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Wiping a Tear Tisha B'Av 2010
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I would like to speak of the importance
the project
Inspire theion of has become a word that
people are organizations are trying to
bring people closer
to but we have to realize it's not a MIT
of
organization every person every is to be
mention we live in very turmoil times
troubl times what do we learn from that
we learn from that as follows the is
considered like and in you can
differentiate this limb from another
limb and this is how we have to consider
a Brethren clly oil clly oil there so
United it's like one goof like one goof
he can't depart you can't take him apart
this is how we have to care about our
Brethren that's one goof the project
Inspire is something that we have to
be because it teaches us that we can
be wherever they are whatever we do
invite someone for a chabas speak to
someone nicely friendly that brings us
together and bringing us together can we
imagine a father that he says that
children are apart how happy he is when
children get together how happy the
father is and this is our Father in
heaven in that that we will get together
more and care for one
another for the last 2,000 years we have
been crying we have been crying for the
mdash we've been crying for the violent
Slaughter of millions of Jews we've been
crying for the forced expulsions of
entire Jewish communities now one would
have thought after 2 years the crying
would somehow come to an end and yet we
still find ourselves crying we are
crying over anti-Semitism not of the
1930s in Warsaw and Berlin but we are
crying over the anti-Semitism that
sweeps throughout our American
University system turning some American
Jewish students into self-hating Jews
we're crying for the loss of the best
and brightest in our Jewish communities
for the Youth who are being lost not to
the armies of the Zars but to the Mean
Streets of their own Comm communities we
are crying for the assimilation and
intermarriage of millions of Jews who
forsake the time tested values of Torah
for the abyss of meaningless
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assimilation can a lunatic State like
Israel be trusted so you see our support
for Israel as having in some way did
cause 9/11 Israel had been harvesting
organs from slain bodies including
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Palestinians four men arrested in an
undercover FBI stting and charged with a
plot to blow up two synagogues in the
Bronx but I don't think 6 million Jews
were
gased authorities in California are
urging Jewish schools and temples to
stay alert following a shooting at a
synagogue in
La tell them to get the hell out of
palde where should they go what should
they do they go home where's the Home
Poland so the Germany
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during the darkest of time the T tells
us that will redeem
us will return us from the terrible Gull
will collect us from among all the
nations point
out it would have been appropriate to
say that will return us and yet the T
says V H will return because himself is
in the Gus with us as we cry during this
long AB bitter
Gus cries with us in fact the highest
form of mourning according to
m is to cry for the of is to cry for the
fact that is crying with us are we in
fact doomed to repeat this entire
process again next year or might there
be some way that we could create a
change that would affect the future of
the Je people that would break the
pattern that's been established over
2,000-year timeline that could rebuild
the B mikdash and in the process wipe
away a
tear over the next few moments we're
going to meet some seemingly ordinary
people who have accomplished
extraordinary things and they did this
by realizing that it was sin that
brought the B mdash down these people
listening to the same news stories that
you and I do have concluded that these
are in fact powerful messages from
urging us to rebuild the bash
through
through and through taking
responsibility for cloud
Israel you know you have all these
Israelis in the mall who don't have any
connection to the Jewish Community
around them they're away from home
seeing these Jews every day so
disconnected from Torah so disconnected
from their
Judaism really really pained me there
were probably a good 2,000 students who
weren't involved in Jewish life at all
weren't weren't part of that Vibrant
Community weren't celebrating Shabbat um
weren't connected to Judaism and I have
lived in neighborhoods where you know
your your next door neighbor people on
the street don't want anything to do
with yish kite I beg thinking what's
going on with the yish nation and it
really pained me and I thought someone
has to do it
many people erroneously think that cirv
could only happened under carefully
supervised conditions and yet we're
going to find that cir can happen in the
most unlikely of places we're going to
look in on Jeremy staman as he literally
goes shopping for
kiru I'm Jeremy staman my wife KH and I
have been living in Baltimore for the
last 20 years I'm a graphic designer and
my wife is an ultrasound technician and
we have uh two sons one of the things
that had a profound impact on us was
last year's project Inspire video One
Soul you know says
and he says you go down the street and
you see a guy drowning you're going to
go in and save him you don't know how to
swim poor guy he drowns but if every day
you go and you see people
drowning then you have an obligation to
learn how to
swim you couldn't help but leave that
movie wanting to do something and trying
to figure out what you can do shortly
thereafter my wife KH had the idea you
know you have all these Israelis in the
mall who don't have any connection to
the Jewish Community around them they're
away from
home why don't we try and get them to
join us for rashishana to our sh to our
home we can begin to make a connection
with them around that time I had seen a
flyer project Inspire had a question and
answer uh phone conference call with
Rabbi milstein I figured out well I'll
go on the conference call and I'll ask
if anyone has any advice on how to be
marar of Israelis how to speak to them
how to deal with them so I asked the
question on the call and sure enough
someone else who was on that phone call
that day from Minneapolis answered the
question he said
well I go to the Mall of America every
Thursday night with hot cougle and I
always end up with Israelis at my table
Friday night I said ah behold the power
of cougle my wife KH feed will bring
kalas we'll bring cougles We'll go to
the mall Thursday night Friday we'll
give out some food we'll make some
connections with these Israelis there
they were very receptive especially the
first day when I came with my credit
card in hand they were glad to sell me
Cosmetics which probably were half a
month mortgage uh for the nail polish
and in the process I we started I
started shooing with them and we started
making a connection and I gave them the
kalas and cougle and when I showed up
the next week they remembered
me so every Thursday night Friday we
pack up our bags with fresh cougles and
kalas head off to the mall and we make
our rounds still hadn't succeeded in
getting them to our home for a chabas so
we made up a nice invitation I'm a
graphic designer so we had the uh assets
of the studio at work and uh we made up
a nice invitation in Hebrew inviting
them to our home for a party in our Suka
we started talking it up to them and we
told them it would be from 9: to 11:00
p.m. I didn't want to scare them I
didn't want them to think they were
going to be stuck at our house for 5
hours I wanted to make it friendly and
approachable one by one we went to the
different booths and we told them what
we were planning we gave out the
invitation they seemed really interested
I guessed that we were going to have
between somewhere between 10 and 25
people coming to the Suka so many of
them said that yes we want to come we
want to come we're going to be there and
sure enough Friday night one by one they
filed in the door the conversation was
great the camaraderie was
great they loved making Kish and hamotzi
and washing we sang I prepared at VOR
over sukus when we did go go with the
Lula and esrog we had some wonderful
experiences then too again no pressure
we asked would you like to take the Lula
and esrog some people said yes some
people said no but I asked one of the
women why don't you want to do it and
she said sheepishly in Hebrew I don't
really know how to do
it I was like oh my gosh all these days
I've been coming and I and and I didn't
give her the opportunity to do it
because I didn't offer to help her with
it and my wife
swooped in and helped her say the Braha
and so on that last day of hos Raba of
last sukus she was able for the first
time to make a braa on the lul of anr
it's now almost a year that we've been
doing this and almost without fail every
week we're in the mall there are so many
Jews out there that want to make that
connection they're waiting for this
they're waiting for us to stretch out
our hands so that they can grasp on they
may be a little reluctant at first
but they really want
it what could be more ordinary in hum
drum than going to work we're going to
meet a gentleman who turned his daily
commute to work on the train into an
opportunity to reach Jews who were
simply
unreachable my name is Daniel Hadar we
live in Silver Spring Maryland in the
Woodside community near the Metro I work
as an intellectual property attorney for
the United States Postal Service inhouse
I do stamps and fun things like that I
walk to the Metro every day and I take
the metro into my office uh where it
takes me pretty much right into where I
work being on the Metro every single day
I realize that you have a tremendous
opportunity to meet people you're I'm on
the Metro for about 25 minutes heading
straight to work and uh it's a place
where there's some quiet time but
there's also a lot of action and bustle
um and I start to meet Jewish people
people start to uh Bagel me some people
would uh come over and say you know
shabbat shalom it's my father's yite
things are going on and I recognize this
is really an opportunity to catch these
people and engage them in a more serious
fashion seeing these Jews every day so
disconnected from Tor so disconnected
from their Judaism really really pained
me and I came to a point where I said
you know what I can do something about
this it was almost like a metaphor that
this was the train to Nowhere they were
on a train to nowhere um it was time for
me to say I need to step out of my
comfort zone I can do this and I did I
tried and I did and by connecting with
them it really made a difference once I
realize that someone's Jewish I'll come
over say why don't you come to my house
for Shabbat before they can even turn
around I'll go ahead and just introduce
myself uh as daniar I work here at the
postal service and we have a lot of
people for Shabbat if you give me your
email I'll send you an invite 90% of the
time uh people
and people accept the invitation and
people will give me their email and when
I email them they will respond at first
they're a little bit timid and then when
I when I when I say you know what we're
having a bunch of people over they get a
little bit more comfortable and then
when they say can I bring a friend I say
sure that gets them a little bit more of
a comfort level and they're still a
little bit you know worried nervous to
go to this person's house they have no
idea this person is but as soon as they
come into the house and they see the
kids and they see more people and they
see a warm house house um they totally
relax and they they just get involved
and and people have come and said you
know this has been an unbelievable
opportunity for my life and I had a
chance to touch my Judaism even this one
time and from there um they have got
interested in it and uh and it's taken
off I was on the Metro and this happened
right before rashash I had met um I had
walked on and I had only two stops to go
and I saw this Jewish young guy who had
some Hebrew on his backpack and I said
wow are you Jewish he said yeah I said
what are you doing for rashash he says
nothing I said why don't you come over
he said what do you mean I said to my
house he said I said we have a lot of
people and it's festive and it's a very
special time of year and I only had
about five minutes because we were
having the next stop and he started ask
me questions about rashash sham I said
you know there's are great questions I I
don't have time getting off the Metro
here's my card please email me I'd love
to have you he emails me I invite him
over he comes over with his uncle two
cousins and another friend of his in
fact we I wasn't even expecting them to
come he said he's going to try to come
so we didn't even have room at the table
we ended up bringing another table in
putting them in they were so inspired by
what had happened uh and by the meal
that they came over the next night this
guy ended up telling me that he was
amazed to connect with his Judaism that
his family never connected and he wants
to go to Israel because he wore this
backpack that I saw him wearing that
talked about you know his trip to Israel
that he never went on um we had hooked
him up with the program and he went to
Israel and the last I heard he's still
there I had a small window of time with
these people and I realized that this is
it and I said you know what it's now or
never that step of saying you know what
this is your chance push me to say at
least give it a shot you'll maybe never
see these people again you maybe won't
have ever a chance it was it was the
opportunity of that moment in time to
say you know what you've just got a
moment try to take
it invisible Jews seem to be all around
us but Daniel Hadar figured out a way to
surface them and to reconnect them with
their ancient Heritage and with the
Tesha there's no better way to
understand understand this than through
the words of Rabbi
Zev the
Zohar
says that
Isel is an
acronym it stands for the following
words
y there are 600,000 letters to the
toah the idea being simply that there's
600,000 letters in the Torah there are
600,000 root Souls of the Jewish people
and every Jew is a letter in the Torah
there's only one problem with that there
aren't 600,000 letters in the Torah so
you say okay plus or minus a few you
know gatri is are never
exact so how many letters are there in
the Torah
34,5
188 that's not plus or minus one or two
that's like 300,000 are missing so
unless we have the reader Digest
condensed version something's
wrong so what does it mean I know about
11 answers to that question the poua
speaks about it in
kadan
but there's no question the question
would only be if it
said B Torah there are 600,000 letters
in the Torah and it's not true there
aren't 600 th000 letters in the Torah
and you need to somehow answer that
question but if it
said it wouldn't spell Isel it would
spell
isra in order to spell Isel it has to
be which means the
following there are
34,000 letters in the written Torah but
that Torah is not complete and unless
you add another 600,000 letters and
those 600,000 letters are the souls the
root Souls of the Jewish people and
we're all part of a cluster of souls
that are part of those root Souls of
clra the Torah is not complete and yet
unless added to the Torah connected to
the Torah and unless every Jew is
connected to the Torah the Torah is not
not complete and just like in the
written Torah if one letter is missing
the Torah is not a
Torah if one Jew is missing then the
Torah is not a Torah so until all Jews
recognize their Heritage and are part
and bring out their letter that has to
be added to the Torah the Torah is
incomplete The Daily Grind of attending
classes on campus can hardly be
considered considered an ideal
environment for doing C of and yet here
is a young man who saw an opportunity in
going to school every day on the campus
of the University of Pennsylvania to
attract not just one or two Jews to
Yiddish kite but to create a nationwide
movement of young Jewish college
students Rah
liab please meet Hart
LaVine everyone always used to brag
about how amazing and how strong and and
how vibrant the Orthodox community at
the University of Pennsylvania was and
and it really was there's s m a and a
lot of Shum and programs and activities
and tises and guest lectures um and it
was really great but one of the things I
I started realizing was there were
probably good 2,000 students who weren't
involved at all in Jewish life weren't
involved in the community weren't
celebrating Shabbat as someone who cared
about Judaism and cared about the Jewish
community and found it to be a problem
that there were so many people who
weren't involved um I thought this say
that that I should at least try and make
a difference I realize there's a large
community of really passionate vibrant
and involved and active Jewish students
um and I realized that if these students
can really reach other students in a way
that no organization could so we wanted
to find ways to create Jewish
experiences to share with our friends to
invite them to shabbat dinners to set up
one-on-one learning programs um to get
them involved in in Holiday experiences
ways that we can make Judaism relevant
to them and we sat down and had a
meeting um probably 15 of us one when
January evening and we said here's the
problem here's the situation um what can
we do to make a difference and one of
the things we thought of doing is having
Shabbat dinners and we had a Shabbat
dinner we we set up a table we started
with Shalom and explaining what Shabbat
was and most people stayed for around
two hours had a great time there around
three or four people who stayed for a
good four hours and they wanted to sing
zro and they wanted to learn Israeli
songs and they wanted to talk about
Judaism and ways to get involved in
Social Action through the Jewish
community and be a part of it um and it
was amazing I I I never met these people
before and I couldn't believe how
excited they were to be involved in it
at a certain point we realized we're
really making a difference in the Jewish
Community reaching people at Penn um
then I thought hey what about other
colleges which didn't have a big Jewish
Community I wonder if we as students
could know meet these other students and
share a vibrant exciting Jewish
experience with them so somehow we got
in touch with the University of Kentucky
um through a friend who was going to
speak there and we heard that out of
20,000 students there are around 200
Jewish students we rented a car and
seven of us drove down to Kentucky it's
a good 13-hour Drive um and we got there
we set up camp and we had um and we made
chabat in one of the in one of the
classrooms and 15 students and
professors showed up um people who had
never been to shabbat before people who
didn't know other Jews in college um
it's probably the first Shabbat in the
University of Kentucky in in quite a
while the way holidays work append is a
lot of the religious students go home um
so pesak especially all the Orthodox
students go home and then left at pen
are all these Jewish students who don't
have a siter at home to go to or don't
care enough about Staters to miss
classes but yet somewhere in the back of
their mind they're the Grandfather said
something or for something it means for
them to come to a theater so I heard
about this what was going on at pen and
I I turned to my parents I said Mommy
tati I love you I love sers at home but
here's what's happening at pen I'm going
to stay at pen to lead Staters this year
um and my parents understood they they
want to be be home but they understood
what I was doing and I I spoke to some
other students in the Orthodox community
at the end we had 15 students who
decided to stay at Penn that year to
lead saders and and and we prepared we
had sessions different rabbis came in
and told us prepared and had to run
discussions um had to run a Hal seder
for people who don't know what Hala or
what a Seder is between and between the
two nights around 150 students came to
our seders um some of them were their
first time walking into the hill
building and it was amazing we the Seder
lasted for around 5 hours the people
some of them never been to ster before
some of them they said to they've been
to St before it was normally half an
hour around their kitchen table and they
were so excited and thrilled that
someone cared about them and shared such
a meaningful experience with them um and
we talked and we sang and we danced on
tables and people told their family
stories and we went around and shared
ideas and we had discussions and it was
amazing afterwards P said Thank you
heart for giving me the first meaningful
Jewish experience of my life at a
certain point around 2 years ago I
realized wow this really making a
difference and I realized it's not
unique to the campus at University of
Pennsylvania there are a lot of colleges
which have you know dozens or hundreds
of of religious Orthodox students and
probably thousands of uninvolved
students so they know these these ideas
could work just as well Shabbat and if
not unique to pen so I started speaking
to friends and friend of friends at
other colleges who I knew cared about
Judaism and cared about the Jewish
Community um I started sharing these
ideas with them and they're like they're
like this is exactly what our campus
needs so I ended up running a shabbaton
for around 50 students from 15 different
colleges we came to pen and we sat down
and students went back to their campus
and they started groups on their own
some of them started running Shabbat in
at their colleges um some students
stayed on campus to run stay as at
different colleges now there are groups
of students starting at maybe 10 or 20
different universities when I first go
around meeting people or inviting them
to shabbat dinners at first they say oh
are you from this organization are you
from that organization I'm like no I'm
I'm I'm just Hart LaVine I'm I'm a
junior in bioengineering um so my
friends started calling it The heartt
LaVine Project based around the personal
nature of it um as a start of grow we
couldn't actually call it that so
instead we call it heart tohe heart
which is based on the original name but
also it's about showing me and loving
relationships and building a Jewish
Community um around loving principles um
and some people say oh heart only you
could do it cuz your name's heart I say
yeah but everyone has a heart that they
could share with someone
else little did heart livine realize how
far and wide his activities would
spread RAB pesak cron teaches us that
every Act of kirov is an act where we're
planting a seed that can yield
tremendous results
listen to this expression we should live
with this anyone can count the seeds in
one apple you don't have to be a big to
open an apple and count the seeds but
only Hashem can count the apples in one
seed imagine how brilliant that is
anyone can count the seeds of one apple
but only Hashem can count the apples of
one seed that one seed ofed it made that
other fellow from now he has children
eventually I'll have grand children
that's what we came here for this shabas
we came to become those who will plant
seeds and what I added to this
expression is plant seeds so that others
will
reap everyone bemon the fact that we
have lost our sense of community we've
become disjointed we become too
disparate Larry de of Toronto Canada is
a person who has understood this need
and has used it to create a very
powerful cure of tool
we lived in a community North of Toronto
called Thornhill woods and in Thornhill
Woods um there's about 3,000 families of
which about 50% are Jewish how do we
know this my daughters and I walked on
every street and counted the muas on the
doors and did a a quick census one of
the ideas we had was um young families
need entertainment for children how do I
know this I'm in marketing and you know
you take the McDonald's formula
successful formula entertainment for
children is what drives people to events
we thought you know what if we can bring
families together through entertainment
kosher entertainment then we can reach
out to them and have a connection so
what we decided to do was have Park
events and we called it Wednesday night
in the park and the idea was to have um
through the summer a succession of
between six and nine Park events we did
this two summers in a row where we would
hire an Entertainer um either a magician
a clown a kid singer and they would come
to the idea would be they would come to
the park um we would advertise it um
give out balloons and make it very fun
and engaging for kids so to start this
what we did was we printed up a flyer to
let people know that there would be
entertainment in the park for six
Wednesdays in a row and we walked on
every street door too my daughters and I
and handed out a flyer on every door in
the neighborhood that had a Maza we
figured if they have a mza they must
represent that they're Jewish and um we
literally just put a flyer in the door
and and then we did some advertising as
well of course by walking on every
street we got to know how many Jewish
homes there were in the neighborhood we
started off first the the first evening
um it was a beautiful evening and there
was probably 150 or 200 families that
came to the park it was a very good
event in the sense that um every
Wednesday um I would be the MC and I
would introduce just say hello to people
in the neighborhood tell them a little
bit about was what was going on um in
the Jewish Community within the
neighborhood um by about the third or
fourth week we actually invited some
Jewish groups to come out and set up
tables um around the perimeter of where
the entertainment was happening um it's
various different groups some of the
local Hebrew schools um some shs most of
the most of the people that came in fact
I I'd say most almost entirely all of
them were secular Jews um didn't really
know much about Judaism but very much
appreciated having to to the the
opportunity to interact with their
neighbors meet some of the Jewish
families in the neighborhood and get to
know that there was a Shool their
neighborhood and that there were Jewish
there was Jewish programming going on
just even to meet the rabbi of the
community or meet some of the families
in the neighborhood just to shake hands
say hello in a very comfortable and
relaxed mode so we did this the first
summer for 6 weeks second summer we did
it again we repeated it and I would say
within the community we probably touched
at least two probably 2,000 maybe 2500
people over the course of the 6 weeks
very very successful
events there's no one methodology that's
perfectly suited for every cure of
situation just as there's no environment
that's going to Foster cure of every
single time we're going to meet someone
who lives in an environment that would
seem to be ill suited to Du kiru and yet
he has probed his environment he has
probed his surroundings and has come up
with an amazing program that has not
only transformed his own backyard in
Muny New York but has literally changed
communities throughout the United States
of America in my favorite K of Story
please meet reab Arya
Roy my name is Arya Roy I was B up in
Manchester England and I got married
here in mon New York around 7 and a half
years ago and I've been here since I've
been learnning get Cod and I'm still in
COD fulltime but once I begun the
training through project Inspire I was
opened to a new world which I was never
open exposed to how many people out
there are not from and the simulation
rate which I began thinking what's going
on with the yish nation and it really
pained me and I thought someone has to
do it and if we don't get each and every
one of us to care about our fellow yid
we're not going to make this
happen so I just began thinking what
could we do and of course being nice to
people in the street starting
with people I meet with I was very
successful in finding people who were
interested in learning with me so I was
in walking in the street one day and
someone stopped me he was riding a
bicycle and he stopped me and he asked
me directions to local
mall so I asked him if he je and he says
he is so we had a friendly
talk and after smoing half an hour
obviously I gave him the directions but
we more than that that we exchanged
telephone numbers and this was over a
year ago and ever since we've been
friendly and I with him once a week
either over the phone or we get together
in the park we learn together the more
care of training I attended the more I
saw and the more I he what was going on
in the world and I found out all about
the Terri World inter marriage
assimilation was going on in North
America and I thought we have to do
something about it and if I don't do it
who
will and it's not just me I try to
encourage my friends to do it and after
all people ask what is this for man to
do care and I think on the contrary
wasn't that thing which used to do going
around traveling to Pas and to teach
them what yish is about and show them
the beauty of yish that is another
initiative we had was setting up a
tent outside the supermarket before PES
as we know people from all over come to
Jewish supermarkets before PES to shop
for their PES PES needs I met many
people from outside of mons from
Westchester from Pennsylvania secular
people who observe to a certain extent
PES and they came to koser to buy the
PES needs therefore we set up a tent
outside the supermarket in the parking
lot and we had a few guys in inside the
store walking up and down the aisles
telling them that there's a PES tent
outside so we sent in secular people to
come to our tent and we had the whole
PES Expo we had a SED table set out and
we had a lot of literature on pesak
which we gave to them we had computer
screen set up with is videos about PES
and it was a very exciting experience
for them and the reaction of people who
came into the tent were so excited of
what they saw
because they only know to their
knowledge PES is just the minimum what
they saw in their home and they only
keep to a certain extent PES and when
they came into the tent there saw so
much more to learn about PES and we
taught them and they went away
feeling more excited over
the so I tried to come up with an idea
what we could do something unique
which I could share and give my
contribution to the yish of
nation by doing K and what could I do
with myish friends do which no one else
could do how could we make a
contribution until we came up with this
idea called the
traveling traveling is we're going to
travel around the country all over the
United States wherever we are invited to
we're going to try to um enhance the
akas and Jewish Unity and Jewish love
and and through the warmth and spirit
and dancing and singing We got to
Philadelphia with saw on the B outside
the a center welcome join us for shabas
with the with the traveling C the latest
shabas we were at the whole reform and
conservative Community joined they all
come over and say you guys were great
this shabas was amazing this shabas is
really beautiful you should come again
recently there was a shabbaton held in
the five towns of New York an attendance
happened to be a group of Israeli Kim
the Israeli Kim when they saw us they
were shocked what do want to have with
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us they were just blown away and we
exchanged telephone numbers email
address and we've been in touch since so
everyone dance together sang together
was a nice shabat thank you all so much
one of the great tools we use when we go
out for shabas is the the the tool the
music the S the singing the dancing cuz
that's something that everybody can
connect it's something that connects to
the nas we've been in touch with with
many of the participants we have oneto
one k over the phone and they've grown a
lot in yish K
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since what project inspired taught us is
that kir is not something that should be
left only to professionals it's
something that we all can do in our own
ways and uh we're all part of it by
traveling around the country to
communities who are less Affiliated than
us we are showing them a the beauty of
yish and shabas which they've never
experienced such exciting shabas
before and B which is much more
important we show them that we are one
family and even us Ultra Orthodox kidish
are coming to their communities who are
totally unaffiliated and we are bonding
with them and enjoying a shabas together
we are showing them we are one
family the most important component in
successful Outreach is caring after that
it's up to each and every one of us to
take some concrete action to step up to
the plate and actually go out and do cir
of for some of us this is something
that's quite uncomfortable we're just
not prepared to take on the unknown
situations out there and it is for this
reason that project Inspire has created
the the home cure of training seminar
where we walk people through situations
they're likely to encounter every day in
Outreach and give them the steps that
they need to take to successfully
navigate those
traits come listen with me for just a
moment as we look in on one such kir of
training seminar in Lakewood New Jersey
we every one of us has an ability and
there's no two people some people are
prevented from doing Kira because they
say what if they ask me a question that
I can't answer if they ask me a question
I can't answer what am I going to do
what am I do I won't be able to answer a
question what am I going to say what am
I going to do so I'm going to get
involved in kiru I can't get involved in
kiru so the first thing is there's a
fantastic answer to every question that
you don't know the answer
to it's an EMS answer and it's always
effective and always works and the
answer is I don't
know but I'll check it out and I'll get
back to you in kir of that's marvelous
that some of us think that somehow if we
get involved to do kiru somehow our Rus
is going to suffer and the answer is
doing kiru will definitely affect your
Rus but in a good
way the idea that you can touch the life
of another
Jew in such a profound way and in such a
simple way and in such an easy
way it's just so
powerful it inspires us
it makes us better Jews doing kiru is
not just for
them it's at least as much for the
meaning it brings to our lives when you
engage somebody in a real way and they
are inspired you can't help but be
inspired yourself so now you get
addicted to it because your whole
rashash sh table your Shabbat table is a
different experience because people are
are so inspired to be there you
recognize how inspiring it is to be at
your own table the kids get inspired by
that by people wanting to be over and
now my kids when we don't have guests
say where is the guests can we invite
more people maybe we should go to the
street maybe we should go to the metro
and get some more people over um it it
really it changes your your your meal
experience and it changes you know your
way to engage not just the Jewish people
but yourself when you realize how how
much it really means
when I started sharing these ideas um
with other students some people came to
me and they said you know hard isn't
this the Cure of organization's job and
I said maybe but this is something
that's also important to me um and as
someone who cares about Judaism and the
Jewish Community this is something I can
get involved in also and I can make a
difference to one person a few people um
and every person can relate to different
people differently I really ended up uh
deepening myself and and and and
learning from other people and and being
able to share with other people um
really helped me grow a lot jewishly by
being able to share those ideas um it
enriches our lives in the sense that as
a student you can learn a lot but as a
teacher you learn more so when you're
giving over knowledge when you're being
able to give over kindness and
Hospitality then it actually gives you
more pleasure in life it's not the
actual PES tent we set up or it's the
traveling traveling to the around the
country showing shabas experience it's
the feeling we had that we have to
change the world and we have to do
something the more I'm involved in kiru
the more it's it has changed my life
tremendously it's changed my whole
family's life because our whole outlook
in yish is different as we are
constantly speaking to other people
about yish and we're telling them how
nice it is and the beauty of yish and we
like to share a shabas meal with them so
obviously we have to make it for ourself
more enjoyable if we want to share this
to someone else so it's completely
changed my outlook and we are much much
happier of our y Heritage through k
tyen look around there is no bam mdash
yet we are still in a long and bitter
gulus ER Israel is threatened in ways
that are unprecedented there is a nation
that's militant that's filled with hate
that has us in their nuclear crosshairs
there are Rockets still falling on a
city called zro in Israel there are
children who are scampering every single
day when the siren sound trying to
escape the horror of another hit
there's so much that we could do to
change this mat if I could just ask you
to join with us and create a new to care
about who are aranged from who live far
far away from our communities who really
have no personal connection at all with
their Yiddish kite if we could somehow
reach out to them we could bring the
Gula if we could somehow use the tools
that were prepared by project Inspire to
create home cure of training seminars
for you to host these seminars for you
to sponsor these seminars for you to
give us the information that we need so
we can contact you and make sure that
this becomes a reality then who knows we
might be that generation
that if we care enough to shed a tear if
we cry along with the tears of AES if we
take action today and if we do the
things that we need to do to wipe away
at here we will certainly be of the
generation that contributes to the ban
of the mdash and to
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