Where is Satan on Yom Kippur - Fundamentals of Repentance - Rabbi Mendel Kessin

[Music] but I just want to say myself one little thing Rafael Weinberg my red visa Tom had always said that what is a sham won from us okay it was quite a quite a big list but one of the main things is Occident he wants us really to have to be one there's no question that that's one of the main things that God wants from us and sometimes he brings all kinds of interesting events to the world in order to read that about and I was thinking to myself how divide in America is America's not necessarily us but when you think about Miami Beach or Florida I don't know what percentage is Jewish but I'm assuming that at least of Miami Beach was probably 10 percent maybe more so anyway I think that we look at current events no matter how we look at it or what's going on one of the main themes of one of the main motivations that the chef has we should really try to heart and listen and create a certain type of unity because as Rubinoff Weinberg said if if we don't forget about no make sure it happens because it's going to happen one way or the other and something better when it comes from within but without any further ado I will pass the microphone over [Music] oh please turn away your cell phones on vibrate Thanks I just to make a comment on what has just been said the relationship between Israel and America there is an interesting relationship if you spot the word Jerusalem by JD Armour say on him an or sector know the latest as you were saying just in the middle of the word juicy is USA and that's very interesting fact so there is a connection right in any case tonight is a very important election this year because we are coming up really in many ways to the essential theme of all the holidays and that of course one of the one of the essential thing is of course to burn dependence which will come into a very shortly Yom Kippur so I thought it would be very bangable really to get a good understanding of chibok determines good understanding of that also to answer many questions about you but one of the most citing for the most important is that why is it that you know there's so much of a build-up we can they get this in kipol1 is it that right if TM kill everybody goes back basically to being what they were before you know it's like one of those New Year's resolutions that don't even outlive New Year's if you don't show up that's an interesting question why is true so difficult to do and I want to try to deal with that because I need to do impractical to identify what is the problem in terms of children but why doesn't it seem to be effective like I said because you just go back to doing what they do hold here even though they went through Yom Kippur and they now of course it is some trouble today but it doesn't seem to be really effective so I'd like to talk about that also and also get his point is or exactly could be very helpful in terms of ability to the trooper a so first is the first thing to understand is the event of your people every Jewish holiday has its origin in a historical night we know that and the star mentally in Kippur really started from two wars when one shot baby went up to receive the Torah and of course he came down and she was with Thomas and at that point in time the Jewish people had seen the golden calf and she was super Thomas and of course that was a terrible terrible fact for many reasons but one of most important because it involved in time Jewish people accept the shaded lady only believe it the ladies don't share with the Ducks him but everybody else basically did and this is our argument to really sin was the air problem or the Jewish whatever but in any case the Jews clearly though guilty Copple for the sim and that was a terrible event my shopping of course realized what that meant dead then what he did is of course she was super promised he went back up in heaven to some Island and for forty days he pleaded with a bunch of dr. de swert clients well because that's basically what a bunch of said literally leave me but how I was something I will destroy them and my shop and of course pleaded for Clara for forty days and he succeeded in overturning the decree to such an extent where he came down after forty days I'm a shortish alone and then he went up another forty days which was sheltered the tenth day of Tishri which is a keeper to get the second was and the repulsion did forgive the Jewish people at least to extent with it destroy than me we reaffirmed his commitment to them that they are the chosen people and as a result of that of course the clouds the clouds of glory they only have covered we turned on the fifteenth day of Tishri which of course is the beginning of service before Yom Kippur has its origin in the fact that God forgave the Jewish people and therefore that day which is attempted this way and now became a model or a day in which forgiveness is now accessible to a great extent so that's the historical event which occurred on attentive Tishman when you became teachable and that day of course now became what's called an english propitious to forgive for torment purposes was that tissue doesn't it smell no as a young people well whatever I'm sure we will not sink in there any case so this dish top of that question is what you need to partition what is unique about your Kippur see well what we see is certain very important ideas how much does the revelation of God how much does he really want us to do to her and we would say enormous amount and we would take a look at what he's done we could see that in some sense God has incredibly overextended himself for the Jews to do children and the first concept of children of course is hello where the bunch of says I mentioned last week in my Rosh Hashanah field that the functionally informed the Jewish people that the entire world will be judged and the reason he informed them he didn't have to he could have as I said last week just judged all mankind every little thing but I'll tell you anybody but he did because he wants you to influence the verdict obviously like the boss coming to a factory he says listen I'm going to make an evaluation so I give you one month to shape up see you don't have to you can just go in and then evaluate the worker said give me the pink slips whatever but the one she didn't do that he filled the Jewish people to tell them that he's going to be assessing the entire would call t controlling the entire balance of holiness and tamang whatever and now they're up to see what it stands and he's hoping that when you was influence the verdict so that's the first attempt that the person really tried it against to to vote and then of course Rosh Hashanah is where the Muslim judges the entire world and for those people who did not do tuber or a real children he gave ourselves made to her now ourselves mokuba is equivalent to an appeals court no it's the day of judgment passed right and let's assume a person didn't do Cuba so bunch them says I'll give you another ten days after the judgment because some people wake up too late you know they don't wake up until the judgment is passed until the awesome day is past and therefore the version gave another ten days to do children so that's a second attempt of trying to get choose to teach over a third attempt is really a people why the prosecuting attorney in heaven is the son he is there to prosecute the Jews and actually everybody that says but certainly the Jews and the problem that we have is that when the prosecuting attorney is employed then truth is very difficult why if a person who doesn't do an adequate to vote if he certainly doesn't do any true or repentance right and what he does to an adequate or it just says well I think about doing it and so on so whether suddenly he's performing his task which is to prosecute then he will obviously condemn that type of children he will say come on this isn't adjuvant this person up to a jeweler and call this children he plead will denigrate the entire attempt to a person if it's not really perfect so what the function did is an incredible thing he dismissed the Sun before one day now with the Sun has three jobs his first job is to temperament assembly and that role is called e it's a horrible the second job is to prosecute if the man sins and the third job and in that world is called a something which was the pristine adversary and the third job is called this muhammad's the angel of death it doesn't mean he kills but he doesn't execute the judgment that was determined by the corner three jobs for that month but the bunch of there is an astounding thing he told us something you can work 364 days as a prosecuting attorney however one day you cannot work you can't prosecute which day is that if Kippur which is a remarkable thing in other words as the gates of horror tempter you can still work as a mark of others you can still do it but you cannot prosecute the Jews in court and they have the tribunal you see what does that mean for us what that means is an incredible thing what it means is therefore that any trooper that is done anything even a thought but chuhwa is accepted because there is no adversary there's no prosecuting attorney that wants to denigrate or dismiss that shooter and for us it's an incredible opportunity you see I just didn't think about the truth what is a tremendous thing you see and that's important to know even if a person who didn't do a Jewish name off the real true repentance just to say well I think what I'm doing is needed not right and I mean I think I should do by the way what I do and maybe change my behavior that is a true verb and potential and that is considered in heaven as Chuba not as a fortune but it's not thrown out of court you see he was working on that day he'll be thrown out of court however under kipper every kind of thought of regret and the desire to change is immediately accepted for whatever it's worth but it is acceptable it's a very important idea to think about that's what I always say you know any person that doesn't have some aspect of jr. what's called a hero you know something some form of regret for his done wasted time or whatever he's done to home here right whatever sins or and that he's done over the year he's foolish not to do anything because on that game right any type of trooper trooper will be accepted for whatever it is and will not be rejected so you gotta think about that do something don't walk away from that game with nothing in terms of children you really have wasted unbelievable opportunity very important idea and that's why the commander of her something is 364 364 he is called her son the sudden you know the prosecuting attorney on the one day which is a 265th day he doesn't work it's called a compelled vacation that's what it's called but it's a very important concept concept now we know the question maybe is what exactly is truthful really and I'll tell you what super really is as we will see is part of the people device what does that mean what's the concept of tyranny God created the world where he concealed his presence so under the definition of Adam hazard this world is a world in which his presence is concealed which doesn't exist who knows just the physical world in heaven all the heavens there are many dimensions of heaven he is revealed in an awesome way so the angels of Malacca and all those residents of the upper worlds Coop's experience God there's no such thing as concealment no such thing here right it's completely concealed and he had left it up for man mankind to try to do what the freaking back so he created the world and whether his son a deficiency and the job is of a mankind originally announced June is to bring God back into the world that called tickle-tickle is one he means to restore or to repair to rectify to correct that's what people is and the job of the Jew is to correct the existential state of the Brio of the universe to bring him back where he was absent from that steagle in many ways to Jewish people are repairman you see a car mechanic repairs cars a doctor repairs bodies the nutrition repairs circuitry and so on Julie Pierce existence that's what he does he brings gone back into the wheel and that will happen in the Messianic era but that's what the Messianic era really is all about now therefore how do you bring him back what's the instrumentation then uses then we as Jews can use the first is called litoris commandments if we do mistress if we bring him back the second is called because God knew that people were not drink will not dementia sufficiently so therefore he gave super repentance as a second device the third device is called is soon or suffered something is not punishment for saying what it really is is a rehabilitative device to bring God back actually what it is we you know non-jewish world they look at it as in a world as punishment you know it's a solvent abuse you know it's soon in Joseph scuffle is the concept of rehabilitation when you see them because God said and yes mffo I am called your healer after the Jews got out of Egypt God says I'm really fine your God the hilum what that means is that God is not only a judge but he also be militates which means that he will get you ready for the future world even if it takes suffering unfortunately you know some people have to go to a lot of it you know it sorry but these soon in Judaism is all about collecting or on doing that which a person did which was born that's really what it's about now what's the common denominator of all this why do these three devices work well the first device I said was midges what is the operating principle original and it doesn't make a difference what it is the operating principle limiter is that it forces you okay to testify to a statement what is this thing for instance that's a summer person I think I use this example of a person's walk in Manhattan and he's very hungry he smells food perhaps betrayed but caution so he is now confronted with three different stages the first thing is that is a conflict of act well I go on to the restaurant and eat oh I will he got too confident well I go into restaurant and eat or I will not count the restaurant to eat that's a battle that's conflict should I or should I not eat in that restaurant but what really ultimately it's a battle of will should I go to restaurant non-kosher food because my will also exist independent of God I have a will so therefore that's what I want to do or maybe it's the reverse I will not go in but it was his will is he won't even exist so the end it becomes a battle of wills but in the end it's something even more profound what I go into the restaurant because I wanted to exercise my will right because I also exist besides God that's what usually move our doing besides God there is somebody else called me or no I won't go to the restaurant you see I wanted that act because his will is the only will that really exist supreme okay why because Inigo Montoya besides part there is nothing else so ultimately every material challenges you what do you believe you believe you exist independent of God and therefore you can do your will what do you believe that God is the only this and if only his will religious you see and therefore you need to conform to his will that's what a metal does it creates a challenge for you but ultimately speaking if you don't want a restaurant so on okay what you ultimately done is you've testified in a new factory that besides God is nobody else you see so therefore measure dimensional to the extent that in dimensions to the extent that in testifying in a new pattern to that extent you will experience a manova tone you will experience God you see it's a measure for measure it's an exact balance that's why God made the instrument to bring back the very experience that you will have as a result to the extent that you that you sort spirituality to do the will of God to that extent that you testified that you believe that God is the only thing exist does that extend you will experience God directly as a measure for measure kind of thing now that's what that's mistress what about you look what happens if you sin so whatever is done within the context of what a mitzvah is you have said nation levanto besides God there's me I also exist and I'm entitled to my own will you see and you've testified to that by doing the act which is contrary to what God wants when you do truthful when you repent what are you really doing you are in fact in your testimony argue you are saying I'm sorry and we grab what I did and I now say it different type of in a Nevada you see and that's what you feel is the way trooper works is the same way MetroStars it's a testimony tainted Nevada it's a pyometra is clear testimony by trooper it's a retraction of the testimony you see and that's what that's how to vote works the same way emitter does you see so that's how they're what's called the operating principles you're so pregnant so truthful repentance is a way to retract the testimony and God said I accept your retraction of testimony that's a really a gift because God not only accepts it but he completely erases the entire effect of sin as if it doesn't exist in yourself okay what about you sooner how does it sort of works why should suffering right expiate or rather why does it or lack to expiate why does it get you to the future world which does pass important what's its mechanism the answer is same idea how what is the value of man what's his problem the Battle of man always was is and always will be until mushiya comes is who's the boss who is the boss really is it me or God by other Mauritian you see that conflict man had to make a choice see who was the boss can I eat from that tree that he said don't eat from and what that meant is that hey I exist also why can I do what I want I wanted men trained who know men to live for underboss also war goddess the boss and therefore his will terminate and if I should not eat notice every single thing we do in many ways is that conflict who is the force you see just like and retraction on the chocolate that's what man is always conflicted about liberation was that the fun now where is he soon come in his Eastern does suffering is a very interesting form how imagine the guy's worth a hundred million dollars and he just had a heart attack and they put him in the CCU right I see you see see you right isn't there right and you walk in there and this guy's plugged into every conceivable plot the Machine right in order for it to survive okay now this guy's worthless only big dollars most people was a lot of money are very arrogant because they tend to believe that the reason why they made the money is because they are pleading people they are somebody's and that's why they made the money okay now you go over this guy and this guy's plugged into every device okay it's very sick how do you see them and you look at him and he said it's interesting I know it's gotta fall out of that before that I doubt that you could even make an appointment with him you know after the heart attack he's crushed never see these guys may I see him yeah they crushed wait a minute what happened today you go you see the ego is crushed why because of you thing is such a hotshot just get off the bed bomb but he can't so therefore what suffering does is it teaches a person an incredible lesson you are not what you think you are you see if you really was somebody you get off the bed go home we can see you're not what you think you want what it does is the conflict that I am somebody it removes that he's saying now it's true it doesn't bring the other part of the conflict if I'm not the boss thank God is the boss doesn't necessarily do that but what it does do is making your illusion of our deputies that's what it does if you move that illusion why should say the delusion that you are in what is in and that's half the battle won that's why anything that deals with that Russia will manage it as people because the essence of people is to bring God back to declare his supremacy that he's a Supreme Being well he sure does is it declares that you're nobody if you somebody care of the bed you see so the person automatically when a person really suffers they realize they did nothing that the control of life is completely out of this hands just as the people in Florida what they think about stopping or mom obviously so one man begins to realize Who am I really you know you know and it's always said you see you know a guy wakes up in the morning that's gonna make this incredible real estate deal come meet me make a million dollars by the deal he's got this meeting set up for twelve o'clock right to make this incredible deal and he's gonna have an incredible life write checks up whatever by ten o'clock as a massive heart attack he's dead he didn't know it's an I heart attack well nobody knows when they can have a heart that if they have our thing nobody moment knows the moment of their get but it just shows you how little promise almost no control of anything in your life you see and that's what is sue does any form of suffering teaches you a valuable lesson you have no control over anything you see thank God your life and that's why you soon bye knocked me out the ego and knocking out your delusion is somebody at least half the battle is won okay hopefully you're gonna learn that God is everything fine by this evening that's why I give you a valuable tip okay if somebody is suffering and he says to himself the reason why I'm suffering is to tell me what really am and I have recognized that this suffering something is from God okay half the suffering will go away just from that statement because the whole point of it is to teach you a lesson so if you have the lesson and you also the fact that God is supreme is everything then this from saying that have to suffer will be removed okay I tried it and it works anyway okay now where's the where's the proof of this well because she's my Israel won't say here Israel as the moon I've got the rule is one right okay f what means he's won he's attacked to you and him it's one just him right doesn't say here is what the Lord God the Lord to meet him right it says one which means not you right and the beginning of Schmid's and I in the large letter of SHM on Zion and the large threat of death or is a talent so that smells 8 they you are testified you need to testify that God is one and if you do that they'll reverse the Lenape got the large man of f1 and the larger of schmoes iron is da you will know that see that's the mediated meter which is really very very interesting okay you now understand how all three mechanisms do the typical because war connected to the statement to the testimony of a man move on you see and that's the reward when you experience God you experience is even more interesting therefore what you realize is what should our attitude be to and suffering well this is illustrated very interestingly with a story about Napoleon I would think the story about Napoleon and then illustrates really the concept of suffering with Napoleon was once conducting a war against some other nation and he was always conducting Wars they said so he's all about but he lives conducting the war and he decided you know I don't know what their plans are what their strategy is I need to find out that strategy so you know what he's gonna do yeah this incredible idea he's gonna dress up in the clothing of the enemy and it's gonna take one of his generals with him and they are going to go across the lines into the enemy territory right and where he could find out about what we that's the strategy that side he's gonna go to a bar now what soldiers gone to a bar what do they know they drink right more they drink the more they talk right and then a spilitt what do I ever get this guy you know when I surround him this way in that way so you think is that the great strategy I make the thing with technique say he goes with this general into this bar which is in the enemy territory places rubber boot soles yeah from the front you know because they need the only the booze again you know hold up let's read so on so they come when and the podium goes with the gentleman to that and it's like going to the Nativity of lions dead so Napoleon goes to the scientists you know in the middle of the bottom he goes to a table in general and they sit there and they tried to overhear what all these guys are saying and they're only Avenue but one guys break yeah I'm gonna get this the kind of bolted when the surrounding this way that Burton that versions and all that fine most of the surprise sitting at the bar was drunk and he's looking around the room and all of a sudden he sees the podium and this gentleman so he says wait a minute I'm hey that's the podium and the guy thing is they act crazy paulien he's gonna come to an enemy territory yeah do you mind after the guy stands up it struggle suddenly not knowing I'm Tanya that's the Polian so how do you know if it's Napoleon right that's because I was once I think I was once captured by him as a prisoner right and I saw him reviewing the guards and I saw a Napoleon was except I was in prison I was able to look through the bars right the bars of the prison and I saw the podium reviewers the soldiers you know I'm telling you guys catch Napoleon all of a sudden there was like a hundred conquered soldiers men are right they begin to look upon me and the and the guard I mean he's finished it's over with right because even under suspicion they haven't read him right and take it to the command or whatever he's all the way device into the ponent and every jump like in shock they realize they are about one minute away from death or son the soldier the general that was with Napoleon like gets up and he grabs the podium mother should come over there right and he takes his right fist and he puts him right in his face Napoleon's face you see and he starts beating him up he says what you're not gonna give me back the money you want me and he starts beating Napoleon to a pulp we really gave him a whipping come right so all of a sudden soldiers look and say come on this captain Polian you think the poem would stand this kind of beating so of course they turn away and the holy men in general slink out of the place obviously as quick as they terrible and they cross the lines it's a true story but with it's not made up for this year it's a true story you know they still wanted to go back into this you know Napoleon's army and an opponent is he like he's like it's all bloody you just be you know I'm general did a great job you know ah it goes back to this you know administration you know whatever you know his headquarters cop the house later they said not and the general says to himself I'm finished I just peed up Napoleon right I just beat the guy up ease up ease the Emperor of France I just beat him up right so over sudden couple to three hours later not kind of toward the generals home you know ever climb and there's a whole bunch of Guard soldiers 40 soldiers the polian wants to see you you know anything it's a tent over word right so he goes to remove their headquarters and poor lumineer he's like these fish because he beat up let me beat up their girlfriends you know so the opponent sets them before I pronounce sentence because you really be prepared what will you think what do you think I was thinking about when you were beating me up so the guy so the general system you know what you think about you promising if I ever get out of this I'm gonna get you back right obviously you know so the polling sent them know I wasn't thinking that because I understand your rules what you would do and probably say is by beating me up you were hoping that the enemy right they will leave me alone cuz they'll say nobody would ever believe that the podium will allow something subjected to this so I thought in my mind hit me harder because you need to convince the guards right the soldiers that I'm not Napoleon so I said to myself don't stop beat me because they can beat me I can see you spend my life is saying if you can't convince the guards of what you're doing I'm finished I'd you know so I wanna tell you the Poland's down that is the general you know then not only I'm not going to punish all the contract will reward you and so on you see that's the concept it is so you know if we knew the Caparo but for the people that is sue did for personally you know then a person would you know I hate saying say God beat me hard you know but that's the time it is soon as a people device that saves the person you see so therefore I mean we have three different types of thinking devices now what is children really and here's the mistake this is a question that you must ask yourself I don't stand something there's a maturity to children every day of the year isn't there submitter to - there are mom counts chuhwa as a mistress I said concerning my Yom Kippur there's a mitzvah to do chuva every day of the year so then why should keep a special now I mentioned the fact that the Sun is not there what's he different than your children between your Kippur and every day of the year and the answer is a misinterpretation of the would you vote true that does not lead to repent least to return you turn what the problem is this when a personal sins it's not just a sin that he does you see what he does is he creates his relationship with God is damaged that's the problem yeah you did the same fine but by doing the sin your relationship with God is damaged there's not only hope there's a distance that you have created between you and God that's the problem it's not just the immediate sin is the ultimate relationship that you have with God and that is damaged before what truly is repent it's not just to repent on the sin it's to repent your entire way of how to behave with God you see that's why the word Lucifer means to be turn not to repent you see that's the difference keeping all of the days of the year which is a very important ideal every day of the year you repent for sins you see but on them Kippur your repentance is much greater than a sin it has to be will you decide I wanna again get closer to God I want to become spiritual in other words I want to return to God by by not sinning at all not just I forgive me for doing this sin but I know is I want to return from the stink of sinning altogether you see and that's really what you keep is about which means that it's a whole different understanding you need to examine really your relationship with God forget about the sins for a minute what's your relationship with God are you near him are you close them you see that's the real ideal of the Chilean Kippur so therefore the salts and the affections that you're doing your keeper or really are about creating developing and improving your relationship with God course that's done by doing the mitzvahs you see and of course the the we hope the distancing from you in God have because of the sin that's true so we do we have our faith of course right because that's what doesn't but in the end the emphasis is not only our faith it's on where do you stand between you and God that is a question let's see what does it mean to be close to God it means a thing about spirituality that's what it means you see it's called the energy ratio and G no good what is the energy ratio you have to ask yourself your activities what is the emphasis of your activities is it the end or the neshamah is it the neshamah drives that you're doing which it's closer to God or the gene of God the gulf relationship once what is your primary time activities is it serving the body or it is a Sunnah spirit which is more what's the ratio well it's 80% good right body and it's 20% of God no good you have to reverse the ratio or you see what is your primary activities your primary concern is a dawn or is it yourself that's what your ticket demands it has to be a challenge do you know how you think will be something gone and how do you think in terms of yourself how does that work when you see them they used to be in usual I'm actually a rebel called us V the rebel was a bomb Isis it was a miracle worker and now people go to his son guitar dementia over he's buried right next to the Indian Supreme Court bench place to be buried but anyway that's what it's better people go because he's known as about Memphis there's a whole situation on how to go to freedom and so on without getting into that his father was this via River he was and his father was a miracle worker just once an incredible story he wasn't zone where he was Russia and somebody somebody went into going in went into somebody's house something sounds - to steal you know and the Jew came out that he saw the guy in this house and for whatever reason was that good just dropped it right in this house right out of that now the last thing you want is according your house with death but that's the last name not only because then you have to worry about funeral expenses but worse it starts to pogrom because then they say that hey you kill the good god forbid it's an open one so this person who practices being a rebel you see methods we River and I think was Friday he rented his veal River ice what should i do is the good dead go in my house I know what to tell us but it could start off pop wrong you know so there's really ripper which is it's incredible story he said don't worry I'm put me charming for Shabbos take from my child and put it to the mouth of the going it's true story so the guy did that he gave us jobs yeah I gave his job and the guy took the chomper backed ourselves and put some of the chocolate they tried to go his mouth the green cut up he was dead he got up you see walked outside and then he just died outside so this wasn't the guy's house you know would cut out what this villa rebel just did it's like beyond belief when so he ran away he ran away from Russia because they imagined what kind of advertisement that is right and it also tells you how powerful choices but anyway I think I think I think doctors should be put to giving our job in the hospitals to revive the patients but anyway he ran characters film and people were not so there so don't even who he was it was very quite done finally somebody Russia came in he said you know this guy is sitting in the back of the room then napoleon SP the reverend you know him then she became known and that was all thing anyway the story is about him which is what i want to bring out he used to work in this field rep was a rebel obviously a river but he also used to work under sink that never works but he used to work in any case so he once had a hostage and the hostage came open it it said you know river and understand something what's the problem so the hood said why am i the cost of money the river you see you say kiddush I was taking it right by you would I work how come you're the rep and I'm the source of rather brazen thing there's the river but he did right why you the river one by the hostel because we do basically the same things so those very little to them right and well as they say things without batting an eyelash is are telling the difference okay when I'm at work I'm thinking of kiddush when you're saying kiddush you think of work that's really but is a profound concept in there what does video ever sentence is that doesn't make its way it's Wiz your mindset where are you with your mind where do you want to be that's really when you are the mother shovelled is where you really are not when you're located physically and that's what he said what I'm saying kiddush okay I'm saying - or rather but I'm in the store whenever the headline I think the kid is what does that mean how about our gonna be that means I was sanctify the name of God that's my only concern okay it's two on one but my mind is on God but that's why I want and work is an interference in my money set of God when you're saying kiddush you think network that I make enough money this week right you know how do i do my advertising yeah king of Kadesh so therefore even in the middle of kiddush right you're thinking of wooden and therefore work right is it interfering or rather kiddush is interference in your work the reverse you see it's a very profound understanding what it says that no matter where you are I don't care you're gonna work you have to make a living or whatever you doing if your focus with your desire if your Rutzen your drive is to think about God to be close to him right into the business to one of the Interior and so on then that's where you are you are a rebel however if you're a kid and you're thinking about in our world let's see how much money that I make this weakness on then you're a person that's the difference it's not really want it it's what your priorities are in life what your emphasis that's the difference between the river and the found concept what does that tell us tell us a lot of ideas that you feel like I said Chu is a mindset that you want to be more spiritual it was actually the definition Kippur the regular day you see what you need to think about these what is your relationship with God it's not only what I'm various that I commit we want you you see are you close to God and you're far away from God in your daily activities do you think about time and whoa does anything pass that you when you if you ask yourself in a given day the nice things about God once this day that causes something but where your emphasis is you know where you really want to be the questions okay I understand I'd like to get closer to God how you do this well to do this requires certain activities you have to do and require certain activities that you have to refrain from not to the first thing is you have to adapt a different attitude you need to search for the truth most people walk around a life in a fog they never really know what's going on they just want to know in their world or they can get power pleasure you know and so that's what they want but they never sleep for the truth you need to become a person that is interested in MS what is the truth you see me what is my freedom Who am I you see where is God what the Jews there's a whole world of the analysis of truth you need to want to search for them that's the first prerequisite to a real for automata chuhwa and let people to Yom Kippur then right by merit it's already in the quickest manner in the world you are saying it's like this astounding how put the bottom is everything on Kippur you know sometimes it's better on weekdays and I'm gonna keep my bottom you know searching for the truth is a critical prerequisite because we're leaving tails on evaluation the second thing after you've searched for the truth you have to be willing to change because of your not want to change okay so if you see the truth you need to be able to make a commitment to change with our commitment forget about the children it won't happen I'm answering the question now why is it so many people on your Kippur you know you fast right and all kinds of defense and why don't I fast me to keep up you know what is it a diet kind of strategy no what it is is that when you fast you're not focused on the physical cuz you're not eating so God is hoping they can focus on him and children that's why we fast you see in any case you need to commit to change that's one of these is why chuhwa doesn't work for most people because first of all people even if they know the truth they're not willing to change they're not willing to commit to a change and what is that change simple the change is to adapt your life in the direction of God consciousness it's really what it is you want to think about God you want to do what he wants and if you get closer and really that's normal concept of all your Papa and so on therefore you need to want to find the truth let the stuff fool yourself and one of the one of the worst places look to the truth is what's called society most people are delusion they have no concept of what reality is you see if you walked into a given room and there are 50 people in that room and you ask each person what do you think is the MS the truth what is the real belief system you will get 50 different answers you see and the question is movement because most people never really search through the truth although they have the capacity to do that this is their problem and also even if they know the truth they don't want to change I'm saying yeah I can tell you hey you're arguing with me stop you know hey don't confuse them don't bother me with the facts but that supposed to mean means I don't care what the truth is I don't want to change that's what it means and most people don't want to change whatever reason you see so without a commitment to change of course you're not going to change to do even I don't care what you say in your kibble for jugo not gonna change cuz you don't really want to change look I'm being very blunt very honest for personal answer to Juba this is what's required let's not kid ourselves right that's a little that's criminal and the change is to think about God to allow to enter the field life you know the one says the cuts occurred all the rather the cuts could asked is very sharp good statement you know the cuts come on say yes he says where is God right where is he and the answer is where have you led a minute that's where he is he's not wait he's not out there you can go find them through punish them no he's out there he's trying to get in we blocked entry it's us that blocks an entry not him it's very important idea whatever you let him in and that's really many ways what he's waiting for now chiller requires three steps vetoing right confession why because you need to admit that you've sinned if you don't admit you sin why you didn't you vote so veto is critical it's an acknowledgement and vision that I did a sin very important the second step of Juba is regret Corrado you have to regret what you did if you don't regret guess one let me do it again obviously if you don't regret what you did of course you can do it again and the third thing once you regret obviously and hopefully is that you won't do it again you will accept upon yourself to change so therefore these three ideas are critical for tuba and to do children you need to do these three you have our faith be doing then you have to regret what you did really feel sorry and the third idea is of course to accept upon not to do it again of these three which is the greatest sin to say is the video the greatest admission is it the regret was the acceptance not to repeat the apparel so it's a little hard time says the greatest leader of these three steps the most important step which is interesting is the regret yeah cuz that's wouldn't move you you can admit that into the same okay you know I can go out of life I'm saying to accept what you did not to do it again maybe maybe not maybe won't be successful but the regret is that the regret is the truth principle is a concept that you really feel bad about what you did that's the catch the essence of kuva Schelotto most more so than the other two and come time senses that kurata regret is the greatest thing of war zone you know it's interesting when a person sins you may think he says against he there's only one sin but really when you sin you really do two three three cents every sin a person does is really three cents one the first thing is that you rebelled against God the King he said no and you said yes that could be billion that's right that call me Ben that's the first sin against God is the fact that he rebelled the second thing is that when you sin you create a defect in yourself so I will get into the defect itself in some manner something happens to you that is damaging so that's a second sin that you've the second consequence let me damage some aspect in yourself and the third aspect is you cause God pain because then he has to punish you you have not punish you so you're causing our pain so that again a consequence of what you did you see so a sin really entails encompasses all of these three ideas you see in any case the question you have to ask yourself is what do I do why is it too difficult to do truth oh I mention certain ideas because you don't have the truth it's a big ego the second thing is you don't want to change you see how do we really work - how do something I read us children there's a thing in psychology called cognitive dissonance if you have a certain belief you see and somebody comes over to you with another belief you will reject it out of hand why because it dissonant what he proposes to you is different than what you believe so therefore you'll just dismiss it so the what he's supposed to do we need to avoid your belief with what he says it's a very important concept one of the main reasons why people do not even though they definitely say they will miss on is because in order to a real trooper you must change your goal in life yeah believe it or not everybody has a golden life most of the time that goal is unconscious we don't even remember what I thought as well but we all have a belief in something that we like to see ourselves ultimately and you see and therefore if your goal in life is to be successful physically money right like power Fame and all that kind of stuff and then all of a sudden is supposed to sit down on Yom Kippur reading a insider' you know that God is the king you have to listen to what he says right you have to love your God feel God right it's just me that got my goal but interested that you see so why that's called cognitive dissonance what it says in the sinner is dissonance it's contrary to what you really believe is your goal or what you really believe is your values so of course you haven't changed because unconsciously you are working against Cuba when consciously because you already have a goal that you've established years before and it is so much assumed that you don't even think about that really you see so if you're not in contact with what you really want to do with your life and if it's contrary to children you will not do you focus I don't care how many time did you say okay right or how many times you davon its own two for this because the goal that you've set which is now by now unconscious is contrary opposite in opposition to the goal of what the Kipp is all about if you must we examine your goal you must be examine your values what is mine we have value what the value but value is anything but you ought to be important like that's a value something is honorable value lives means it son each one of us walks around you see with a belief of certain ideas the first belief we have is what's called or the action it's an assumption we believe we understand reality number one we really don't you know even though everybody in this room has a completely different interpretation of what we have it is see that's why I can have witnesses that see an event and each one differs from each other in terms of what life is all about everyone in this room has a different understanding interpretation of reality how do you see the second thing is we have to be ever certain belief about what's possible what is possible to change each one of us has a different set of beliefs of that you see therefore you need to examine that because to the extent that it's one of these things is contrary to chuhwa you see to that extent will be very difficult to do to vote and people don't realize that you don't think you where people do not change unless they have to reorder their goal first and then that will not be dissonant or that will not be contrary to chew on spirituality goodness interesting most people even think about them that's why as soon as you keep hands as I said you compare you go back right you go right back to being who you are because that what you are is what you really want to be what does what does a sinner is saying to you were the two billion kittens on is saying you you can't peel what you wanted what you think you want to be that's the whole point of your head and so on you see so until you reorder your goals and your values sugar is a very difficult process that is the answer why people don't why the commitment to chuva while the resolve is so temporary because it's contrary really to what they want to do with their life and the values very important idea you tell me how many people are gonna be warned their goals very hard but a real chuhwa you have to desire God you need to decide move in spirituality you see once you desire that then that will become your goal you see but this Villa River that's what he thought about but that's why he was a rebel in any case the question is how do we go and do that do that well I'm going to reveal to you something the last one wants us to do Cuba is a song something is a great tempter the question is what is strategy the suffering I will tell you what his strategy is because if you know where the strategy is you can find it what is the strategy of the soul how does he get everybody to make a fool of themselves and sit all day warm how's he do it it's incredible he's a genius you know because the way it does it but I will tell you he's essential strategy keep them in darkness never let them think that's what he does do not let them learn turn do not let them because tor is the truth that's why this one says that there's a problem and terror is the only antidote to the sudden it's all why because the tournament is the truth about what is reality are you see but the Sun must keep you away from the terror he must you see in other words he must keep Thomas and he will do anything to make sure that you will never think about your life investigated what would you say what would you investigate where am I really am I going what if I done with my life where am I headed you see nobody lives forever like I could be talk tomorrow morning you see life is very very quick unfortunately as many people find out and so anything can happen so what was the last time the person made what it was that had been an effort a reckoning of everything about himself how do you see but the Sun does want you to think about that because God forbid you go to Juba you see so therefore the greatest strategy is he must keep you in darkness he must keep you ignorant you see and that's the only way that he can make sure you will never talk to her but how does he do it how does he keep us in darkness you see so the ultimate goal is he must keep you ignorant but how does he do it so I'll tell you how the stubborn doesn't what his strategy is it's called distraction you can't believe how we are distracted every day of the week every day were distracted which I named some of the incredible distractions spot phones right anybody has smartphone if you look on a bus in any given day what's everybody doing and talk to each other this is the position like this don't train with their smartphones it's like you can't it like how did they live before the smartphone I'm still trying to get that out but everybody's distracted by a smartphone right they have what kinds of other devices you know you have really cool you have games people on their computers all day long with playing games or them on the internet all day long it's like an is there's all disease I forgot now labeled by psychologists we're guys addicted to the Internet you know I'm not and I've got you know the internet for information but all the social sites you know with a Facebook you know that the people that we live on that they're people that follow other people every minute it's astounding that make they have no life except they live through the other person you know Facebook Twitter waters has become people are obsessed with this they have no life anymore you see and the purpose of that is to distract you make sure you are involved in everything else so god forbid you do not think about yourself my freshman you see it used to be a gun I used to drive a car you know he was all in the car so maybe he would think about himself you know where my car with my life where my god what am i doing that means anything right today the phones in the car you can't get away to the phone I'll never forget it I wanted to run into a restaurant and I had to use the she loved him as they say here you know and also tonight here can talk me in the store right I mean if I was in the store because they had to do what he had to do like I said I said I think I couldn't put it when I was young I guy can't even relieve myself in a store it's kind of a smart it's kind of talking her phone into voltage as they say I mean you think about this is the extent that the sudden controls a person where a person is inundated in people who text all day they can't stop texting the average person now when he goes to sleep he goes see when his smartphone right he can't leave it yeah I'm finishing teenagers and it's always with them they can't even see them so what the Sutton has done is beyond belief he has distracted everybody why with all the devices and the other who is the humblest of devices for one purpose do not let them think about their life the meaning of their life and where they're going with it until it's too late you see that is the strategy of the sudden that's it I told them one keep the maintenance that's the main goal so they do not think about the meaning of life the truth and where they headed and he does that by the incredible amount of distractions and we don't recognize that you know and like I said you know today with the devices today that are just terrible you know in the Internet is a classic you know people just live with that they can't get away with that and so on you know in any case that's the major strategy of the southern what am I said so far really think about that you know what I'm telling you in many ways is what truly is what the chief of our young people really is I'll tell ya if you can do to onion tip if you could say this you know look I've done a lot of sense obviously with all sin I've done a lot of sense you know but that's not what I'm going to move on I'm gonna do - well how do I get close to you that's what I'm not going to look at that in that various that I did because that's really the small ideas the realign is my relationship with them how do I bring parent once you think about that and if you don't shoot there you will see the incredible difference in your life your whole life will turn around you see because now your priorities your goals are very different it's how to become more spiritual as opposed to have become more physical and that is the essential diva of Yom Kippur it's not only the factorial our facial autonomy of course that's important you know but the real thing is we're headed you know you never see if the that make imagine a ship has the least and all sudden they find that they drifted and you going west so they have to make a correction that's called a major correction you see and then the ship or so even if it's going in the right direction can be row of five degrees right that's called a minor correction daily it's minor Corrections on your keyboard it's a major correction you can reverse the direction that you're going into and to become more spiritual you see and to want that spirituality and the truth is the only way to really get that you have to learn the terror there's normal life because of tourism only safer that tells you what the Emma sees you know what that means learning maker making a Satan you know we're going to show and so on especially I would say the demon to learning magic offer is critical because ice-covered tells you what life is really all about who's God who the Jews you Shia what did you have to do one winters are important the whole country is Jews you see and horrible ends that's the only meaning of life so therefore learning pterence critical really to achieve a super certainly a major correction tool when you shift the whole direction that you want to go into it and that's really what it's all about it's not a difficult thing to understand it is very difficult to do because like I say the goals we have are usually wrong and usually we don't we're not even aware it's unconscious of what our real goals are you know sometimes it takes a life-altering moment you know like hurricane Irma to wake you up pick a person up is in wait a minute right I've invested millions of dollars in my home and this little and this hurricane is gonna just wipe it out what in 10 hours so guys what I do I spent half my life building this home you know Florida right half my life all my money half my life my enormous amount of investment of time before what so hurricane gonna wipe it out in ten hours so person wakes up leases it's not worth it for what you know I'm saying so then a person will sell himself then what is the real meaning of life how do you get happiness really meaning when a person is doing that which has meaning to them they are happy when a person is doing things which have no meaning they are very unhappy you see and relating with God has incredible meaning and that is really the whole purpose of a Jews life its Torah and how to connect with God you see so I've tried to outline some of the major points of children what it is why it's difficult and what the Suttons real strategy is you see not even battlin you know and the key is don't get distracted don't get caught up in nonsense most of the first life is caught up in the utter nonsense can't believe how nuns are not sensible is most of the stuff we do it has no permanence you know it has no value it would call up it to that learn think ask this up make a freshman and effort ask yourself does make a difference what age where am I headed why am I headed this way it's really the direction I wanna go am i listening to people and I decided to adapt their goals and their lifestyle is that what's happening to you the case this is the way to coober and you'll keep like a saying it's a great data to the tuber there's no sucker and I'm prosecuting attorney right it's incredible right then for every any trooper you do will be accepted in heaven you know and the greatest true of all is to make that has been an effort to reorient yourself into a true direction and of course you'll falter but that's every every day there's a jouvert trying to do two on ahead but at least you know that you are headed in the right direction not in the end is the most important thing of all because the worst thing that a guy can say when the machine comes this wild that I mess up and when he says that he's not gonna say I messed up because of a sin I did he's gonna say I messed up my whole direction in life was completely warm and I spent a whole life doing nothing as it says no volunteer should Nicola rig that we shouldn't labor from nothing penis but maybe lever hollow right and we were born for Mahalo means vanity emptiness and so on that's we pray we don't want to confront the fact right that we will vote for nothing and did nothing that's the worst thing you blew in the end of time when you're standing in front of God cuz everybody's gonna stand in front of God that's the give a reckoning right okay so they're gonna tell you in the great Judgment Day right okay this send you did this send mckitten enough terrible but at least I was involved in finding God naptime's gonna save you you know you spent most of your life in Las Vegas or Atlantic City you don't say and try to make millions of dollars what's the point of all this meant nothing that's the greatest aggravation we'll have I guarantee you that it's one in your face that you basically live an empty life you see and it was meaningless and it would be nowhere you don't want to have that aggravation that's like I say the greatest pain of war you'd rather hear okay you've made a couple of mistakes but at least you're headed in the right direction so then that's a whole different story you see and that's a very important thing to remember they do not want to face the aggravation that you will face when they tell you basically your life was empty you want to have that so think about it we're coming up with a kidney which is incredible between each other there's no something right but remember the critical ideas change the way you look at life give it meaning that the only real meaning of life for a Jew certainly is what this book this is for 12t good luck [Music] you