You Won't Lose Out! | R' Yechiel Spero

foreign [Music] shortly after he was lifter revealed a fabulous story asked the question why was Isaac to become the mashkiak of Lakewood Yeshiva there were so many people who were greater than me now would have nothing probably said that because he was the most humble individual because he was someone who was so full of anivos but he asked the question and he said I attribute it to one idea one miracle happened one moment of gura and that's why I believe I had the Seattle to become what was that moment he said my rabbit son taught palmidos and on Shabbos we would have those telling me those come to our table and they would sit at our table now when someone's sitting at your table you can't ignore them you have to engage them in conversation you have to be polite you have to make them feel comfortable and very much at home after all that's why the rebetson invited them to our home and so I spoke to them for hours sometimes I taught them and without them realizing it it appeared that I was looking at them but I never ever looked at them I looked past them I looked beyond them but I did not look at them and that act of gura that act of Smita is something that I believe said nothing was the determining factor in me having the seat Ishmael to become the mashed of the greatest yoshiva in the world makes sense stipler going says that if a person is misgabber if he strengthens himself and he's himself to control himself from one time not to look at something inappropriate one time then that Hana that you would have had from looking that pleasure that a person would have had from looking will be given to you kids like you flying tenfold 100 fold a million fold not only an island in this world Hashem will pay you back for any pleasure that you might have lost sometimes it's hard especially for young teenage boys there's a strong pull a strong desire to look at something inappropriate enjoyable Shem keeps score and you will gain immeasurably exponentially for the rest of your life