What Has More Kedusha - Friday Night or Shabbos Day? {Daf Hashavua Iyun Sugya Kesuvos Daf 71}

ress okay good morning friends we have an interesting topic today da the bottom of the page said quoting AP so first said like a when she is found to be wholesome in her father-in-law's house she runs back to speak her prays in her father's house then the gar Dar AA will be on that day says God you will call me your husband you will not call me your master say like a Kala in her father-in-law's house not like a Kala in her father's house when a Kala is in her father's house then her relationship with the husband is the husband is the master cuz she doesn't have a close yet with the father on the other hand when the kala is in the father-in-law's house so she is already intimate and close with the husband okay so we have these two Dargo of aala in her father's house and aala in her father-in-law's house so what I want to discuss today is what times are we to Hashem like a Kal and what times are we and the answer is when are we ever AEM well we know on chabas we're Kalem well are there times that we're like a and sometimes we're like a and the answer is yes um the points out that our custom is Friday night we say we say says I heard the reason is for and bum is because G of seven8 bum 42 is 57 Z say my opinion Friday night were like AA in her father house the Sim of AA when she's in her father's house is with her the spotlights on her she's Thea in the morning she's already moved in in the morning she's so the is with the we say and by we say so we have this idea Friday night our relationship with Hashem is like a Kala a shabas morning now what's closer relationship or the answer is so does that mean that the kadha of shabas day is greater than Friday night cuz in that case let's say somebody is going to be wearing two suits on chabas you know people like to change your suit some people wear the same suit some people wear different suits which when should you wear a nicer suit Friday night or shabas day hey I never thought about that well let's see says based on the why does it say sometimes because there are two elements of shab says the night is not equal to the day the night is the light that's attributed to the that's why Friday night says therefore shabas day is called Kara the great KES now most people if you ask why is shabas Day called Kaba they say the r says because it's is Friday night isab is only so as a euphemism we say shabas KES is K but it's the opposite the M the great KES shabas day because the kadus of shabas day is greater so it comes out therefore if the kadha of shabas day is greater if you have a nice shirt or a nice tie or a nice suit and you plan on switching it up Friday night and chabas day which one should you wear nicer comes ra I searched for this I see it quoted I can't find where it is but he's quoted as to say it's better to wear nicer clothing shabas day than Friday night H so it comes out like this for all you mikah go is out there many people go to the Mikvah before chabas Friday night why because you're being elevated to kadus shabas well then should you go to the mkah shabas day of course you should if the if you go if you go to the Mikvah before chabas then you should go to the Mikvah shabas morning why let's see the brings from the Aral that if a person was and he was then then it goes without saying you have to go to the Mikvah you know cuz in the world of there's to you have to go to the mikah if you're but even if you were not the even if you didn't you don't have to go to the mik for the above mentioned reason you need to go to the why based on what we explained earlier says you should go to the to differentiate between weekday and chabas now you need another there's a big difference between Friday night so listen to this now would it make sense to go to the Mikvah before chabas and not on chabas in a way it's backward in a way it's backward why because before shabas you're going for one reason namely for Kad shabas but Friday night if you're M you have two reasons that you need to go the extra Kad shabas day and and because you're T so in a certain sense it's much more important to go to the Mikvah shabas morning than before now this is all you okay don't leave now you can't leave now because uh I'm not here to tell you when to go to the Mikvah I'm just pointing out there's a certain logic that going to the Mikvah shabas day is much more important than going to the Mikvah before chabas Friday so now the says like this but now we're going to make the other case the other way Friday you really need to dunk twice the first time to remove the weekday clothing from your soul meaning one you immersion to take to take off the weekday cloak of your soul and and the second immersion to shabas morning you only have to dunk once to bring upon you the extra added Kad of shabas day but you're not removing the Kad of shabas so comes out ER of shabas when you dunk you should dunk twice okay bottom line is seems to be saying Friday you dunk twice you have two one to remove the big day and one to beas day there's only one kadus namely to be you the extra kadus of shabas day I'm bringing this in just to um substantiate the point that the kadus of shabas day is greater than Friday night so it come out if you according to R fi if you have a nice tie you're going to be wearing it once on chabas don't wear it Friday night wear it chabas day what if you have a nice good dish to eat what if you have a nice treat for cover chabas should you use it chabas Friday night and chabas day and I didn't see this anywhere but according to fi i'mi you should you should have it shabas day unless you say well it'll be more Fresh Friday night now once we're on the topic of going to the Mikvah it seems like according to thatal you need to go to the Mikvah shabas morning so now I just want to point out that's the AR's opinion the gr's opinion is you're not allowed to go to the Mikvah chab this morning it's User it's a sin what's the sin why you not allowed to and I know you think because it's has something to do with hot water has nothing to do with hot water that's another problem whether you're allow to go to a heated that's another that's a separate issue let's see how do I flip how do I um who could read sideways here let me see a second um going to stop the share I'm going to get you back on let's see if you could if we could flip it here how do you flip it okay we're going to have to read sideways you have the sorry Rob you have the arrow to Turning you can flip it there where where show me oh okay now try try where the three dots are on the top right no okay no what the other screen that you had you had uh you had like an arrow go back to the other screen you had okay should be able to do it I'm going to download it again this no the other screen you had before no no but you when you had the PDF file before you this uh one second yeah okay you see there on the right you have like an arrow all the way on the right they have an arrow with a circle go down arrow this oh yeah okay good ah there you go now let's make it bigger how do we make it bigger how do you make it bigger here now oh this uh okay here we go it's smaller a little okay here we go so now uh so again the says you go to the Mikvah before shabas you go to the Mikvah shabas morning the opinion of the G is even if a person became t on shabis it iser to go to the Mikvah it's an AA why so the here okay the first thing you need to know is the in I believe it's says a person is allowed to be for his the brings the name now the gr says no the says the say the is that one is not allowed to go to the Mikvah for their t that the argues on the that you could be for one's carry the says that for K everyone says you're allowed to that the is like the that according to the that we're and we don't go we don't do so we don't do then if a guy goes to the Mikvah it looks like M and there's no difference between carry another T because he's being it's that's why the M AB that's why the says look in the because there the says that do not have relations with their wives so that they could be they could why because they don't go to the Mikvah because you're not how to go to the Mikvah even for carry you hear you hear this the's opinion is that you cannot be on even can't so they go to the says you're not to go to the so are notah now now this is very interesting that's the sheet of the G the G holds you cannot now if a person's where the grow would say you can't go to the mikah like the of the foras but even if a person became onab you can't go to mikah according to the are you allowed to go to the mikah on shabus you know the very interesting to know this let me fix this says that we a person could be from on even though you're be looks like your for a person to Beal it's more lenient why because it looks like you're just cooling off I but what if it's cold outside nobody would cool off and what if the and most people don't what if the Mikvah is smelly water most people don't cool off in smelly water with you know people's you know Parts floating around in there um he says sometimes when a person comes from the road and he's dirty sometimes people wash even this kind of water therefore it's to be even if you could have been before the first thing is is that a woman does not go to the Mikvah Friday night unless it's her L if let's say her L was Wednesday or Thursday and her husband was out of town so she said I'll push it off to Friday night can't do it the Min is a woman only goes to the Mikvah if it's since noways the minus it's user to wash your whole body a why is the person going to the Mikvah it must be because of and so it would seem therefore that a man should not go to the Mikvah for Tomas carry on chabas says he concludes not quite like the it is permitted to be if one became a b why since Ezra's that you're required to go to the Mikvah to Davin and to learn his b so nowadays you're allowed to Davin and learn if you didn't go to the Mikvah so therefore it doesn't really look like you're M because you don't need to go in the first place so if Ezra Tak was in full force that you're not allowed to learn you're not to D in then taka you wouldn't be allowed to go to the Mikvah and you won't be allowed to learn a DAV you hear this if Ezra's Tak was in full force then you would not be able to go to the m because then it would be but because there's no to learn anymore so some are and they say you should not be for any so it's a many people they're and have to go to the Mikvah and chabas so it comes out if someone is it's not to go to the someone who has accustom to be lenient don't protest most say you're allowed to if someone became itself there's no reason to be the is to be you have to be very careful not to come to squeezing do so the bottom line is if somebody became t on chabus you're allowed to go to the Mikvah if somebody became T before chabas and they did not go before chabas and they want to go on the the is never to go on shabas in the M the brings another reason why you're not to go on chabas the says so you don't come to says the brings from that the including did go to the m shabas but again I I brought this in only because it's an interesting idea that kadas shabas is greater shabas morning than Friday night Friday night is shabas morning is okay everyone have a great day thank you be