What Should You Think About During - JEWISH INTIMACY (30)

What Should You Think About During Jewish Intimacy? The Ramban's Iggeret HaKodesh continues to sanctify our marriages with each lecture that has been preparing us for the big day. Today we will take the next step in discussing the thoughts one should and should not have during the actual act. While the obvious answer may seem like thinking about holy things, you'd be surprised that its not so simple at all to know what that means and when it is even appropriate to do. Enjoy, Share and Be Holy. “Iggeret HaKodesh” The Holy Letter of the Ramban: https://amzn.to/429g1tc As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. 0:00:00 Introduction 0:04:08 Wicked Teachers & Chief Heretic Efram Mervis 0:07:34 The Nuremberg Laws to Deformed Mentality of Today 0:11:09 If not seeking holiness, then enveloped by Tumah 0:12:19 Why Hashem brings bad things to the world 0:13:57 Thoughts can create/shape the seed's form during intimacy (Ramban) 0:17:21 Yaakov's Hishtadlus vs Evil Lavan (Gen. 30 vv. 37, 39) 0:23:08 Why above story is in Torah? (R. Menachem Recanati) 0:25:14 Guf: Chamber in heaven where neshamot derive from (different levels) 0:27:33 Why above story is in Torah? (cont.) 0:28:38 Only 30 new souls per generation (R. Meir Abulafia) 0:30:05 Ideal time for a woman to get pregnant 0:31:48 Why beautiful R’ Yochanan sat next to the entrance to the women’s mikveh (Ber. 20a) 0:41:03 What Should You Think About During Jewish Intimacy? 0:44:58 Dangerous People 0:48:12 Thoughts during intimacy: holy vs evil 0:51:03 Beauty of the children of Zion (Gittin 58a to Lam. 4:2) 0:52:38 Roman aristocrats bound Jewish boys to their bedposts during marital relations (Gittin 58a, Deut. 28:61) 0:58:34 Adultery on the Mind & Mamzer Child 1:05:40 Preparation for Pure Mind 1:07:38 What Should You Think About During Jewish Intimacy? (cont.) 1:19:27 Marry Daughter of (1) Talmid Chacham (2) charity collector (3) gabbai (R. Cordovero to Pesach. 49) 1:20:43 If anyone marries off his daughter to an am haaretz, it is as if he tied her up and put her before a lion (Pesach. 49b) 1:20:57 Look at how potential wife is with parents 1:21:33 (1) Daughter of Talmid Chacham 1:22:28 Full time job: Making Wife Happy All the Time 1:23:58 (1) modesty from a cat 1:24:20 (2) honesty from ant 1:24:44 (3) faithful not to commit adultery from dove 1:25:08 (4) proper manner of conduct for marital relations from a rooster 1:28:54 Bring up your Spouse with you 1:33:49 Igniting a Miraculous Return 1:47:24 New Podcast: Returning to Hashem To Support our KIRUV and Torah Teachings work Please Donate At: http://www.BHDonate.org http://www.BHTorah.org http://www.BeEzratHaShem.org If you'd like to invite Rabbi Yaron Reuven to give a lecture at your synagogue, home or office please email [email protected] Rabbi Reuven is based out of Florida but travels to give lectures to different groups. Join one of our interactive "Interesting Torah" Whatsapp groups to get daily updates and short Torah clips that can uplift your day by texting 1.917.468.2324 or +91 93236 69880 Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi-fAdFBv83gUzBgKm3PAyw/join #What # think #Jewish #Intimacy #WhatShouldYourThink #Thinkabout #Judaism #rabbiyaronreuven