Tzivos Hashem Parent Event - Cheshvan 5778

ladies and gentlemen my name is Connie Maliki and thank you for coming I'll be emceeing today okay so quite a few parents told us that if we're already pulling them out of home with kids trying to put the kids to sleep and on a rainy day what they don't want to come for is an evening of hisses no one wants to come on a rainy night to be inspired what people wanted to hear tonight was thoughtless how do we make civis a sham work for our family so we are going to try to keep the inspiration to a minimum we'll do our best not to inspire anybody over here tonight and instead to really explain to you how severe systemic relatives a sham can be used as a tool for us as parents to create a a incredible atmosphere in our home an atmosphere where our kids are excited to participate in Yiddish guide they're incited about the risk oestrus with the river and with considers and where they are excited to grow both big-ass trees and baroque knees so who is today's event for if you're a parent who has a child who doesn't like to do what he is told all the time in other words Shabbos davening you take him to shul you know he'd ovens well in school but on Shabbos stopping he doesn't like to stay in shul or when it's time to say brother so krishma he doesn't like to do it then this evening is for you if you're a parent who sometimes when you tell your kids to do something you tell them to clean their toys or you tell them it's time to go to bed or you tell them to eat their dinner and they don't listen all the time then this evening will help you if you're a parent who wants to give your children a in Yiddish Kai a and considers but you have a hard time doing it because you don't feel the coffee yourself or you feel the but you don't know how to translate it how to give it over to your children then this evening is for you if you're a parent who appreciates what the schools but feel that there's so much more room because the schools are so good at their academics and getting kids disciplined that sometimes they maybe needs a little bit more help in teaching ava's Hashem and giving the passion of Yiddish guide to the children if you like a little bit of help with that and you think there can be an improvement in that then this evening is for you and of course if you're a parent who wants to see your children grow and wants to see your family grow and you want to see yourself grow the rookin eosin then this evening is for you so I'd like to before I hand off the microphone just tell you a short story that I heard yesterday that will explain the power of what we're gonna show you tonight it was a couple of decades ago and rabid Bernie Amundsen your Millbury Allinson who's the head of sips of shem gets a phone call at two o'clock in the morning the phone's ringing and ringing he doesn't pick it up until finally he realizes that this must be something urgent so he jumps out of bed he picks up the phone hello it's Robert Klatte akov and Rebecca The Cove immediately asks him there's a certain girl and I need to know if she's in service of Shem if she's enrolled in service of Shem and he continues and says if she's not enrolled in service of Shem sign her up immediately and if she is enrolled in sivash M she needs to have a promotion give her a promotion so of course rabbi Vinnie Amundsen runs out immediately to the office in those days they didn't have a computer system so that everything was on index cards and he he shuffles through the index cards and he does find her name she was enrolled in session and so what he does is he takes a pen this was the system they used and he crosses out private and he circles sergeant and that was the promotion she was promoted and he went back home so a couple of days later he's in 770 and Robert Carlock off comes up to him and says you're probably wondering about this phone call so Robert Van Johnson says of course I'm wondering I didn't want to ask anything so Ricardo cup says but I'm going to tell you because as the head of tips assure me you should on this then the power of civilization he says that what happened was is that the mosquitoes got a phone call at two o'clock in the morning and her mother was terrified and crying and saying that the doctors something suddenly happened to her daughter and the doctors were giving her just hours to live and they wanted a broker and advice from the river they ran into the rebel who was doing it for this that night and the Reba asked Robert Clara coffee asked him is she part of service a sham if not sign her up and if yes give her a promotion and that was it and Rebecca avakov then says to Rabbi Vinny Amundsen and I want you to know that a couple of hours ago we got a phone call from the mother that she's about to take her child home from the hospital and that just gives you an exam or insight into the power of T versus Shem it's not just a fun and effective program to get our kids inspired and to get them to do the things that we want them to do and the things that they should be doing it's much much much more than that the army of a Shem the service of Shem and what we're doing here what Jimmy and his team is doing here with hi ala tips of Shem is something that is Nagaya to the rockness and even to the gosh meanness of each and every child every rank that they move removes things for them gosh miss and peroneus on an amazing level and with this I'd like to let you hear it in the rebus word for just a minute the heroes in the latest result mascius I yelled Aloha desire Intel gathering giver oh yeah the middle II yet that private a factor soldier so then a sergeant Mitaka VC yet the subretinal feces of HVAC snow then general we had a general Zahl then a general metashark starts with owner here a second game in the from general goofer on our Susan be curly the Kabu punim signed in dresden general from NYADA but door sedan L left me bass Dolly was in Hilo single hem SR Shanley not saya dogged Malcolm he say the copy evening be some ignorant came a the cabinet release royal hoysala sham I'm Luca okay so before we start I'd just like to do a small exercise with everybody here and asking everybody to please participate we're gonna do a word association so I'm gonna say one word and I'd like everybody to immediately think of the first emotion that comes to your mind there's no right answer there's no wrong answer whatever is the first emotion that comes to your mind just grab it and hold it there so for example if I say sunshine you might say happiness freedom it could be relaxation so here it is okay I'm gonna last for some volunteers will see the answers we get the word is okay just think about it for a second let's stick with this first emotion you think of Kabbalah so the first thing that sinks into your heart the emotion that you have in your heart when we say the word Kabbalah so does anyone want to say what they're thinking of I didn't think so any volunteers okay so we did this exercise last night in the JCM in Jimmy's office we tried it out and and the first thing that I felt was stress I felt that Kabbalah sold to me the first thing that I think of I'm not asking for a Hasidic attention what it should mean or consider says it means what is the emotion that it elicits in me is stress it's I feel so crach that I don't have any freedom that I'm being told what to do mindless that's the emotion of Kabbalah soul and I believe maybe not everyone here that that's kind of what we feel when we think of Kabbalah so you think that Kabbalah soul means that I'm an animal and I have a Ryoka my head and I'm not and just doing what I'm doing mindlessly and I don't have any passion and I don't have any ownership of my own life now how crazy is that because we know the kabbalah cell is the cornerstone of cities the Rebbe explains that the number one Aveda of our generation is Kabbalah so how could it be that we are training our children to have this emotion of stress so fetched to be to feel mindless that when they we think of Kabbalah so they feel forced imagine that Kabbalah so could mean something else imagine that we trained our children a little bit differently and that when we ask them this question in a couple of years time the answers that they think of our freedom success accomplishment goals that I met openness greatness just feeling like the king imagine that's what Kabbalah soul elicits in us because the truth of the matter is that is what Cabal is all is all about and that is exactly what the program of Heil a service of Shem comes to is coming to try to do which is what we're trying to instill in the children and there's nobody better to explain this then the head of pilots obsession shimmy wine bomb rubbish shimmy wine bar would like to invite him to the stage to explain how the system works and how we as parents can use this as tools to improve our children's lives our family lives and I guess the whole world it's beautiful to see a packed house thank you all for coming this shows on your incredible dedication to the channel of your children I think that all of you here really deserve a big round of applause [Applause] we live in challenging times our students have not had this horse to hear or see the raba in fact many of our teachers the younger teachers didn't have that source either in addition our children are constantly being bombarded by stimulation their attention is often taken by more exciting games and screens than we can compete with we live in a time when children don't always feel that the terror that they're learning is relevant to their lives some of our children seem to be allergic to discipline how children today more than ever lack except a sense of accountability belonging commitment discipline Direction identity motivation pride passion and purpose in addition to the challenges our children have as parents many of us are overworked in fact many families both parents need to work in order to cover their bills how time is extremely limited and we do our absolute best but we can't always say that we're consistent many of us take day by day and don't have don't have a structured plan for our children Skinner the question I asked you tonight is does it have to be this way and the answer is with tremendous thanks to Ray my secret Lawrence key from America's and Jana channel I your meal bahamut's infant services jam headquarters with tremendous thanks to the principles and base commander's of the teachers of Crown Heights with even greater thanks to you the parents the answer is no we would like you to meet service Asha where children become committed soldiers where children are self driven highly motivated to take on goals that need incredible discipline they are filled with pride passion and purpose meet service session where imagination becomes reality this is reality this week we are sending out twenty five thousand four hundred and fifty one medals to your children you're clapping you have no clue what a medal is if you would find out let's see how you clap at the end of this program four thousand six hundred and thirty-one promotions the children truly get it the problem is as tonight the parents have been left in the dark so our agenda for tonight is to change that is to make sure that the parents truly understand the incredible system that the rabba introduced we want you tonight to learn about the unbelievable resources that are available to you as parents and we want you to feel the unbelievable impact that services xem can and will have on your children so tonight being that the entire system was based on this letter we will go back to the root of where we started this is a letter that the Reber wrote to an educator who challenged the rabba when he started service hm he argued that it was against the entire Terra for Terra is dark hair dark in Aoyama the wholeness of his cell Shalom it's ways of peace and tranquility and this is an army that teaches children to fight and the rapper dressed this educator by saying I'm sure you understand as a need for motivation but the Reba went on to say that in my opinion the root challenge of today's youth is the lack of kabbalah psalm al hashamayim and when i say that i Joe just mean accepting the yoke of heaven the root challenge of today's youth is they don't even accept the authority of their parents and teachers could you imagine this was written 35 years ago I thought I was at at Allah back then but the Reber force or this root challenge not only did he foresaw the challenge the Reber continued to write in this letter that American children have brought up on the spirit of independence and freedom and on the glorification of personal pro s and smartness and this rice forever has cultivated a sense of self assurance to the extent that one who's been to mischief or anti-social activity feels that he can outsmart the cop on the beat and the judge on the bench now the rabbit didn't just do what doctors do identify the problem he also came up with the solution and again to quote the rebus words since as mentioned the root problem is the lack of caballes al listen to these words I thought long and hard writes they're ever about finding a way of inducing an American child to actually get used to the idea of subordination to a higher authority despite the influences to the contrary in school in the street and even at home where parents not wishing to be bothered by their children have all too often abdicated their authority to others and here comes the crux of the letter I came to the conclusion these are the rebus words there is no other way than trying to affect the basic change in a boy's nature through a system of discipline and obedience to rules that he can get accustomed to but well there was one catch if you're dealing with children that don't accept Authority then how are you going to get them used to a system of rules and here was the rebus brilliance where the rebus gives the answer this has to be a system that isn't that is it should be freely and readily accepted without coercion so just in just in summation of the rebus letter he identifies the root challenge is caballes l accepting authority discipline and the solution has two parts part number one there has to be a system of discipline but for this to work the child needs to accept it upon himself we need to have incredible motivation so the child will want to to be disciplined self disciplined and accept this system of discipline upon themselves now where in the world do you find a place where there is a system of discipline that somebody will actually accept upon themselves and the answer is of course the Army and the rabbit turn to the children and ask them to do exactly that to volunteer to join Hashem's army to except upon themselves alma hashamayim the authority of Ascham as their commander-in-chief the rapper as their general their parents and teachers as their commanders and silver session just ten years ago was restructured based on this letter to accomplish exactly what the rebus said to create a system of discipline together with an incredible motivational system an unbelievable training now the question is how long is this training gonna be and the answer is of course like every army when the army has an army base and they have commanders that train their children we too have an army base we're in it right now myself you know the schools where we train you know commence training we train the soldiers and of course the other part of the army base at home where our parents train their children and this kind of really starts at birth but in the school system it starts in pre 1a and this continues for eight long years to lebara and bas Mitzvah and this we are guaranteed by Hazael Connellan our LP darker gum kiosk in Louisville Meno when you train them properly for these eight years it will stick with them for the rest of their lives and that's what the program was designed to do to grow with each and every child to building them strong habits that grow with them and ultimately remaining with them for the rest of their life after eight years of dedicated service in our Sam's Army soldiers will learn what it means to have caballes Earl and they will stay committed to what a sham once so we know the age span eight years now in which areas are we trying to train the children and the answer is in each in every area of the child's life now I want you to imagine just imagine this if your children would learn with you each and every single week and help you out at home they would keep their body healthy they woke up and went to sleep like a sigh oh they learned chaos daily that you are mcourser to the lab where they were connected through learning that ibises fulfilling that is a rise hearing stories watching videos they went on if saw him they learned and sang nagging him they learned all the 613 mitzvahs and they studied their daily masae for how mitzvos they learned Tanya and Mishnah is Val pair they diving with calves on each day they said to Hillerman Chavez Navarro him and they celebrated each and every game of the para isn't that a dream and what about a greater dream that they would so driven to do this consistently for eight years straight the question is is this really possible and the answer is that we believe it is in fact well we actually have seen it happen but we want to share with you tonight the secret how it happens here's the secret a child has so many things they need to do in their life when we made a list of tasks that a child needs to do it equalled over 1,000 tasks a year many of those tasks are being repeated daily or weekly or monthly but altogether there's over 1,000 different tasks that's a lot of things to do you know Tara mitzvos asked Siddim there's so many hey rice it's unbelievable you know when you came home when you got a report heart card from school just imagine you got that report card and on the report card it said these are the mark this is the mark for your child's progress in school for himesh mission areas Kamara Korea and Hager Davin Inc they got a total of 78 what would that mean to you absolutely nothing they could be getting a hundred on one subject and zero in the other and therefore in order to make this work we realized if we want this to happen we've got to break up these these thousand tasks into several different parts and that was the incredible thing that brought about campaigns the same way that we can expect a report card from all the different marks in school we cannot expect to judge a child by their points he will never work by having different campaigns we can monitor each in every area in the Vedas a sham we can see where they're shining we can see that where they're having success and they see it and that motivates them when they see there's certain areas that need improvement to improve in those areas as well so therefore as you will see the entire program has been built on campaigns again a division of the different areas of ADA session in the child's life and on the screen you will see that there are as of now 12 different campaigns each of them have their own campaign logo with a special picture and the name is underneath each one we thought that would be enough and then we realized absolutely not each campaign has its own goals and its own set of tasks for the eight years from what's gonna happen when the child is in pre 1a has eight years of goals and tasks to do in that one campaign they're a little child you're gonna lose them before you start and therefore the next thing was to break down each campaign step by step even within each area of a vada session we are broken down there to eight year journey into a step-by-step process with smaller and attainable milestones therefore you will see on the screen that every campaign every campaign has ten levels altogether twelve campaigns with ten levels in each campaign now the question is how does a child climb those levels and the answer is by doing tasks which we call missions in the army when they complete the task the mission for that campaign enough times then they will go up a level so level one it's the white level we gave them colors for the younger children level one you have to do 15 missions to complete that level after that for the next level 4 you have to do more 20 more missions to be able to go complete level 2 15 plus 20 is 35 missions in total and the rest is pretty obvious the orange level 20 more missions 25 more missions sorry which is 60 in total and then it goes up to 90 125 165 210 260 315 and 375 yes to reach the top of the top level level 10 you have to do 375 missions over the 8 years a lot of missions are I would say not only a lot of missions but a lot of dedication a lot of commitments to be able to get there but you can see very clearly you can see very clearly that it starts off much easier than it is at the end gotta catch them when they're young gotta hook them I'm making a little easier and after they've earned a lot of medals and they're determined then you can make it harder I wanted to take a break for a second and just summarize what we've said so far so we don't get lost we're creating a system of discipline and a system of motivation so far we've just focused on the system of discipline which includes three parts 12 campaigns 10 levels in each campaign and the missions that help you complete those levels is that simple nobody is it simple yes sir I like that so now that we've established the system of discipline now let's move on to the rebus second part the motivation Napoleon said a man would give his life for a ribbon sometimes we try to bribe our children with prizes sometimes amazing prizes nothing works like the medals and therefore what we've done is we've taken at the end of every level and made it into a milestone that we're going to celebrate when the child completes level one they will be awarded a white medal for completing those 15 missions and then when they complete level - they got the red medal under level 3 the orange and level 4 the yellow and level green the green metal and then it will continue until they get to the black level and if they complete every level they will have received ten medals now as mentioned before this ten levels in each campaign which practically means there's ten medals for each campaign as anybody can work out if there's ten medals for twelve campaigns how many medals can a child earn this ten Kemp there's twelve campaigns there's 12 campaigns 10 love medals yes it's a hundred and twenty now in order for this to work it needs to be the dream of a child to get that black medal for every campaign or if they can't at the very least what is the highest medal that I can earn for each campaign so what I want to focus on and point out to you is first of all when you look at the medals get if you can see from it from as far back is there every medal has that campaign logo on it for that set this is the front of the others of bunun medals has the and then the back shows you how many missions they did to earn those medals now let's put point out why the one catch which is that every single mission counts and here's why to earn the black metal for Arbus upon him it's gonna take eight years because this and in eight years there's only four hundred and sixteen weeks you could only earn one of us upon a mission a week that means you have to have learnt with your child either mommy or tatty or Bobby and Sadie have to have learnt with their child for 375 out of the four hundred and sixteen weeks to get that medal now do you think someone that did that has worked hard I do let's go to another campaign which is the shabath maverick until M campaign that campaign you can only do a mission every month so in eight years there's only one hundred and one opportunities to be able to say Chavez Mubarak until him and you have to do it 95 times to be able to get that black metal let's take another campaign the para where you get a medal beat sorry you complete a mission for doing all the tasks you need to do by our aim of the para what happens when the 623 special days throughout the eight years yeah we did the math and over eight years they have to do 585 of them so in conclusion of the medals as you can see twelve campaigns ten medals per campaign all together 129 of the campaigns are weekly which means you can only complete one mission a week two of the campaign's Chavez American Telemachus i'ma monthly which means you can only complete one a month and yanma the pagará where you complete one mission for every yontiff now how do we get this to have become a reality how do we get this to become a situation where every single child is desperate I should say definitely very driven definitely very committed to earn those medals and this is the rebus brilliance it's the rank system because in the rank system you don't just get a medal but you change your status till now when you before you joined a Shems army you were a kid now you've joined that shams army everything's changed you are now going to be a soldier you're a private and after doing missions and earning three medals and those three medals can be any color any campaign you are now going to change your status again to be an officer you're going to be a sergeant and if you do get another four medals which is a total of seven then you're going to become a sergeant major and another five medals you will become a first lieutenant than another six medals you become a second lieutenant and then captain and then a major and then a colonel and if you've earned 52 medals you will become a general now just to put things in perspective how long does this take well most of the campaigns it takes 15 weeks to earn your first medal so within 15 weeks you can earn about twelve medals and you can actually go up for ranks to become US in 15 weeks it takes approximately two and a half years of doing every single mission to become a general and then it gets really hard because the generals are really committed now we can make it hard on them so now first our general two-star general three-star general four-star general and five-star general means you have to earn 117 medals which means you don't get much leeway to get to becoming a five-star general now when we know that our good old Zushi who was the first soldier who made it to this point today till today this - who became five-star generals we have right now one four-star there's thirteen three stars it really really is not every child that's gonna be a five-star general but there are hundreds and hundreds of generals because that's something that's really attainable to every single child but it really really is a tremendous accomplishment when a child has earned these medals and they've gone up in rank but if we want our children to be driven to go up in rank then we need to celebrate their status we need to clarify to our children how important this is to Hashem to the raba and of course to us as they're mocking him and when they feel this is the most important thing in their life then the peer pressure really kicks in and the children are really driven we do our best to celebrate their status in our hiyo magazine their names are mentioned they got their picture and the rallies our website every night updates the children promoted that day in rank in school there's a rank chart if you walk into this into the school hallway you'll see that if they are private there are the bottom and if they're a general they're gonna be at the top that's peer pressure as they're ever told us but even before he started civilization keenness offering harbor hakama children are naturally jealous let's use it for something good and in addition to that when a child becomes a general we not only put his name in our Kyle his picture goes into our Kyle not only his picture in our Keio his name is announced on the rank on the rally and when becomes Lag Ba'Omer is the generals that lead the parade but tonight that's what we do tonight let's focus what you can do to celebrate status when your child comes home and they have a medal now to earn the easiest medal the white medal for any campaign is gonna take them 15 weeks or 8:12 almost four months if they did it four months straight and it could be that they did it over a year or two how are you reacting to that medal when your child comes home with a medal how do you celebrate that in their home if a child went up in rank and they've earned at least three medals how are you celebrating that now when I turn round to you and I say that this week we sent out twenty one thousand four hundred and fifty-one medals do you realize how much work and what a real rounds of wars that deserve so even if they got a white medal for others upon him that's 15 weeks of medals even if they got a white medal for Shabbos Mubarak him that's five months of saying to him and even if they got a white medal for him at the Packer that's ten young em save him ten special days they celebrate it it's not easy it's really difficult to earn those medals and because it's difficult and our job is to make a motivational system that has no holes that will drive them to get those missions done and to earn those medals and go up in rank we have supplemented the rank system the medal and rank system with many other motivational systems first of all our first supplement is that every single week there's a raffle that means if your child did the missions on the moba on the parent account or on your mission sheets that week they enter the raffle for that week and every week there's 100 prizes if your child does missions for 4 weeks in a row this month they go into the monthly raffle for amazing prizes and if your child does missions for 160 days before like by email they will go into the grand raffle at the end of the year with ridiculous prizes we don't stop there with great thanks to Rabbi Moshe and Richie Weiss each and every year they sponsor the creation of another unbelievable project another unbelievable safer for the children and if they do just 12 weeks of missions 12 weeks this year they will be receiving this beautiful gift but we don't stop there for every single task that a child checks off on their mission sheet they're getting points and your schools invest in incredible prizes that the children can buy were the points that they're earning and it's our sincere hope that this system will bring to life the rebus vision to summarize a system of discipline with campaigns levels of missions together with an incredible motivational system of medals ranks celebrating celebrating status raffles the yearly gift and miles I sincerely hope that MSR Shem when we use this system properly it will give your children the drive to be Makabe el mal for shamayim to be Makabe loyal mitzvos to dedicate themselves to be true solemn and ultimately to bring marcia now I hope that you now have a clear understanding on the rationale of the system why it was made and how it works that's complicated you didn't really need to know any of that but what you do need to know is the mice of a pile and for that I've asked one of our best piece commanders in the whole world and that's the real truth he started later than a lot of the other schools but took over with miles the base commander from the school were in today Ollie Terra Ollie menachem I would like to ask but my mend 11 - please come and show us how simple it is to navigate your children's missions and your parents account thank you every week we give out the mission sheets we're gonna pull up over here after shimmies introduction of what the mission sheets are we're gonna show over her sample mission sheet right here MC we chose his son his account or and go through his parent accounts and his children to see how it all works every Thursday here in Altera or I think most schools we give out the missions the mission starts from Friday morning first thing in the morning of Madani and it continues to the next Thursday 7 days Thursday night going to sleep on time this is a regular mission for example from this week test purchased viagra but it's really really really with the last week's this is the past week solution sheet last week's was reversed by a girl which is really from your download husband which was Friday continues from Friday Shabbos through Thursday of Paris is Sarah Clough Cashman and the Yiddish measure sheet says practice Valera and the week afterwards the following week just to show you that's not last week the mission should not be brought back until after Thursday nights after parses the area when you look at the type of mission sheet you'll see over here the child result in the soldiers name the child's name and as ID number and he is a right now a second lieutenant and his picture on the other side he has his platoon which is his class he's in Quito gimel and it's commander his commander is rabid girl cough as we go through it you'll see there's many daily tasks daily tasks I have to have to be done every single day of the week most of us are very basic stuff was my Dani negawatt sir and as you can see again it says it's Friday Shabbos Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday for every day of the week as we scroll through the mission sheets which is printed out you'll see that all of them have a campaign has a logo next set of which campaign it belongs to some of them have over here stick your next set which a five out of seven these ones are the ones are more important which ones they actually give you metals these metals these other company just give you miles and points which go towards the store and average we can get a lot a lot of points just from every single check that's jacked off over here but then there's another thing which is the metals then when you check off when you check do five out of these out of seven of the ones that have a stick an accident for example this is the Stila metal or here's the daily till a metal when you do five at a seven of pierced mouth of cosmetic metal so then it counts towards one metal these are the stuff that we're doing once a week so every day every day of the week and then the back page are the stuff they're only once a week for example you learned tiny all throughout the week if you learn to the parents you right over here if it's a blank line just write the minutes and how long you learned helped out the house for Shabbos if he said it's saying the new gonna be said about there by the Shabbos table and so on tonight this week Thursday is tough pageant so this week there's extra mission extra missions for the Packer for Kafka's on if you notice these logos do not have a 5 out of 7 in them because they're only one day a week on the bottom of the mission sheets you see clearly where this boy is holding for example to see over here sweet ass that says he has two more to the white I mean the only did it's eleven ten times he does another two times they'll get Nikita's the first white Rita's medal and so obviously Bonham he's ready he got the white metal and he has 15 to the red so on every single medal you could see which where he's holding to get the next medal and you can see on top how many medals he has left to the comer first lieutenant this is the mission sheet which I brought back every week everything again on Thursday parents signs it over here it's a very important very tip that many parents do is they hang it up on the refrigerator every night before the kid goes to sleep they mark it off and that's very big Christ makes the Heisman a fish before they go to bed and they and they feel very involved every day remembering what they did that day the end of the week you sign it and bring it back to school many the ideal way really is to bring back the missions by paper have the kids fill out the paper in a litera I know in many other schools we hired somebody almost full-time just to do data entry that's his only job he collects all the missions every week and he puts them into the computer so the best is a kid brings back his actual mission sheets collecting every class has a box or every school has another way had to collect them and you bring back the mission sheets since most of us have smartphones either way and wish you suspected Esha so there's so many things that we can use with our smartphones there's we solution made a beautiful website called mash Viacom it's called mash where the calm because we are all we are the Mississippi of our children and we're gonna log in over here to a sample account this is again Sonny's account and as you see over here after you log into the county or mushy i.com you see over here you see has two children at save is a Shem one inside of here they the second lieutenant Javed Shiva another one is a private if you click on second lieutenant it was very simple over here and you go straight on the bottom you press missions missions load and it goes to the daily mission stays Tuesday year 2000 and you could scroll down and see exactly what he did today everything was checked off if you didn't if you do something you just check it off you want to uncheck it and simple as that on the mission sheets we saw many missions had a logo next set which means the counter tour it's a medal here it has a red star and even it has a red star next it means that that's important for a medal and those are those are extra and put you should really take care you should try extra emphasis to do those things as well count towards the medals on the mobile site it's mark by day if you forgot to mark a mission a day before you go on tap and you scroll to the side go see essays missions the day before and so on if you want to mark by the week if you want to go a few days back you can press over here weekly missions and you can see the weekly missions and even as I X next it just means it was not checked off to check her off and it changes on the spot there's no Save button it's automatically saved you not to send it it's automatically done on the weekly marking you could also choose which we want to go back to you only go back up to two weeks back here also on the mobile site another feature we have is you could personalize your missions we have many goals many campaigns we go to each campaign you can choose obviously bonding for example and you can choose which missions you think your child is capable of doing or you think more mission is too much for him you could take it off if you take both missions remember now any mission has a star next set it's important and you don't want them to miss out on the medals and so like on the bottom it's bedtime but all other things there's so many extra missions that you can add on a few field will help you motivate your child not to have candies you could check off that titian have candies you press Save in the bottom and there are actually many many kids in Altaria that do have this they added all the personal tasks and parents are really used it out when you go back that's as simple as it is and daily at every night you take your phone mark it and log into your account and it goes straight into straight into your missions now again you come back to the home page click over here and while already here they didn't need it they added many more features over here you could see how many miles he has since on top it says he has 888 miles on the top corner you could see again his information and you can edit his information if his birthday is wrong his name is spelled wrong he could change that over there so tune the first page was editing change the parents profile here you can see in general which medals he has for every single campaign if you scroll worked in the bottom two achievements you see over here the rank board again you see over here exactly which medals he got from every campaign you can you see which medals he's still missing he has one medal of a second lieutenant and five left to the first lieutenant's and when he prints on top to the rank board you have over here exactly he says here it's laid out different there on the right on the rank board it's divided by ranks metal board is divided by each campaign and you can click on a campaign and it tells you exactly which metal he has when did he earn the medal for this one's from of cilium he earned this on his date and yeah and he did five missions and the next one the red one then third level it says that he has seven missions to level three it's all as detailed as possible the next exciting thing we have over here are this is a reward system reward system and Olli Terra every many schools the school themselves made a store over here you can see the store the store also the kids they get two ways tip for the points as we said before by marking off few missions you get points every check as a half-a-mile on an average week without anything extra a boil can get around eighty five miles a week eighty miles a week just as a given for checking off everything in the mission sheets then teachers get achievement cards achievement cards are every schools different it could be ten point eight we've two pointers or ten points 15 points a week an average of work to get around 100 miles a week from missions and achieving cards behaving well in class a boy in the classrooms or in the hallways there are scanners and kiosks that a boy could be scanning and his achievement cards to add them into his accounts while you could also here you have on top the scanner you could type in the digits to his account and here's a store you click into each / categories of prices you choose a prize go to your cart and he pressed purchase or press back if it's in the cart that's not bought yet obviously one last thing before we finish we go back to accounts we have in the bottom all this is until now our owners our own information about your own child we have here also news from around the world here you have news what's happening at other local bases for example wherever didn't know tonight there's the event and Altera you could come at 8:30 and also there's pictures of what's happening other school just gets updated on a regular basis on top number two you have here the birthdays every dates and there's announced all the birthdays of the boys and girls from the whole city some around the world of whose birthday is today happy birthday Benny man and you have here the winners a shame you said before every week there's the weekly winners and sahnoun Stover here on the Thursday after the week there's enough time for everything for the paper missions to be put in also and the last thing we have here is also the promotions everyday boys going up a rank and day by day you see which boys went up a rank today and Mouse have the mental Pearlman for going up a rank two coming the privates and there and so on this is in short we like to call upon Yoseob risky as a parent to speak about how he involves service time in his house and how he involved and he how he includes not hyoh and so on into his system ok we'll try to keep it short basically as I mentioned before Jimmy mentioned how you are the base commander's in your own home you're the ones who make sure that the children when they come home are doing the right thing and keeping it exciting and fun I thought how it works a little bit of my house a little bit around the Shabbos table we use the weekly weekly our kayo we use a weekly a kayo magazine that comes your children bring home every every week we have one child do reads the story the story it's in the front beautiful story about the river as well as the nichkhun usually I go over with it with my kids what the nigut is I teach them the meaning of them dig in the history behind it akin to them we sing then again and then we have inside the pacifier the party fire is actually a sick of the rabbit that's broken down very clear and simple and easy English for children so the way we do it is give everyone different roles and one says their parts it's exciting fun way of giving over it's together ever that everyone can understand after we have the roots the roots as well is it going through help to say firs acquaintance we have from the now with your going over the Baal Shem Tov very interesting simple we don't always do this by the shop it's table something to do it later on the day very interesting to go over it and hopefully by the end of the year they know about about the motive then usually have like what's happening in service of Shem whatever they whatever they're focusing on now for example now the top so Kim and the four things and then always advertisements for whatever up-and-coming things in the back besides the regular shop is the tiles that come out this he gave me the para tiles that come out which haven't about the rub am usually about the end of the baccarat itself for example this room that you're gonna be getting home the heavier the taper a little bit of about that rabbit a little bit of the tire of that rubber you have a little bit of the timeline the history of that rabbit and then you have the story in the back as well always interesting and exciting to go over with them the comic in the back when the common same in the park right you want to make it exciting in your house and I mean we put out a nice tablecloth we put the picture of that river or whatever it is up on the table we serve a special cereal that morning or a special sup or whatever it is to keep it exciting and you have all the material here to actually not just set it up nice with a nicer snack or whatever it is but actually to go over the material as well there's also the sticker that you can listen to every week that the base commander's send out the base commander's send out they can listen to with your with your kids and then there's also the yeah how does curriculum that I know my daughter Marie Osmond asked him now is studying for the fedone as well as they started they're learning all the mitzvahs and they actually want to give them great chicag for them for doing that where all the girls are learning the mitzvahs of of the of the harvest and it's great and that's something also we sit down we learn it together and so is that my older one and then we have also just in general a very important thing is like Jimmy mentioned before is the celebration of this success and on my daughter we're lucky that our daughter became a general she was so excited and thrilled when she came home with that news that she became a general obviously we celebrated a big way she ran the call went to the neighbor next day she ran to the principal's house she's excited until and we're excited with her and we show her the excitement that we are proud of them going up a ring and then doing their parts and they each one of us doing our thing we're proud of our soldiers will be proud of it and make sure move exactly to be miss yet right now what we hope to accomplish tonight was to make sure that every parent left here understanding that they are the commander in their home and if we were able to do that to inspire even though we weren't allowed to do that you to be to turn your house from being a home to be an army base and from you to being a parent to being in the commander then a Meritage sham we hope that you will be able to train your children to become soldiers and most importantly that the children will complete their mission and bring mushiya for the closing remarks I asked Rebecca animal lucky just to close thank you okay amazingly we kept the time it's just after 9:30 and I'm just gonna close out yesterday when we were coming up with the final plans for today we weren't sure how many people would show up and some of us were more pessimistic than others and we didn't think many people would come at all and shimmy said you know what if even ten people show up but we really make an impression on them and they love it and they spread the word to other parents than it's worth it so we have a packed house today and I think that everybody was inspired and in in a great way and the most important thing is that everybody spread this to your fellow parents because this system only works with a bit of peer pressure and all of the kids have to be involved so I think besides everything that was spoken about I think that we should all walk away with the mission to talk about this with our fellow parents who aren't here today I can testify believe it or not I only discovered this app a month ago I didn't even know about it and I can say that in the last month our family life has changed the kids have changed and a different kind of cough and it's even bringing a to my self and my wife in the way that we do things in our family so I don't work for services Shem and I'm not being paid to say this and you can be sure there's no coercion here I firmly firmly believe with all my heart and all my soul that service of Shem is the most important most said that we have in our times I also believe with all my heart and soul that civil session and the program that you saw today is our best hope to keep kids from and makuu sure in the next generation and I have absolutely no doubt that about this that this is key I also believe with all my heart and soul that there ever has incredible Nahas from this program and that this program is the number one thing that's gonna bring a shift in our times hopefully today and finally I believe with all my heart and soul that it takes crazy people to come up with crazy ideas to make crazy changes to the world which is why we're so thankful to have Jimmy when bam thank you very much for coming tonight have a good evening [Applause]