We Lost the Beis Hamikdash Over This!

There's a lot of disagreement these days stemming from a lot of pain. Who should speak? Who must speak? Who should not speak? Who is right? Who is wrong? Maybe says the that's not the right question, but rather how should we speak with each other? Was playing a game with a group the other day. Who's right? Who's wrong? All kinds of trivia questions, lots of great competition. But the counselor got up and said, "It's not just about who gets it right and who gets it wrong. It's about how you treat each other in the competition. It's about how you talk to each other. An important lesson for all of us as we try to bring about the gula right now at this time as we enter into the time where we commemorate the destruction of the temples. We have to remember it's not just about who is right and who is wrong. How we talk even amongst ourselves when we disagree.