Who Are You? - Rabbi Yom Tov Glaser

today what we're going to be discussing is is really it's really who you are i'd like to get in touch with who you are from a jewish perspective like who are you think about that question who are you who are you if i put you in an mri would that give us any indication what do you guys think yes or no not really yeah well that's trouble already if we all kind of know intuitively an mri of us is not going to help a thing not gonna help a thing about who you are so because if i asked you guys to point yourselves try it everyone raise your index finger come on raise your index finger cooperate please and point to yourselves point to yourselves everyone almost almost everybody here pointed to their uh to their heart ultimately but you know sorry you know what's right there okay first you got clothing and by the way i know a lot of people who think they are their clothing and i mean they do dress quite stylishly but they're not their clothes they're they're clothing and then there's skin then there's blood then there's bone and then there's this pump it pumps blood it's quite gross and it's just pumping blood okay is that you are you a pump you ain't no pump okay you're not a pump okay great let's try again raise your index finger everybody come on cooperate come on and point to yourself okay so this is what's predictable is everyone goes up here well it's not going to get better it's almost going to get worse okay it gets better so skin blood bone and then inside there's a squishy thing called a brain of brain but the brain the specific part that you're pointing to is everyone points here because that's where real thinking takes place besides the hypothalamus which is like the reptilian brain it's more fight or flight and those types of things other parts of your brain handling your nervous system but the part of you that you called you which you were pointing to the right place it's called the cerebral cortex in the cerebral cortex are neurons so we got to go into the cerebral cortex so let's go in going in and it is neurons how many neurons answer billions of neurons what i have billions of neurons in there they must be quite small you got it they are quite small in fact they're microscopic and they the neurons are these microscopic things so i'm a big pewa hermit fan the neurons are microscopic and they're um ju of course so the anyway the the neurons are microscopic and uh but they're really small i mean billions of them so they're super super small and there's nothing unique about any of your neurons they're literally their job every neuron's job is to either fire or not fire fire or not fire in other words one or zero one or zero now just like a dvd which is all ones and zeros so if you want to watch harrison ford you look at that disc it's filled with with probably i don't know how many ones in there maybe a billion on a billion ones and zeros and when you put them all together enough of them together it starts creating patterns the ones and zeros make patterns to the form of harrison ford on the stage and the same thing too you have a digital unit up here of ones and zeros that make patterns and those patterns are deciphered based on the what based on the not the but the past very good based on the past of every other time you saw that so every time you ever saw that whatever that was like for example i noticed every one of you walked through this doorway and i didn't see anyone bang into it no rim shots no backboard just swish each one of you did a swish but many of you never been through this door in your life there goes another swish okay just straight through the door no problem what happened what happened you got in front of that that that door just like neo you know it was just like and your your neurons are just like doorway you know i've seen this before remember because it's matching it with the fast it's like i've seen this before i can do this and it's straight through the doorway came in sat down you know which are all things that a little kid couldn't do little baby you know first of all to probably have to crawl into here they can't sit up yet so if you're a little baby right now you'd already be falling over on the floor off your chair see you guys don't even realize you're balancing right now you're in balance right now you know if you see a little baby first time they sit there it's like second time like third time fourth time hey i'm getting it you know and then after a while they're like i'm sitting you know and what's going on is the neurons are mapping each each thing including the fall in the paint of the fog and it doesn't feel good especially falling backwards on the head falling forwards on the face ain't comfortable so the the neurons and that's why pain is such an important thing in life pain is really really important pain tells you don't go there okay pain is so important in fact they are even those who theorize that that disease called leprosy was not actually losing limbs that was the symptom leprosy was losing feeling so that you no longer knew where the pain was so you'd actually start damaging limbs and then and then wind up losing limbs because of the damage to the limbs pain is your best friend that's why we limp because if someone hurts their leg and now they're limping they're putting less weight on there which means it's resting and the tissues get their rest and they can now heal while not being overly exerted pain is your friend and if you ever had your heart broken of course in that pain never ever broke anyone's heart after that right so um i have a very light definition of abuse i know you can't go to jail for my definition for the definition of abuse that sends you to jail you gotta like actually really like do something grievous but uh but in my definition which is the kabbalah definition of abuse and it's also was it's also our sages of hillel who's obviously a kabbalist but hillel said it himself and that is never do unto others what you wouldn't done have wanted done to you so all it takes is one heartache sorry one heartbreak to never break another heart because you know what it feels like so you'd never do it to another person because if you'd ever break another person's heart that means you're doing unto others what you know is hurtful which is a very light gentle definition of abuse that's abuse and so our goal here in all of the torah is to get you away from being an abusive person so for example if you'd ever been hiking and came upon a bottle or a cup or a napkin or anything else out there that should have been packed out with whoever packed it in has that ever bothered any of you so if that bothered you once so you'd know the next time you were thinking of leaving a cup in the wilderness don't go there okay it's abuse okay anything that's ever bothered you in this world don't do unto others and when you get on that level that's like that means you're tr you got to the point which is what is called treading lightly the goal one of the big goals in life is to tread lightly on the world well how am i supposed to know how to tread lightly and the answer is if anything's ever bothered me or affected me negatively i don't pass it forward i leave it there and i never go there in my own life so i'm never hurtful and that's the goal are we always there am i never hurtful do my best i do my best okay back to our story so our story is that your neurons remember the neurons sorry i tangentialized a bit but the neurons are telling you like how to walk telling you this is english you think i'm speaking english right now is this english this ain't english this isn't americans nothing is not it's not language i'm speaking it's math pure math i'm sending out vibrational patterns uh for example the a let's say this is an a so my vocal cords are moving at 120 sorry 220 vibrations per second they're shooting across the room shooting across a room at 220 vibrations per second and as my lips and teeth are breaking up the sounds it's hitting your eardrum at 220 but breaking 220 breaking based on how i break it up and it's hitting your eardrum these crazy patterns because not only are you getting the 220 and all the other frequencies that i'm saying it's lots of different mathematical equations but also because i'm breaking it up with the five exits of my mouth which is the guttural the palette the teeth tongue and lips are breaking up that sound that's sending it to your ear and these super subtle breakups of the 220s in the 460s and all the different numbers in other words you're a tremendous mathematician your ear is collected it's a super tight membrane that is collecting it's a drum and it's it's like in have you ever unscrewed a microphone and seen a little membrane in there it's also super tight okay it's a super tight membrane it has tremendous ability to distinguish great equations like gigantic mathematical numbers like huge numbers and it's able to handle it in all its detail in real time it doesn't compute anything it sends it via nerves to the neurons the neurons now have all this information to deal with we're only going on sound the same things happen with sight by the way but it's all coming into the ear to the brain the brain's then turning it into english am i speaking english no i'm not speaking english i'm just sending out vibrational patterns with my mouth and they're hitting your ears and you are making it back into english now here's the fun part i asked you to point to yourself you pointed to your brain your brain is made of neurons if i took one of your neurons let's take uh for example um not phil phil's your son phil schwartz phil do you mind if i borrow one of your neurons please you have billions i got it is that all right thank you so much i mean i know a lot of people are willing to let go of many of these every time they you know what okay so anyway so we're gonna put phil's neuron on an overhead projector okay so let me put it on the projector it's not a regular projector it's a magnifying it's going to magnify it ten thousand times so you can see the thing okay it's got a magnify in it so we magnifying phil's neuron we put it up on the screen there is this giant neuron now being projected on the screen at about 80 inches and um my question to you guys is that gonna be a picture of phil going like hey guys it's phil that's not going to be a projection of phil on the screen and if i took it back now and i said you know what i'm going to take this neuron and i'm going to pop it into what's your name i'm going to pop it in the mirror you might boom in the mirror head mayor goes now to buy an ice cream cone and he's like i'll take strawberry please did i just say that i mean he's not going to suddenly like strawberry ice cream because he got one of phil's neurons neurons have nothing to do with you nothing to do with you neurons are microscopic things that either fired on fire that's all neurons are they fire or don't fire nothing more nothing less you put a lot of them together it starts to tell you like things like strawberry ice cream you put a lot of things together now here's the thing is those neurons are highly fluid it's like they see it's like the open sea and it's like there's tables in this room and there's like the western wall outside and your rabbit glazer is doing his thing and that's me and you're and you're just like your neurons are so fluid so fluid and they they'll just like they'll go with anything your neurons are totally chill or are they is it possible that there's a couple neurons in your brain that are like like like maybe little marbles that are not so fluid do you have certain things linked that shouldn't be linked maybe something that might have happened from your father when you were a kid or maybe a dynamic that was inside your house or maybe it's your birth order that you got kind of locked in the link to things or or you know what i'm saying oh yeah yeah but uh linkages that shouldn't be linked i asked a kid asked the kid he grew up in a home that kept shabbos they always kept chavez shabbos was like 24 hours of shabbos except he had a dad that pushed it on them and he had brothers that pushed him he was the youngest kid and they just slammed him like you keep chavez boom boom boom you don't keep shabbos you are good or you are bad and what did he link shabbos to mean that he is bad so he has this link weird link so i asked this guy he said listen how long in israel he says months how long you in yeshiva months keep shabbos he says i gotta get out every shot is i gotta get out i gotta go to tel aviv i gotta antonia i gotta go to the go to the north or go to go to the south i don't i can't go near shabbos now what do i know in my work what i know automatically he's got something what there's a link there there's a link so i said to him you have an issue with god no issue with god you have an issue with the commandments no commandments are cool you have an issue with the ten commandments no i'm into top ten list great so you know one of those shops is like don't say chavez what's the problem it's got something linked cerebral cortex meaning the neurons are supposed to be very white fluid but somebody's got himself a little pebble in there a little marble in there not so fluid linking stuff up that has no link they're not linked him being evil and shabbos have nothing to do with each other you get that nothing to do with each other meanwhile well no now we got to go back to us so here we are we've got these neurons yeah we discussed a little bit of the solidity that we can get a little solid about certain things someone harm me or someone this or someone that you know and we get all you know like we lose our fluidity you know lose our fluidity i'd say the majority of jews who show up in this classroom who are raised observant have all kinds of crazy things linked up all kinds of crazy things linked up with their judaism from bad experiences that might have happened i mean a lot happens in 24 hours you know when you're growing up as a little kid there's a lot of 24 hours going by you know so all it takes is just i mean it could be anything could be anything you could be a fifth grader you raise your hand in class you ask a simple question to the re the rabbi you know because the kids in the observing world grew up observant with observing rabbit you ask a question okay it was a dumb question you didn't know it was a dumb question but it was so dumb that the rabbi just he couldn't hold back he just couldn't hold back and he said an amazing question if it were third grade this is fifth grade link i am an absolute what idiot i'm an idiot and how many people have i met over and over and who are capable adults who have considered themselves an idiot ever since and it's forget the class a room i set up any classroom any moment where like you were scared to death to get called on to read just because you were scared to death get caught unreal i was scared to get called on reid who wasn't but of course inevitably the teacher's like okay yeah what's your name mayor okay mary reid you know and and anyway i got called on the read and i totally blew it totally blew it i'm stuttering i'm like you know just because i got psyched out that it was my turn to read now i didn't make up a big story about that or maybe i did i don't maybe i have to like see a psychologist or something i don't know but the um but you see how that could be a pebble in the fluidity of my reading or my intellect or whatever enough about that now your cerebral cortex is a is a friend and an enemy on one end it's a friend got you through that door helping you sit you understand my english you know you're you maybe you know how to do the rings you know like an olympic athlete's certainly happy about his uh his uh abil his uh neurons because he over enough time enough time enough time enough time he's now got this amazing olympic level ring ability it's only because of the repetitions in the neurons clear but it's also your enemy you know why because it's matching every moment with the past which means someone who's not on the cutting edge of spirituality is living where in the past now living in the past now meaning everything's matching with the past so you know what this looks like now what does this look like jesse james yeah what we're doing is we're going we walk in a party we feel a little uncomfortable socially comes the marbles that i'm not really acceptable or whatever those little marbles are when we're kid shoot the place or go get a drink or just like shoot everyone down until you find someone you know don't we all search the party for someone we know yeah just to get a little safer okay we we tend to familiarity like crazy we're always going for the familiar how are we ever going to grow in life if we're always looking for stuff that somehow already matches the past so what do i do i just knock out everything that's new anything that's new anything that might shape me because i was born a piece of clay and all those teachers shaped me and my parents shaped me and i had no choice in the matter i don't think one person in this room was walking into nursery school with their mommy you know and they're just like you know first year nurses going they're walking with their mommy and they're like mommy yes dear can i just speak to the teacher before we walk in that door you know i guess so okay and stay right here you know and bring the teacher out and teacher comes at you yes little boy and you and you're like her little girl and you're like i just want to know uh i just want to know what it is you'll be teaching us and how do you know it's true not one of us did that not one of us we just went into the the whatever crazy thing that they came to teach us which had you been born like had you been born like literally like 500 miles away they would have taught you something else you know they would have taught you something else every every school system is going for different stuff the the uh and you know once you leave your continent you got a whole different textbook of other things going on you know and yet we all walked into life that way which means we were all born as clay and without any request from us people just started pushing and making indentations and forming different things out of it and the crazy thing about us is that ever since that happened and we became like young adults we never let anyone mess with it again don't mess with it don't mess with my random shape and we all know how totally random it is because if you take that random shape then maybe it doesn't look so random in the neighborhood you grew up in but take that random shape and airdrop it into new guinea or something it is the most random shape they got totally different things happening in new guinea these days take the top kid in new guinea and drop him in norway he's going to be out of his depth it's random but we're all so scared that we got the jesse james thing with the cereal with the neurons of killing the moments killing anything that doesn't look familiar to me knocking it out because it doesn't match the past and then just once again like someone give me something familiar it's only so long i can stay away from home because i i don't this doesn't fit in my my uh neurological pathways that i was raised with so you hear how neurons are great like they can help you win the olympics but they can help you lose lose your life because life is about growth life is about being a full clay like just being like so impressionable so that you can grow so you can change you know what the elderly are like in jerusalem you would think if anyone was stuck in their ways it's the elderly of jerusalem these old yiddish guys i mean they eat they do the same thing every single day it's almost like every bean in their chillent on shaba's day like almost like comes right into place and goes like like that like in the exact same place the last week in the last 80 90 years i remember one of those guys 95 years old walks up with this book in his hand it's one of the personal growth books in judaism it's called the way of the the the path of the just he walks up his name was solomon of zalman from brazil one of the most famous jews of jerusalem in this generation he passed away like 10 years ago and he he comes up to him the table i was sitting at he says it's going to be a new zollin it's going to be a news almond because he was plato he was plato and he was so beautiful he was so alive he was so alive that's the goal fluid the neurons are supposed to be fluid new it's going to be a new yom tov i am i'm going to be shaped by this day's events i'm going to be shaped by tomorrow's events i'm constantly being shaped the guys who miss me by the way when i freaked out and went like turbo jew when i was 23 i'd been surfing internationally for 12 years six to eight hours a day that's all i did was surf okay and well at night i did other things we're not gonna go into that the uh but during the day i served and the uh when what happened was uh when i visited after six months of learning here i went back and a couple of my buddies were out of town so they didn't get to see me so they asked my buddies what was he like what was he like you know like because they're they're not jewish and and i mean one or two was jewish but the rest weren't jewish and they're like what was it what was it and so my best friend said to them he said to them that's darren doss an amazing guy long blonde hair like scandinavian looking guy from malibu i grew up in melbourne so he says he says oh he was exactly the same all the other guys looked at him like what you know i got these hand-washing rituals going on like out you know on the side of the car after surfing you know we'd be we'd go to mcdonald's and like totally overeat so so but i'm not gonna eat at mcdonald's because now i keep kosher for my six months in jerusalem i'm keeping kosher for sure so so i had them pull the car up next to zuma beach there's uh wash there's bathrooms are right off the highway i and i had my own little cup i had made my sandwiches i washed my hands two on the right two on the left made my blessing you know the pacific ocean in the background is gorgeous and sit down in the car make my hamotzi i'm just chewing away on like this like these are like scooby snacks you know like giant sandwiches like my daughter's trained well my 18 year old daughter made me a scooby snack for today triple decker amazing so uh anyway and all my friends are in this in this you know suv you know three guys in the back me and the driver in the front they're all just looking at me like what you know and they showed up at sunrise we surf at sunrise and they showed up at sunrise and they were peeking through my blinds in my room like pounding on them and they see me in there with black boxes on and they're just like what the hell and it was silent driving to the surf spot because all they want to do is ask and they didn't want to like ask so like it was signed always so i finally halfway there i'm like you're probably wondering what the black boxes were and because i saw them all like first it was one guy peeking he was just like and the next thing i saw was all four of them were at the blinds just staring at me and i was just like practicing i saw at the wall you know something like that so anyway the uh so this guy said for the guy who missed me when i was there he said so what's he like what was it about he says oh he hasn't changed at all and the other guys are like what you know he changed everything he says no no think about yomtov johnny english name think about johnny ever since we knew him he's been evolving when anarchy was in he was the craziest anarchist there was when it was like hippie peace love time there was no one more he peace love than him when he buckled down in school and like actually concentrated for one year he got straight a's and was like in like doing graduate level studies in that one year he studied his entire career since 11 years old so yeah that was in universe i like freaked out and decided like i gotta at least see if there's any truth in university so i did graduate level philosophy classes you know so i kept going and going like that and anyway they're like ever since we've known him he's constantly evolving so he's the same exact guy only now he's embraced his judaism because he never knew anything about it but since he went to jerusalem and found out what it was so that's where he's at now but if you check me out three years later then i was like doing like different things in judaism very different things and now i'm also doing different things than i was doing then i'm always but it's and that that's the point is that your your neurons are supposed to be so fluid they're so fluid but we're all so solid we're all such rocks you know and you and we all like to think that old guys are rocks old ladies or rocks you know but i'm a young strapping man with you know here to like grow in life but in fact we're just rocks we have things linked you know we got all kinds of stuff going on where we just don't grow very well which means we're we're not 100 alive and that's the scary thing but here's the here's the uh here's the the clinch you're ready for the clincher here's the cleanser guess what this isn't what our classes are about our class is about who are you there's one more thing that your neurons have been saying to you besides how to get in the door and what's english and and that your dad dropped kicked you and therefore this that and the other the uh there's another thing that your neurons are saying to you that they should not be saying to you it's almost as if you've been hijacked by your neurons there's another thing your neurons are saying and they should not be saying why because it's just not there it's not they're right they have no right to be saying it there's one more thing your neurons are telling you are you ready for this your neurons are telling you who you are everyone think about that for a moment who are you that was my original question who are you i was really into john and twistle on the basis the uh who are you starts to get a little weird doesn't it not my heart not my neurons yet who's been telling me who i am when i walk through life who the neurons but if you're not one of them you're not all of them if you're not one of them you can't be all of them collectively you're not your neurons you have neurons but you are not your neurons so who are you if you're not your neurons then who are you where are you gonna point now it's wild thought and i'm trying to get you guys to where jews come from to get the world view so then who are you a work in progress beautiful let's get some more you make yourself to be amazing beautiful let's hear who are you any other takers that's exactly you're not that's what we just got through saying ah your song very good well listen to this guys who you are is obviously not your neurons and they've already mapped the brain and brain science they map the whole brain you're not there okay they know where thought is they know uh uh sight taste hearing they know where love is and or fear they know where all that stuff is they've mapped all that the one thing they can't find is who's experiencing it they can't find the point of reference that you call you that they cannot find so you're not there and so the answer is who you are is the neshama which is called the soul you are the soul what's the soul i have no idea we don't know what it is but i'll tell you one thing that when your soul was in this pure soul realm before it got put inside this little toyota of yours you're this avatar you've been calling you mistakenly calling you and the greeks have been wanting you to call this you calvin klein commercials definitely are trying to tell you that this is you and that's why we don't tattoo if you're already tattooed enjoy it it's too late now but the reason we don't tattoo is that it's not yours it's your avatar it's your avatar and when the soul was told that it had to come down and have an avatar in this world it said no way no way and god starts giving all these promises it's like but like on the seventh day your avatar just will stop it won't do anything for like it won't burn things won't light things won't get in cars not gonna use phones won't do business i promise like at least one-seventh of your jail sins in your avatar at least one-seventh of it will be without pain and it's like it's like okay that's good one set you know and not just that but like the stuff that'll like poison you it will not eat it will not eat it will be commanded not to eat the stuff that like will just like it's like cyanide to the soul and like it won't eat that stuff shellfish pig all these things it won't eat it so you promise well i can't exactly promise because it's gonna have free will so we could always go buy the pork chops you know it could go eat the double bacon cheese it can do all that stuff but if it honors you if the avatar honors you it won't if it doesn't honor you it will it says well i'm not going down then forget it i'm not going because you can't promise me it's going to honor me in conclusion everybody in conclusion your body is not you your body's an avatar that has had a soul like with a dropper just kind of went and it dropped the soul into it on the 40th day after conception into the fetus and and the soul wants certain things the avatar on the other hand is stuck with the neurons and the neurons is just a real estate business the next thing i'm just going to share with you about world view is a jew sees his brain as real estate tracks of land who are you willing to give them up to what are you willing to watch what are you willing to click on where what are you going to educate yourself with what are you going to fill your brain with what are you gonna fill your mind with because your mind is real estate there's no television in my house if there's anything i can do to help the real estate of my kids minds be kept special and holy that's not one of them they're not going to have someone else's programming can they watch a video sure but i'll put on a video for them having first screened it myself because your mind think about it everybody your mind is the real estate of your avatar and your soul is either going to be in bondage behind the bars of the neurons of your ab of the avatar of the soul you've got to take care of yourself you got to love yourself while you're here give tomorrow's night's shabbat give your give your neurons a break sorry give your soul a break tomorrow night and just have shabbat and let your soul say amazing by the way your soul when you came to jerusalem your soul was like yes yes yes yes yes because it just knew shabbat it would get a shabbat you know except for the guy we talked about who had it linked and wound up in netanya yeah his soul was like yes we're coming to jerusalem we're gonna get shabbat except he had it linked with his dad and his brothers and evil so he he pulled his soul to natanya and didn't keep shabbat so in the end all we're really doing it's being realist we're being realist you're not your body your neurons are part of your bodies you're not your neurons your neurons are just what you use for the soul which is your avatar your neurons are just your avatar your soul it's the brain of the avatar and the so the idea though in the end is honor your soul just honor it it's stuck here with you honor and watch the magic happen by the way i'm concluding with a story that there was a there was a person who was the least spiritual person i've ever met in my life he was raised purely by television raised by television he drove a uh he drove a a bmw that matched his cell phone and his suits on sunday he would just be you know in venice beach muscle beach there's a and he'd just be like in a tank top and you'd just be like i'm so buff i'm so tan hey i'm buffing down yeah and people used to always say to me as i was in israel i was in yeshiva and people always say to me hey what about you like send him a book or something they knew i was close to him he was jewish said send him a book send him anything send him one of those books about how the athlete became observant some famous athlete you know speak his speak his language you know instead of a biography of a businessman who became observant i would always say to them leave them alone like this man in spirituality have nothing in common like he does not have a jewish bone in his body leave him alone that's what i always said that's what i say but uh you should know he is today he's like a rebbe to me he's one of the most spiritual people i know an amazing amazing person and how it out he came he flew in for my wedding and uh his business was running it's a wealthy guy his business was running itself and he so he stayed for another month and he danced in tel aviv every night dance in tel aviv you know what goes on when you dance to lavi so he woke up at noon the next day every day woke up the next day he came to jerusalem to my place except i wasn't home who was home my wife i was studying in yeshiva so she and he would they fight over he'd be like how can you live this lifestyle and she would nail him because she's no slouch she knows her stuff my wife's strong so she gave it she gave it to her she was smashing with her spatula you know every night back in tel aviv with this girl every day back in tel aviv arguing with my rabbits and my wife rebison's like the female rabbi night day night day night day night day finally i dropped him to the airport my wife's like thank god you know like like what kind of a first three weeks of first month of my married life was that you know like hours of arguing with this guy and the uh every single day so anyway so what happens three weeks later i get a phone call from his parents in america hi how are you muscle tough on your wedding everything uh can i speak to you know they said you know can i speak to andy and i'm like i'm like i dropped him to the airport three weeks ago so i mean call him yourself you know it's your son like no no he never came home i'm like what are you talking about he never came home hey we've we've called and we've been to his place he's a sports fanatic so he's missed all the games you know his dad has big screen tv and you know it's every sport everything's tivo'd and like i think now he has multiple screens you know and so he's uh he didn't come back and i'm like come on you know and they're like we've been to his place and i said go to his place at two in the morning just set your alarm clock and go to his place and two in the morning surprise attack so anyway they go to his place at two in the morning they're banging on the door banging on the door and i guess in a stupor he comes to the door opens up the door and they look at him and he's got one of these on his head and he was too embarrassed to go home because he said when he got on that flight after a month of arguing with my wife and after seeing my marriage and seeing the wedding and seeing the way people are around here the way people are at shabbos tables and way people treat each other in the world we have here and the wisdom he said he said i don't know where i'm going with this but i've never taken this thing off he didn't know where he was going with it he's never taken this thing off the rest was history and he became one of some amazing girls wouldn't leave him alone because his life was a lot of girls so the girls are always attacking him and stuff but he doesn't want to touch girls anymore because we're not involved with girls but anywhere he would go he'd like sit down at a party and some girl jump on his lap so he decided to grow a beard he called it nectar deflector he grows a beard his nectar he's still running his business like he's got a good business he's got his nectar deflector he's got his little yarmulke on and everything was going great anyway in the end he becomes a breast lover husset rabbi and uh just an amazing thing but he became one of the most spiritual people i've ever met why how how could it be that guy from muscle beach he became like a rebbe to me in meditation in torah and everything how how could he become my mentor and the answer is because he started honoring the neshama the miracles started happening you watch it yourselves you see you honor your soul you honor the soul that was stuck in your avatar and you start treating it with some respect you start really honoring it and asking rabbi and learning books find out what do i have to do to keep my nose keep my soul happy inside this body and then you start watching miracles happen of how powerful you are he's a powerhouse this guy and you should know he's a major banker he's a vice president of of chase in los angeles it's not a slouch you know this is the giant chavez stable okay it's no slouch shalom everyone you