Washing Hands - Part 3 - Rabbi Reuven Lauffer

I think we're going to make a concerted effort to finish up our lockers today because we spent enough time with us right thank you supposing no no that's all we could do it forever oh never mind okay um here is a practical piece of a locker you know when you go when you go to like a shabbaton of some kind is a lot of a lot of people washing their hands so once you've made your aunt Alicia dime when you're waiting for that are mighty to be made you can answer a main to other people's brokers that's always a something which you know people are a little bit uncertain about whether they can whether they can't because if we learnt the other day when you've made the other two little dime you're not supposed to speak at all or make it make a great at-bat make a gap between having said the broker and making a motive but over here it's okay to say our name to everybody in fact you really you should say I mean to everybody's brokers right and that's okay to do now if you if you ver you may down a tillage a dime and even if you've already made her mighty I wish music you've now started eating the bread and you're in the middle of your meal however there might be moments where you might need to rewash your hands depending on a few things so if just in general you should arise that nothing nothing to do with that with nothing to do with eating a meal it's just in general if you touch a part of your body that is normally covered so then you need to you need to wash your hands afterwards so for example trying to I guess most people normally keep their chest covered for example right if you have a an itch and you stick your hand inside your shirt you start scratching away over there if you touch you if you touch the place then you should go and wash your hands afterwards I guess it goes without saying although most things that go without saying do to be said that if you change a baby's diaper you should wash your hands afterwards if you scratch your head if you if you scratch your head so hard that you touch your sculpt you go through to your scalp then you need to wash your hands again if you're just you know scratching a head in a very gentle fashion and that yeah something like that would be that would be fine but going deeper that's a problem scratching your bid is not a problem right which is it's only it's only the top of your head it's only the skull which makes you having to wash your hands again going to the bathroom again goes without saying which is why we're saying it and if you fall asleep Alicia Brewer says that if you fall asleep during the meal even if it's just a short nap when you wake up you should wash your hands again now I don't you know again it's a little bit of a little bit of a subjective thing I do have relatives who tend to fall asleep at the you know the shadows table they just fall asleep when they wake up I know how long they've been sleeping for if it's if it's you know let's certainly less than 20 minutes is probably not a big deal but sometimes they do take a you know a proper schluff inside of the meal if that's the case when they wake up they should wash their hands again their broccoli again I just lost your hands just wash your hands without bra will talk about sometimes where maybe you do have to make a bracha and like what should we should portion no I same way well look the thing is like this not not really just need to wash your hands right you don't have to do it in the way that you would wash in order to make a mighty but you do need to cover your hands with water now here's that halacha which is which i think it's very very something which i think is very practical and very common as well you start your sudah and you were you make a mighty and you're now in the middle of the shooter and then there's a long gap during the suitors so for example maybe there is a very lengthy devar torah that's being said or maybe you know what you've eaten most of the meal has been eaten and you're not really no one's really very hungry and you're just sitting around and you're you know speaking to retire to each other and you're singing mirrors together and sometimes in su dash legit for example you know you can just get into as mirrors singing mode where it's just everyone's just happy to keep singing nobody wants to break the atmosphere so what what you know what are you supposed to do so the bishop bruce says that if it's in it's an arrow to it's a problem you're taking your mind off of the meal and then now what are you supposed to do so you would have to go and wash your hands again and according to according to the mission of brewer I don't know you've got wash your hands again and you've got to eat you've gotta make a moiety again other boys give a little bit more lenient on me they said like this if you're sitting at the table then that's a sign that you're aware that you're still in the middle of a meal and it should be okay now what's it what's the difference over here so shabbaton maybe is less of a problem you go to a wedding right and you get up from your table you start dancing and you're dancing and dancing and dancing you've been dancing for a lot a long time it could be it could be there's a little bit of a probably how do you get around the problem the simplest way of getting around the problem is to make sure that you eat something in between it doesn't have to be anything substantial it doesn't have doesn't even have to be bred actually it could just be you know what what if it's on the table and a piece of fruit it could be you know like a like a potato a piece of schnitzel whatever it is it really makes a difference the minute the minute you've eaten something else you've now extended your ability to be able to keep dancing without having to worry about it same thing at the shovers table you like that tell you go you know maybe you go I don't know you're not a shabbos table you go to a you know the work the worst thing of all you go to a charitable event yeah oh my gosh and people get up and they talk and they talk and they talking they talk right and so how do you how do you get around the problem of spending too long listening or not sing to his fellow speak by just eating a little bit of something nibble on something in between and then you've just extended your your time period and now I've noticed very often on shabbos especially sometimes when you get to the end of dessert and people are just sitting around young men people are just sitting around and they're busy you know they're they're talking and they're they're singing and time starts moving along and you'll see in many different homes what they do is that they'll bring out little things to nibble on you right over here like nuts or jellies or whatever it is I'll put a man on the table bendix mints for example only only if you're in you know a home with somebody who's truly a kind of sir otherwise I'll just get out after a verse or something anyway at a shabbos Neil you've got here we've got we've got an additional issue over here it could be that time is going to become it's just going to be two extended it's going to be too long and then if that happens if a 72 minute gap has appeared between the time that you finish eating your bread till the time that you want to bench it's a problem you can't venture anymore so the best thing to do by far is again you know all it takes is one nut or 11 vendek's right so I just a net I meant the you know that the time to grow on a tree yeah good not the tight recliner but all it take you know just it just take one little thing to extend your time period for another 72 minutes so it's really not a big deal right you know a jelly or a or a mint or a nut and you don't even if you're full up but you're scared that you might cross over that 72 minute cut off so the best thing to do is just to have a little a little something we spoke about the idea that you need to wash and Ottilia sad I'm you need to wash it using what's called a ceili using a vessel let's haven't see what what is acceptable what's not acceptable the reason why by the way we wash our hands using kelly's because we are we're mirroring what took place in the temple and whenever the kahani would wash they would also use a ceili to wash their hands with and therefore that's what we do as well it makes no difference what it's made out of right so you know you can have it made out of glass or wood or clay you can have it made out of silver many people have silver there till it's your dime cups for Shabbat during the rest of the week they'll use something a little less a little less expensive than that anything is ok to use however some some pose get some some authorities are of the opinion that you should not use plastic disposable cups for Nutella today and that's a lack of a lack of respect however again you know if that's all there is then for sure it's ok to use it it's better to use that than not to be able to wash your hands yeah if you're a mean part of the problem over here is maybe it's not leasing these things a rather the rather what's the word you know rather thin and not not too so maybe you take two and put them together so maybe that that's a better way better way of washing your hands there are postcards that is if you if you put disposable cups on your table for shower that's right of you if you would use them for shabbos then it's ok to wash your hands with them if we're talking about look what El Paso cut ok static of those plastic throwaway of it how you doing Julia the beginning are you doing for the bread or you mean when you for a little out you're dying for the bread ok then yeah so again I it really it sounds like whatever you going to do is going to be ok which means the people who want to be careful they're not going to use disposable cups that's good fine and if you if you do want to it's also it's going to be okay you can if you don't have anything at all you got your out on a teal right and you don't have anything to wash your hands with so it's ok to wash your hands in something which is ok to use as a meekelorr so if you've got a running stream or you go to the ocean or something you could just dip your hands into the ocean or into the stream and you don't have to have a cup you know you don't have one what can you do but you want to eat your sandwich so that's that's ok to what that's ok to do as well again we spoke about the idea that when you use when you come to wash your hands you should watch your hands using lots of water I'd be be generous with the amount of water that you're using again it's got its got our little reward attached to it yeah good question what is a person used the other cup but they didn't use all the water and left it there on the sink mmm can one use that same water or should one dump the water and then just make something new batch that's it for like just wake up the morning yeah I mean Jen met the bread when you wake up in the morning we're not normally when you wake up in the morning we're more stringent right so I think when you wake up in the morning you should definitely use new water it was okay when it comes to making her mighty I think it's okay to use the water that's in there already oh hey glory it's interesting that there is a year there is a custom among something i don't know you see it here the yeshiva maybe that people fill up once you've washed your heads you fill up the cup for the person behind you I just leave the sink on to tap into the temple yeah so long as there's somebody right behind you yeah yeah that's also it's also good there's that you know again some people don't know I want to I want to fulfill the mid tour of filling up the cup but he's not really a mid to that the litter is washing your hands when you when you fill up the cup ready for the next person behind you so that's fulfilling the midst of being Adam Lacavera right you're doing a kind deed for the next person he doesn't have to fill up the cup it's there waiting for you waiting game already to do and it's very much of it I think it's a very beautiful idea actually then if somebody's done that to you and you appreciated it so it's a good idea to do it for the next person behind you why not and it's a a nice thing to do I read a very beautiful little story actually about somebody who broke down and they were stuck on the on the side of the highway and they didn't know what to do and it was dark outside and they don't know how to change you know they had a puncture they know how to change the puncture and a car pulled up behind them and a fellow gets out now you know if everything is okay so the person said no it's not and so fella said he look I'll help you and he get you know gets out the spare tire and he gets out the jack and he changed the tire and gets herself all dirty in the process and once everything is cameras in his fellow that the person whose card broken down wanted to give him something right so he tried to give a fifty-dollar bill thinking that's like you know he really did appreciate it was like the middle of the night it was it was dark he didn't know what he was doing in long can this this angel of mercy of you know change his tire for him and he wouldn't he wouldn't take it so that the person whose car broke down says to that said to his Savior he says so you know what can I give you so he said the best thing that you can give me is the next time you need so you see somebody who's in need of help stop and help them write and tell them carry it on it's like a like a chain right I think it's a very beautiful story and it's a yeah it has something that we I think we all need to be you know aware of these kinds of things we can really help people very easily by just you know doing small things in a day like you fill up somebody's cup full of water and it's a tiny little thing you know it doesn't really doesn't really take any effort or energy from on your behalf and yet you're making things a little bit easier for the person behind you that person is going to have a slightly better day because you've filled up his cup for him so yeah I think it's a very it's a very nice thing to do mr. Brewer says like this it's an interesting I loja well if you've got no water available at all to wash your hands but there are other beverages around mr. Brewer mentions wine he said that it's permissible to wash your hands with wine without making a broker right now what was the chat the chat is very simple the whole idea of watching your hands was to do what spiritually cleaning right get get rid of the spiritual impurity if I don't have any water but I do have something else to be able to wash my hands with so i guess today maybe maybe people don't walk around with bottles of wine maybe but you know if you've got a bottle of coke or something however however weird it sounds that you should wash your hands with a bottle of coke without making a broker in order to rinse off any of the spiritual impurity and then you can eat that you could eat your sandwich right without having to cover your hands with something however sense of mission of brewery if at some point once you're still eating somebody brings water to where you are then you need to wash your hands and you write you've gotta wash them again with the water okay so nice beverages you don't say abruptly just do you just do though yeah love one two one two one two yeah and that's it and then you cook this water you do the state of Brock okay yeah rockets with water on a friend / okay so you know I don't know you could wash your hands with orange juice so you can wash your hands with you know anything really gonna see messy sticky and you know a rather a rather odd you can down like a half a bottle of coke yeah your neck it's probably better to you to wash your hands with coke then I used to drink the stuff isn't it nice yes it's true it's counterintuitive it's interesting right that nevermind coca-cola and orange juice that the fish abroad talks about wine like wine wine is something which is you know the war as a rule wine is I was going to say as a wall Rhine is more expensive than coca-cola is right so I understand you know is it Baltacha a bottle of coke costs pretty much what a bottle of water costs right so if you would have go into that you go to the local you know the local garage and buy yourself a bottle of water to wash your hands with no one would say hey that's ball touch kiss mount asticus is you know throwing out something which is good normally applicable to food but the truth is applicable to everything which means you've got a perfectly good sweater and you just throw it out you know it's also a form of backlash Chris you got food perfectly good food that you throw out that's also broadcasters that's how parents Jewish parents trying to get their kids to eat things that they don't want to eat by telling its mount asticus now if you don't eat that I might my mother always used to try telling me that the star at starving children in Africa which is truly truly bizarre II even as a like an eight-year-old kid I really couldn't see the connection between boiled white fish and starving children in Africa I just couldn't you know it was every now and then my mother would make boiled white fish like I didn't want to eat it and she would tell me but there are starving children in Africa and I always always that you know I was going to ask I understand so if I eat this then they won't be starving like what what am I missing something oh yeah and like what I did was in a childish sit I said okay let's put the fish in an envelope right and send it off to Africa and and that way they can have the fish because they're starving and I'll just make do with something else instead but that didn't go down well either it's interesting I did ask my mother a few years ago I asked her like what what on earth you know like what what what was a logic behind asking me to finish eating something if there are starving children in another continent and she thought she said did I really say that ah but really he sits know right what about ice ice cube ice cubes well you've got to let the ice cube saw okay so what's the difference snow and ice is that a driving snow is really just you know ice is really glorified snow or snow is glorified eyes I don't know which expensive how you look at it but when you when you put your hands into the snow it's completely cover the hands are completely covered by the snow so it's fulfilling the same job as if you were to if you were to wash them with water when you put your hands into ice cubes so part of your hand for sure is touching the ice cube but lots of parts we had or not which is that's a little bit of a problem right because your whole hand has to be covered with the water in order to be able to fulfill your obligation so that's why snow vision board says snow is ok it doesn't mention eyes but I'm you know it seems clear that ice would not be ok i think the last he'll offer over here and you know yeah well I think that's fine with a club soda it's a vicious water just water bubbles yeah i think i think that's that's definitely less problematic then if you if you wash using so dry that you can make a broker that's not like washing with coca-cola good yes okay right so mr. Brewer said if you what if you wash with something that is not you know if you wash it up which is not water then you need to you should wash without making a brother right but water that soda is really water it's just been carbonated Greg right so I think it's definitely okay to wash using solar water and to make a brother it's interesting you spoke about bartosh kiss the idea taking wine washing your hands in wine you know you've got a very nice very nice dry red wine on your table that you've been looking forward to using and now what you're going to wash your hands with it it certainly sounds like Baltacha case it's certainly capture intuitive that's that's for sure but that locker is that's what you're supposed to do that's why is that because removing the spiritual impurity from your hand is more important overrides the prohibition of baltacha kiss so it doesn't mean that you can just throw your wine around you know what listen if I can wash my hands with it then for sure I can I don't know squirt it on my friend or something that that would that would be a problem about touch materially would've wasting something for no reason but over here like I said it's over ridden by the need to make sure that you've got clean hands 11 last halacha over here and then it's a sham we can just open this up if you've got any questions at all about anything be happy to try to answer them no guarantees but last I'll offer over here it is the ecard in according to that locker you can use hot water to wash your hands with right so say for example you know I don't know for example you you've ended up in a place where there's no running water at all but before shabbos you set up a herb so you've got hot water over there can you use that hot water now to wash your hands with well the ecard in you are allowed to however I mean first of all practically speaking I don't think it's a great idea to wash your hands with boiling hot water that's coming out of the earth that's just my you know personal preference if that's the kind of thing that you enjoy well you know please continue to do so however look at gila which is the best way of performing the meter is to pour out the boiling water pour out the hot water whatever it is let it wait let it cool down and then when it's cooled down enough you can wash your hands properly right otherwise what if you're going to be worried about burning yourself you'll be worried about you know hurting yourself so just let the water cool down a little bit push off your suitor push off eating until the water is cool enough to be able to wash your hands without you being concerned about doing something to your hands good okay we've finished up the hell yeah what's soup I'm all for it how's that you can use liquid water in musica yes a little you know what yes I right suit what porridge I think is a problem the porridge is really not very liquidy the only literally ins no yeah buts no is comprised only of water whereas porridge the only the only liquid inside of the poet is whatever you've added to which is either water or milk para a porridge is a problem but if you're talking about something which is a liquid so soup i don't see why soup should be any different from from using coke so I'm regarding I'll go to the bread so I seem like when follow you if you don't water you can you can still eat the bread so I'm here to put your hands in the bag yeah right yeah yeah whoops the reason behind that exactly together we what's the reason because the whole really they're always behind washing your hands is to get rid of any spiritual impurity that's on your hands right so that's at the end of the meal not everything architect which means like this that you are you've got you're not supposed to eat the bread you're not supposed to touch the bread you've got spiritual impurities upon your hand right so you wash your hands in order to get rid of them in order to be able to eat it if you can't do that if you don't have any water to wash your hands with so you can cover your hands with something you could put on gloves you could take a towel and cover your hands and then you can hold the bread so you're not touching it directly you can eat the we get a broccoli with the broker here make the broth up until I have in our heads you can't make a bracha a violent Alicia diet because that's a whole problem that you don't have any you don't have any water to wash with right now it's a chair but if you're halfway through your meal and somebody brings you water then okay you should stop and you should wash your hands and this was a little bit ly quick or bread or break Eddie Eddie bread Eddie bread it's not it's not it's not something which is peculiar to only fala right we're doing anything that we're talking about over here with regards to hand washing is applicable to all different kinds of breads ok what we will learn if it's a shame that's what we're going to do next that's what we'll start tomorrow is that on Chavez and yomtov there is a mitzvah to use two breads right to have to cut on the on the other plate and that that's really the only difference between eating a shambles meal and eating ham everyday meal right so every day bill all the hell off of surrounding the hand-washing and the you know and and what you eat and how you eat it and when you bench all of that is it's all still applicable to remake a brother every time you wash your hands or just in the morning every wake up and before you yeah so no you don't you don't make a broker every time you wash your hands like you say you make a bracha when you get up in the morning and you make a bracha when you're going to eat bread but every other time that you wash your hands you're not going to make out you certainly not and I'll until it's your dime you don't make right so if you wash your hands cuz you come out of the bathroom so you make an Ashley also that's a brothel of coming out of the bathroom if you just wash your hands because what are some of the things that we spoke about you know for example you touched a part of your body that now you need to wash your hands so you just wash your hands without making a broker what if I make a broker have to come into the shower that means the one who is a name of the Queen Majel no you don't make a bracha volatile issues I must come out of the shower but you should after you after you come out the shot you should wash your hands because presumably whilst you were in the shower you i hope you cleaned yourself you can own soap yourself down and you know touching partly your body that are normally covered require you to wash your hands after whole time what is the whole timing like all the time in such a poor buddy there's nobody covered not even just during a meal ya know maybe perhaps how's that did I cover all my bases yes no yes then I took down it's got my chest then you should go wash your hand like nothing did nothing to do with the ruh your back close to the show yeah any any part if you're through clothing that's ok there's no problem ok you're like I don't want you to scratching my legs every scratch your foot know what are you very sure it's I mean any scratches here so 10 sure if you if you're somebody who only wears shorts right there scratching the scratching the bottom from your knee down which is not a problem either somebody doesn't normally wear shorts then it could be there is a problem but it's got a lot to do with you know it's got a lot to do with with that your your your standard of dressing right what do you normally wear what do you not only work if you scratch your foot through a sock no problem ok cool cool wait I thought anything like the foot socks or shoes shoes if you if you if you touch your shoes certainly you touch the bottom of your shoes so you should go and wash your hands some people are stringent and save you touch your shoes at all you should go wash your hands but if you touch the top there are authorities who are less stringent and they said that's ok the big problem we shoes at the bottom the soul of the shoes rather than heel and you should go up wash your hands but if you're scratching your foot through your sock then that's ok you haven't touched anything I'm we're putting a few enough going on so feeling when you cut your fingernails you should you should wash your hands after you've cut your fingernails there's some interesting i love about cutting your fingernails in general actually first we shouldn't cut your fingernails on your toenails on the same day i'm not really serious look yeah yeah yeah so good one so I'm very happy no I don't already do it it looks very happy to eat I do ahh ladies me ok fine so you're gonna fry for eternity what can I tell you that's the extra failure yes wow that's according to the legal opinion the more stringent opinion is 450 what's the reason behind that okay what's the reason why the true the matter is that the read the reason is rather it's always capitalistic which I don't really understand the whole thought the whole idea behind nail cutting in general but the chevra kadisha when a person passes away so the last thing that the chevra kadisha does is they normally give the dead body they cut their nails their fingernails and their toe nails because believe it or not fingernails and toenails continue growing for a few days after person dies really good to the fingers and toes contrast the forces them it needs to look good here seaman hair whatever whatever I'm just telling you the reality is that your fingernails look like they're growing right don't let's not be so technical over here that's why there is a custom not to cut the arizal says a one should not cut toenails and and and fingernails on the same day now if you want to get around the problem you can have a you know after a shower for example you take a shower just before it gets dark you can cut your fingernails while sit still today and cut your toenails tomorrow because it's become dark already in the meantime and now you're okay he's really taking a Suzy bike well no is it your life your life has come to an end it's like think we have an exceedingly great it is like five o'clock wait to turn story that's like say when is it when is it turned on I think it turns dark and i said i'd say 515 it gets dark right so you could take a shower at quarter to five okay you could cut your cut your fingernails at five o'clock okay wait you know 15 minutes and then at five fifteen you cut your toenails because that's already the next day that night but you need to you need to be careful not to cut fingernails and toenails on the same day there is also a Kabbalistic concept of not cutting fingernails in the order of your hand right which means that they should make a gap between fingernails alright so you know start off with male number one and got it now number three and then nail number five and then go back to Nell number two and then go now number four in that way you're not cutting your nails one next to the other again do I understand this absolutely not what's the reason it's Kabbalistic and I cannot reveal it to you you you peun okay maybe maybe when you are 40 years old and I've been studying Torah 25 hours a day 88 days a week then maybe maybe then I will allow myself to reveal to you some of the hidden dimensions of fingernails in the meantime though not going to because I don't really understand it myself good isn't that fun okay has anybody got any questions about anything because we're okay once we've did one more time of the meal I should don't don't cut forgetting then I had to order info about the same date I mean I didn't understand it I mean because I know you heard the concert you can't do it on a Thursday because friday is 20 you know what thank you you know what I forgot about that as well right you should you should not cut your nails on a Thursday like why is that because of third day is a day that the nails start growing right and it will look a little bit unsightly if you can't on Thursday out thursday friday and then on shabbos they won't look very nice on Chavez so there is there is a custom not to cut nails on Thursday carriage over kind of an era of showers if you want kind of on Wednesday if you want just not to cut them on Thursday because that's a problem thank you i feel about that we'll see supposed to custody or one of your hands first left to the right yes I think I mean you'll be hard-pressed to cut them at the same time Owl City if you're left-handed way where's your little where's your booklets at home where is it when you need it oh I don't believe that I'm not to actually does his left hand become the one of rough is right here nice and slowly dim well no not really what's up chatters like this that your your left and right we're talking about God's left and right and sighs which define Rock'em Emma did if somebody is left-handed as opposed to right hand gallery doesn't change around the concepts of Panama didn't it just means that they're stronger hand is their left hand so we don't presume that heaven is handedness that we're trying to match up yeah we're trying to say that I was trying to be like this run again well maybe in a certain way here the governor says like this that you should always push away with your left hand I've draw close with your right hand right people yeah again talking about people are right-handed your left hand is your weaker hand which means always be always use your weekend to push somebody away and draw closer somebody with your stronger hand so obviously over there that fits in very neatly with the idea didn't Rackham in right don't don't treat people with din don't treat people with judgment too much judgment like temper your judgment with mercy and hopefully God will temper his judgment for you with mercy as well Lula simdi pick an engine that you didn't tell me didn't finish it up also hear the chevra kadisha the burial society when they get the body ready for burial that's what they do they cut that they cut the nails and they took that they cut the nails from the hands and the feet and the at the same time okay and that's why the customers are risen not to do that but we don't we don't do something which you know looks like something that the burial society do that's good sorry you're right i left i left off i just left it up to imagination you ever going to do it with don't sleep in a coffin either interesting enough they say they say that Monty fury moses montefiore that's what he did he didn't sleep in a coffin but every night before he went to bed he would lie down in his coffin he had a coffin made and he would lie down in his coffin just you know to these things in perspective a little bit make sure you have appropriate dreams so unless you uh I think I think it's a depends it depends what your reason is for going in there but if you're going in there because you just want to remember that you know we're human beings and our time while we're here is limited we should use our time properly but it's probably a very beneficial thing to do i'm not i wouldn't recommend it that you do it right but i would say it's probably a beneficial thing to do I like a little bit of perspective on life and time is helpful that's a lot of perspective oh for sure for good great they once a love you Rob years have climbs on a photo one of the great rabbis lived over here with her you know Kate came from thinking for brisk actually but he lived over he was at the chief rabbi view shall I him and going back about a hundred years and he said that he thought he thought about that he thought about his day of death from the age of 40 onwards every day he would think about the day that he was going to die in order to leave things in perspective righteously should know that time is limited and to use time properly and the other day picked out not that I know of but a college ball did and he did come to the end of his life in a person in a person is going to become very very you know it's going to upset their their emotional equilibrium by thinking about dying the whole time and it's going to make them depressed then don't think about it but if it's going to if it's got to help a person again you know get things into the correct perspective then for sure it's something to do why not ok back to a stretching your back your chest it's literally covered and then having to wash efforts if I use a pen to scratch it so I have to wash after touching the pen no direct contact us thats the only thing that we're concerned it on over here you have a back scratcher one of those neat to see my cellmate no question regards to see if you say I'm Dunning right and you know you can't eat me touch your ear when you strap your no no it takes a lot out of your mouth just put the page or scratch your nose you can't do that you know what your hand right now what do you guys in the moment in your governing because usually when I read the book I can't put the page to a guy I don't know I I don't think I don't think it's a problem with with saliva if you want to turn the page I don't think that's a problem you can carry on darling I don't mean that sir I don't have to miss you could you stand it's the ability to wash your hands with saliva pot it because you instead that's the ability to wash your hands with saliva yeah yes only only for you though and only if you use somebody else's that's only my hair that these are slider that's cool yeah that's what I think not sure what his hands that's where the end I mean I think you should wash your hands for hygiene reasons actually not for I don't know how locket reasons to wash your hands a key player knows during Domini that's okay it's a great idea go straight to fit in I think there's any problem whatsoever how much she hands me you ain't just to breathe what I mean you're blowing and I was into a tissue right not into your hands or interior dollars into tissue that was there was a fellow over here years ago who was the he was actually he was he was rather a big brother a big chap and he used to wear these colorful Hawaiian shirts and it was good hated sheer that he was he was gearing up to sneeze his sneezes were pretty they were epic you know they were and he was gearing up to sneeze and and you could see like he's like you know trying to find something to sneeze into and finally desperation he kind of lifts up his shirt and sneezed into that which is probably the worst thing he could have done because everything just went out of his sleeve but you know that way in the direction of the person sitting over there which was which is whatever it was one of those memorable occasions I can't remember what we were learning that day but I do remember him sneezing so obviously the important things stick if you sneeze you split with your hands not know little according to dfa cheap guidelines we're good yes if you sneeze you should wash your hands i think it's like the department for health and something anyway they say they catch it in it kill it catch it and a tissue being the tissue then wash your hands good that that's wonderful again this is when bird flu is being spread around europe good so you know I think I think we're sort of like we're up we're revolving around the same kind of an issue area to fill it and you got wish it so you don't wash that hat you can watch the other hand if you want you don't have to wash your hands are you sneezed no I'm saying according to according to the guidelines yeah I don't know you're going to have to write to the government her majesty's government and awesome what what does one do when what is wearing to fill in how what is one supposed to do with regards to washing hands if they were to sneeze as a color than I often have to unwrap this photo for my hand you wrap it around my wrist yeah nothing is that something that any useful can do if they need to have their hand yeah for sure absolutely I don't know I when he when he goes up to bless the people right so he's a coward so you go up every morning in hood sides on yon yomtov right here you go every single day it's done so you can't pour water over your hand with its fill in on it so you just take the take off that fill in the strap and you just wind it over your wrist right and then your hand is free to be washed I don't know if you ever paid attention but when people get hug her which is to lift up the same vitara so they also have to do that because you can't ya because otherwise you're not going to be our grip the the rods properly you won't have a proper grip now what you'll notice is for most people what do they do they unwrap their fill in and they just wrap it or like you do wrap it up on the wrist and then they go and they do have roughly finish happy they'll put it back on again after very she turn off without unwrapping it from my hands yes all on the Left am do good okay that's what you that's what you'll see with most people that's what they do take a look next time if you remember on Thursday and your insurer right so just take a look and see what's going on and hopefully that's what you'll see I've never done hug her and I plan on doing it whilst I'm here and I'm gonna wait till middle of the year looking tried air this time of year it's nicer then rabbi that Rabbi Schiller the rosh yeshiva it's got a cute joke about this weedy yeshiva Baca's about shuba who he goes to a shul I don't know him and they give him hug her and he's like he's really he's like he's really weak and he's like staggering around with this thing everybody's scared so he's gonna drop it and he sighed barest he says himself you know what I can't this can't continue he says I've got to do something about it so he goes off to the gym and he's in the gym yo good few months he's in the gym and he's working on himself and his muscles and triceps and quads and you name it and then finally goes back to the same place again you know new a new person goes back to the sensual and they call him up and he gets to the bit Marie you know jumps up all four steps into the bin 01 go and he grabs a hold of his safe atara opens it up like eight columns twirls around the one foot and then sits down and then he said to the gutter well how was that the gutter says well you know for a V it wasn't bad at all he'd be given an idea to recite the brothels over the top anyway we're gonna stop over get jokes that have to be explained probably better off not being said you