Where Psychoanalysis Fails - Likkutei Torah Mizmor Shir #15

the yeshiva dotnet in Yiddish kite we have two structures the structure of the Michigan and the structure of the baser McNish both structures were mandated by Hashem and both of them represent places with the srimad weld and wells Vasily McNish vishanti be social you'll make a Michigan a mikdash and I will dwell among them and as the Gemara says in schwas michigan uremic dish or mr shikou michigan the word mimic - includes the michigan which is sometimes called the McNish the militia sometimes called the Michigan but they're interchangeable so Vassili mikdash says impartial Sherman the Michigan because Michigan uremic dish so that's the common denominator that they were the do Michigan twins dish from the word - right - odd or vishanti or scheana which means to do well to come in to rest because there was a place of hash Rosh Hashanah with a divine presence dwelt that's the common denominator between the Michigan which travelled with the Jews in the desert and then for a few hundred years located register all until it was replaced the Mishna says incited that all the parts of the Michigan were hidden they weren't destroyed they were hidden the beams and then the Sacketts and the curtains the veils the tapestries in Michigan that Marcia built was hidden the Mishna says the first period of SATA and it was replaced by the structure of the base a McNish we see however that the structures these two structures hadn't made had a difference had differences between them and one of the major differences it's not just the sizes were different and one was mobile and one was permanent but it reflected a difference in theme that's the focus of the beginning of his gimel of the mind marry the Michigan followed the hierarchy of creation the hierarchy of our world is madaba height Sameach and diamond on top you have madaba the human being Hashem tells other man hava who radoo true or vom in Lewis aureus which if surer filled the world and conquer it you do your job is to take responsibility and ownership of the planet the human being is responsible for the planet even the gas am highest IFAs call haram is like he says impartial mauritius you're the crown of creation which is not only a privilege it's more importantly a responsibility i'm not going to discuss now global warming and climate change and human responsibility to protect the planet but despite the fact that the issue was politicized the concept as a critical concept that the human being is basically the mommy and tatty of the planet and the worst thing a mother a father could do is this how these kids I don't know who they are it's not that way you're at the center you're the center piece of creation you're connected to everything Adam he says look at the territory usually most of the coolest coil calabria Adam is the one who's kind of the whole Bria and therefore connected to the hub Rhea so that's the Madaba the speaking the one who speaks under that is high the animal kingdom the animal kingdom are under the human ray under the you on there below humanity we call them Bali Hai malathion means they have a body and they have a soul in the sense of they have consciousness and they have emotion and they have intelligence each animal according to its capacity each bird each fish each or every animal living according to its capacity and the hierarchy of the Baloch I am is so deep that again I'm not discussing the validity of it but to the point that there are many people who consider themselves very intelligent and sophisticated and when they speak about chimpanzees they call them our cousins right our closest cousins our closest cousins now there's a lot of a lot of distortion in that and that I think it does a lot to deal ejido my's the dignity and the morality of human beings and their responsibility because the moment you say that our Uman being essentially is just an evolution of an ape so that means there's no substantial differences it's just we stand on two legs and we can do a couple of things that they don't know we can build museums but essentially it's made of the same stuff the same chemistry but the point is that the similarities are profound to the point that people could make this mistake and in terms of DNA indeed the differences are very very subtle those subtle differences make the difference between heaven and earth but they're very small differences under that you have Samia Samia is the world of vegetation of produce same AF means it grows and that's the entire world of what we call the world of botany the world of produce whether it's fruits or vegetables or legumes or bushes or shrubs or plants of all types here today they say that there any consciousness and emotions and plants - but which is probably true but however what what's visible is growth you see you see life you see growth a tree goes through cycles of life and if you study it and you're aware of it you could see the hibernation and coming back to life and death and life there's a whole organism that functions in a very sophisticated way like the animal organism and like the human organism but without that display of consciousness and emotion and and movement that an animal has an intelligence that a human being has the intelligence is also there but it's embedded in the nature of it it's not visible in an an outspoken way the way it's by a person or even by an animal and then under that you have diamond and the word diamond means silence in Malaysia visa vie de Monte Vai IDO I'm Erin right Erin was silent the word diamond is silence and what what did that represents is that it's silent in other words no life is visible at all it seems it appears lifeless and here again we know that if you take a microscope and you look at the rock or at a grain of sand or at a mountain you will see internally in every grain of sand tremendous life in terms of its molecular structure and atomic structure and the atom is revolving and moving in great swiftness but what is displayed what is displayed is just a lifelessness iraq can sit for thousands of years it says nothing it doesn't move there's no growth it is what it is solid consistent but silent diamond unlike timaya unlike high unlike madaba this is the hierarchy of creation and each one serves the other the diamond serves it's a mayor because nothing could grow without soil soil is like the foundation and offer is the classic example of diamond earth earth or water or stones I've owned them these are all considered like different minerals the metals the minerals and the earth that are not organic that's called diamond that serves it same air that same mayor serves the high because most of the animals and fish and birds in one way or another even rotates and rodents and insects and reptiles are all using or benefiting from the offer and from that Sameach eating grasses eating plants eating herbs and so forth and even those animals those animals who eat meat and other animals but those animals are being fed from the Sameach and then you have the high who serves the Madaba who's the crown of creation serves in different ways either the way it's after Nayak's flawed that we can eat meat or chicken or birds or even in the sense of serving in terms of work whether it's the horse or Kamel or the or or the donkey or the dog the protection whatever it is but the human being traditionally historically harnessed animals sometimes justifiably sometimes unjustifiably with cruelty to serve his or her needs so this is like the hierarchy like every hierarchy it could be productive and it could be destructive it could be manipulative and it could be meaningful it could be abusive and it could be dignified like any hierarchy but that's how it works in creation and our job is to refine it and this is not a small thing because essentially this is the web of the planet this is the the food what they call the food chain or even more the food web revolves around this cycle and there's a very delicate balance of the ecosystem of how it works because if all the highs will eat offer when if the skies will eat all that same ax then the other highs won't be able to survive there won't be enough oxygen it's everything is very delicately balanced what's consumed and what's not consumed and the balance is extremely powerful and the extraordinary said the system could continue working and the fascinating thing is that the Mishkan literally resembled this hierarchy because the builders of the Mishkan were people and the cayenne and was served in the Mishkan were obviously human beings they were behind that they were to dream the inventors the designers the builders moisha but saw all of course ally of etc own then all the contributors but when you looked at the Mishkan itself if you looked at the top you saw hi he saw animal hi if you went further down down they were draped down the walls were made of Sameach I'd say lumber at sea chitin and then when you came down if you look down there was earth because the Mishkan didn't have a floor it was a transient flow wherever they were they used the earth of the desert right the Mishkan was situated on the ground over the desert so wherever you were you just the earth that was that that was the offer that was the foundation I mean that's what you stood up so it literally resembled the sky that semi as the dime and it was all brought together by the human beings by the Jewish people who built it and that essentially is a very logical structure logical even from a spiritual point of view that's the Michigan we have in Paris no Simon ha offer ash a year back Eric a Michigan from the earth that was in the Kharkov the Michigan they would take for the site uh you needed offered the offer of the Michigan where would you find it you would look down and you would take the earth so that the diamond and then up Sameach and then further up high and of course you had the cloud the Shiina that dwelled in it which represented the divine presence that brings it all together and the base--emitter dish which is the permanent structure unlike the michigan it's called dearest wash la corniche Morocco it's not called oil but it's called bias the ultimate home the first base emitter second base emitter and certainly the third base emitter here everything changed and that is the hierarchy became completely different what basically diamond rose to the top the roof was not made of high it was made of stone and the walls were not made of Sameach they're made of stone and the earth also remained diamond in other words what happened was diamond was elevated you had high in the base emitter she had car bonus you had Sameach but that's all in doubt vada you had meal offerings of animal offerings but are talking now in the structure the interesting thing is Michigan Sheila in Michigan Shula is the intermediary between the two between from getting from the Michigan to they made some English there wasn't a drastic metamour a drastic transformation there was a memo to what we call an intermediary and an intermediary as we learned earlier in the moment about the two-step types of Kassar an intermediary always has to have an element of the first and an element of the second because if not you can't be you can't be a man would see can be an arbitrator if you understand one side understand the other side like we know an arbitration the worst thing you can do is take one side because then you lose the trust of the other the moment the therapist that makes one side feel that he that he or she likes them more and is on their side then a lot of you workers will be undermined because even if the therapist agrees even though the therapists degrees for the for both people to be able to grow in the process it has to be trust and for there to be trust the person has to make both of them feel that he really or she really understands their position the moment you say you're wrong you're right you may win the battle but you'll lose the war because of the person is not ready to hear that even if it's true it's usually not true but even if it's true it's a process of trust so that that's the shot on the matzah if you want to really be a middleman meaning if you want to be in the middle which means you want to bring two extremes closer together you want this side to come closer to the sent and you want this side to come closer to the center you have to always have two lenses that can see this world and see that will not bring them together this is an important principle in life people sometimes try to mediate and compromise they ran away take a side and they you lost you lost you lost you lost you get you you lost the prize before you even start it remotes always needs both and a real remotes are there for is very deep because he really has to transcend both because in order to be able to see both you have to transcend both because if you don't transcend both then you talk and get trapped you get stuck that's why it's not so easy to be a Mahmood sir it's there our mom speaks about there ahem Sawyer's right there how Hockman is there ahem sighs it's not about compromise it's not about the good therapist trying to always compromising and never taking positions no in order to take bring two positions closer together when they're so extreme you have to go to a place that transcends both of them and therefore you could bring them together that's why he learned before about Kassar that casters are Mimoza between the Maxell and then that solemn between our zilla's and beyond that sillas and forecaster has to have both components and has to have the element of absolute infinity and it also has to have the element of appreciating structure and that's why caster translates into the two dimensions of attic and heiress of plebeian hezonia you know what I'm talking about yeah cooking me round I don't know if you're looking at me like a chimpanzee or mishpokhe cousins our closest cousins uh-uh so Sheila was the intermediate what happened in Chile as we learned yesterday from the sector's welcome this time we'll get it right that essentially the taker of the roof of them of of Michigan Schindler varied from the Michigan and they reflected the base--emitter dish in the sense they were they were met it was made of stone but the wall still reflected the dynamic of the Michigan Oh you know your ears right I apologize I stand corrected yeah yeah yeah they right so the walls were presented the basic dish but the roof still maintained the hierarchy of the Michigan so when you look up you saw hi when you come down you would expect a seat say mayor but here it was replaced it was replaced by by the by the by the Avon them right okay everybody's sure sure I guess we'll stop for that you'd bake off a majority can help about things that are you not sure if it says what school majority help but Charlie's gonna decided to earth is flat that's not gonna make it flat a boy once came to see me she was here and he says that the puss success actually Robin were hot dose you have to follow the majority that's what Hashem says this is 2.6 billion Catholics one point one point seven billion Muslims yeah how many Jews fourteen million and among those Jews how many Jews believe in Tara mitzvos he said that's pretty small number says what happened that he replies follow and he asked it in class and I'm not gonna tell you what happened but it wasn't a very the last question he asked in class so you came to me unless I explained to him that Kadapa hot this means you have a court they're having a legitimate debate there's two sides of looking at it the person is innocent to guilty you're not sure his witnesses I had his witnesses are him did he lend him the money did he not lend him the money did he lend him $10,000 $12,000 this is debate and this proof that prove that you have to go grab my hot sauce yeah okay very good you're right go feed base I'm at base welcome Aloha your sham ticker a la base Sivan and bill vaudeville Martin various mo Milo so when you look at she light you looked at the roof it was like the Mishkan you looked at the walls it resembled the base a McNish it resembled what would be later the base HaMikdash which means it was like an intermediary an intermediary and the place of Sheila the place of the Michigan of Sheila was in Joseph's territory Sheila was Joseph's territory thank you so what does all of this mean did ah yeah near shamya close to show what does all of this represent it's not stomp the Mishkan was temporary it was transient transient was mobile so it could be made through these things you can have a Michigan of stone and then you're gonna build foundations he could attach it to the earth in the mid what are you gonna do it had to be a mobile sanctuary so the structure had to lend itself to be able to be disassembled and then assembled again so when you have beams of wood you can separate and put them on wagons and carry them and disassemble them and then assemble them together the base of mikdash in your Shalom was built in one place and it stood there for hundreds of years and it was intended to be absolutely permanent so what we understand that concept but like everything in the physical level that itself reflects something deeper it represents also the metaphysical structure and that's the main point that's brought out that would want to bring out him and with that extra piece of information that Cyrus Clara SH when he rebuilt by ash Amy the house come him see a tragic error that he made which at the surface you wouldn't see him would not seem so significant that he insisted for a display of visible wood in the walls of the base of McLeish three rows marble which is stone that's fine and one row wood and the common attribute to it such a sinister motive that here the man who was considered the greatest friend of the Jewish people was already planning its destruction okay so it doesn't work out the fires should be able to catch easily which is again quite strange conchoidal Sharon woods come laughter shall commence he became much the Comets lave malacca masseur and the word that gomorrah uses is after shipments after he became my comets which is either vinegar or climates or you know became sour became sour like sourdough is what creates comet so it's also connected to climates this is all your take it scolding you there's or take Zaire means sour sour dough yeah yeah now indeed Kairos never had to burn down his structure because at the end of by a shame he heard us Harold rebuilt the whole thing and he rebuilt it in his own way and that's the magnificent structures that herd is built all over the all over today all over at UCL you see a lot of structures they're called Herodian Herodian era he was a great architect I'm a sugar now but an architect Russia me Russia but he was a brilliant architect and he built and he built extremely magnificent things at the point of Gomorrah says that Oh Mitchell our opinion hurdle our opinion mium off if you didn't see the structure of Hoarders debase on victors the way it looked after her disease renovation you never saw a beautiful structure yeah she says he made it he made it look like waves individ the Yama it looked like he used the Morrisons beginning ambassador he used marble but he made it it had a look of the waves of the ocean galle hai jaan and then he decorated it with gold that the herkiman were not happy about they like the waves that's a whole separate smooth but not wood huh he rebuilt it based on the hakama because he wanted to repent for what he did he killed someone here Baba Babu told him to rebuild the end yes I'm saying Irish Irish is building never burnt and he never he wanted and may be off to burn it down the pile who was burned by the Romans but much later four hundred and twenty years later well this is what does all of this represent on a spiritual level so let's apply it to the person's like that person's life and then we'll see the connection here to the Mary's submerged perhaps but not on the outside Corey richest problem was the mistake of coitus was lease it to la vache recall eights that by the Mesa meters is a laugh if you copy the Michigan and the base--emitter it's a Nevada you weren't allowed it's not just they didn't do it because who needs it you weren't allowed in other words it's not just a structural thing you need stone him you want a permanent building it's better with hervana you weren't even allowed I have a supporting beam displayed if you wanted wood it has to be submerged and that's what the Gomorrah says about soy mama he also had wood but the wood was on top and the wood was covered with plaster and the wood was submerged didn't type inside the edifice and by creditor was all visible and the Rambam makes it one of the lava and one of the 365 prohibitions not to have wood that's displayed with a Misbah by the base emitters which it's hard to understand what's the graces what's the big deal if you have a little wood so the regular shot they would say is because wood was used Wolfen for that che Rose used for idolatry but here it's not being used for idolatry something like all wood became apostle and and Tiffany now that I have it like such a bad thing what a shady now that I have is would that they turn it off I desire a tree they different of a designer but here obviously that's not the purpose no our biblical biblical biblical one of the why sister yeah one of those same fraction of tough Saturdays huh you could use a storm operators are so some say there was the mimic they used to have at their share in the Middle East it was a common idolatry there's explanations but it needs be or why is it such a fundamental issue our people in me is helping mister on a deeper spiritual level is with the ballot on is explaining here in a person's life there's also diamond Sameer hai madaba the four categories of creation exists inside of us because asylum no sin belly bomb as we said the person is the pinnacle of creation all of the world exists in you the past success in Kahala asylum no Sun belly bomb the entire cosmos God places in the heart of a person it says a novice lira blossom Island cotton z'ha'dum every person is a miniature universe in other words as he says they call masha allah masha adam cole mashiach pas de miage bola when you read about something in astronomy and cosmology and geology and botany and in a jungle somewhere in Africa or in Australia the last thing you should think is this doesn't have to do with me if you can't find that in your life so you don't know something about yourself that's where the baal shem tov said anything or jew sees or hears is a lesson and avoid this i said why and maybe i just saw something so it's not just because it's my heart chakra if i saw what god wanted me to see it but it's also it also means if it's something in the world i'm a mirror of the whole world i'm a miniature mirror of the whole world and not in an arrogant way in a responsible way because if the whole world exists in me it means that i'm connected to it i take a certain amount of responsibility for it but it's also beautiful it's not just have it's beautiful because it means you're connected there's a connection it's waiting for you it's not don't look at this in a Jewish guilt type of thing you know I know that's where we go right away guilt guilt guilt it's not about guilt it's about the beauty of the cosmos how connected we are string theory yeah yeah the unified string theory and it's just the vibrations yes why he can now gain Amin again but he cannot gain I'm a noggin that's the strength area yeah and the string theory is really that connection and that's the high of Adam Lima be she really never Harlem the Commissioner with me the world was created for me really the world would trade me some kangaroo and Australia was created for me and the elephants in Krueger's Park in South Africa were also created for me so the protracted upshot is that there's something there's something in a person that is at stake and the whole universe needs it and there's a very deep connection so this it says our Imam Cotton's a lot of them call obviously rep nonsan from the time I am call Marshall years but I'll um yeah she will Adam McCall mushy about Adam Yauch Barlow if it's in the world it's in me and if it's in me it's also in the world obviously not the same exact size and properties but the concept the energy is there so diamond Samir I'm a dabber exist also in the person and there's the hierarchy in the person Madaba madaba represents the highest form of human expression hi there's a lower form of human expression say math is yet a lower form of human expression and then you have diamond what's diamond diamond is silence diamond is lifeless dormant from diamond maybe I don't know any lay a day maybe but it's dawn it's certainly dormant yeah that's why it's called diamond and the classic example is as he says I've won him an offer earth and stone our diamond you just step on stone you step on earth constantly the earth doesn't say anything the earth doesn't Baldur it doesn't revolt the earth is just there yet think I Alice it says Huckle Holloman offer everything comes from the earth including atom VII casa milà kim by ether Shambala Camus atom we're affirming Adama how Kalaa him enough and the whole miracle of vegetation and produce and botany comes from where it grows from the earth we call earth mother earth there's a reason we call it mother earth mom is the progenitor Aimco Kyra cava same color I the mother of all living beings so a bizarre it's range the Mischka and I understand dynamics on the bottom diamond belonging on the bottom suddenly by the base--emitter dish which is the ultimate edifice of God diamond goes all the way to the top what happened should be the other way around they couldn't find another way to make the roof we have one of the miracles and prickly others that the rain didn't extinguish the flames the smokes of them is better as a miss Bayer was outdoors because the Besame they she had two sections one section was indoors that's what we're talking about the kite Ishika Duchamp and the Haeckel that was all indoors and had a roof but the that wood over the action wasn't so visible over there there were a few things they would like them and narrator every day and burn incense every day and that was it basically the lack of my apartment once a week they would deal with but the main action but it was all outdoors the MS BAE Hawk it's on the outside miss bear right over there they offered all the animals and all of the meal offerings and the libations and the music outdoors so even indoors you want to have an indoors you have to have an indoors you could have found different ways of covering it DAF carvanha and as we see you now that even have a toilet what does diamond mean in a person's life at this surface it would seem like the lowest but essentially on a deeper level in the Shire ich it's the highest and because it's the highest it always comes out in the lowest because collig avaya be a co-ed LaMotta be ice so therefore what's on the lowest on one level and it's really on the lowest when you go back to the root of it it's the highest and therefore in the Michigan which reflected reality on one level diamond was on the bottom Samantha's higher higher higher debase HaMikdash which was a reflection of a different dimension of reality it looked at things the way they are in their Shire ish everything turned around suddenly diamond rose to the top and there was no high at all and even that same mayor had to be submerged the sky was McLouth and and same air was submerged inside in other words you can have Sameach but Samantha's is in the diamond it's it's part of the diamond it's submerged it's concealed by the diamond the exact opposite polar opposite of the Michigan and in the Oasis of the mind mate that bias is usually built from I've wanted the ultimate buyers you can have a bias of wood but the ultimate buyer is the base I've unlike the base emitter is base Homer Ivana with a love ocean are usually Sameach and mahzarin can be either too mejor high and a one-level muzzle in is so much closer to us it's what we eat we eat animal or we eat say man garments are even closer to us and you don't wear garments of stones and you don't wear garments of earth and you don't eat earth but the bias which is furthest tomas is actually called market for Asik which is the deepest place and it comes out LaMotta in Ivana man our friend diamond and that's the hole I tricked into the how it works in the base our mixers to understand the my love the base somebody's over the Michigan and there's a certain of Kurdish so all of this our Isis what does this mean and how what do we take out of this how do we relate to this so here we actually come across a very powerful idea and I'm just thinking how to explain the idea I'm using a model I don't know that this model is dull you could use a lot of models and illustrations but I think this will will help us understand the best there's a debate a long-standing debate in the world of psychology about what's the best way of treating people and their internal struggles one one one process is known as psychoanalytical focus very much on psychoanalysis and the other one is focused it's called behavioral and the difference we understand the difference one approach says you know your pipes are stuck in your ceiling yeah you need a good plumber to get into the pipe with a flashlight and do dust on what we call Vickers comments but Hiram ABA's dokkum you got to get into the cracks and find all the comments there and clean it up the person whose body has a lot of pipes we have only 100 billion pipes not so many 100 billion pipes to deal with they're called neurons right or nerve cells some even say there's more but I think 100 billion is enough to deal with and each one has about how they're all connected to the brain and they all send messages all day all night non-stop plus a hundred trillion cells so what are you gonna do with this so psychoanalysis says let's let's try to deal with some of the pipes you go in and analyze and you they second of course you have to go back to we have to go back to child and we always have to go back to your mother mommy is always guilty and Matt I've to your father and if possible does Ada and the Bubba as long as you go all the way go back to cava and the nosh and the snake and you'll find it all but it's really a very deep process I know I know a person who's been in psychoanalysis for 40 50 years he tells me it's the highlight of his week he goes twice a week to be analyzed to explain every motive and why he said this and why you felt this and why you thought this etc and the truth is it's an interesting to speak to him because he's very self-aware a lot of people are very not self-aware but he's quite self-aware and it says it's almost like his you know people go for massages every week and they go to chiropractic adjustments every week and he go for his psychoanalytical lesson every week with a psychoanalyst explains them why he's crazy okay huh you like it okay cost a costume for 75 but the VA you put it on the budget for muscle itched and the truth is we all need somebody to speak to I say the carafe Canela everybody needs to diagur believe issue scanner my my look says when there's anxiety and you you have to speak the Gemara says you scan a la harem one of the interpretations so this is not a new concept but this is basically the process that believes that you have to go into the mess and try to undo it and find clarity there's another the other it's more modern there's more behavioral and that focuses on the fact that if you go into the the deep intricate layers and the complexities of the human psyche you're trying to excavate two sub layers and the sub cellars and the many strata of data and the human psyche you may get stuck there Loyola mu'adh Tilke asam a survivor Clow and really a person should be focusing on actions behavior day to day behavior how I live and there's those who advocated the first and those who advocated the second and ultimately today most will tell you that you need a combination there's this process the value and this is the value and this depends on the person depends on the situation sometimes if you completely ignore psychoanalysis you only focus on behavior the darkness is too deep the person may not be capable for person is living in a prison tell them behave I can't I'm paralyzed you have to be able to deal with that sometime uh the body keeps to score the body holds the score and and conversely so these are these are big discussions and so forth but there's really a third component and the third component is a very powerful idea and it's one of the ideas that the Latanya has and quite a few Memoriam I'll just say it and then I'll explain it then this is I think part of what he's saying here what looks like diamond really touches the unconscious what looks like diamond that house built of stones which doesn't even seem connected to you really touches a place in you that you're unaware of in the ISIS of the mind that which is maka flea market or market for rocket beyond Mach if a car if we does it come out that comes out in the LaMotta in the lowest manifestation of life where everything seems lifeless which is diamond now what is diamond in a person's life diamond a person's life can also be called bittle or it could be called silent commitment there's two aspects in our life sometimes I do things because I understand that this is the right thing I do things because I feel it's the right thing I do things I enjoy doing them for not doing them in other words there's an element of self-actualization here I see the value and through this I become self actualized in other words when I'm involved in this I feel like I'm growing I feel like cuts a mayor or Atlee I feel like a high I'm alive where I even feel like I'm a dabber I'm a human being but then there are moments in life you can call them diamond what is diamond I mean silent what is this in a person's life in a person's life it means that sometimes a person does something and I don't feel self-expression here I don't feel any self actualization here I don't feel I'm growing on the contrary what did I just do on one level it seemed like I surrendered vanevski awful occult to you I'm Diamond I'm silent a mute in the process on one level it stack of the lowest on one level how do you compare diamond to too high it's like it's like dead lifeless it's silent but that's deceiving on the level of a socialist in the level of Gulu him on the level of conscious reality there yeah of course madaba hides a madam when you look at Penn Emmaus when you look at the courts it's managed the opposite in the place of not NASA vanish ma de batalla das the bit Allah rots on the suspension of of the need for self-actualization to the truth that's completely beyond me here lay not only the ultimate truth but the ultimate truth of the person and you see this in people's lives also it's not shot to psychoanalysis and then this behavior and behavior says listen we don't have time for this let's just let's just do things but sometimes much deeper than that behavior which sometimes seems external fake superficial dead lifeless this behavior behavior there's nothing there its ideas its diamond that has a power to bring to life and trigger and rejuvenate and shock like a shock the etson that is deeper than everything Africa behavior the place that's unconscious how do you reach there you can reach through analysis analysis will never take you there analysis will take you to deep places but very limited places sometimes very important sometimes very important places to figure out your patterns but sometimes behavior which seems external and not much there what's the big deal so you behave this way so you smiled so you smile to your spouse you came home at night you came home at night you're in a bad mood you're overwhelmed you stressed out plus you have a virus plus you have a flu Sam the headache plus your congested right thank you also a therapist we have a lot of therapists by the way let's say I have to be careful with every word cuz they're psycho analyzing me constantly right so you say and then you come home and you're completely not in the mood not interested but to something you learn how to behave to your spouse how to respond when she gives you a caballo spawn him the way she gives you or your child gives equals one but that responds I don't feel it it didn't come from me it's diamond I'm basically copying the script right on one hand it's empty on the other hand on a deeper level that emptiness creates what you would call if you want to use the word new neural pathways it creates new dimensions it almost brings to life a part of you that you need desperately which is your marker for erotic which is your core which is beyond consciousness ah it's not fake it till you make it it's not fake it till you make it this fake it till you make it in a good way there's also fake until you make it that can be your soul so you know sometimes faking and fake and fake it fake it yeah it sounds like senior so yeah I'm crazy you don't have to be afraid to say it what do you mean by daven it what do you mean when you say Dominic it's diamond you're saying yeah now here there's always an important qualification a person could become a robot on a zombie just following other people's scripts we're not talking about that then the diamond Tucker remains a diamond right and that's why one has to be very sensitive and that's why you didn't start with the base on Victor she started with the Michigan if you start with the base I make this you have to start with the Michigan cuz it's very nice I could just tell you you know your feelings don't matter your mind doesn't matter who you are really doesn't matter it really Kamala I'll come tomorrow says give me like a Hummer Lucas so slow masa a donkey or horse take the burden and go and this is what you're doing just follow a script a diamond fight be a diamond the whole base time if this was built from diamond and the moment you say but I'm not here I'm not present oh who are you belong you have to be very careful that's the other side I'm emphasizing this because it could be very not healthy for a person the diamond on one level is the lowest in the Michigan the diamond was on the bottom when one appreciates the truth of doing them you understand that the sure Irish of diamond is higher than everything but this is a diamond that comes from strength from empowerment from clarity not from suppression and negation and subjugation it's the diamond that allows you to liberate yourself from the finite parameters of your consciousness and in that sense it becomes the most liberating experience that I'm capable of always connecting to a place that is beyond what I call right now me because the part that I call right now me is going to be limited by my consciousness not because I'm bad but because I'm a limited person and it's the diamond which is expressionless which on one level is the lowest because it's expressionless but on a deeper level you know why it's expressionless because it's beyond expression that's the curse of diamond the matter matter of diving the fact that it has no expression is because it comes from a place that is beyond expression which is plenteous a castle which is beyond that sillas which is attic which is mcafee Rajic which is beyond consciousness so just like the Mitzvah of Shiksha is rooted in that place just like Malthus is rooted in that place diamond is rooted in that place and ternary very good about fences this was the hillock of yourself in your hood Yosef means growth voice if you heard the means submission are either hide or made the monocular lock submission surrender you heard there was very suspicious of Yosef it turns out in history Yosef had to be the king before you hood because Yosef kingship was the Hashanah for Yehuda but the ultimate is Yehuda the avid Ovid malakal a male Mouse was based doubled what was David David his mouth closed over this diamond in Malaysia visa vie de Monte the base amicus was built by mouth was based of a dove in and schleimann the base Emilie dish was diamond she'll I was Yosef still and it was the intermediary from the Michigan to get to the base a McNish an intermediary was the Mishkan of Shilla we're the walls already were from stone but the roof was still high wasn't from stone yet when Yasir comes before me she has been da vid yeah yeah now what happens the Gemara says her son had enough cough gimel you Robin benefit who was he lovin benefit when schleimann passed away recover him took over when real of him took over the people came to him and said you gotta ease the tax burden your father gave too much too many taxes for your father because you wanted to build a bit some air conditioner and you rather hover masked advice from two sets of advisors the older senior statesman who served his father and the young heavily that he used to hang out with in 7-eleven in you know the pizza shops says his old covenant is to anger and then they would play football in the park the older statesman said the people are right you're not your father by rusev you know low lower the brother and the younger one said no no go stronger on them the older ones told them the only way you're gonna get the people's loyalty is if you show them that you're your subservient to them in a tortilla evitt if you're gonna be an avid for the people you'll be able to be there Mela and the younger one said no no no no you got to go with an iron fist or what happened they revolted and the Jewish people split and this split completely weakened the fabric of cloudiest role and caused the urban bias ruin and their expulsion of the tension autumn this happened right after a corporate Lyman's death in the days of recover and who became the second king you Raavan benefit your oven was who he was from the family of a frien a frame was the son of Yosef the mouse was went away from you who the back to the way it was in Egypt where Yosef was the king and everybody would suppose everybody was bowing down to Yosef went back to you sir although there was the Mel of you hood the body only had two tribes on them you haven't been Avot resurrected of a disorder in the Jewish world he built not one golden calf he built two one in Donn and one in bet thou he prohibited pilgrimage to Yerushalayim he didn't want them to go to the base--emitter he kept them away he changed suckers from suckers became from Tishri became Cashman crashing the truth the Gemara says him Sock'em we learned two days ago in column a Vaz si Maya the skill over the Vedas because you love them understood that the most powerful thing that keeps tradition alive by juices Shabbos and the holidays because that's when families experience the tradition they don't talk about it they experience it with the with the Canadian with the kishka with the kögel somebody once said I used to be an atheist but I became religious because they don't have any holidays one problem we had with atheism how can you make a holiday what were you gonna celebrate the random mutation of bacteria of helium and hydrogen what are you gonna celebrate well you said Labor Day but that doesn't always work not of your Bernie Sanders excuse me for a moment so what happens now the Gomorrah says you haven't been about was the Mishna says quite amok this arab english helical Olam haba incessant sanhedrin Cove gimble he was doing from the guy in a HUD or you know pimento was one of the greatest of the generation so the gomorrah says in sanhedrin that hashem came to him and said kuzuri Bock do chuva van eva otto ben yishai natal began Aydin me you and over damn a little stroll and and Aydin so you love him said who's gonna go first so he said over time Alex he said if so I don't want know so the ballot Anya says in terror every gosh which he references here in this my man this my and that my me references this moment he says a half mitered the cavort because when you read the goomar there's something strange when he said when I Shem said do chuva me you and ben yishai was strolling na Dhin he said who's going first you and me Virata or ben yishai then you're out there who's going first he says Dov it well the first time around Hashem said that your lovin was going first second time around God said he's going first so if you don't understand how to read these stories ya oh it's not me doing it good it was really family do it God didn't know the God didn't know the order when he said it the first time rema doing it but when you loved him asked it's almost like he ruined it by asking he ruined it so the altar ever says that's it it's the richness of it is very powerful you rob is from Yosef Yosef is the king before you hood you can't go to the base are McNish if you don't go through the Mishkan you can't really surrender if you don't appreciate your personality because the ultimate surrender must come from a place that is deeper than the self not lower than the self the ultimate diamond is the diamond of the base--emitter that comes after the michigan so Yosef has to proceed you hooda in other words the real diamond has to be one that follows Yosef not precedes Yosef Yosef is first amela and then you heard there could be the Mela what does this mean in a person's life the ultimate state of life is complete oneness complete oneness needs Bittle hadass bitl Herzl a place where I say I know nothing and I want nothing and that's when you can start living but if you start that way I know nothing I want nothing I am nothing it may be true but it's abusive why cuz it's not true the power of diamond is that it's rooted in makka Farouk when diamond becomes an excuse for intellectual death emotional death death of creativity death of personality then when a Savannah Shima came after you seeis mitzrayim after Korea cm stuff after the 10 Marcus God didn't walk over to them and say 630 meters not Savannah Shima there was quite a display there was quite a display of love how does it start how does mouthing tell you to start and yesterday he doesn't come and say I want to give you item recession SEC limits Ryan the answer as to my confidence are in now you want a real relationship with me want a real relationship with yourself the ultimate relationship is gonna be in NASA even more than ish my eyes always now the MS is that the year shamayim of a year the Bittle of a year even on the lowest level is rooted in the highest Bittle the lowest level of years shamaya orbital which seems expressionless is rooted in the higher form which is also expressionless but the process of growing into it is yosef growth and then you hooda you heard it didn't understand that so he thought Yosef is a threat yourself is not a threat Mitzi is is not a threat to bittle Mitzi this is a haha meta bitl real matthias is a real lock on a typical your Rothen benefit knows everything he's very deep God says do true ver and you me you and David will stroll in Canaan what's the strolling on Ayden strolling na Dhin means but Latonya says there'll be a Gilly Ainge scythe a stroll is like a player you know pleasurable it's delightful there'll be a Gilly ain't safe maja ordered a Bharat Sumer he says antara everybody gosh that you and governor Malik and me will experience so Ben you know you love him got it I'm first he knows it but he says me bearish who's really first who's really on top is it me or Devon I'm Ella is it the Mishkan of the base hamikdash is it Bashir have been used for machining of it in other words at the ultimate ultimate end of truth is it about yeses orbital so he said ben yishai bearish you gotta be first now because at the end of Shlomo's life they weren't ready for David yet they had to go back to Yosef they went back to your of them your first but ultimately it's been you shy mushiya's comes from David they didn't grow enough to be able to surrender to be ready for Malthus based W after work through Yosef you understand surrender always must come from the place of the deepest power the greatest people surrender in the deepest ways understand that a small person can't surrender to insecure the greatest people will surrender in the deepest ways because they're the greatest people always that's how it is you can see it even in scientists great scientists don't speak about that hand yeah yeah you'll see ah yeah yeah I think the pseudo-scientists that I'm not great you know are still protecting tenure and try working for the Nobel Prize and want to make sure the New York Times loves them etc but once you hit that point of greatness and you see and you only focus is truth then you have to surrender what does this mean in a person's life what does it mean the person's life sometimes what looks like diamond will be the greatest blessing in your life it looks like external behavior it's it's it's nothing it's diamond for example so this your children don't have a good relationship with you sit down every night on the floor and play again but I'm not in the mood and it's not coming from inside so what its actions behaviour so it's not a question psychoanalysis versus behavior let me sit in therapy five years and figure out why I'm this type of father and why my kids respond this way you could do that but from my sir you're gonna go to a deeper place in yourself that you didn't know about you're gonna get to your maka for 'aqaq know some people are black or white psychoanalysis has a very valuable contribution to make because sometimes people have to understand why they're so messed up that wasn't so nice sometimes people have to understand why they're so traumatized okay that sounds beautiful no much nicer not messed up or traumatized it's good to know why for one reason so you should know not to take it so seriously not to worship it it's just something that happened it's exists in me it's very important behavior is sometimes very external especially when you're copying other people there's nothing there in ms diamond brings out that which can't be expressed and that's why it comes out in mice in Bittle which is also expressionless because if you would feel it it wouldn't reach that place in you which is beyond feeling beyond experience there has submission that's been you shy that's been you shy you ratham wasn't ready for that you love them ultimately at the end of the day he wanted his I to be present what did Katers do now we'll understand the depth with Kadish will finish with the Scottish he put wood in the base of it big deal he wanted to say he wanted diversity marble marble marble wood Marlo Marlo Marhaba your wife is a designer she would also say the same thing no ah I don't know actually it's nice to have to play marble but Kurdish had his taste finally and his magazines that he used to look at so the GU maurices cause he wanted to burn down the base MF - he was a Yiddish akin D was Esther skin according to many so you wanna in case the Jews rebel it's like a second plan B in case the Jews rebelled the Gemara says enricher shana damned out if the jews rebelle i'll be able to burn it weird way of building something right you build this beautiful mansion for your daughter-in-law and your son but in case they rebel you make sure you can burn it down and collect insurance but in the crater's days there was no it's a very strange thing so the way he explains it here it's a much deeper inion the second base image was being built but there was something rotten still there was something that worked out yet Slimer built the first base some exertion he made sure there's no 8 sticking out kurdish wanted 8 sticking out what is this an isosurface Indus he wanted the Yesha stew still remain he wasn't ready for real Bittle I'm ready to have stone but I need the eights now we don't mind that as eights we like eights we want growth we want creativity we want expression we want life but how is the age in the base of McNish it's inside the oven it's shock' Bibiana it's part of it's part of the relationship it's part of the bitl God doesn't want some B's God wants successful people part of real brittle is self-expression self-actualization doesn't want you to be on nobody he wants you to be a conduit of the infinite light da vida Melek was not the schmatta the Villa Mella was a warrior as we explained his whole power came from his powerlessness the greatest leaders are the leaders who surrender and they become conduits but over there the yesh is a hillock of the became the eighths is in the oven kurdish wanted 2/8 to stick out separately so the gomorrah says why because he was planning maybe he'll have to burn it down what does this mean spiritually it means ah I control it a and B you basically deprive it from its eternity you deprive it from its eternity the power of diamond is because it looks dead it never dies so mayor high and madaba can die Diamond never dies a stone never dies or in Yiddish there's an expression bitl Kennish bottle Vernon the only thing that can't be nullified is self nullification everything else could be nullified but Sears can be nullified bitl Kennish bottle Vanna the moment the base hamikdash had the wood in it it allowed itself to be burnt what does this mean in a person's life what will allow you to create eternal relationships that will never be destroyed is if you have the diamond if my relationships are based on my feelings of when things are right some days I'm in the mood or something that man in the mood the relationships I'll build bridges I'll burn bridges if I want to guarantee the Eternity of those bridges I have to introduce into my life that element of Bittle hadass of bitola Rutzen that aligns you with the ultimate truth with eternity and that never changes because it's not based on ego and therefore it becomes eternal this was curtisha's mistake was Bittle Kennish bottle venom but for that i have to surrender my eye and that's not easy you haven't been Avadh didn't agree and we can understand it over benefit you never benefit at the end of the day he said I want to be there I want the eye there it has to be in my experience he wasn't ready for that complete oneness it says machine Ben Yoseph is gonna get killed the gomorrah says before but shipment of it the opposite of you haven't been to vote you haven't been ever took away from David and Michelle Ben Yossef really Yosef was a conifer David so the Mishkan she lie which was by Yosef is the intermediary between the Mishkan Annamayya McNish because the ISIF is not common to you Hooda that's why he was in Chile so you had the Mishkan in the desert you have the Michigan in Sheila and then you have the base of Mukesh which was all Ivana all stone which stone is diamond osseous in davon Inge what is it in Dominic it's Tulsa - trance when Esther which part of Dominic is silent when Ezra should have been the other way around should when Esther is the ultimate that's what anybody should scream even in Karl in even in Kyle in where they scream by Schwinn Astra what happens suka desimilus rice - Heath Roy dalla Lucas rised initial canard as you count every word like pearl but suddenly she when asked is urban tryin boroka Tasha huh diamond Vanessa's diamond she when Astra's diamond what says diamond silence why silence there's a silence that's inferior to noise there's a silence that transcends noise in other words sometimes I'm quiet because I'm not interested you don't want somebody that I'm just under I'm quiet I'm not saying anything because I'm not really here that's the diamond that's lower than noise then you have sooo criticism you British Krishna - Derbyshire coy - barrage girdle miss Nasim why cuz they're higher sarcoid Esther highest highs in a good way I mean is a kadish high but then starting with krishna an especially she's mine astra it's already starts with krishna by eCos mavin iam welcome and especially created especially when Ezra is the peon of Diamond car verdict a memory dolphin inia Timon in other words in the presence of the full truth there's an element of silence not because the relationship is weaker because the relationship is much deeper tuning into the infinite yeah and what's the ultimate silence in life the ultimate silence in life was when I'm not even aware of that silence and then I can really tune in because there's no I tuning again that's the part of the market by hehehe Kannagi and Haman again but to hear love Roger Ascham when the manag in becomes anagen when the manag and loses his separateness and he becomes the in Vitiello via Dasha for standard emotion it's very it's very powerful ideas in life that the diamond touches the Edson ah why painful matter not really painful the yesh wants Bittle you Olivia if the yesh was a real yesh it would be painful if the yesh was a real but since the MS of the yesh is the bit life as little as the amaz so when the ash becomes bottle that's to free then it's a burden for a yesh to be a yesh doesn't want to be a yes you think it's easy for an ego to be an ego you know how much yeah me and how much you have to invest in build it's like Bernie Madoff's Ponzi schemes you know how much money you have to invest you know how many lies you have to tell yourself to build an ego cool and you feed it with lie such a burden the moment you could tell the yesh the DA finish that's fine you can let the go he's happy well hopefully he won't trust you see he won't tell you that he's happy because he learned to ready that he is everything but once you really let it let you once you let him really go ah I'm a Shia Micaiah people who don't have to live with self-consciousness it's the easiest way of living huh walk into a room like a diamond it's the best way to live no self-consciousness mama shreya shtick diamond they used to call you our glump yeah it's a beautiful compliment you didn't realize what's cook stuff maybe I grew up via Hani Bernard um yeah you haven't told you we are hunting Bernard them you never had somebody to tell you that those cooks you know what a haunting Bernie of them is Micah Paris we say Binet Adam you're a chef at some of us what does the chicken look like when you say in Binet Adam a chicken must cook stuff maybe our horn and Bernard on one of those Yiddish self-esteem boosters you're basically like a chicken you're looking at me like a chicken Bible a Adam in other words like an idiot right but the guy who told you didn't realize what a beautiful master she was telling you you should be able to be like a diamond look at you like a chicken available because he looked at himself like a trickle-down but imagine you could walk into our room like a diamond huh so there were people like that not that they weren't they were fully alarmed they were so alive that they were one with life so they weren't self-conscious you walk in you're not self-conscious I'm here I'm not here they look at him he's not looking at me I think they say they weren't disturbed with the consciousness that comes from ego that's called real presence such a person is present beyond ah completely present there's because there's nothing to distract you there's only presence there's only presence usually I'm distracted my thoughts my feelings I don't want to be after be here what are you thinking why am i you know all these types of things which is a very normal thing we walk in somewhere where self-conscious even shyness show people are self-conscious maybe less than other places but still small children small children yeah right right the ultimate diamond comes after the first diamond was on the bottom and then the acid love it says then will be elevated to its cherish Asia Scylla Terrace baila ya know it's brought that the Asia's femininity throughout history was seen as subservient to masculinity were really in the shirah SH femininity is higher than masculinity a terrace by layer is the constant by color and save one yeah sure Asia's highlights refers to actual events yeah yeah you see throughout history women were naturally more subservient to men right and it was part of history today it's the opposite so you have two sides of it you have the way it's misconstrued but in the Shailesh the point is that as we come closer to the completion of things so the kiya hai between have which is more than men which is why they are the mothers of our children Hockley Amina offer just like the offer you put the seed in and that's where it gets produced the seed of humanity is placed in the woman who was like earth and she produces everything the kiya capital is much stronger and when the cherish of the bitl comes out automatically femininity is elevated to a different place but without sacrificing the value of femininity in others when you only have secular language you don't have spiritual language so the feminist revolution can be very counterproductive because all it says is you need men who said glorious star one of the great feminists women need men like fish need bicycles right in other words you don't need men you don't need Mary you don't need families just become judges and lawyers and go to work at 8 o'clock in the morning with your @xj cases and whatever men have you should also have but really it was the most insulting thing for women the most insulting thing you could tell somebody is that when you reach your old when you reach your ultimate greatness you'll be able to copy everything that men do you'll get paid like them you go to the military like them you'll serve you'll vote like them you'll serve in the highest levels of politics like them you'll become the president of the United States great beautiful but what about what women have to give to the world which is irreplaceable yeah yeah spiritual femininity is so much deeper the Mayan Oakland yeah my question was when you see yeah yeah I'll um hypocrisy the Gemara yeah a beautiful Gomorrah right that Joseph became sick and I'm a bastard a feud with my bastard a few he became sick hey he was in a comatose state near-death experience what we call today he came back his father said what did you see Elam Hoffa crazy topsy-turvy world those who are on top in this world are on bottom in that world those who are bottom in this world we're on top in this world so on one level it means that you know sometimes people who are considered great in this world next world it's not that way on a much deeper level it's what we're talking about what seems in this world as the lowest in the shire ish is really the highest diamond is higher than Samia I am Adama and that came out in the base--emitter cuz the baser McNish was a foretaste of the future of young shakeela Shabbos a menorah the Mishkan was a prerequisite so the Mishkan actually follows the hierarchy of our world the baser mikdash follows destroyer ish of the hierarchy the rude the source and in this source is the opposite diamond is hired and it comes lower it comes down lower call hog avaya be icy arid LaMotta so there is this the home which is made of stone it's not made of animals or made of of garments of Samara it's maokai it's made of of Onan over there who comes out the market for 'aqaq of a person in your home comes out a deeper part of you more than in the food and in the garments that's why a home is so important a home is like that unconscious net of safety that allows you to be alive when people have a home that they can call home there's something at their core it's not tangible it's not tangible like if I take away your house what are you missing I'll give you a place to sleep I'll give you food you take away the core I may have a bed I may have a bed somebody who you'll let me sleep in your basement I'm not right you're gonna but but something at the core is missing a person needs a home child needs a home what does a home give it's not just I have a place to hang up my jacket I can hang up my jacket in your house you'll be nice you let me hang up my jacket yeah people put their clothes in a locker in a mikveh fine you can have it I'm not talking about now the practical stuff if you have a big family you need more place but the point is even if I'm a person alone the home gives something at a core at your core it's like you have a place called yours that makes you you and now you could be productive now you could grow you could blossom and that touches a place that's not so tangible it's not you can't always pinpoint it that's why people whose homes are damaged their homes are not safe places there's something at the core that is very compromised yeah you could run away to camp and you could go to a dormitory you can go here and you can go there and you'll be fine in terms of physical protection and safety but you don't have a home it's not a house it's a home of course of course it begins with yourself everybody have a beautiful day and a lot of us with what maybe maybe in other words there's the the feminist revolution or the positive sense and then there is you know how'd they burn it no you seen you can't burn stone a special I don't know that they burn it did they burn the walls and the roof you're saying Christmas necklace what does a fire do ah probably I understand that the interior the interior was burnt you wonder how they dis physically destroyed the base of a fish with all these stones this class is brought to you by the Shiva net please help us continue the classes make even a small contribution at triple w dot they you Shiva net / donate