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it's
okay welcome everybody uh like to
welcome the members of the klm
foundation kavanagh le mitzvas and the
listeners of ebony uh rabbi wake bright
is going to address us in a minute with
a brief hespered for the later of hayam
kanievsky uh with a few uh practical
applications and practical approach for
us all
so you should have in mind in this brief
uh shir this should be aliyah nishmas
for
i'll give you his name it's
miriah
then yakov
israel
rabbi wegbach you can join us when
you're ready
thanks
thank you paris
raven kanyeski
did so much for all of us
and i'm including anyone who's
listening to this shearer
or is going to listen to this class
he did so much for all of us
first of all
practically every observant
torah observant person i know
has at one time
uh requested from this
great great man
i'd like to refer to him
and this is from
observation and a lot of uh hearing of
credible great people themselves
that
we they had a privilege to see amalek in
an angel in human garb
that's what he was if you will
now
so i know many people who either uh
received a blessing from him
uh for all sorts of things you know
barren people can't have children
illness of course uh
we constantly in the yeshiva sent him
requests
for the uh
um healing of people in very difficult
situations
people got blessings he prayed for
people
and he gave such uh let's put it sagely
advice
to so many people
so
there are many direct recipients and
benefactors of rafael
but i want to
suggest
based on the talmud and other sources
that
a person like this
is so aligned with hashem
the creator's intentions for mankind
he is so much um
if you will
bringing pleasure and joy
uh
to the creator of the world that the
entire world
is a recipient
was a recipient which is so tragic that
i have to say was
everyone was a recipient
of the blessing that came into the world
in his
merits of the protection
from harm that came into the world in
his merits
so
i think tonight
it's time to reciprocate as best as we
can
let's give back to the one who gave so
much to all of us
and
that's what we'll do right now is
i want to discuss the myths involved in
listening to this discussion to this
year to this
page slash eulogy what are the mitzvahs
involved
and also
what misses are involved if we improve
ourselves
as a result of this man of discovery of
this man's contribution
to the world
so
as you all
know those who have been involved with
klm either through yibbenae or the klm
foundation
um
we are focusing on something the whole
world
uh whole world much of the world has
begun to recognize the value of
mindfulness
of being aware of what's taking place in
the moment
it's a
as i've mentioned it's even being taught
in business schools
they're realizing that um a manager's
success
is not just based on making good moves
but actually being aware of his own
behavior
and being conscious of what he's doing
right it's a very wonderful development
because it can improve character etc
there's a lot to be said for this focus
on being aware of what's taking place
when it comes to the torah and mitzvas
it goes to another dimension that's just
unbelievable
when we become aware
of the mitzvah we're about to do
besides we actually remember a mitzvah
means that something that hashem the
creator has
told us to do
so when we become aware
and have it align our intentions to do
it before we do it
for sure we get a bond with hashem
but it creates so much merits so much
more merit than just doing the mitzvahs
unconsciously
so
that's what we want to do this is a way
by by us having forethought and
intention
in this moment
while listening to this
we are bringing merits to
rev
joseph hayan
ben
israel
and
we must begin like this and that is
that any time is very important
principle
anytime you do a myth the missus can
have great fruits for many people you're
yourself and others but we always our
initial intention in doing a mitzvah is
to fulfill the will of our creator the
kindness was bori
and then we can tack on may in the merit
of this may it heal this person it may
help this person so let's begin that way
have in mind that the misses we are
doing tonight are primarily to fulfill
the intentions of our creator and also
for the ilia
let's get started
by this we are we're going to begin with
the myth of learning torah have in mind
you're doing the mitzvah of learning
torah number one because we will bring
torah principles into this eulogy number
one
but
when a torah scholar and of such
great proportions an exotic a righteous
man of such great proportion
passes away
the eulogy the hespe takes on another
level there are even more misses
involved and i want to focus on that not
general mitzvahs of a hesp
and so let's discuss
what um the first one i want to discuss
is and you should have this in mind
immediately
and that is
uh
hashem your god
now
people
don't always uh are not always aware of
the fact that yira is not just fear of
consequences
it's includes the mitzvah of reverence
having reference
and intense
respect and all for hashem
now rabbi akiva taught us that the verse
says
hashem
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tyra has a fear
and there's this little prone i don't
even know what's conjunction preposition
in the word review says that includes
torah scholars
so by by by honoring him
by during the week of his shiva by
listening to
um his
the
attending listening to
uh discussions of his greatness you are
showing respect to hashem
uh through your respect for this great
torah scholar
you're showing reverence and respect so
have that in mind for this beloved man
that has left us
that's number one
number two
by gathering together
and speaking of this man's um dedication
and purity and kindness so what we are
doing is making a kiddush hashem
we're sanctifying we're making hashem
look good by seeing what a person can
accomplish
and the relationship they can achieve
so that's uh kiddish hashem and also
obviously you're showing your love when
when people get a higher view
of of what a torah scholar is and who he
is and what he does and it's a positive
one
you're making hashem look good and
you're showing you love hashem okay
that's the it brings him so much
if you will
joy so that's the second mensa so by the
way
in our ensuing classes in klm i intend
to not
overwhelm you with the
uh universe of misfa's that are often
involved with single actions i tend to
break them down one by one that's why
i'm bleeding that or intending to do but
tonight i you again all you have to do
is follow along with me and have that
intention i want to create a list
of the these mitzvahs and of course if
you're interested in a copy a written
copy of the myth is involved please
email me so let's continue so we have
years hashem in terms of reverence and
respect we have kiddush hashem
sanctifying hashem and loving hashem
and now
when we listen to this
okay
and we have in mind elevating his soul
ilya nishmas by attending to this by
doing these mitzvahs but most
importantly
by letting him be the catalyst of our
improving ourselves
that's
called kindness tested but it's a
special hesitant hesita ms which is um
true kindness which means when you give
to another person you do something for
them and they can't reciprocate
so now that
uh refinement is in the next world
he cannot reciprocate
to the kindness we're doing for him in
any
material way so we are doing that so i
have in mind the midst of kindness and
the myth of emulating hashem's divine
qualities because hashem is showering us
with kindness and we cannot truly
reciprocate
okay
those are the myths we're doing i'm
going to review one more time have them
in mind
and then i want to tell you just a
couple brief stories
so
first of all we are doing a showing
reverence for hashem himself by revering
the torah scholar
secondly we're both sanctifying and
showing love of hashem
by this discussion
and we're doing kindness for the
departed uh the highest level kindness
which is a pure kindness where you're
not um trying to receive anything in
return
now for the hespaid now that we've done
this okay
so the first thing i want to share with
you
uh maybe
i uh yeah i need to i need to give you
backdrop of course
um you know the average person
it takes them uh you know the dathioni
it takes them uh
seven years to go through the the talmud
now there's two sets of talmud there's
the talmud bob lee and the talmud your
shami which is also very long the talmud
yoshami is learned by fewer people rev
haim went through both of these
you know seven year projects
every year in a single year
he learned all the revealed parts of the
hidden parts of the torah the midrashing
etc etc etc okay so
he
uh needless to say
he was
incredibly knowledgeable
in torah and when he finished those
uh i'm not gonna i'm not even getting to
his public service when he finished the
that regular learning uh
uh schedule
then he wrote books about very
sophisticated and subtle and complicated
things
okay so we're talking about something on
a great level let's add to this that by
the uh that let's add to this that
people great taurus scholars would wait
in line would go to the neighborhood uh
sometimes fly to uh eric's
and wait in line to ask them their
questions okay
so with that in mind rev reuben from
keyless peninsula and harnoff told the
following uh story uh he said like this
ref hayam
was
having uh was trying to
work out very subtle difficult
aspects of a mitzvah called
kiddushahodish sanctifying the moon and
uh
he was if someone told him that there
was
a
um
you know a married taurus scholar who
had written a book about this myth of
kid of shahodas he lived and curious
safer
which is i'm going to say
i'm guessing an hour away by bus or even
by car it's it's a drive it's a drive so
replying says i want to drive to this
rep this rabbi discussed this mitzvah
with him
the the shamish is
his assistant looks at me goes are you
kidding
he says you're the greatest star sparrow
in the world he should come to you just
invite him to come see you we'll be very
flattered
so he says no um he says no i'm going to
go to him so if hyun finds out where he
lives
and he knocks it imagine the greatest
taurus scholar in the world knocking on
your door so knocks on his door and his
wife says well he's not he's in the
you know colo he's studying he's not in
the house so what happens he he goes
from the house to the cola
to consult with him and discuss this
in one word
unspeakable humility you hear this he
traveled to him that if you know the
context that's just absolutely
unbelievable so
lesson number one is
he was the it's very similar to moshe
vayner moshe robeno was the greatest
taurus scholar of all time greatest
prophet all time yeah he was known as to
be incredibly humble
so it says in perce
who is a wise person
and the paris system explains it's not
saying who is
the answer isn't the guy who knows the
most right it's one willing to learn
from anyone even someone who is
apparently is not as wise as you are
right so the question is you want to
look wise or be wise so
without this let's emulate refine
and
go ahead you know everyone loves
discussing the parsha i'm just giving
you one example everyone was discussing
it how about this ask somebody ask one
of your children ask someone who you
maybe knows has studied lester than you
ask them what they think about it right
we can immediately implement that so if
you do that you're doing great kindness
okay the second story i want to tell you
is uh
uh this will probably be the last one
the second story is like this uh
thank god uh
i have a little bit of protection uh uh
in terms of time i i discovered about
eight ten years ago that my
grandfather's first cousin
uh
married into the hosnicis family the
great hazan ish and so did refine
you know the father mary in there so i
found out i had this nice big uh
family
of very distinguished people in the
neighborhood one of them is actually is
he's now the mayor benedict rubenstein
so he was the liaison and secretary for
all the great torah scholars there
and so
uh there's usually people would rush uh
would take advantage during the holidays
of pesach and sulcus in the intermediate
days
they would line up to get blessings and
again all sorts of goodness from
replying
so
my my uh
my relative this the mayor so he my son
wanted to real to see rip high-end uh
and that was a great trip to take so we
went to said receiving but he wanted to
do a kindness to us my this rubenstein
so he didn't put us in that line that
everyone waited for it right which i've
waited in you know more than once
he actually took us into the house
into this room where raphaim learns
torah
and
we um he knocks he decides he knocks on
the door and he comes in myself
this rabbi and my son
and we walk into the room and i want to
describe what it looked like
um so rev hayam it has a huge laminated
copy of the mishnais
and i hope i can adjust the camera so
you can see this but he basically i'll
try to raise it up he's like this yeah i
think he had his glasses off too he's
like this
and we'd walked into the room the door
opens there's a sound people walked into
the room
and for a couple minutes
we just stood there and he had no idea
there were it was anybody else in the
room
he was so completely immersed
in his study completely connected that
he didn't even know we're there and then
reruden sings excuse me this is that he
looks up and he sees us okay
now what can we learn from that how can
we apply that i want to make two points
i think it's two
number one
what uh first of all complete complete
immersion
so we can try as follows that when
you're studying torah
try to remove distractions even it can
be a couple of minutes right even a
couple minutes where no one can reach
you well okay except there's emergencies
but whatever you turn off the
the internet chatter you turn up things
and you just concentrate right that is
so precious when you
when you put that kind of focus into it
that's what he was a master of that so
that's one another lesson is let's take
some torah learning and then
uh so utterly immersed
that uh
we're just not distracted even if for a
couple moments that would be big but the
other thing is
what was he learning
he was learning something that he's
probably been over
um
tens of thousands of times
but as we know you know the torah is not
in a newspaper
it's divine it has divine depth
and the rabbis the talmud itself tells
us
that if you just learn a piece of torah
and just move on to the next piece and
you don't review you have done the hard
work because sometimes tara is
complicated of breaking the ground but
you didn't put the seeds in and get
you're not going to bear fruits right so
think about this mishnais is the most
basic part of the oral law and he's
going over with such intensity he
doesn't even know people are there
so
let's this year
in his
again let's reciprocate to refine let's
emulate him let him be the catalyst of
our good deeds so how about that let's
review things that we've learned let's
give
give credit to the divine depth there
and go over what you've learned already
last last one and we're done
it's very famous that you know someone
like this is operating a very high level
he's handling very complex
decisions uh of torah and also welfare
people he could be busy enough to to
really say
um let me deal with the elites and let
me just learn tara let me just sit in
this room and learn torah but no
he he said hours
hours
i think it was two hours at least one
hour a day
just to receive the public anyone i
heard one secular professor
here in israel say you know we need
someone like this who's willing to
someone such a high level is willing to
take in and greet and spend time with
anyone who needs them for any reason
so
what we see from this is is great a
torah scholar as he was as important as
his learning was to protect the world
and bring blessing in the world he set
time for others he closed the book and
just was there for people
so we know how busy we get and we
certainly
have to be
prioritizing and thinking of our time
but we can never treat people like that
look
look at what he did look at who he was
and what he did
so i just want to review
the as follows that we we've discussed
the mitzvahs that you get by listening
to this class and the misses you get by
trying to implement what he what he did
and i just wanted you know appeal to you
first of all i encourage you to please
pass this class around because the more
people who
listen to the class have in mind these
mitzvahs and trying to emulate him the
more we get to reciprocate to someone
who has given so much to us that we
can't we will never be able to fathom so
please god this should be an elias in
the summer elevate his soul and we
should can we should
make the world
a a better place as a result of this
man's contribution to us
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