What is the PROPER way to acquire HONOR? #humility #mussar #judaism #jewish #inspiration #goodperson

any person who stands in front of their family their employees their co-workers friends or their community and says I demand respect speak to me this way address me this way honor me this way treat me this way is not honorable nobody honors someone who demands it we honor somebody who earns it who acts honorably that's why hazal tell us our rabbis tell us if you run after honor or honor runs away from you if you run away from honor then honor follows you we've seen that with our greatest Sadiq and our holy holy Israel you see great people great men and women they shy away from honor they don't want attention they don't want honor or honorifics and because they act so honorably everyone can't tell but treat them with honor foreign