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I’m a Better Businessman | Rabbi David Haber
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It was in late July,
in the throes of the summer heat wave,
and the air conditioner
we had recently installed in our home
clearly needed a bit of a tune up.
And so we called the installer,
a gentleman named Shloime, and we said,
Would you come down to Deal, New Jersey,
take a look at it,
maybe it needs some Freon,
maybe it needs
just a little bit of tweaking.
And so he diligently came down,
took a look at it,
and was working outside the home
in scorching 100-degree weather.
I came outside and I said:
Listen, Shloime, it's boiling hot outside.
There’s sweat across your brow.
Come inside, air conditioned home,
have a tall glass of water,
and then go back outside
and continue the job.
He looked at me
and he said: No, thank you.
Half hour later, I went back out.
I said: Shloime, you got to come inside.
It's beautiful weather inside.
It's a cold glass of water.
Have it and go back outside
and finish the job.
Again he looked at me
and he said: No, thank you.
As he was finishing up, I said:
Shloime, you got to tell me,
why not?
Why wouldn't you come inside
and just have a glass of water,
a little respite and a little break
from the scorching heat that was outside?
He said: I'll explain.
You see, if I would have come inside
and had your glass of water,
chances are you would have
engaged me in conversation.
I would have engaged you in conversation.
We would have started to talk.
Maybe about family,
maybe about the weather,
about politics, about work.
He says: If that would have happened,
your job would have been delayed.
Then the job after that
would have been delayed.
Then the job after that
would have been delayed.
And likely I would not have gotten paid
my full share for the day's work.
He said: And let me ask you this question.
How much does
that glass of water cost?
I said: I don’t know.
Maybe just about 10 cents.
He says: Well, the check
at the end of my day's work
is far larger than 10 cents.
So forgive me
for declining the glass of water.
It's just, I'm a better
businessman than that.
Sometimes in the heat of the moment,
the Yetzer Hara is trying
as best as he can to pull us in,
if only for a second.
Just for a little bit.
Here, it's getting difficult?
Take a respite.
Take a break.
Look this way.
Glance over there.
Flip through that.
Fly through that.
Glide through that.
Have a look.
But we, in those moments,
look at it and say: Here's the thing.
How much is that moment worth?
10 cents?
The check at the end of our day,
at the end of that grueling heat,
if we stay in it and remain diligent,
it's far greater.
So forgive us for declining.
We're just better businessmen than that.