Win Win! | Rabbi Yaakov Asher Sinclair

foreign [Music] ERS runs the famous Yiddish expression you can't dance at two weddings at the same time or as they say in English you can't have your cake and eat it but sometimes you can have your cake and eat it while dancing at two customers writes that we all need to know that when someone Stands Strong and isoyan when he withstands a test he is and he sanctifies the name of Heaven his merits are awesome and enormous and not only that he says but a person who withstands that test and refrains from any pleasure for the sake of kavochimain will be repaid in this world in a permitted manner in due course of time Stipe is telling us that it's not now or never it's not a choice between pleasure now or losing it completely when we stand up to ayat Sahara we're not choosing between Ola Mase when we stop ourselves from having pleasure from something awesome when we look the other way we'll get that same pleasure in a way that's mutter it's a win-win situation the next time you're faced with a test remember what the stapler said whether you're walking in the streets you're on your phone or any other Challenger smears and I am tell yourself the options should I indulge in the instant forbidden pleasure with all of its consequences or shall I push it off and get that same pleasure at another time in a completely permitted way and I'm going to enjoy it so much more because I won't feel guilty about it I'm gonna get real pleasure not just in the world to come but in this world too that's really a win-win deal [Music] oh