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Welcome to the Let's Talk Business
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world's top business leaders to help you
take the next step in your business
journey. And now, here is your host,
Manny Hoffman.
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>> Absolutely. So today we are going to
discuss something I know you're very
passionate about because I've seen some
of your statuses. I've seen you talking.
Usually those conversations are in the
dark car like on the way at the end of
the day that you sharing.
But what is the topic? The topic is what
triggers a person to buy. Now, why it's
so important is because sometimes
salespeople are so focused on perfecting
their sales pitch, perfecting how they
sell, their sales process, the sales
system, which is all very important.
We'll get to that as well. They forgot
to put themselves into the mindset of
how does a person make a decision? Why
does a client actually buy? What
triggers a person to say yes, where do I
sign my name? And today's topic I'm so
excited about because we're going to
dive into the nitty-gritty of the
technicals of it. We're going to dive
into the nitty-gritty of the human
psychology behind it. And guess what? As
we said in the in the previous episode,
we're not touching manipulation over
here. We're we're assuming you have a
great product. We're assuming you have a
great uh company you work for. We're
assuming you're a great salesperson and
you just have to connect to the right
buyer. So with that, I want to start
with a story and I think that's going to
shape this episode and the conversation
where we want to go. I spoke to a very
successful salesperson. This goes back a
couple of years ago and he shared with
me the following story and I asked him
like what was some of the pivotal
moments in your career that you s
started shifting the way you think, the
way you do? He told me exactly I know
there I remember the story and he told
me the following. I was a young
salesperson.
I I I sold software and you know the
company supported me but I was on my own
and I was trying starting to close
sales. I had this big enterprise fish
that I I was after like this was my
northstar. I want to get some one of
those clients. He's working with the
client. He's going through the step, the
first step, the second step, and then
finally the, you know, he's making
progress and he's reporting back to
sales manager, reporting back to the
company that I think we're getting this
guy warming up, warming up, whatever the
conversation went.
One day, the guy sent gets an email that
our company's looking to move forward.
We want to have a call with our full
team,
>> your full team,
>> your tech guys, and this and that, the
whole spiel. He is so excited. Can you
imagine such a day? He runs back to his
team. We got to set it up as soon as
possible. We're just about closing the
sale. He has that call um and they asked
the most brilliant questions. The
question about exactly what your process
is, how the system works, all these
questions that he's loving it. Not only
he's loving it, he's going like thumbs
up like from his side. It wasn't a Zoom
call at that time. It was a phone call.
It resonates. It was a phone call. Like
he's asking exactly the questions. we
have all the answers and this is like
the best best partnership
ends up happening. The call goes for 45
minutes like a real in-depth call.
Everybody's answering. Everybody's
communicating.
He puts down the the call ends. Okay,
we'll get back to you. We'll make a
decision. We'll get back to you. By
mistake, he did not put down the phone.
He hears on the other side. They're
starting to laugh. All of them are
laughing. And one of the guys says,
"This young fellow thinks we're going to
be buying from him. He didn't realize he
was that we just wanted all the
information. So, we're going to be we're
going to give it for our developers to
build."
This was obviously a shocker for him.
And at that point, he said, "Something
I'm doing wrong not to understand the
client. How could I go so far and be in
delusional thinking this guy is buying
for me
>> without even knowing that
>> knowing that he's just extracting
information because they want to build
it in house and then he went on to his
career to really grab grasp the the
concept of how a person makes a decision
what are the triggers when do you see
the person's interest is is really
serious or not so I think I think just
to frame this conversation I think is
just to get us lead us right in I want
take it away just Just from your mindset
asking again the question, how do people
misunderstand about how decisions are
made or what triggers a person to buy or
not to buy?
>> Loaded question. We're going to dive
back. I I want to know what is sales
>> exactly
>> and then what does it take to get
started? The first question I always ask
and when I train or anything,
>> what is the first thing that comes to
your mind when you think about sales
people? I know you talk to a lot of
sales people. Let's take me and you out
of the picture. What do people in
general believe about salespeople? And
it's not the nicest things. In most
cases, they think they're peasants,
pests, manipulators,
liars, they're stealing. They
>> do whatever it takes to get get a sale.
>> The first thing gaining trust is you
have to prove them wrong and very, very
quickly. Otherwise, you're just another
salesperson.
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>> What is sales?
Who cares? What does it take a person to
buy from you? Okay, so the first thing
is a problem. You got to identify that
person has to identify by themselves or
you have to help them identify a problem
that they currently have and it's always
starts with the problem. The next step
would be connecting or you understanding
the problem. The next step is a
solution. You have to gain trust that
whatever is going to happen, they can
trust you and rely on you. And if you
have a right solution, bring it to them
and get them to trust and finally make
that decision to move forward with you.
It's sounds so easy.
The first thing is problems. And I most
salespeople just call people and say,
"Hey, can I offer you XY and Z without
understanding why should you can offer
it? Why should I take it?" So the first
thing is a problem. Hey, I'm sure you're
already using apparel company. Many.
>> Are you happy?
>> Yes, extremely happy. Based on my
knowledge, I have to ask my team.
>> Is it Are you against me talking to your
team about this?
>> No. That's all I want. Getting the right
people. That's number one. If you don't
talk to the right people, we're not even
in a sale. Once you talk to the right
people, my question will start again.
Are you happy? Now you're the decision
maker. Are you happy
>> currently? Absolutely.
>> Okay. If they will reach out to you and
for your advice and they will offer you
a year free if you can help them become
even better. Do you think there's
anything for them to become better at?
>> Um probably you can pick up a couple of
things that uh every company
>> and and from there I go to seeing if the
person is really happy or they're
covering it up because they're not
interested in giving you their problems
because they're afraid you'll manipulate
them into switching. So get them
extremely comfortable. They say yes
because people like to be smart and say
sure they can have better customer
support. What do you mean by that? You
have a problem with customer service. So
and I realized it's so you're like
walking on a tight rope and you have a
problem with customer service. Ah no we
don't have a problem. So always is like
is customer support a problem? Yes. Is
it affecting you in any way? Diving
really deep until you understand the
problem. It's very similar to a doctor.
Let's pretend you go to the doctor. You
say, "I'm having terrible headaches the
past few weeks." The doctor says, "Sure.
I know exactly what it is. Here's a
prescription." You say, "Are you crazy
or what?" So, you're the same thing. The
doctor will have to ask a lot of
questions. When did it start? Where is
it hurting? What happened? What does
your diet look like? Your lifestyle. So
many questions. And then at some point
like I think X Y and Z is happening. And
then you gain trust and you would go for
help. The same as with the sale. Gaining
trust is first. So when I will tell you,
hey, are you happy? The first thing you
will know for me is if you're extremely
happy with where you are, I will not
take you on as a client. I don't think I
ever took a client that was happy from a
different company. I think it's bad
business. They'll forever be ungrateful.
Every single little thing that will go a
bit different than what they expect.
They a little bit different from what
they expected will be brutal. They'll
challenge you. They'll be upset at you.
Like the color of the check, like who
cares? Like there's no reason they
switched. They want their
comfortability. When a person has a
problem, for example, they need customer
support and that cl that product is not
providing customer support. Or if they
need a simple product and that product
is over complicated, they're ready to
sacrifice for simplicity. They're ready
to sacrifice for great customer service.
They're ready to pay triple the price
because someone understands them. And
that's where they become a happy client.
My father doesn't use me for payroll.
And people don't know this, but he
offers me every half a year. Like, when
am I switching to Friday? I'm like,
you're happy with this? I've been there
10 years. Nothing really changed. like
perfect why change and I really believe
in that philosophy.
>> So,
>> so, so you're let's let's let's confirm.
So, you're talking about the problem
solution which means is
>> without a problem. So, either
>> you you create either that person has
the problem when you start talking to
that person or sometimes you make the
person aware of because the problem
doesn't have to be a technical problem
could be an enhancement to what they're
currently having.
>> A problem could be something that they
want to avoid.
>> Exactly. So if someone doesn't use a
product at all yet and they're not aware
that they want one, you'll, for example,
an IT company, for a company that does
not have an IT,
>> I was the first thing, how important is
it for you to not get hacked? Very
important. What would a hack look like
if if someone breaches your product or
platform or computer? What would that
look like for your business? A
nightmare. A nightmare. What will your
clients look what what will happen to
your clients? Will you lose any business
over this? Will you lose any sleep over
this? And at some point if the client
realizes that this is really a risk that
they want to avoid then if you gain
trust you become their solution.
>> Got it. I don't think you'll find any
reason for people to buy beside without
having a problem. For example, buying a
Rolex solves a problem
>> for the person that needs
>> 100%. Why does he need a Rolex? Why
would you spend $25 to $100,000 on a
watch?
>> It has a same question. Why do you need
a Rolex?
>> I first of all I don't have a Rolex.
>> Yeah,
>> I know you like watches. I love watches.
>> Okay.
>> But um someone buying a Rolex, it's a
certain they're buying status. They're
buying,
>> of course,
>> they're filling some hole that they have
from being a kid and being bullied. They
want to show the world they're
successful or they just appreciate, for
example, they have a need to appreciate
certain things in this world and
therefore they want to have certain
things that are rare. It always solves
something for them. So, so let's let's
talk about the the problem solution
because I've seen salespeople
that create a problem
>> that doesn't exist.
>> Doesn't exist. Meaning to say they're
trying to We're not talking about bad
mouthing existing vendor, which that's
terrible business uh business ethics and
there's no place for that.
>> Let the client do that if they're not
happy.
>> Exactly. What I'm saying is if only you
use us and we could do this, we could do
that. How big of a problem does it need?
A salesperson should be comfortable
enough to try to get the business.
>> A problem that's worth switching. If you
wouldn't switch for that, why would you
make someone else switch for that?
>> Got it. So I would ask if and if someone
is extremely happy I really believe it's
bad business.
>> Okay. So let's talk about the second
thing you mentioned is trust. Um I know
it's obviously it's everybody
understands that in order to make a
decision in order to want to work with
you there needs to be a trust factor.
How do you gauge if you already
established that?
>> You have to feel but have you done
anything to gain their trust? Do they
know that if they're not a good fit
you'll move on?
>> And not just you can say it verbally but
they have to really feel it. And for
example, if someone says, "Hey, I would
love to sign up." Most sales people just
sign them up. Even when someone says,
"Hey," and sometimes people call in the
office, they say, "I'm ready to sign up.
Who can I talk to?" Like, "Thank you so
much for reaching out. I would love to
ask you a couple of questions to see if
we're a good fit." And I've trained the
salesperson, they're like, "Are you
crazy about this guy?" Literally called
them signing up. But imagine if they
sign up and then say, "Okay, there's a
different vendor in the meantime that
also speaks to them." or you you want
them to buy from you and from you only
and you want to find that problem even
if they're ready to make that decision.
So I would say is it the first time
you're having payroll? Yes. Okay. So
sometimes it's harder. The problem
doesn't have to be so big. For example,
if someone has their first employee,
they need payroll. They have a problem.
They need someone to do their taxes. So
you can talk about it like what do you
look for? So you can't ask what would it
look like if you don't have Don't be
stupid. Yeah.
>> But I would ask what do you look for in
apparel company? I know it's the first
time you never tried payroll before.
Well, in best case scenario, what do a
payroll company look like? And if they
tell me the best case scenario, we can
fax in hours and someone just we're not
a good fit. They say something easy to
use, great support, that we're a fit.
So, it always goes like that. Problem,
solution. If there's no problem, you
don't want to have that person as a
client.
>> And the more solutions you have for
their problems, the more they'll buy in
and like your company and use you and
refer you and recommend you. It takes
losing a lot to gain a lot and we lost a
lot of leads especially in the beginning
we didn't have XY andZ features features
the client even didn't think about and I
would ask is this something you would
need ah yes I'm sorry I don't think
we're a good fit at this point and we
lost a lot but then we gain a lot so
being focused being niche know exactly
what you which problem you solve get to
know your competitors a little bit not
because you're going to bash them you
never do that but if someone says I'm
using XYZ I'm not happy you know exactly
where to go, which questions to ask.
>> So, we spoke about problem, we spoke
about trust. Um, you mentioned that
trust is something that you start
feeling. Um, at which point do you feel
that that it's my duty, it's my
responsibility to get the person to make
a decision.
I I think every industry is different
and every call and every person is
different. Did they call just to ask for
pricing? What do you do? Like, hey, how
much do you charge? People just give
price. They call five companies, they
get five pricing. What do you think they
do?
>> They'll go for the cheapest if all of
them are the same.
>> If it looks the same, they have no idea.
Or if some guy was very smart and said,
"I can give you a price, but I don't
even know if we're a good fit. What are
you looking for?" And then goes into
conversation and connects with them.
They say, "You have X, Y, and Z. We have
X, Y, and Z. We connect it." Then
they'll pay more because you're a better
fit. Most people miss on that on that
part. What was your question again?
>> What comes out? Like how do you know at
at which point
>> which part do you have to push for a
decision? It really depends on the
conversation. If someone says I need to
start payroll this week, I want to know
X Y and Z. You go into the conversation
and there's any question. By the way, my
favorite closing line I never ask people
do you are you ready to sign up? People
hate that any questions before signing
up. If the conversation goes well, if
they have a problem that I can solve, I
feel trusted and I will say look and I
always summarize it after going through
an entire conversation. Tell them look
from what I am hearing you used X Y and
Z you then switched to that company the
first company you didn't like this you
loved that second company based and if
we're a good fit I would tell them so
based on that I believe you'll like
we're a good fit because we align on
this we have that feature that you
mentioned we also have that that you
didn't even think about that we can do
let's talk pricing
and they're like you're too expensive
then objections most people have
objections because the client controls
the conversation. Sometimes you control
the conversation. I I interview my
clients and then I say, "Let's talk
pricing. Is that too expensive?" I once
had a client that I asked, "How much do
you pay?" Said, "400." My price was
a,000. It was a bigger client. I don't
know why they paid so little. And they
were extremely unhappy. They asked,
"What does your pricing look like?" I
said, "How much do you pay?" And I said,
"Ah, I don't think we're going to be a
good fit." She's like, "Why not?" It's
like, "You're currently paying 400. Our
pricing is more than double. I I will
assume this is not something you want to
move forward." She said, "Look, for a
reason, we're on the call. I hate them.
So, of course, I'm going to have to pay
something more." But I said, "Two and a
half times more or three times more."
And she's like, "For the perfect
solution?" Yes. And I'm like, "This is
our pricing. Am I crazy?" And then we
move forward. So, it's always about
understanding and don't play with them,
but be in control. Know exactly what's
going on. Be extremely be there. You
know, some people just take calls on the
fly. focus and I'm so trained, my brain
is so trained these days to find
problems. I'll talk on a call and my
brain like literally has this red light
going off of like I'm listening and this
is this is a problem. Hey, stop a
second. This morning a person called
into the office. I was sitting with
Chulum, one of my salespeople and I pick
up the call. She actually signed put in
the first of information show. I got it
signed up. But then she's like I'm using
a different company. How much do you
charge? I don't think there's a what I
assumed it's already she's signed up and
she is like ah for so much little for so
little in savings I don't think it's
worth switching I said absolutely not I
don't think anyone ever switched for
that amount of price but you know why
people did switch do you have xyz
problem she's like yes and she's like no
and then I go I ask my questions and at
one place she was unsure I'm like let's
talk about this and that company doesn't
have technology so I said what happens
if you have to process payroll after 5
o'clock when no one is in the
She's like, "Oh, that's a nightmare. It
can never happen." How many times did it
happen? Four times this year. Back and
forth the closing was. She said, "It's
going to take me I don't know how much
time to switch. I don't think it's worth
the time." I said, "Look, all I need
from you maximum is one hour. How much
headaches and time do you think it's
smart for the one hour to save five
times a year that you forget to process
payroll and you're just anxious about
it? Should that one hour it's definitely
worth it?"
>> That's it. That's the close. So making
them realize you're not manipulating.
Manipulating is when you manipulate your
kid to do something because they don't
want but you want it. If the client if
this is the client's best interest, you
just ask them what do you want? Because
you can't tell a client sign up because
that's what I want. That would be
extremely stupid. So you got to figure
out what does the client want. And if
the client doesn't want to switch, if
they're happy where they are, don't be
stupid. Don't take them on.
It reminds me another point uh we've
been we've been doing for the last I
don't remember how many years is you
control the narrative mean to say yes as
as said before we're not manipulative
but clients need to make decisions and
we need to understand where they are in
the process so I remember years ago we
had an issue we had a closing issue used
to send proposals this and our proposal
is in marketing so it's a lot of back
and forth we have to understand the
scope of work and all of a sudden we saw
a huge drop in in in conversion. And we
were debating back and forth, back and
forth until we saw two main reasons. One
is people don't understand our proposal,
they'll take our proposal and now match
it up with three other people, but the
same line item could mean different
things for different people. Second of
all, sometimes the person that we're
talking to and presenting the proposal
and sending the proposal is not even the
right decision maker. So the boss
>> forward
>> got us five proposals of redoing our
brand or whatever it is. the last I
don't remember if it's five years or
more than that. We've never emailed a
proposal without a presentation of a
proposal. It's a full presentation. It's
the first step the person could see what
we do now goes in a lot of work on it.
So we would have a conversation you know
tentatively to speak about a pricing so
they get a just an idea of what they're
getting. They're looking for something
for $1,000 and you're batch.
>> But as soon as they say, you know, yeah,
we were somewhat in that range. Let me
let me prepare full proposal, all
details, everything included, our
process, everything in that document.
>> And that's a conversation
>> and that's always a presentation. And in
that presentation, we'll always say, are
you the final decision maker? No. So,
let's schedule all three of them at the
same call. Or if they can't make it,
after you're happy with the proposal, we
want to present it to the other two
people in the company. What does it take
to get the decision maker on this call?
>> It's such a fair question to ask.
>> Yeah. And
>> I love what you're saying. I met this
construction company. They send out over
100 proposals a month. They get around
20 jobs.
>> And I said, how much time do you spend
on each proposal? They're full-time
people working on proposals. So, I'm
like, let's pretend you only have to
send 30. Said, if I send 30, I'll only
get three clients. I I think sending
proposals just because a contractor
wants to get seven proposals. I I
wouldn't do that. If you asked me, hey,
I need a proposal. I would say look last
job you used that competitor of mine two
jobs before you used a different guy why
do you want me to send you a proposal I
would love to understand it a little bit
more
>> yeah so so it really without triggering
them in a very nice way
>> that's what I'm saying it's it's it's a
it's it's a fine line because I've seen
some of your lines how you use in sales
and I think it's Charlie has a lot of
those those
>> Charlie my sales is my sales
>> yeah so it's so so not every but I will
say this
>> the same way that not every client is
the same not every salesperson is the
same you You have to know who you're
dealing with. Which lines will trigger
them negatively or favorably?
>> I I think certain lines always works for
everyone.
>> So, one of the lines that I think
>> some people are not some people are just
not worth to have as a client.
>> But let me let me park back let me go
back to a second to the proposal part
because I think this is very important
for sales people. A lot of sales people
get very excited about the activity by
sending out proposals and then all of a
sudden the the month passed and they
don't have enough sales. Yeah.
Zoom in a little bit. Ask yourself,
maybe I I I sent proposals to people
that are not ready to buy and and maybe
you have to redo some of your sales
process to qualify better your people to
make sure they're ready for proposals.
So now you're you're you're going around
um all upset that I'm sending proposals,
I'm not closing anything. You're not
sending proposals. You're just being
busy. Those people are not ready for
proposal. In order to send a proposal,
somebody's actually needing a proposal.
So that's that's a very important point.
But I do want to go back to the style.
Um, like I know that you mean to say I
want to ask you a very could I ask you a
very personal question
>> about Friday?
>> So you have a great team of salespeople.
Shout out to your great team. Um,
do you see that you could create systems
and processes on sales across the board
with every salesperson?
>> Absolutely.
>> And and or some sales people have a
different way of selling and closing
>> the people that work on my team. I think
most of the most of them adapted and
this is Charlie's credit. I think
Charlie he transformed the way I do
sales and with them and obviously every
single person will always have their own
flavor their own spice and some people
use a 20% 30% 50%
>> but does it need to be that way like for
people listening to this does it need to
be
>> something works for you go ahead mean to
say is one of the things you're looking
for when you're hiring new salespeople
that they have to fit the culture that
they could not coachable obviously we're
talking about those those basic terms
need to be there but I'm I'm say I'm
saying that if they say you know what I
like to sell differently. I'll bring you
the results. Is this something that you
say, "No, in this company, in order to
hold you accountable, in order to make
sure that we reach our goals, we have to
be cookie cutter. Everybody doing the
same type of selling the same way."
>> Great question. If someone produces the
results, use your way, your style. Do it
your way. And if you're successful with
something, go ahead, continue. Why
should I change the way I do sales? Who
said you should? Are you successful? And
people always challenge, why should I go
to this seminar? who said you should. So
if someone has the way but if someone
will bring on clients that are happy
somewhere else which automatically it's
not a method I know for a fact they'll
be upset then no please don't do that if
you bring if you convince every single
client to sign up with Friday no matter
their size what they're looking for
you're you're messing up my company so
no the answer will be no
>> to certain things so you don't have to
copy everything you can have your own
channels sales channels your own style
and talking everything stays the same
but certain things I think is in the
essence and the core of the company we
do not take clients that are happy
somewhere
We do not force people or convince
people to sign up.
>> That's a company value and and they have
to match it. If they bring on clients no
matter what, you know how chaotic.
>> But what do the sales process the sales
process?
>> Give me an example. Uh typical example
is let's say hire a salesperson says you
know what don't tell me to present
proposals. It's too much time. I'm going
to email it. I I'll bring you the sale.
Do you want
>> it's possible to do sales that way? So
personally based on my experience will
be happy. Exactly. No because we'll find
ourselves later on in a process that
that's not working
>> then it's a no.
>> Got it.
>> But but if if I can see it happen and it
doesn't mess me up. Be my guest. I don't
care. I think Charlie did something and
and he proved it to me that you can
charge more than everyone else. You can
be like and some people will say I can't
close. My company is very expensive. And
that's the most common one, right? I I
think that's why they hire salespeople
and that's your job. Obviously they need
to provide more value. You have to find
clients that have a problem that you
actually solve. But that's what it is.
>> Okay. There's so much more to cover, but
let me fire around a couple of questions
>> and and then we'll wrap this episode.
So, what is one or two things you've
seen as a deal breaker why a person
decided the last minute not to buy and
in in the on the flip side, one or two
things you that you've seen a person
that you actually signed up as a
customer and them being upset because it
wasn't the right fit or whatever. So
deals going sour, it's because you
manipulate them. You didn't gain trust.
>> So they feel that.
>> They feel that at some point they're
like, I don't want to deal with this
guy. Um clients that did sign up and
became unhappy is people that got
manipulated at some point. They signed
up because with the different you didn't
set the expectations correctly, then
they signed up. They're like, I don't
know like why I even signed up.
>> Okay. Um do you have to become friends
with your clients?
>> Absolutely no.
>> Okay. So how do you define relationship
when it comes to clients? I can become
extremely close to certain clients, but
it's still a client relationship. And
certain clients became personal friends.
It doesn't really matter. I don't think
it's either or. It can be both. And in a
business relationship, you have to be
professional. Communicate effectively.
Set expectations. Deliver what you
promise. That's it. I I don't think
people buy from you because you go to
their son's wedding or what. They'll
rather buy from you if you deliver what
you promise them. What is one or two
things you would tell your team that
even if they're pursuing a lead, just
let it go?
>> So the obvious, if we're not a good fit,
that's
already unqualified.
>> Sometimes you see people, it's just not
worth working with them. Edgy people who
control a very manipulative relationship
with you. They ignore you when they want
and then they come back. Sometimes I I I
just tell such a person and I just
helped one of my sales people write a
very nice message to someone. They took
him on a ride for six months and then
they said, "We're signing up next week
and then we get a he gets a message.
Sorry, I don't think we'll make a switch
for now." And then comes the
manipulative message, but it might still
happen. Let's be in touch.
>> Oh wow.
>> So like I helped him write a beautiful
message that he's actually relieved. He
felt that the process throughout the way
they communicated, they would ignore him
for three weeks and then say, "We need
to hop on a call now." Like this felt
like I wasn't sure the words have to be
calculated. I I remember writing it down
but but basically I'm relieved. I don't
think this is a good business
relationship.
>> I believe a business relationship means
you know if you ask me like what is how
do I define business relationship?
Mutual respect. People have to
understand that as much as you're the
vendor
>> needs to be mutual and respect. So the
second you feel that this is a one-sided
relationship that's where where
everything gets lost.
>> And it's also totally okay to walk away
at some point and just say I don't think
at this point it makes sense for us to
do business together. And it's totally
okay if you become not the perfect
solution for their growing problems.
It's time for us to part ways and we
stay friends. I have people that I've
sent away that are or became my best
friends.
>> It just businesswise by the way I'll set
it say it on the air. Um I remember the
first time I asked you should I switch
over to Friday you says you're not on a
target market.
>> Maybe I'll have to have that
conversation again but it totally makes
sense especially then.
>> Let me ask you something related to
Friday as we close this episode. Do you
have some sort of bell or some sort of
uh way of celebrating every time you get
a client?
>> No, but we do have a group and we have
custom links. Every salesperson has
their own link and I would post every
single time there's a sign up would be
new signup via Buddham Joel Yehuda and
every single time I would post it and
that I think it drives momentum also
celebrate great months or milestones.
For example, for a thousand clients we
did a full trip with the sales team. uh
we already went to Dominican Republic
last year um for celebrating last year's
year end season. So yes, I I believe you
should celebrate and uh work with it.
>> I know you speak very many times about
you know, we've spoke about before as
well like that a client that's not
qualified fitting your criteria, you
actually um actually are very um you
know confident in telling them that
we're not the right fit.
>> Sure.
>> Do you celebrate uh leaving letting
those people go as well?
>> Great question. But we should I don't
think there's a way like hey I just let
this lead go. I think it's actually an
awesome way of celebrating because
that's that's playing the game enjoying
the process.
>> I was thinking you have to have two
bells. One bell gets ring you ring when
you celebrate a success. A client signed
up and the other bell gets ring when we
actually help the client.
>> I will need hearing aids. If I had that
many bells per day about Burkash and the
team signs up and we have
>> this
was awesome. Thank you. And just to
recap for our sales people following
this series of uh episodes related to
sales, this one we spoke about
understanding the client, understanding
what what type of component you play
with the relationship. Of course,
there's so much more to discuss and of
course every scenario is a little
different, but this is overall topics
we're trying to cover. In our next
episodes, we will cover something that I
know Pas you're going to enjoy,
>> but you gota you gotta
>> get some energy before the next episode.
How do you as a salesperson, how do you
get confidence? How do you deal with
rejection?
>> And ultimately, how do you identify if
you're doing a great job in sales? So,
I'm looking forward for that episode.
Before that,
>> I want to thank you for the feedback and
again, keep the feedback coming. If you
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go to pasgroup.commpodcast
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