Why do my kids behave wild? - Rabbi Alon Anava

[Music] then you have to figure out why he's bothering the brother maybe he's jealous maybe I need rdin don't don't start with that we we don't want to cuz he can't he can't take it but that's my that that's the biggest sin to drag the kids I'm not joking we he can't take it anyway other doesn't matter I'm just telling you in general this is the biggest sin that a parent takes the child and then drugs them up because there's no there's no point of return from that and then I'm now dealing with with the the end result with the people in their 30s and the 40s that they're so drugged up they don't even know where to start off to get off from it forget about this the physical damage that it does to the body what it to the liver and to the body it's irreversible the the anything can be dealt with everything but chemicals the chemicals are the biggest killer what do we do with with this child he does not stop father and he doesn't listen and we tell him okay you made a mess it up then then first of all you have to do all these stages that I told you to backtrack all the way from the beginning and try to go one step after the other maybe something was was will you know cause the problem on the way then you have to see psychoanalyze what the child is eating culture and nutrition I mean a lot of the problems of child behavior is because you stuff them up with sugar and chemicals we know he has actually problem with sugar we don't it's not only the sugar it's the chemicals it's the GMO it's the MSG it's the food coloring it's all this junk very sensitive to food coloring we don't give him we're very specific when he eats so you have to go one Department after the other and start eliminating I can tell you already fact this is not a science fact that whatever the child eat and 90% of the food that are on the shelves is poison not junk poison some people it will less affect them some people it will make them completely crazy now if you feed a child for five six years all day long Bly and all these junk it's not that one day you take the Bly away and that's it and the child is back to normal sometimes the effect is as bad as the chemicals now feed a child from the age of two till the age of 8 basically all day long or Cheetos or all these junk five years of chemicals it's chemicals the MSG that they put in it is a very harsh chemical it's in the body so the child might take a long time to get the junk out of the system so that's one Department another department is same thing spiritually to see you and your husband where where you holding you have to there there's no black and white answer because the child can be affected for many different things could be that he's watching in the home shows that not to him that has nothing to do with him need to be more holy could be very much that you know the other child is getting much more attention and you're not even noticing it and he gets upset because he gets more attention so the thing is that you because I have another child just demands more we give and the thing is that some children I have one child he doesn't need attention at all just give him once a week a lollipop he's fine he doesn't want attention he's fine is he's a loner the the child all along you have to inject attention so sometimes when one that constantly needs attention gets one little minute less then it will cause all sorts of issues then how do I divide my attention to to these two children for the ones you have to see who needs more attention but they both need it if I don't give to the little one attention she'll just start she'll just scream her head off until I give it to her and exclusively with her and because of that I'm barely with the other one the thing is again there's no black and white answer because each child is completely different you really have to make a a very general psycho analysis of everything it depends also on the age depends on the school that they go to it depends on 101 things doesn't matter I mean I'm not say it's not about necessarily the sect maybe in the in the in the school there's one child that is annoying him all day long it's not doesn't matter which school like if it's Safar doesn't matter not that's not what I'm referring to and sometimes in the school one of my kids comes home he tells me there's one kid in my classroom that annoys me all day long we had to call the the teacher and tell them listen our child keeps complaining that this child is annoying him all day long it's affecting him something has to change my child is not a punching bag so sometimes you have to not sometimes you have to do a very general General I'm saying in not in regards to to not specific General mean all the Departments what he's eating what he's seeing what he's listening go back to how the child tried to see how he was conceived every little thing now you can make I can tell you already that children do that's not about how much attention they get is what type of attention they get and it's extremely important that both you and your husband designate special times that it's a very special time of private time for that child and it's that child special time ultimately you have to find out why why the child is behaving that and off there off handan without knowing anything it's almost impossible to give an analogy you you can probably make an analogy take a piece of paper and start writing down subjects let's see what he's eating so you do a whole week or two weeks of let's see what the child is eating maybe something maybe something is is is not good maybe we're not M I'll tell you the things that really affect children is and and a lot of people are very not particular with these things is is this is against you can't have anything Bish is that if a non-jew ignites the oven or the microwave or anything that's called Bish this is but you know most people okay whatever half the cereals out there are not P Isel so a lot of the bagel is so sometimes it looks like a very minor thing but it's minor maybe to one individual it's not minor to another individual so you have to make us an analogy I can already tell you don't even start with chemicals there's there's other stuff that that that can do the exact same effect but I can already tell you that chemicals is the is the biggest sin to do to the child to start putting the children on chemicals rine and all these things mamash it's it's a irreversible damage it's much I don't even have enough words to express the damage and the thing is that that the governments allow that they're happy with the point that everybody's drugged up forget about the industry the the industry of pharmaceutical it's all you know it's all what's the in Hebrew it's called you say you you know the pharmaceutical industry is the biggest Mafia and the governments they like it they they get all the the bribes from that and tax and everything the governments are very happy that everybody's drugged up so don't even get into that I would strongly suggest to go to the health department and there's much matter way what my wife does fixes everything we're going to be maybe you'll have her here very very soon but her entire system is is that there's no I teach from the spiritual aspect of it everything comes from the Nish if you if you Mame the it will manifest outside that's it that's it that's how it is she teaches more in the health department what you put inside your your your dig digesting system directly will affect the the any individual every any problem physical problem that you have there's four levels in diseases the first level is a very disease that can easily be repaired it's just some type of a problem in your in your body the fourth level of disease that's called cancer it's the the cells already dead can't do anything so everything comes from your digesting system if you look 500 years ago people didn't have 90% of the diseases that we have now the problem with with modern medicine is they just treat the symptom they don't treat the problem so that's the problem with the chemicals because the doctors don't know how to deal with a child okay here take this pill drag him up the chemicals they just numb your nerves that's what we do a Tylenol an Advil all these things they're just numbing nerves so they just know which nerve to numb person has depression here now we'll numb this nerve person has anxiety okay we'll numb that nerve it's not a solution it's a Band-Aid it's a plaster so don't even bit don't even start with with chemicals it's it's it's an irreversible damage try to make a very deep analysis every little thing could be very he's very very he she's very very sensitive to even little things it can be it can be not only sugar you know children can be extremely sensitive to flour white flour is literally poison white flour now if you really look at the nutrition I mean a lot of people say ah you're too fanatic it's this no it's not it's you you if you whatever you put into your body will come out right away in many different ways that's why so many people in our generation are suffering from depression and anxieties and Nightmares and all these things and pains and aches and it's because what you eat you know half the people they make food in a microw wave you know how deadly a microwave is I don't even have it in your home it's proven it's radiating it's radiation even just sitting in the home without even starting it and then you put it in your the food I mean this is not normal if you're thinking of it you're taking a cup of water you're putting it in a box a metal box and within 3 seconds it's hot it's not natural even put it on a 500° flame it will take 2 minutes here you want warming it up in 3 seconds something is not normal here it's a microwave it's radiation and then people put their food in it and then everybody's screaming that we're dying they say in America that by the year I don't I don't we're going to have mashia much before that but they say by the year 2025 every second American is going to have cancer that's what they're saying from their phones radiation antennas everywhere microwave all these things food so the point is that all the environment affects the child maybe it's the phones maybe you have very strong Wi-Fi in your home I'm not joking that affects yes you have very so you have to look at everything no I'm I'm not but I'm anything that I say I'm not making up or joking sometimes the Wi-Fi is so strong in the home the child you know if the room is close to the Wi-Fi the child gets this this radiation we moved he was too close to my son my other son's around couldn't so all these little things I'm throwing in the air all sorts of ideas because I saw how things affect different people and you don't know what affects one person is not going to affect another person will affect them tremendously so you really want to make a very large analysis where it's coming from you have to pray for the K to open open to give you the sign where it is because the fact that you're noticing that it's bothering you that's already 50% of the of the Cure to find out what's causing it and unfortunately I don't have a straight answer but I I I suggest you do a very deep analysis and then may you can make tests if you can shut the Wi-Fi for two weeks in the home see if it affects him I'm not joking if that W happen my husband obsessed with it it be caused to a sh issu so but if you explain to him that maybe that will affect the kid that would not happen so take the kid out of the house for two weeks that might be I'm not Jo I'm not joking you take the kid to a summer camp or to the grandparents or to you see I mean if I would have to if I face a problem with one of my kids I want I I before I come to conclusion I test it maybe it's what they eat maybe the other child is bothering maybe something in school maybe I'm doing something wrong maybe I'm not giving the child the attention so I'm not but I'm all the the things I'm telling you I'm not saying it to make you laugh if the husband doesn't want to take the Wi-Fi out take the kid out for two weeks all these things affect now we don't know exactly what but you you want to test it every little thing don't don't say oh this is nonsense can be in the water there's a lot of fluoride in the water some kids the the water affects them sometimes this is the juices there's no little sugar in it there's a lot of sugar in it so excuse me food coloring that's a killer so you don't know exactly what it is but try to find out and you have to pray to the K to open your eyes I mean ultimately K will give you the green light and you might pinpoint like exactly the example I gave with my son that we couldn't figure out for a couple weeks and we found out the little candy that he got when he was a good good a good kid in the kindergarten it's one little thing so pray for the K is it radiation from the screens as well you said there a whole thing about screens is that what's wrong with you say it's not the content it's the problem know the the physical part there's radiation the spiritual part the the Satan every generation gets dressed into something to hypnotize you our generation is the screens there's a kipa physically yeah there there's radiation I mean I put this next to me to record I don't walk around I don't like it attached to me I don't check messages I use it for certain things that's it at night it's it's shut down people sleep with their phone next to their body I that's that's a killer like you're frying your brain the whole night while you're sleeping why do you need it next to you and if if you already need it next to you then put it on an airplane mod cuz it radiates much less but buy a five sheel alarm clock why do you need this next to your head turn it off so yeah there physically there's a very strong radiation not only in the phones also in the TVs the plasmas everything there's electricity in it it has radiation because the screen itself but spiritually there's a there's a impure power in it that if you look the screens hypnotize everybody you go it's holy holy things that they're watching even in the Holy things that's some type of poison in it I mean I'm yeah I'm saying the thing is like this if you know it's comparing between watching junk and a a good moral educating movie fine but not all day long 1 hour on Sports watching sports it's a total different thing again there's nothing holy in it yes here you you have to separate into two things the mental thing that it's not holy there's nothing educated Ed better for the kid to play outside with the ball while look at the screen kick the ball run move move your your your body a little bit but me spiritually it's yeah that's not moving we're very everybody's still two hours now in cars they have the screens I need quiet what I need quiet it's a 10-minute Drive the whole motion but spiritually I was mainly referring to the spiritual kipa it's a very powerful CER you're walking in the street people are like hypnotized people go to to the shoe with the boxes and you know it's so it literally has a very strong power that hypnotize everybody if you if any a a a decent and what's the word honest human being will make an analysis how many hours a day they're wasting on nonsense on the screen that you'll see that people are wasting hours hours a day I mean checking your emails that's good shopping fine learning good but in the between all the commercial breaks you'll see people are wasting 2 3 hours on nonsense nonsense