took this non-jewish woman home and so it says don't leave her in the front entrance of your house bring her inside another room covering your eyes of shame so to speak to suit a naive look a Puscifer why because you're shallow to godly rule us to come back out you don't want to show your evil to people I mean that's just natural okay you're not supposed to show you first of all you're not supposed to have evil but I've we all do but don't be proud of it don't be proud to put a big flag on your hey guys I took a novice Toa our home with me you know and she said to my my living room you want to come and take a look I mean this is a shameful thing and what are you supposed to do gilsu at rocha shave her head with us at super Nana and allowed her her fingernails to grow long the Rambam says have called in your name of a lute Emma this is all aspects of what of mourning irritable azu there's a prime purpose of this scheme than a sham sets up kadai said he the baked avail in order that you your whole house is gonna be depressing right she's sitting in your house in this state of mourning and what's gonna happen you could use curly it's raw yamaha Mesa you're reminding your evil evil inclination about the day of your death as it mentioned we mentioned in its mentioned in the more conditioned by the way if it says that if you see the urinates our eyes trying to overcome it and you should try to overcome it we discussed this you should fight against and if that doesn't work go learn Torah go to the big Madras go to the study on the Torah if that doesn't work say to smile if that doesn't work remember the day of your death after all that stuff if you still in conquer its aura it says dress up in black and put on a black poncho of some sort and go to a different city and then go sit think about it every step of the way is trying to get you to stop even the suggestion of getting dressed in black is all part of more name by the way why did the ultra-orthodox wear black because we're mourning the destruction of beta mag - black represents when you go to a funeral you see the the widow the Black Widow right I don't know what they call it whatever you see everyone dressed in black black represents morning well I perhaps maybe now the agent Hara will run away due to the fact you're reminding it of it today was that and you're involved in a valus remember we saw before we spoke about the verse and lamentations 7 - it's better to go to house of more you see how beneficial it is and now we say here she aimed the coal a little Oh give us air if you're not if you did all that and still your evil inclination didn't leave it's still bothering you who I made the same chick tomato and you're still standing with the two designers for this woman as table Alejo burrata then only then shall you have sexual relations with this woman's only then according to most opinions you find there in the field in the war you're not allow to have relations with her certainly not in public if any of you have to go inside some place and it's consensual but for all practical purposes most opinions are that you do not have first relations until after all this is done and that's why it says at the end and then you will come upon her and have sex with her and she will be to your wife the height Allah hallelujah only then she'll be with you as a wife lauhala body muta only to you it's a beautiful thing at that time at I know Allah and you like each other but only at that point if she is okay now verse 14 says the Valhalla aloha thoughts the ball we're gonna concentrate mainly on the word Valhalla Hebrew hyah is past tense ho that is present tense gia is future tense so it evolved in the only biblical hebrew in regular modern hebrew the love is not going to do this but the love before a verb changes it right if it's a future tense it will change it to past tense if it's past tense to future tense hiatus past the love turns it into future so it will be if lo if you don't desire her so then you get rid of her but Rashi says on that verse this was the first I was looking for before the time when we all right now must be on page three I don't know where it is maybe it's this one here at rosh on this verse yeah I think it is the first the first thing we dealt with right that's the it's number three on the first page and it will be for higher aloha thoughts to bob scripture informs you that you will eventually despise her in hebrew with our suka she soaked up the Sonata that it's it's approximation now that Raj is very strange because the word him it will be if the word in wasn't there it will be that you don't desire that would be that's what that would make sense Rashi says scripture informs you you will then sleep the Spicer and it will be that you don't wanna but that's not what the first sense and it will be if you do not desire so this the statement does the word Valhalla which is past tense turning into future tense so some say that this is teaching that it's vada it's absolute certainty you will come to hater you will come to not to Spicer because everything we're saying the this mixer of iodized any Russian tha's al-shahid is here Co Anissa that through this whole scheme and procedure to finally remind you of your debut death through this morning / obligatorily answer I believe it won't take the form Asma Mela - facet to suka that for sure automatically through this process you will lose the desire for her the Korova sh ma and what makes the most sense when you look at Rashi from the word pasta how thoughts the means right you will desire so those and it will be if you do not desire but it's past tense to read it and it will be if you did not desire Russian of our past tense kiha Aloha because what he should have said but the Turkish said was if it meant and if you do not future tense with the desire in love tickle spot if you do not desire in the future a bomb and I should call topic people in cognition but you know what she knows everything he knows what will be as if you loo cover not set off from a Oz and decode them it's past tense because it already happened God knows and therefore it says Aloha thoughts the ball as if you're saying if you don't as past tense if you had not desired her then you let her go but it's a statement of fact because you did not desire you must leave her go but as if God knows what's gonna happen you will not have desire for her anyone now it's very possible to explain that statement valhalla remember that one word and it was that really had it will be the haaaaa that it's Marsh mushy mean yet behind my yacht tell that whatever it remember it was the terms of the future tensed will be means whatever was will be I know this sounds like really strange right that whatever was is in place of what will be therefore it's not going to change you've lost the desire for and that desire will not return you always hate her does that a tooth that's why when we read Rashi its approximation that you will what that you will eventually despise her meaning Akasha look haughty lota Lee Toland Sina that when you began to place upon her this hatred Kathy alarm that's how it's going to remain you remain despising her and it's not gonna change your mind will not change from hate to love and that's what it means that in the end you will hater meaning it's coming from a share shall i rave in they hug a thinly envious net that you don't want to mix well we called the inve gap and in Vega that are the grapes when compared the Jewish people to grape and the grapes are the best of the fruit here you don't want to mix them with these rotten berries to come off bushes you'll never do that it's indignant enough on Miller's for hire he says this is the correct way to understand the word waha yah remember highest past nest above this future that it's a combination of both what was will be you should've gone wash them in and now we understand the word in cuz in introduces the idea of a doubt will you know if the verse says if you don't desire which means we don't know if you desire but no we're saying that word is ignored once you understand the hiya what was is and therefore how fast is past tense you you didn't desire what wasn't you didn't desire it'll continue you won't desire her and he says this explains it very well now we're getting into the vents or more the wayward and rebellious son which we actually did this morning a little bit and I think that would that only benefit everyone to hear it so at first 18 it says if a man will have a wayward and rebellious son again I want to stress you go into war and you you let yourself go and you want to take this girl home this is the result if you marry her and have children so been sir Amara the the good morning Saint Headroom tells us lo hi-yah the love you hear now that we have a little bit of Hebrew me know what the word hi-yah means and we know what the word means I'll translate it anyway and beg wayward and rebellious son never was and never will be and he was a great introduction we just read before so why doesn't why is it written in the Torah if the Torah tells us that you know what to do right the two parents have to take him to court and eventually stone in if he's convicted and I'll tell you the truth there's a lot of very concise rules that apply and if those conditions are not met he's not considered this type of child that must be killed of course there are bad kids there are kids that are wild and rambunctious and not bad they might steal wide they might still meet doesn't mean that they're really bad but the tour is telling us to kill this child while he's still innocent because he's not yet bar-mitzvah which is very strange in its own because he's not obligated in the eyes of of heaven or even in a civil court for that matter right anything in earthly court will not try a child under the age of 13 get this as an exception and believe it or not if anybody's is a puberty right now and they're anywhere between the age of 13 and 19 and 11 months and 29 days you should know that even in heaven you may be in this world if you feel like you you do other sins you and your court obviously and even if you're not but if you're caught you you are handled by a court and but if you're not quite and only Ashim knows the chef has tremendous mercy on those who are still developing a person is not judged in heaven until the age of 20 okay show me so he created us he knows the way we are we're developing human beings so he's got a lot of mercy but if you get you get caught in this world you you go to court and the court convicted okay so this child is a very unusual thing but it tells us it never was and it never will be so why is it written in the Torah one of the answers is in order to receive the award just for learning but is that enough is that really what it's about nevertheless it says that it's we're obligated to give a further explanation the comic called kala Lena Kovac veered of our set we need to explain why is it they're just learning this there's great reward reward in the next room and reward in this room so why does the tourists say something that doesn't ever even happen also one should contemplate and meditate from what it says in our verse when I say our verse I have to open up my Columbus which they don't have a copy so we are going right it says look at 21 all the men of the city shall Pelt him with stones and he shall die and you shall remove remove the evil from the myths and this is what I want to point out and all Israel should hear and they shall fear so in Hebrew it says the co yes Rajesh mu the Euro all of Israel should fear but if you go to at that point yet now maybe I'll be jumping around but if you go to chapter 17 verse 13 this is talking about the rebellious elder okay we're not going to go deep into the whole concept but just look at the last verse number 13 in number 13 of chapter 17 it says the entire nation this is after we kill a rebellious kid let's number 12 and that man that will act with willfulness not listening to the Cowan who stands there to serve Hashem your God were to the judge that man shall die and you shall destroy the evil from among Israel the entire nation shall listen in fear now we saw over here all of Israel in our partial they shall hear in the shell theater overhears as the entire nation will hear and fear but then this additional verse and they shall not act willfully anymore which is not mentioned over here by the wayward and rebellious son now that we have that pointed out we'll go back into the text first question he wants to know is why is this statement of all Israel so listen and fear it's it's more pronounced it's explained here more than any other other mitzvot except for the one we just mentioned in the the rebellious elder but you don't really see that by the other 613 mitzvahs that there's some kind of warning in that all of Israel here fear and not only that it also says over there by the rebellious elder law Diaz Eden Oh which means then they shall not act willfully any more when they see him being pelted or killed with rocks right like it says like it says a parcel shelf team it's not the same so he exists perhaps the reasons like this since the Ben saw Remora been so rare amore which means a rebellious son it never was and never will be so low Nicola parsha that's why the parsha does not written team that then she's new a bunny video it the only reason it was written so that the children themselves should become aware of this and they should fear and that not act like this low Asuka d'ivoire said they should behave themselves and not act in such a willful and rebellious way and when it says Kolya straw you should all of this also here so that means they should hear this parsha and all the laws concerning what's written in it and then the children will smooth will will learn and fear from becoming rebellious in the eyes of the octave by you know they have a mitzvah to honor their parents they shouldn't go against that therefore it doesn't say so that they shall not act willfully anymore because remember it never happened so the word owed in hebrew law Yazeed rune old ode means more okay murder abdullah and nasa Kivar if you say more it reflects on something that already happened that it won't happen again Oh another time say no it's not possible because the the whole idea of events or more the rebellious son know how you divine it never happened the lone it's of partial Zoo the whole reason the charges written according to him right now was only by appealing Musa Fahad are bunny in order to place a healthy fear on the children themselves however this proves to be a difficulty why because it says all of this our herd shouldn't have said all the children heard if we want the message to get to the children and it's set up for the children then tell me all the children heard but it says of all Israel heard so it must be for all Israel not just for the children teacher laqad Zeki mother bunny according to the first explanation it was only for the sons so why does it say all with Israel so in the Zohar it explains why it says all of Israel but however the clean car is not going to go into that explanation but he says like this it's obviously necessary because even according to the simple explanation if there's a need to give ethical teachings to give Musa rebuked to all of Israel this wanders rebuked why because the Jews are called note the Jews are called children of the Living God we're called bunny little high so there is to be concerned that perhaps she is Mikasa that the Jewish people will rely on this we mean kind of like this man he ain't gonna hurt me I'm blessed no one second maybe they'll say you know after the fact that we're called children that we are children they are shinnok nobody but in came vada in abundance sorry if we ourselves a rebellious law repeat oven bianco we know the general rule that God will not see he will overlook the sinning Jacob Yaakov a lab because he's so much mercy karate Bob our bunny like a father has mercy on his children and guess what we're gonna say the God is going to overlook just like a father overlooks the the the problems of his children and you know what else we're gonna say God is such a flat rod he's such an overlooker he's not going to be so concerned about my since you know Moses says to the Jewish people if you look in Deuteronomy 30 to 5 that's on page 4 number 11 it's only the first part and it is his children's defect that's the part destruction is not his it is his children's defect right why we punished because of what we do wrong there's reward and Punishment one of the 13 principles of our faith we believe in reward and Punishment just a fact so bunny mumma that the children replenished meaning to say masha carbon AUVs Oh mom just like they are called his children and they're still right even if their blemish distill his children kisaku out there but also there's cabel's that the Jewish people might think they can rely on the fact they have this very very unique and special relationship and do all kinds of sins bacha bazi am shallow Union sorrow be admitted in and they think wrongfully the their so assured that their father will not come down against them with a judgment I think us the Torah that's why the Torah writes this judgment this did omit that that I had end in a mess that even a father is obligated to bring his child to court and to hand them over to be killed but are you this a issue of para partial Zucco Israel and through this all of Israel is gonna listen the Euromaster sham and they will have the proper healthy fear of God and know they can just do whatever they want below you some new club master car buddy but not to rely on the fact that their club bunny Kagame densha LaMotta just like the basedon in this world is obligated the father's obligated to handle son to the bee sting so to the court above God will judge there will be a judgment the Jewish people should not think just because we the special relationship abba-abba-abba no he's a shekel okay no Hashem is the Abba Father he's the God of mercy meaning that the the carrot that's the name that describes the captor mercy but he's our God he's also the God of judgment and we must not forget that okay so I do hear a lot of our friends calling ABBA yes we do pray that we have that relationship but we have to relate to a Shem as your cave of K which is all inclusive the highest realms and we're supposed to say the name when we pray anyway hide oh my we already saw that Moses asked what is your name what should I tell them and he says this is my name forever it's you came up case my name's forever all lay olam with the love is forever and that's how your book will translate it but it really means Lala my name is hidden and but it's it's a remembrance God says this is how you should remember my name meaning when we say the name of God as odd though 9 we think of him as merciful but we live in a world where not everything is so pleasant and we have to know that being it comes from the shell even those things that seemed to be quite unpleasant even the name I don't 9 the dollar noon in the middle is the name of judgment dim the olive oyl's represents 26 because you've evolved into goods it's 26 the Olive mouth always represents one one God but the year at the end of the night also represents the you cave of cake we said when we talked about the Shema that here o Israel the Lord you came of K is our God but not of the Gentiles of course he's one he's went to us and how do I know in the future because he's our guy he's LK no he's both but in the end everyone the whole world will recognize him as you keep of K I want to wish everyone a great Javas [Music]