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We’re The Thankers
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Rabbi Kalish
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Who knows where he was from Reb
Matisyohu? Where was he from
Gateshead, England? We got Lally. We
have Lally from
beautiful person. Beautiful
Lally's. Well, Lally has brought to the
shame of so mature, so nice, so people
love him. He brings such a cheer makes
you [applause]
walk into a room and he's so nice to
people. He's like nice and welcoming and
kind and just brings a whole room like
becomes brings his vibe like literally
the energy brings in a room is
beautiful. It's a big source that we
have in Yeshiva. It's appreciated a lot.
So, Reb Matisyohu Salomon came from
England and he made a tremendous impact
in America. Beautiful Yid. And Reb
Matisyohu Salomon asked his nation if
everybody can please come to Shea
Stadium. I happen to be a Mets fan. So,
tell me to come to Shea, I'll probably
come anyway, but he invited everybody to
Shea Stadium.
Today it's called City Field. Us old
timers still call it Shea. But, he
invited everybody to Shea Stadium.
And he said he wants to talk about
technology. A godol like that asks
everybody to come where in. So, me and
Reb Oberlander drove to Shea Stadium.
It's funny because Reb Oberlander was on
time to everything and I don't tend to
be and we went early by Oberlander time
and we were sitting in Shea Stadium.
There was like barely a minyan.
And I like I told him you see most of
clients are more like me, not like you.
We were like the first ones in the
stadium. It was very funny. It was like
empty. 50,000 people came.
But, when we came and I like a little
bit I showed him that clients are more
like me than like him, but he was he was
outstanding and he was on time. The
bottom line is we went to Shea Stadium
for this rally for for to speak about
technology.
One of the one of the leaders of
of American jewelry got up to speak and
he pulled one of the all-time cool moves
I've ever seen in my life.
He gets up to speak. There are 50,000
people there
and he says most of the speeches were in
Yiddish. Came out everything was in
Yiddish. First of all, he spoke in
English. I thought that was pretty cool
to begin with like I can understand
better. But he also says he starts his
speech, I had right Overlander on one
side of me and a Satmar on the other
side. We'll call him Yailish. I don't
know if that's his name. I'm not making
fun, but he's a Satmar Reb Yailish was
the Satmar Rebbe. We'll call Yailish on
one Satmar Tzaddik and Reb Overlander on
the other side.
The speaker gets up and he says I want
to speak to the security detail and to
the and to the ushers. He speaks in
English
and he says I would like to speak. There
were probably 2,000 I'm
estimating. 50,000 Yidden and maybe
2,000 in between, security, a lot
of security, and ushers, people taking
people to their seats. I don't know.
Maybe less than 2,000, a few hundred.
There were a number of there.
This leader gets up, the speaker gets up
and he says I want to speak to the
security detail and to the ushers in
this room right now.
Cool move.
He's not talking to us anymore.
And he says you're probably all
thinking, who are these crazy people?
We've rented Shea Stadium for every many
millions it cost and we're here to talk
about technology like we're worried. Are
you
What? Could you imagine by we're
having a meeting like worried about
cars? Like cars came out. Uh-oh.
They had like the iPhone, nice phones,
gishmack.
And you have 50,000 people who are
gathered cuz we're worried about
technology? I want to introduce
ourselves to you. You probably think
we're quacks. So, let me introduce
ourselves.
He starts saying the history of our
people. Mitzrayim, Yetziat Mitzrayim,
Kabbalat haTorah. I got goosebumps.
Till October 7th, till Simchat Torah,
almost 2 years ago.
At that point, Hamas is my rebbe, my
book. Hamas taught me we're Yidden,
Anachnu Yehudim, I feel.
Yetziat Mitzrayim, I feel. Kabbalat
haTorah, Hamas reminded me.
That speaker, Zach, spoke about Yetziat
Mitzrayim. He was telling security
detail, "Yoelish next to me and we're
both like
Whoa. It was such a brilliant move cuz
if he would have said to me, "Kaylish,
let me tell you who we are."
You want to tell me Kabbalat haTorah
like
He said it over to security detail and
me and Yoelish were just listening. It
was like
It was so It was so crazy. Mordy, I felt
it.
It was like so sincere. He was telling
the security detail. And like, "Let me
explain who they are." All of us, 50,000
people remembered who we are then. It's
funny that sometimes telling somebody
else reminds you of what you
The Mesillas Yesharim writes that
sometimes the more public something is,
the less you know it.
Crazy line. He says, "Kefi pirsuma
davar."
The more public, the less you know it. I
once walked home from Yeshiva years ago
and I remember chapping this Hashem and
I almost fell on the floor. I was
staggered. This Hashem we know was
became like real to me. It was like It
was like a reality.
There's something called that's
interesting, Avram. There's something
called chochma and something called
daas.
Chochma's intellect. Chachma's I know.
I'll give what's chachma and what's das.
We davening in the first prayer in
Shmona Esrei, Sim Chaim, we daven for
das. What's das?
What's das?
What's chachma, what's das? We say
chonein da'as, Hashem gives das. If you
tell your little child Avram that fire
burns, it's a piece of information. You
tell your youngster.
You call your youngster, you show the
fire. Say burns, hot. It's called
He's a little he's 4 years old, she's 4
years old. Your youngster, Yosef, has
has a piece of information. Fire is hot,
that's called wisdom.
Welcome home, Yudi Langer. Wow.
Thank you for yeah, thank you for being
here, Yudi Langer. Thank you, THANK YOU.
>> [applause]
>> AMAZING. YUDI, WISDOM IS THE
INFORMATION. If you tell your 5-year-old
that fire is hot, they now have chachma,
they have a piece of information, Jamie.
Das is when the first time the kid
touches a hot stove.
Now they have das. It's emotion The word
I'll use is emotional reality. I know.
It's like It's like it It hits you in a
way it's not information. You
emotionally live with information. You
tell somebody, "We got to tell you I
know already."
Das is when you live with that
information. Like when when that
tzaddik, when that speaker said to the
by Kabbalas HaTorah, "I knew the
chachma before. I didn't learn a new
thing. I had das."
People ask why we sing a lot in
Woodbury. "What are you singing by
Muslim? What's happening?" A lot is I
want to activate das. I want to learn
ideas, but they could be like an idea. I
find that singing helps me like connect
to something and relate and process
something and it relate to it in a way
of das. I want my I want my fingers to
know it. I want every part of me to know
it. By the way, a lot of friction helps
you know it deeper.
When you when you hit friction and you
have to like work on it, you can know
something deeper. That's called das.
And what that speaker did at Emunah
Tzion Solomon's gathering is I knew
about Kabbalah Torah, but it was like a
theory. It was like a piece of
information.
When he said over to the security
detail, we were all sitting there, and
it wasn't lost on any of us that these
guys must think we're freaks.
And when he explained it to them, I was
able to listen cuz it made sense. He was
explaining to the guy him. And I was
like, "Oh my goodness. We're really Am
Yisrael. We really have a mission. We
really were born for something." Kol
Yisrael are Yidden.
So, this person who describes at the
beginning of Bikkurim, our people and
the formation of our people, why is he
doing that? Do Before a person puts on
tefillin, you don't say, "Let me talk
about Kol Yisrael and the formation."
All of a sudden, by the mitzvah of
Bikkurim, which is when the farmer
brings his first fruits of the seven
minim to the Beit Hamikdash, he speaks
about the history of our people.
And the simple p'shat is cuz we were
formed for this. This is literally
identity, who we are. We're the
thankers. So, when he does a mitzvah of
thanking, he says our story. Let me
please express who we are. I want to
introduce myself.
If you want to know what I'm What are
you busy thanking? That's who I am.
We're from a group of people who are
thankers. Now, thanker is not a
superficial, external thing. Say thank
you.
To be a Yehudi is that people that have
a capacity to live in the space of
appreciating the kindness of Hashem.
Literally to live in that space of
gratitude. To have the yeshiva das, the
menuchas hanefesh, we're people of
gratitude. What's the shidduch of a Yid?
What day Every day has a shidduch.
What's the shidduch of Shabbos is the
Yid. The Yid and Shabbos are considered
a zivug, a shidduch mamash. Shabbos and
a Yid.
Shabbos is an expression By the way,
another name besides thankers is the Am
Mekadshei Shvi'i. We're the people who
sanctify Shabbos, the name of us. We're
the Am, who are we? Shalom aleichem. Let
me introduce myself. Oh, we're the
Shabbos observers.
What is Shabbos? So, I'm a Levi.
The us Levi'im sing a song on Shabbos,
Mizmor Shir L'Yom HaShabbos. And the
song of Shabbos is Tov L'Hodos L'Hashem.
A person enters the space that Hashem
that Hashem really makes that Hashem's
running the world. To be thankful to
Hashem, to see the kindness of Hashem,
to see we're in good hands.
I had a maiseh in yeshiva. Can I tell
you a maiseh? I was made I make kiddush
every Friday night.
And I had a maiseh in yeshiva during
kiddush the second-to-last Friday night
of the yeshiva. For whatever reason, I
was in like an anxious zone.
And guys were talking loudly in the
dining room as teenagers should and
could. They were talking loudly,
excited, Shabbos people were all like
there was a buzz. And I was in a stress
I was in like this tight mood. And I was
trying to make kiddush and I was
stressed and I felt the pop in my neck.
I I ended up pulling I pulled I I had a
pinched nerve. For 7 weeks I was in
agony. The last week of the year and 6
weeks I was in agony for 7 weeks. I
pushed it I I had a pinched nerve. And
it happened to me during kiddush.
And I want to express that the whole
kiddush for somebody to I'm not ripping
myself. We're human and it's normal and
that's
what I want during Kiddush specifically
is to be enveloped in a calm. I picture
somebody is upset at his family during
the Kiddush is the opposite of Kiddush.
Kiddush is a space. Sham created the
world. We're in good hands. Accept
accept people around us. Accept how
things are. There's such an irony that
during Kiddush I was like stressing. And
then I got injured. Not that Hashem
punishes. Not Hashem not telling Hashem
not Not that Hashem's vengeful. What I
want to say. Hashem teaches sometimes.
To me it was very eye-opening during
Kiddush that the moments of Kiddush is
to try to to to smile. It's to try to be
present to deep acceptance and
appreciation to the world Hashem gave
us. That's what the essence of Kiddush.
That's the essence of Shabbos Kodesh.
So this is segulah that it will reach
us. It will connect to us. We can have
all the brachos of the world, but what
Hashem is saying it will reach you.
You'll be able to be to absorb the
brachos, to feel the bench, to feel
somebody who's bench, to to have that
yeshuv daas, that tranquility, that
menuchas hanefesh, to feel the brachos
of Hashem.
This I want to say when we want to teach
our children gratitude.
We want to teach our children gratitude.
My father My father I'm finishing up
Kaddish. I'm in the last couple of weeks
of Kaddish. And the whole year I I'm
thinking about my father.
And a middah that my father was wild at
was gratitude. He was a tremendously
grateful person. We used to go to a
Pesach hotel. I use this example cuz
it's something that stuck out to me. We
would go to a Pesach hotel. The waiter
was treated with crazy like not just
respect. He was celebrated. There was a
tremendous gratitude. Not a forced
chill. Wasn't like be grateful. Say
thank you. thank you.
It's like a space with tremendous
appreciation. I want to say somebody
could be cynical about our people. They
rented a park.
There's a beautiful organization that
helps Rebbeim and Morahs out classes
they leave. Beautiful organization.
We're a very cool people on Israel. And
they made a whole organization
celebrating the teachers of our children
are
to be appreciated. And they made an
organization where they help out Rebbeim
and Morahs.
And they rented an amusement park for
for for the Rebbeim and Morahs.
And a security guard told us that he
never got so many thank yous in his
life. Now, you could say all the people
who tell kids say thank you were there.
Now, you could be like somewhat cynical.
The truth is that we're big thankers on
Israel. The police, if there's ever a
police near a shul on Yom Noraim, you
know how many thank yous the guys get?
Now, if somebody wants to be cynical,
could be I'm not a cynical person. I
actually think that it's a middah of
klal Israel. It's It's who we are. It's
who we are. We're the thankers. If a
police is around the Jewish community,
the amount of thank yous they get. A
fire person, the amount of thank yous.
Somebody wants to be a cynic, be it It's
your shiyachus. The emes is that we're
thankers.
That our people are big big thankers.
That's who we are. We're the ones who
say thank you. An amusement park, if
they add up and they're honest, to me
it's poshut. They get much more thank
you from you, much more. It's who we
are. We're in the space. Now, I want I
want to say that that's a middah of am
Israel. It's We're the thankers.
But my my my bracha and my mission to us
is we should really be in that space. To
me, Elul is about returning to being
more who we are. I want to be in a more
calm happy place of being a thanker.
There's a the madrish says about Paroy
that Paroy was a kafri toy to Yoysef.
Yoysef saved his country and he wasn't
in a space and Yoysef walked in the room
to be full of gratitude. And since he
was a kafri toy to Yoysef, he was a
kafri toy to Hashem.
So, he said me Hashem. And the madrish
says that if we're makir toy to people
around us, we're makir toy to Hashem.
I want to say that let's get back to
ourselves. Let's be thinkers. But to
really be in that space.
When we receive. By the way, the cook
that becomes like an obligatory, you
know, they in every camp and yeshiva you
call out the cook out of there.
Everybody give a thank you. I'm not
talking about that. Do you know Alan
walks in the room? I promise you often
Alan walks in here and I have feelings
of like very warm feelings. He cleans
our yeshiva. He cares about our yeshiva.
I have very warm feelings. It's not like
everybody say thank. No. No. Do you ever
like stop? He goes around and he cleans.
He cuts the lawn here. He cuts the lawn
here.
I'm just asking to be present to a
truth. He actually loves the yeshiva a
lot. Do you know Alan for a year he he's
I'm telling you the emes I don't know
how much money he gets a month. It's not
a lot. He hasn't been well. He's
physically not well. He he's a human
being. It's not anybody's business how
much he gets a month. Do you know Alan
for close to a year gave me a third of
his salary that he wants to spend on
bachrum in the yeshiva who have needs. A
third of his salary. 1/3.
Alan hands me for close to a year. The
guy who works here. A third of his money
he wanted it to be used for bachrum in
the yeshiva.
Do you know that?
Now, first I want to say he's in a
yeshiva, of course he became big.
He's inspired by here, of course.
Alan is more god-fearing. That's first
it's pashut. He's in a yeshiva. He likes
the place. He feels the place. It would
be embarrassing if the janitor didn't
become holy. Do you know our janitor?
You could ask Alan. Do you know he gives
me a third of his I believe a third of
his salary. Now, he gets other things.
He gets free board, rent. He gets so
that it's not a third of the money he
gets, he gives me per month that the guy
should should be able to buy things.
You know that, Mark? You know this
already.
For almost a year. Now, first of all, I
I'm pointing out that of course he's in
a Yeshiva. Of course everybody the
custodian, the guy who delivers the food
should become closer to Hashem. That
that the nurse comes to Daven with us
every morning is in a Yeshiva. Of course
it's that way. It's inspiring to be
around the netz pasha like that. But
what I want to say what I want to say is
be in the space of gratitude.
Somebody cares about us and works for us
and gives to us. There's a simple space
to be in. I think we get overwhelmed
with thoughts and we don't slow
ourselves down. There's a Yeshiva that
we ask people to like dig in or to be
present to their thoughts. You'll find
gratitude inside of yourself.
Anybody who just slows down things and
is willing to look inside, you'll find
gratitude.
Gratitude to parents. Say thank you.
Let's find that space inside of you
that's very appreciative to your
parents. By the way, parents are human,
make mistakes. They also brought us to
the world. They also care about us more
than anybody in the world. I promise
there's a space inside of us that's very
grateful to parents. Like very. We're
trying to go to that space, to be
present to that space. That's very
grateful. I have challenges, you have
challenges. There are things we're very
very grateful to our parents who love
us, who appreciate us. It's a space
inside of us that's true, that's deep,
that means something. Try to enter that
space. with Siyata d'Shmaya.
The bracha should reach us, should be
present to us. We should like feel them
and experience them. That's That's so I
I want to give this bracha to us, to me
and you. I want to also to bracha and a
mission.
It's interesting. Rebbe Nachman says to
take all the Torah you ever learn and
turn it into a prayer.
There's deep reasons. Why is he turning
Torah into prayer? Rebbe Nachman says,
"Any Torah you learn, turn it into a
prayer."
It's very interesting. We're learning
Torah here. I want it to be a prayer and
a mission. There's a mission to be more
present, to be more grateful people,
which takes work. Probably need to cry,
you need to feel certain things. It
takes looking inward. But I also want to
be a prayer that Hashem should give us
Siyata d'Shmaya, the line of the Gemara
Kedushin Maley Hakadosh Baruch Hu Olamo
Kullo. Without Siyata d'Shmaya,
we can't we won't succeed. We need
Siyata d'Shmaya in everything that we
do. We need heavenly assistance.
The Ribono shel Olam should help you and
I be truer to who we are. We're Yehudim.
We're the thankers, the people who live
in the space of gratitude. We should be
more grateful to people around us, and
ultimately more grateful to Hashem, who
who who's who's the creator of all of
us. So that's That's my blessing to the
chevra.
Yeah. This is something I was around a
person I was zocheh to grow up with a
father, and a person who was a very
grateful person. His gratitude was like
very cool. I could tell you this This
sounds funny. You You might You might
think this is funny, and we grew up with
this. He was very grateful. The guy at
Toll Booth would like raise his thank
you so much. Appreciate. It's like the
guy is doing his job. But he My father
like was present to that. He let me
through. I I couldn't get through
otherwise. There was an appreciation to
people, from waiters to small things
people were doing.
Somebody came to the house to fix
something. There was like a real space
of gratitude and appreciation, certainly
to his wife. And he showed up with such
an appreciation, like real. Thank you.
It wasn't like busy telling us say thank
you.
I would say one day everybody here
tell your kids to say thank you, maybe.
Maybe. I hear different ways. I would
say the best thing in the world is to
really be grateful to your wife. If
you're really that way, maybe you'll
still have to tell your kids to say
thank you. I think they'll live in a
certain space. It will come it will
flow. They'll really feel gratitude.
Of course, there's something I always
ask ask I want to end with this. On Guys
do trips in the summer.
Avi, I'm tremendously Avi did a trip.
Morty, they did trips. They
Shlaima did a trip. Amazing.
Shlai
Shlaima Greenwald took guys on a trip.
Guys Guys did trips very Daniel the
Hebrew took people on trips so that
worked very very hard. I always call up
ask Avi, I call up all the trip runners.
I thank them. But I ask them, give me
the name of the guy who's most
appreciative.
I always need to know who's in the space
of most gratitude. I could tell you
names that people have said to me. It's
a very It's an indicator to me. It's a
deep indicator of big things to come.
Our kids are in a very cool space. And
on two of the trips, I asked He's not
here. I'm not saying it to like I'm
saying it guy Nissim Silverman. On two
of the trips, it was like said he's a
big thanker. He's like b'emes. I'm not
talking about the guy who's polite thank
you. I'm talking about the guy who texts
later, like meant a lot to me.
I'll say he's not here now. And it's
interesting two different trips told me
he's the biggest thanker. And I have
seen it in Yeshiva. We'll do something
in Yeshiva. This is like I It's a It's a
testament on his parents. He comes he's
like a thank It's a big thing.
It's That's the idea. My mission is a
thank
but he's in that space. It's like so
appreciate such a beautiful space I have
I asked you this a number of times. I
asked Mark Did I ask you this? Yes.
I always I'm curious about it. I'm
always curious who are the thankers. Now
I'm not saying this I almost shouldn't
tell you Thank you
I'm I'm literally not even talking about
saying thank you.
It's [clears throat] a matter of space
of presentness and I and I dive in for
us to be in that space. It's a cool
space to be in to appreciate. Yiddy
Yiddy has brought it for the Yeshiva my
mission given his kishkes.
>> [applause]
>> I'm curious
so curious.
Is this Shabbos Is this Shabbos the
offer of
That's
The last Shabbos this man's going to be
an offer of for Yiddy. Deserved. A
person deserved the Yeshiva to celebrate
with him. But I'm always curious Yiddy
you're busting I'm not asking you in
front of everybody. I'm always curious
who's somebody like who's who's my
mission who's who's who's a Yiddy's
Yiddy. They're like in the space of
appreciation like Yiddy. It means
something. I'm not asking I'm not asking
you to tell me.
No I'm not asking on it.
There's guys here so I don't want to
pick one over the other I
Mosque and Zach
It's a cool space.
Thankers thankers
I have I have a theory Kevra. I Tell me
Izzy I have a theory Simcha Avi the
whole Hazaras of shots Yid not quiet and
we say amen.
All of a sudden comes my dim like the
whole shul says my dim. I have a theory.
I have a theory that he's he's saying,
you know, he's he's asking for things,
even thanking Hashem, but he's asking
specific things. So, kol Yisrael, we
listen shema koleinu, hearing, it's like
saying it.
All of a sudden, mode ani
mekanish einhalten,
we can't hold it in. The whole tzibbur
says mode ani with
That's what I picture, the whole tzibbur
says mode ani with the chazzan. We're
the thankers. Thank you, nobody's saying
thank you for me. We all jump in. When
it comes time for mode ani, the group of
thankers.
We're a bunch of thankers, Yidi. When it
comes time to thank, we're all in. We're
the thankers. I like that mode ani, the
whole time we're listening politely to
the chazzan.
CD comes mode ani, we're all in. We jump
in.
I remember I like thinking that the room
that the room Eliezer, the room of
thankers, when it comes to thank,
nobody's doing it for me. I'm in. The
whole shul, I mekanish einhalten, we
can't hold it in.
That's my theory, Leli, that we all jump
in. Now, somebody could ask, we're we're
praising Hashem, baruch atah Hashem, we
are saying Hashem is the source.
But we're attributing he's the source of
things till then. But mode ani is I want
to say thank you. I'm just appreciative.
all of a sudden we say mode ani
the whole tzibbur is shouting.
I want to say shh, chevre, shema
koleinu, mode ani
The whole shul says mode ani. We all
jump in, A group of thankers,
and somebody's thanking, we're not
listening. We're not quiet in shema
koleinu, we're jumping in.
That's that's what I like viewing on the
mode ani derabbonon. what do you
hold of that?
I think it's I think there's a truth
here.
Eliyahu, is there truth? I think to me
there's a truth. Everything essence of a
thanker, I think out of you.
Eliyahu wants to know what's the root of
a thank you. Like what's the I don't
know. I first I don't even want to
oversimplify it. Anybody understands
that So what is this? How do I get to
this space? I think a very There's
honesty. There's working out difficulty,
being present to stuff. But we could
find that space of appreciation. It's a
real space. When people I take the time
the same thing. We could get so busy
doing so much, we forget to like
breathe. I think people who pause and
breathe find the space of appreciation.
Appreciation is part cuz it's true. But
not asking thank you is not like a
forced Say thank you to mommy. Whoa,
whoa. That's what I want for my kids. I
That's not my dream for my kids. My
dream for my kids is inside. Like mommy,
look what he does for us.
Whoa.
Whoa. The only way to teach that really
is to try to be in that space ourselves
like real.
Real.
What do you want? What?
What's going on? Lying. This is wild.
Go in the kitchen once in a Shabbos and
just sit there and think for 2 minutes.
It's wild.
That help out.
It's wild.
But I'm I'm sure there's a lot that goes
in. I'm sure there's a lot. We have to
like think about that what it would
take.
A lot of times first I want something
then I'll figure out what it takes to
get there.
I'm presenting the
>> [snorts]
will be we are not to end with
some So you have a guitar here? Come up
to the front. Let's do a song before we
close it out.
One ear quick slow. Um I'm going to go
to class. Crowded. Crowded. It's the
only school that we treat like get guys
to come let's go.
>> [applause]
>> You know what I want to do? We're going
to do a thank you song.
I want to I don't want it to just be
rachman, I want it to be das. We're
going to do
Oid Hashem? A shira lashem? A shira
lashem you like? What is
I sing to Hashem. What which one what's
the oid Hashem?
What's the eight kids?
Oid Hashem b'chol libi. I thank Hashem
with all my heart.
Gabriel Reichman and wrote this
song. Let's do it.
>> [music]
the first time that will join the
second time.
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I love you.
I love
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I love you.
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>> Just scheduling things,
tomorrow mussaf is going to be earlier.
There is we're going to we're going to
be buzz sham consistent 3:05 mincha 3:30
mussaf. Tomorrow there is a pickleball
tournament in the afternoon.
So mussaf will be 2:00. 2:00 mussaf
followed by mincha followed by the
pickleball tournament. So just keep that
in mind that it's going to be a little
earlier tomorrow. Keep that in mind.
Today there'll now be second seder if
guys want chavrusas. We'll start
arranging bezrat Hashem chavrusas but
there'll be second seder. There'll be
night supper at 6:30 night seder. After
night seder tonight I believe there's a
volleyball tournament in the gym for the
Chevra. I just thanked the Chevra for
coming. Um I like you a lot, Usher. A
lot a lot a lot. I think I'm always
going to appreciate Usher, but I'm he
adds a lot in the Yeshiva. He's a gentle
person. He's an intelligent person.
>> [applause]
>> I I THINK I'LL ALWAYS I always have good
feelings to Usher. I met him at a
restaurant at a bagel store in Brooklyn.
But I'm driving with Usher in Brooklyn.
This is just a true story, but right
away like we're up blessing my life.
Usher is in the passenger seat. I'm in
the driver's seat. And I was going to
pick up my daughter and I was on the
phone.
I'm on the phone telling my daughter
that I'm running a little late. I needed
to tell the next interview that I'm an
hour late. Like things were going on.
Why late is very part of this that's
another story. But I'm on the phone.
And and I I'm somehow my my cell phone
glitched. The Waze glitched.
It said to make a left. It really it was
a little further down. It was like
glitching and I make a left into a
one-way street. It's a one-way the other
way and I make a left. I'm on my cell
phone, make a left into a one-way, and I
pass by a cop who's just laughing. He's
waiting at the corner. He's in his cop
car and I'm just driving. He starts
laughing. I then do a U-turn. The car is
coming at me. So I've done I'm on my
phone driving the wrong way in a one-way
and then I U-turn on a road. You're not
allowed to like U-turn in the middle of
the street. So I have three like serious
infractions. The cop's rolling. He puts
on his lights. I'm like embarrassed.
Usher just met me. This guy is out of
his mind. He's on the phone. Usher was
like just nice gentle. The cop puts on
his sirens. Okay. So he got me.
Three heavy tickets. On the phone, left
in a one-way, U-turn on a street not
allowed to make a U-turn.
And the cop puts on his siren, so I pull
over and he pulls his car right next to
our car. And what did he do? What does
he go? He goes like this.
Oh, yeah. He goes like this.
So I see and then he drives off. He puts
on his sirens, I pull over, looks in the
car, we lock eyes. He had He's laughing
and he goes
>> [clears throat]
>> So I'm like, "Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's
really bad." And then he drives off.
So I said to Usher,
"What does he mean? I was waiting there.
I thought we had a wait like he maybe
means he's coming back around." I don't
know Brooklyn language. Maybe there's a
curse the new middle finger of sorts. I
don't know. He goes like this. Usher
says, "I think you could just go."
That's That was the extent of New York.
It's very I think the cop was showing
Usher right off the bat we were meeting
a little bit Woodbury like you do
everything wrong, you get like a this
and then go right there. Okay, right
there. We talking, don't need
punishments.
>> [laughter]
>> The guy
I'm always like thinking about you,
Usher. Going to just remember that cop
that like the big issue gave me was like
be careful next I don't know what this
is like. I was really like this like
thank you.
Well, I think a new thing with cop, no
more tickets, just like a little a
little mazel, a little rebuke. Be more
careful. So now we got it. I can't
figure it out.
Crazy.
A guy
Crazy story.
What does anybody know like Brooklyn
cops? Like what's the deal why I didn't
get a ticket? Like is that just Usher
having to Maybe you got lucky.
It's weird, right? On Coney Island
track.
The license plate and the guy license It
could be so I you just not from here.
Could be was you have such a sweet guy
in the front seat. I don't know. I don't
I can't
Usher, what do you think Chad is?
In front of a cop, don't try this at
home. A left turn into a one-way.
He just was laughing. It was like so
unlikely. He was sitting right at the
corner.
I appreciate you here a lot, Usher. It
started fun, it's getting even better.
Have an excellent day, guys. Have an
excellent day.
>> [applause]
>> I like it, yes, sir.