When We Belittle a Jew, We Destroy G-D's Pleasure

the yeshiva dotnet more uranium Parsis Matsuda the my name is a safer written by the blossom Ginobili Rebbe Menachem Menachem of Chernobyl last name was Twersky he was a Talmud of the Baal Shem Tov and then of the maggot of miss rich he was born tuft Sadiq 1730 and passed away at a low freshman cough cough nan kes 1797 tough Coughlin cos he was considered one of the oldest homonym of the market of ms rich and his toy isn't the safer more eerie night many of the tour skis today including the Hasidic dynasties of course keys not all but most of them are descendants of Noah come true no bowler who was the father of the Chernobyl a maggot who was rebuttal at janaballah Mordechai janaballah he was the son of ab na from Chernobyl ER who was the Talmud of the magician market he has a piece here on these parties - sorry omits area and it's a very very deep piece it's a heavy piece the boy uranium is also too brief it's very very profound I'll read it I'll try to explain it I don't know if I that I can't tell you I understand it fully but at least we'll get a certain certain ideas so gideros Bly before the Mari and I am certain ideas will certainly get out of it but in order to appreciate it I copied here or Stickle Gomorrah which is not there but just allow us to appreciate the Merion I am more so tomorrow air conductor suave that's the SU gear that deals with leprosy Saar asks and gossip I took it's a whole amid about it but I took a few lines almost a whole lammott i manipulation of machinery BAC been Ximena column s a pollution are Aquila cough Rebecca a person who speaks gossip slander loshon Hara evil talk it's like he denies Hashem Shannon Mary brings a parsec into hilum you days I sure AM rule Allah shiny new nag breeze force a new autonomy Adela no they say to their tongues they say to their less shiny no to their tongues to their languages nog Bruce was saying oh let's let's strengthen our lips attano for ourselves Mia me are they Lana who is a master to us so that pasta Catalan is associating evil uncontrolled speech with me mother-in-law no because we don't have a master with denying Russian I'm gonna be I see Ben Zimmer column as a Polish and Hara and a boy Himmel of leprosy was a symptom of loshon Hara Saskia Titus I met Sara as I steer terraces shall might see Sabra Messiah the Chimera says is a combination of those words might see somebody who utters mighty shameless somebody who slanders and gossips about people columnist a pollution artist says the Gemara America this world okay none evil will mother Boyle somebody who speaks Russian are a sham says we can't live together in the same universe Tana debatable small column is a pollution harder Magda laverna's connect rubbish our Vedas away this case of angular and I struggle stop but small says somebody who speaks Russian Hara the sins are as great as adultery idolatry and murder these are the gomorrah's now when you look at it at the surface it's hard to understand why is why did it cause I'll see you Lucian Hara in such a dramatic terms literally we understand Russian Hara as being terrible because it harms other people it harms other it could be harmful yeah but then if that's the issue so why is your clothes fit Baker shop said I can't live with you in the same world why isn't Gilead is dumb enough a deserter etcetera all these what's the connection to leprosy nguyen and you see two whole parshas tozzoli I'm sorry two dedicated to this coaster Shabbos is all than one parsec or to pursue and the one that happens every week and the laws of terrassa detailed nuanced with such details FV symptoms on what it looks like and what color and what happens and every type in the shin in the mikveh and the beard and there here and there this say I say you're sorry and all the symptoms bottom got them apparently it's it's a very very central central idea so says the Marine I am as I steer Titus I would say to be empty receive over Lockean fedoras all the cameras might see rah Matsuura is might see - above all no Shannara nguyen bian it's because of loshon Hara Hara evil speech negative speech that caused nagging Avila and explanation is deceived the passage says embrasures voracious bara elokim Sushma and besides the Doge Urus al which will hurt our dobisch really strong rash she brings from the Madras actually says the word bodacious is strange why because voracious it should have said Marie Shona in the beginning bara elokim Sushma inverse are its voracious world accumulation mind my servants is like saying in English in the beginning of God creating heaven and earth and then what's the end of the sentence so Rashi says maybe it goes to passing Bey's the word Boreas is a complicated word doesn't really fit in grammatically so rashly says aina my casa amarela enemy Cruiser I'm al Adarsh ami the posit asks you to explain it bere she's Bay's racist there are two things and Thomas called races the beginning Toyota is called gracious and installer code ratios a sham Kanani races darker is thrall Canisius trollish am racist ferocity we're corporations beret shoesies Bey's races because of two beginnings are some created heaven and earth trader and you strong says it Myron I am NIM sir you sure all him Dover harsh of my idol nation is Baraka chebyshev Elam Bora color illumise Calabria this means that when you're looking at a Jew you have to understand the greatness because for this for this person for these people are sham created all the elements all the world's because voracious includes all the worlds all the creations were created to the jury Varsham use butter Makar Bolton McMichael I admit all I feel America gobble Hashem receives tremendous pleasure ecstasy from every single Jew even a Russia God oh he a Jew who's a Russia goggle meaning he's completely not living up to his job as a June living up to his mission he's a Russia and he's a Russia gobble that's tomorrow she's a great one nonetheless it doesn't take away from the fact that a Shem looks at him seasoned and experiences tremendous timing from him why his existence his being think of it in terms of a child a child may cause a lot of aggravation to a parent because a lot of pain to a parent but of the child if the parent is healthy and touch with their emotions the reason I am so pained is because there's a tremendous love if there wouldn't be tremendous love why you so pained so we usually don't look at that we see the pain you're causing me so many headaches you're causing me so much heartache but the truth is behind all of that there's tremendous pain because you want to be close to this person you feel so close to this person that's why there's pain so behind the pain behind the anger I should say there's hurt behind they're hurt this pain and behind the pain there's so much closeness this is really so much closeness and when you could see that in yourself so then even in the pain you could still feel the closeness because you identify the pain that's coming from closeness that's what every father has to know you have to be able to feel the close if you wouldn't feel that closest you wouldn't have pain it's just we usually repress that because the anger takes over you destroy my life a cat your neighbor's child becomes the Bulow's beloved child in the world you want to swap and your child becomes his greatest Russia in the world but really all your anger is coming from pain and your pain is coming from a very very deep love and when you know that then you will respond to your anger and your pain in a much better way than if you don't know that because if you don't know this then how you're gonna respond to your pain and anger you'll alienate your child even more you're like get out of my life get at a mouse you sick person if you can go back to yourself and identify what's really happening then you'll make sure that what you say at this moment and what you do at this moment will ultimately bring this child closer so we have with the Meyer uranium says that even a Russia god--all Hashem has ty nuk from him painted from him this is the marine I am so you have a Jew look ladies a big Russia you would think I sham would say out he says he still has tremendous pleasure for me yes tremendous timing he's in love with it I love this guy I look at him and have tremendous steinem you know you look at your baby right a terrorist he destroys the whole house yeah every book the ice cream is everywhere but when he's three years old four years old you look at him and you yeah you know what I love you well he just destroyed the whole house you pick him up problem is when he's 14 years old we forget how to say that when he's 14 years old suddenly I hate you he's really still 3 yeah so this doesn't mean you're happy that he destroyed the house it just means you love him you're crazy about I mean you have tremendous time you look at those freaks and you want to eat them up I just poured the orange juice on the new carpet that cause fine you upset but doesn't take away from the title that you have the problem is when they grow older we forget that part of it because their tricks are not as cute and we're more stressed out but it's really the same new kuda yeah and he continues that's what the Gomorrah says capela Kareem Enrico safe I feel a condom shebar himalayan mistress kiraman the gomorrah says entre Giga hasn't shed him the temples the capela Kareem on your temples look like a pomegranate so the Methodists more attaches a feel or a common Rico say his not only your temples you rake him your empty ones the poster calum the empty ones are Malaya Mitzvah screamin are filled with goodness and filled with mitzvahs like a pomegranate so he says even I rake on a Russia gobble is filled with good stuff and I sham can't help but have tremendous pleasure had shamitabh in lotion hard al-asad me sorrow when a Jew speaks negatively about a Jew I feel Luke Shimer MS even if you sang truth not you might see shame rah you're slandering him no that was not lost on me saying the truth Huma Vatel Tanaka body is Boris to my uncle maybe by mid Assad's was caballo he destroys a vehicle hashim's pleasure and he puts caballo Hashem into a state of depression that's for sadness camera is at save le boy when Hashem saw what's going on he felt a sense of Atlas the Mahler Ummah Habash me or email Anita Lehane Skyrim interconnected Medina going boy a mile off took em Zoe neg shams greatest pleasure that he loves every Jew and it's crazy about every Jew and he took his own egg and you turned it into a shams Nega you turn hashem caballo into him in lugar now he's he feels sick and exhausted and depressed and quarantined and alone like a leper who feels disconfort a person looks at themselves they feel that I'm not alive it's not a harsh of commish that's what you did caballo Hashem you took away from him his greatest pleasure is back of life what's this mark of life I eat a child you took it away from him you told him how horrible his this person is because he's listening to the loshon hora the mela that's what a person is a reflection of our Shem like we just went from the sauce amis so milord happens to the person also his own it becomes mega I even get Negev the same words the question is where the iron is it says it's a Fiat Syria ain't bateau evil of my la mayoría neck vein but all of my lemon egg that's the same thing the only difference is with I in is what are we saying the parsha Roja ain't know where the iron is could you show them says it's all about where the iron is where your eyes are where your perspective is I could look at a person and say ah you bring out the beauty of a person and then Hashem Krell's you just gave him a mix so what happens you're also in a state of Oneg and then you start speaking bad and God goes from oil meganta Nega the iron changed and what happens the person himself also becomes a man no gets a result Hashem is in a state of leprosy I'm also in a state of leprosy but some may know kid Marseille know Hashem Susa the bad dictionary says God is your shadow was from God is your shadow I shuttle wherever you move the shadow moves the person goes into that state can buy Yahoo that's affected by Hashem now the opposite he becomes a shadow of that so that's what Russian heart is listen Horus I mean you can imagine it in your own life what's one of the greatest pleasurable things a parent has a stranger calls you up out of the blue on the phone right and says I saw your daughter on Shabbos I saw your son I want to tell you something right and you sit on the couch and your heart swells with tiny nook and then you get another call and that's such a low life huh we did you raise these kids as I rush the marushin right and what happens your day is ruined your week is ruined your month so the my name says why does it happen to parents cause it happens Tasha you speak bad about a Jew doesn't it could be insolent laughed asking the guy is lying if he's lying obviously it's worse but even if he's saying the truth even if he's saying the truth it destroys you not because he he told you something new usually what's going on with your son and daughter you know as well as the principal if you're a normal parent you know as well as you know as well as the stranger if you don't be careful there that's also true yeah that's even deeper true family rise I'll now will understand the Gemara says Godot yellowish and hard to connect that way there's aa regular Arace his dumb Russian heart is like the three cardinal princess in its article tactic man you know if it is not a loshon Hara what in the world is the connection from the void is Zara Phillips Mara you could say it's not nice why am i why am i worshipping idolatry why am i denying God I'm not doing over design I'm not - Baker so we already understand one that could of this which is gonna elaborate upon and go one step deeper that that is there's no sin that's good Kalash - hashem mike loshon Hara a person can have a dispute with you in business you have an employee ask him to do something he does the opposite he asked the contractor to put the wires then he puts the why is there it happens my simple call young Hashem asks you to do this you do the exact opposite but when somebody comes and speaks lost nada what are they doing he says they're taking our Missourian egg and turning it into Nega that's a whole different experience but now he goes a step deeper her England exhibit the plastic surgeon tehilim bit devar hashem shamayim NASA Chicago Illinois Calabria maneuver by booba of base AC cetera the whole world everything was created the devar hashem echad VAR hashem the 22 letters of toyota i love through tough those are the conduits the channels of energy that create the world sure who Nick Ramallah shamayim osseous the ISIS are called mal Hashem I'm why we often learned that Malthus is Isis Sharmila enemy de banane my sister Serena she mad a brain is gallery at Sinai when somebody doesn't speak nobody knows what you want when you speak people know what you want it's a very important idea sometimes we expect people to know what we want what we feel what we're upset at how is your wife supposed to guess how is your child supposed to guess communication communication communication that's what mouthful sir - you don't know what the MELAS wants but devar hashem sham I am NASA withers the mouth has come out the puzzle Center environment and he rules through the word the word it's through D book Shem it dabin is gallery designer so the mouse could come out the creation could come out through Dib or and the continuous creation which is the ultimate malkos therefore who mouth of Shammai imam al-hussein back oil mashallah and this deeper isn't everything because without the devar hashem nothing would exist the true existence the chemistry of everything is the DNA the DNA is the devar hashem it's interesting DNA today is considered letters right today we look at creation and we understand it we look at every organism and we understand that it's ultimate underlying code is code we compared to computer called it's not mamas letters but that's the metaphor that's given and thousands of years ago when cuz I wanted to describe the world they said by Saruman Mara is never wrong it's basically it's a computer program it's it's a code by Saruman Morris niram how do you have from ten words the whole world and the practice is that it's using the same it's using the same I see the same 22 AI seus as explains in Sharia code women and just in different configurations and and so forth so that's maluma the eastern Pacific it's Syria carve on BiPAP say Fiat Syria which is considered the most ancient work of Kabbalah says sham took the 22 letters and he established them in one place in the mouth Hashem is burrow cover of bays Isis oil ama dablam al hashamayim mid this oddness oddness first sight if not cover the Paschal autumn map shot he gave us an ability to speak he took the 22 letters the code of creation and he gave it a place he put it somewhere he put it in the mouth of a purse the mouth of a person that's the place called mouth Lucia Maya Minda of oddness of rulership that's why we say before we'd have an ad 'no spa site IFTA open up my lips that's the place where his mouth was comes out as we said through communication you express yourself and what is creation creation is God expressing his energy in a revealed way when I speak it brings out what I want the whole world was there before but there was no way that it had a tangible existence de Bourgh is its expression venae Hashem is born a saint in madaba Lucien Hollister all come ashore vena madaba da Noya Hashem never ever speaks Russian hora about a Jew just like a father will never speak about a child you never heard at any conversation in the world even the juiciest conversations right and the mikveh at a table similar people are outside with a cigarette they're talking about this one that one the father comes in or the mother says I have a juicy story about your minds owners as our moms as I got nervous I could say am I gonna tell you a juicy story unless he's a pet or other means or shite imasu Cairo but even a higher I wouldn't do it highest take care of their children but it's not what the father does you don't sit gossip about your child why because I said never does this about a drew it's not shy how could you how could you just got your kid you wanted you'll do everything for your child exactly exactly exactly yeah exactly in Burma Tara see matza Ghana right circle of a Sheamus yeah matera see matzah kind of right nimza shall Adam edible ocean Hara mara bats my show moksha should ibrahim al hashamayim mid this aDNA the Lehane hookah over divide the surah when I use my speech now what am i doing with my speech I'm speaking loshon Hara really what is my speech mal Jose Barco mashallah a person's speech a vehicle is a reflection of a sham speech that's what our speeches the cuff Bey's Isis that we utter through our vocal cords in any language it is whether it's in Hebrew or any other language which is based the vocal cords have the ability to make all those pronouncing sounds that is really divine speech it's divine speech that uses as its vehicle human speech that's why we say Hashem saw site if though you're basically opening my lips that's what it is God's mouth host comes out through our DeBoer when I speak who's speaking it's really the divine speaking through me that's what it is ma Jose Barco mashallah it's me this Agnes that's mouth with Shania I'm opening my mouth to speak and what do I use these words I say let me tell you a story about this in this jewel Hashem would never ever in a billion Hui years do that now I do that what happens I'm showing that I'm completely alienated from the truth that my DeBoer is really mouth Osama Emmitt Smith the Sadhna that stuff waiters are here Rahzel my Madhavi Ramallah Halawa Shalom that's what of it says that's where the Gomorrah brings a narrative I sure am rule illa Shane a new non-beer rich Serino Lima I'm Amara Shyam nah gorillaz shiny no the DA Bear kiswa say no autonomy other in LA no it's on La Marche Ishod new super film about Sarika homage to the burrito Mahamaya they tell themselves listen a new Naga beer let's allow our tongues our languages to become powerful cuz force a new heat on you it's our own lips me other la know what does God have to do with our lips they're completely not aware of the fact that Hashem is reality is all in vehement when I open up my mouth what's happening it's like the divine opening his mouth through me I'm the small site a statistic - pika Vimal AO in other words when you open your mouth you could do one of two things create worlds or destroy worlds that's it that's what you do with me open your mouth as we say either you're part of the solution or you're part of the problem you're opening your mouth you're either creating souls or destroying Sol's one of the two either you breathe here's to the world will you take away highest from the world either you bring life to people you take away life to people I open my mouth I start speaking much not of what happens I took God's so to speak mouth his energy and what do I do with it I start bad-mouthing or gossiping about a Jew he says that's the greatest embodiment of avodah Zarah he's for saying autonomy of is L my mother's of Chattanooga Marimo ate cotton pellet Dickey tomorrow my cotton after Zion the America watsapp a second small base of gimel da Vera Melek says there are Shem told him that he rules he rules over the person and sod the commercial be here is silicum so the Gemara attaches dovid I'm Alex said that I sham told them I rule over people and who rules over me sadiq me my shall be Sadiq that's what the gomorrah says our chef says I rule over everybody but I also have a boss who rules over me at South until the you mama says in my sessions might got enough to Zion that Asha makes a sane and it's antic is my vassal it in other words sound accruals over me so that my name says what does this mean he says Sadiq returned dilemma shots are the commercial Emmy in MIDI bruschelli show mouth assume I am a Muslim but halal Ummah some Calabrian who mean by shall be mean who's Marshall not on me with me he's Marshall what's that a real sad that got sad leak as somebody who understands that his words are basically always attune to the divine so when he opens his mouth it's mouthwash am I am opening its mouth it's the deeper of Hashem and that rules over all the world so when he opens his mouth it effects it's like electricity that affects all the world Sadiq my shall be that side because my shall be through me because the café's Isis are really the expression of Malcolm I am which is the source of the energy of the world so that sad that whose words are always a tune with the divine when he opens his mouth the world is affected the whole world is affected Muslim McCullough Loomis so therefore what stuff I deserted here that void is already here is on one level on the simpler level not so simple but on one level the person opens his mouth and really so to speak stabs Hashem by stabbing his children even deeper he opens his mouth and he uses the words for uh Shannara so what happens now he's taking the very words that are divine and completely detaching them me other in loan of this has nothing to do with Agnes and I'm just speaking on my own so now I could speak about this person speak about this person but if a person would realize what his words are it wasn't trying to this imagine I invite you to my Shabbos table I give you food you're sitting at my table I give you a bed you're enjoying my hospitality at the table you say rabbi Jacobsen I want to tell you a story and you start telling me horrible things about my children about my wife about my father about my mother about my brother's about my sisters I say you ready for the next course yeah but I have another story for you and now you go to the next trial yeah it's it's it's the most disgusting thing in the world get out of my house speak about it over there I'm taking my mouth what's my mouth it's not only God inviting me it's energy and it's actually his words what am i doing I say all have something to say now what I have to say I'm opening my mouth what do I have to say how horrible a father you are look at your children so that's a the ATM lemonis ooh how does one reach this state are they a circuit area the Heineken madaba medieval teratoma kasha de bourree bourree cetera who maybe by Malthus Amaya when a person connects his words always to the letters of Toyota which are divine so his own de Bourgh could become a reflection of our shamans neighbor Vahini is American plucked in air conductors of this a McCleod cascada are one of the Miriam says see pay if somebody said loshon Hara Inlet Akana there's nothing to do the condom with other opinion is he a signatory darshan Emma says initially Myra lotion eight scallion Marple uh she time literally means if you have a weak tongue meaning you're not harsh it's a tree of life that's at the mid synthesis but in origins my pollution dates Khayyam if a person if a person gets the lotion of Toyota it's a reformed our pets it's kind becomes a tree of life the he may be vada lloyd plaguey certainly they're not arguing I would even once Souter says a new attack on another sheet that says there isn't that come he says she's a club solitary to a Louisville divarella come kind it's a principle and tighter there's never a real ultimate argument two opinions one yeah one no both are true you just have to realize we're and when Vahini gam con Leticia icing potatoes shallowly Schmerber vada emoticon for person speaks less not and then starts learning Toyota but it's not leash ma tacit is no healing a ballistic lachemann or Makassar de bourree bourree she sat idle maybe by mountains from ayam bizarre my pollution is there's two types of Toyota learning the Toyota learning I'm just learning then it's tak to emulate Akana that's the first opinion the second opinion is through tired of what type of Tyler I realize that it's God's words I learn at lachemann meaning I want to connect with the divine energy so my words become tighter the key words in other words my deburr becomes refined and transformed I introduce in my dippermouth awesome I am then I can't speak loshon Hara it's not I don't speak loshon Hara I can't speak loshon Hara when you realize what your words are when you're opening your mouth it's God creating the world through you saba commercial beer is a you can't it's it's crime your words become a tree of life when you just realize what your mouth is and what your words are so the next time you open your mouth to speak realize who's speaking who's speaking is the reboiler shillelagh wants to speak through you he gave you a mouth he put in the cabeza yes and that's why we're the only ones who speak why we called madaba when there's a lot of differences between humans and animals we do a lot of things that animals don't do the one distinction that we have is we're called madaba we also well we have a lot of similarities to animals but we have a lot of unique things we could call a person on my skill we have say oh that they don't have a certain level of psycho they don't have we called madaba when it says in variations right here other more nefesh higher what does it targum say Luwak mamalu la speaker why a speaker from all things but my Lola person has a lot of tremendous things I'm not sure is also different but now we understand the uniqueness of the person is that he's a mad a brash and created the world through words we were given that gift we perpetuate creation or hospice all in the opposite of it so person opens his mouth that is that is Hashem's mouth closed that's a shams deboard mouth was pet hashem site if doc what's darling darling is God open my lips and speak through me that's what real davon Angus Oh fiag utila sex I want my mouth to become a conduit for you so now you're telling me it's all very nice well the foil mom is my kids some says something and I lose it and I open my mouth and I start screaming so there's two disses so this is the one it says anyway Takano you're a lost case the second is you have to start learning so muffled mumble that says who's right he says there's two types of learning the type of learning to occur in light econo this guy is helpless cuz the more he learns the worse he gets and he thinks his learning is my sock in it and really the exact opposite he doesn't understand what learning is but if he understands what real Toyota is then yeah actually that corner cause he'll dip where hills deeper will become a different de Bourgh and when he opens his mouth from now on he'll realize boomer state of a member state finished item for a member state dissident flagons organization we must I develop my style when I was a kid that gap by Rosh Hashana before the Kia's before the crease I tell you before Mufti was a Polish Shaheed he gave a clap and he said missile vision five image sites Oh forever mistakes that's how he was trying to get down to 10,000 people to be quiet to be organized with of famous titles on them image tight when you understand very very effeminate who's speaking and before whom you're speaking not only before but who's speaking then it's a different type of de Bourgh in other words the reason we speak loshon hora is often because we don't understand not because not because of anything else cuz we don't understand that we are we don't understand what our words are when you understand your words it's a whole different experience and he finishes Roselle's istea tyler cymet Sara so the question is why here does it say the word Toyota so you see a Toyota summit cider you have different expressions with the Toyotas speaks about what to do in a certain situation right but you're in Marsh mini could say there's an introduction so a steer tighter summit so this should be the tire of the Messiah it seems superfluous dr. Moyer and I am did say Neil mr Joyce Theater the summit seder attainable emote shall might see Robbie I'm Tara sorry year kala highway so the caution is Deborah show Mouse loose Jemima nickers ice-t's la casa de la terre for us voova like all units any lamer I lost my brother Shaikh require they let me say the marine I am here is istea Titus I'm excited to be I'm taro so the day that he wants to become clean he needs tighter like the gomorrah says lotion my prayer lotion eight screaming each thread about what type of tighter the tide has to be one that elevates and connects and aligns his de Bourgh his words of speech which is mouthwash a Mayan with its source with its real source that's called Zois not to get into by initials but in Kabbalah to this zeiss's off' is femininity which represents malthus represents me the samel who sews ice theater summit sorry to be mtar us the Turner has to be connected with the Zois with the source of word Malthus a Mayan that's what he needs look how is Latasha is the Buddha show mouth and Jemima Nick Russo he's like a chanela Toyota that should be connected with the Toyota that he learns and then the Pacifica thing is Volvo Laconia I'll be able to be realigned with the ultimate car you in the Camaro says allocation Korean who Hashem is defined as the ultimate Cohen and then he'll could be aligned and that becomes the source of cleansing the moments they become aligned then he knows God doesn't speak loshon Hara about Jews you also don't speak loshon Hara about Jews you don't when you're a father you don't speak loshon Hara insulting when you're aligned with a father when you're my best friend you're not gonna speak loshon Hara about my kids and if you do there's a serious serious detachment you can't be somebody's best friend and badmouth their kids to other people it just doesn't work doesn't work this doesn't have to do when you speak to somebody or about somebody in order to help right we're not talking we all have to understand that right when you come to a father you want to speak to a father to help a child that's not called the Sahara that's called love I'm talking to a father or a mother because the child is going through a crisis that's that's not washed in Hara Ocean ara is one thing let me tell you how bad this guy is right good juicy I was once giving a speech I told the stories if somebody says rabbi Jacobsen without names who was it without what's the story without name give a name right away it's like a schmuck I always knew this let's also hold different in Yin when a person is telling a story to a parent because he wants the parent to be able to help this child of a carrot a real parent is grateful to you a real parent is grateful to you thank you for sharing this that's not the concept of loshon Hara it comes to the rabona Schiller them and Davin's for another year who's having a challenge here they say God I need you to help this person that's not washing harder for carrot mother is grateful of fathers grateful for that which is not as a different thing not is it's evil torque it's it's it's it's it's speech of its speech of rah and this doesn't have to do if it's MS or if it's not MS doesn't even have to do if it's random or habitual it's not only about damaging another person sometimes it doesn't damage another person this gives a whole other dimension the pen amis that mentioned to loshon Hara not just a social thing it's not a nice thing people could be damaged that's right sometimes that's not never gonna happen but the point is that some deboard add some de Bourgh what it does for the reboiler shel Olam he says it takes from Oneg and puts them into neg on the other way when you bring out the Milas of a person you praise a person you extol a person you bring out their greatness you speak positively to them and about them then God's heart swells with with pleasure with Tainan are getting Shabbos afraid of Shabbos you're right if the video is in a way of lush and Hardy you now wanna speak less not about yourself either but but right but the video is not lesson or if this video is Russian harder than you're now gonna do it Russian hora means I'm gossiping about myself vd I'm not gossiping about myself I'm acknowledging because I want to fix it's a whole different thing again if a child if a person comes to appearances I want to share something I saw something about your son of your daughter and I think this is how we can help that's not watching our if a carrot that causes time look the parents you you want to be here for my child if you do I'm coming to a Shem and I'm saying not that I'm evil and I'm bad and I'm a loser and I'm a low it's looking like I'm the worst person in the world now I acknowledge my greatness and my purity and that's why I'm upset about my mistakes and I want to fix them that's not what Shannara speak loshon all about yourself you're not allowed oh you know loudly you know what a gossip about yourself you know I want to say how bad you are but you're not saying how bad you are you saying how good you want to be not the modern items filitosa Gummer I said I was once I was once giving a shear there was a Sydenham over there who come from the Gaza of of the modern I am there ever is a descendent of the mauryan I am and they learn more in I am over there constantly yeah and I said over some set of art Hashem loves every Jews tiny love every Jew even a Druze or Russia Gomer because this cleaner style you're not learning is fun of me not learning yesterday I made this up said with a pill pops up pieces so when they say this accident one of these sages of the possums have to understand what a Jew is so the stem what a Jew is for carrot so I'm just a sham also loves him in the very pain is the love that's why you're so pain that's what I was explaining it's not just he loves him also even the pain is an expression of the love I showed how do you not learn these things what do you think he's talking about he's not reassure him somewhere not sinless doesn't matter drew down near that Huracan is an empty posture Kaley it's the Russian looks at them and he says yes tremendous pain up from her kind of means he's tremendous pleasure he's I love this guy you don't have tying up some things you hate I worked hard on it I worked hard five o'clock in the morning I worked hard I had to find this awesome as the mighty and I and bring it together I thought Erev Shabbos purchased Azaria going into my sentence could die to learn these stuff ah one second operand is gonna ask that so today the beginning you said we don't have this this this infinity called swaps but it comes out I think from what you said tell me if I'm wrong that there is a level of what the soul was burdened with it even though you don't yeah yeah that's true so what would be the source for that because I've heard that said before I don't remember how so the second question would be Oh Dom from of Rama V notes brought some of Rama V knows I'm Sarah be Akiva it's very very ancient yeah very ancient very ancient coven repair the 22 that says the 22 sources of energy I shall put into our mouths that's our mouth mouth was Jemima Shem small site if talk when you open your mouth to speak in many ways it's God speaking it's a sham speaking thirst know since the Gomorrah says an air conduct test above that the eighth surfer loshon hora is tighter at least according to one opinion right the marine I'm explain what it means how you have to learn so well now we have to get to tighter zai steer tire summit Syria but cider has to learn tighter very good very good very good so the two shitless and Gomorrah if it's a condo note at Cana in air contestable of depends how you learn person learns in one way in light that counter person learns it another way actually Tacoma no Barney understand it's two ways of learning me title Eilish my Butler smarts as the type the inside of Shambhala I think it's part of it this class is brought 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