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Heat. Heat.
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I am so glad for you, for me, for
everybody that the Ro Colo, Rabbi Travis
invited me here. Why? It would be such a
shame for all of you to get to go to
Shivuos and not know what happened to
Ma and to not know what happened the
next year, what her parents
did. Maybe you'd like me to explain.
Okay. What happened? Mala's little girl
and her whole childhood she heard her
parents talk about
Disneyland and they they oh this ride
and that ride. They were so excited and
finally Marco's becoming basitzvah. So
the parents said we're going to take you
to
Disneyland. And she was so
excited. But they drive up to the park.
By the way, I did a little um research
like some eun on Disneyland. It's 86
miles now. Can you believe that? 86
miles. And there's like something like
186 attractions. Disneyland. That's uh
bearish. Okay. So, the father comes in,
he dries up, and the the guy says, you
know, knocks on the window. He says,
"Would you like a map? Would you like a
map of the park?" "No, no, I've been
here before. I've been here for years."
So, it gets in. The parents get in. By
the way, they kind of came a little late
and they just they rushed through the
thing. They just rushed through the park
and and Mala wanted to go to certain
things. They weren't able to do it. I It
was such a haval. So they looked, you
know, when they got back in the car,
they looked in the rearview mirror. Ma
was crying. Ma's mom is crying. And the
parents feel obviously horrible. You
know, they to them it wasn't so special.
They'd been to Disneyland so many times
and they rushed through. They didn't
have a map. It was just it was really
sad. So what did they do? You know, they
took it to heart. They took Muser next
year. They got the map. The father
actually plotted out what we're going to
do when we get to this location. 86
miles. They did real work. Of course,
Mala was delighted. Okay. What's the
Nimshaw? Who's
mala? We all have a
mala. In cohelis raba, the messiah sharm
brings that the nishama is a princess.
It's a princess in a chorus villager.
Ysef in the shook body. Okay, it's a
princess and okay so that's Mala. Mala
is your nishama. And what does the
messiah sh say? Your nishama craves
mitzvos. It loves them. Okay. What
happened? So, what was uh the Disneyland
trip? A moade. A moade has 86 million
miles of depth and beauty. It it I mean,
I'm embarrassed to compare a moade to
Disneyland. But, okay. But for a
12-year-old kid, you get the point. A
moade is mamish an amusement park for
the nama. Now, if you go into it and you
rush through it, right, Mala will be
sobbing. You don't want Mala to be
crying, right? So, you need a map and
you need to know what to do when you get
to the locations. I'm I'm telling you
this so important. What I'm By the way,
just I you know, I used to practice
hypnosis and I I did it when I was young
and I actually had I was kind of skilled
at it. So I would hypnotize all the guys
in my uh camp, you know, like they you
could tell a person like, "Hold your
hand up like this." So I It was middle
of the night and there's like 14 people
like
this. It was very I was pretty good at
hypnotizing. Now, uh the the hypnotist
always has to tell you that, you know,
I'm about to hypnotize you. Don't worry,
you won't do anything you won't do in
your in your waking. That's really
important.
Okay? If you're willing, I'm about to
coonotize you. Okay? Yeah. But I just
want to warn you. I hope you'll be doing
what you haven't been doing. Okay? You
know, it's funny because I was co I had
a guy at my shabas table and you know,
the one guy knew Kavana mitzvah and the
other didn't he was a new guy and he was
like eating it up. You know, I was I was
trying to coatize him. You know, you
know that that sandwich there, what etc.
So the guy looks at me, he says, points
at the new guy. He goes, "He's your
hus." I said, "No, he's not. He's my
litfuck. I him." So we're going to talk
more about that in a second, but now
let's go to Shabuos. Okay, the map
there's where when you're driving in,
it's Arab Shuos, right? There's mitzvah
of Kana Cov Yum. There's I believe tell
me if I'm wrong rabbi maybe don't no I'm
kidding uh the the where do we learn out
on egg and co for by shabas where's
what's the source of that
yeshia that means mitzvah excellent
mitzvah kab kabala which the shanar says
isa so you're not just buying things you
know the the colas and the drinks and
going to the mikvah she dips
cheesecake schwarma. You're not just
buying those things. You have a chance.
M would be delighted if you have kavana
for coveted yumtove and on a yumtove.
Okay, so remember when you're driving up
to the park that's aryumtove. Now we get
in there, right? So what happens when
you go into yumtove? What would mala
like you to have kavana
for? Anybody?
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not not doing. Okay. I believe it's in
an
aosa by by even by by yum. Oh, maybe
that's pesak. But anyhow, she says yum
to she'll be thrilled. She'll be
thrilled. Okay. And that's you know
you're doing it anyhow. I don't know
anyone watching in this room anywhere
who's going to flicking on lights and
you know being mahalto god forbid. So
bring her some delight. Stop and have in
mind. I'm
a you hear that? Okay. What's the next
attraction? You tell me.
Kdish.
Kdeshy. And now let's I'm just giving
you these are just some of the
attractions. And by the way, um I
learned this from my Revy here. Um, if
you would like a treasure map to Shuos,
please email me at
rabbiwegbritegmail.com. My daughter
created a beautiful uh map. Okay, having
said that, so kish, what are you going
to just recite the words? What what else
accompanies the
kdish? A cose of wine, right? You're
gonna have wine. All right.
What what what would Mala like you to
think about in addition to the there's a
rebundant to zakuan right to do kdish
with wine. What else would Mala like you
to think about? What are mitzvah when
you drink that wine on
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yung? Excellent. And if you sing that if
you sing besides if you feel joy you
also
have that's one thing but you also
theidum says when you sing
miros if you love someone you'll sing to
them do you hear that all right that's
just the beginning of the journey your
clothes there's a mitzvah
accraish mikraish is uh fulfilled by
doining. You do this, right? Everyone's
going to go to schol and doin, but you
it's a kufia. You're do you're joining
together and you're domining uh and
you're wearing nice clothes and you're
eating nice food every second if you
have in mind just you can just have it
nice what just and nicer than cha is
that because of visa maka I think all
right but beautiful so you hear just
bring her delight okay now I mentioned
this idea of covenatizing etc so I want
to add something there's there's a
secret I have to tell you Okay, if you
fulfill if you hit all the marks on the
on the map of Shivuos, I you're I
promise you Mal will be delighted.
However, you want to make her more
happy. Okay, here's a secret about kav
mitzvos. It It wakes you up. It brings
you into the moment and it's already
that feels great. Oh yeah, I'm doing
that. And that's a mitzvah. Woo, that's
great. But that that becomes wrote
also if you just go
uh it can become wrote. Okay. So this is
where I told you I'm not I love I love
but I'm a lit I'm a liter.
Okay. We need to do the following. If
you really want to make mala
happy,
mitzvotus, you have to do
mitzvotus. Yeah. There's no wrestlers
here that think that's funny.
Oh, okay. Oh, there is. Okay. Thank god.
We're all wrestlers. Oh, yeah. Exactly.
So, they do his photos and that it's I
wish I had that personal development,
but we're doing mitzvot. What does that
mean? You say,
"Wow, Shenm wants me
behos, right? Why?" So, please see Rabbi
Travis's about uh Sarasm about a yosph.
But just think about why does Hashem ask
me to do this mitzvah? If you reflect,
you connect. You hear? So, this is my
there's more. I just covered a little
bit, but let's let's make her delighted.
It's for real. This is you know the the
psychology they talk about concept
called inner child maybe yes maybe no
it's maybe a good idea like an
abstraction we have this is a midris
cohelis raa m we have a mala inside we
have a princess and she longs for
mitzvah and the vas to hashem okay so
any I want to thank uh uh rabbi for the
sch of learning with him to be with this
incredible
uh Kabura of future postkim and thank
the listeners of yan and any time for
joining us hag.
You
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my birthday
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my sh
My God.
