Tzav: A Feier Brent

Welcome to Alishi and thank you for joining us. There's a school of bratan brings it from one of the earlier says heard it from he doesn't say from who the says it means it's from but the and humility didn't say who it's from that this person told if a person has they see that they're losing control of their mind their mind is taking them to all kinds of dangerous places and places they don't want to be they say the words of the six para what's the words of the pas each There needs to be a perpetual fire on constantly burning. Don't let it go out. That means when the kite got the kite came in the morning to the he made sure that he he reit the flame that was still going from yesterday and it always went the flame lit a flame lit a flame. It never was extinguished at any minute in the day. So shin over there explained that means even during the day when you couldn't always appreciate it because it was light. There always had to be a fire. What's the reason? What's and and frankly how does that help mash? Why would that posse slipping away? We don't usually go into into marriage over here. This is not a marriage seminar type of type of clip. But if you ever been, let's say, in a nursing home and you see a a couple, one older couple, one of the spouses has Alzheimer's, dementia, you see the other spouse who's fine and is perfectly aware sitting taking care of their spouse, their wife taking care of the husband or vice versa, and you look at that, you can you can get overwhelmed by by the power of that relationship or one is feeding the other or smoozing with the other even though the other is really not that present because that's the depth of a relationship. I was telling one of my kids once that romance is not you don't see romance in a in a proposal with balloons and flowers even if the sun is setting on the water and and and the pictures look very nice by a professionally hired proposal setting up company. You see romance in an old couple in a nursing home where one has Alzheimer's another one who's telling them about their day because when a relationship is not that simple but it endures anyhow in the consistency of a relationship in the through illness and health in the in the whatever whatever happens that's where you see the power of a relationship bot s a burial place right from Ephraine and we learn out kaducian from there the The acquisition of kadition that a man takes a woman has learned out from how that field to bury her is that really the is that really the source for a marriage a young fresh vibrant marriage new home being built he learned out that he buried his wife and now he paid for it and the explained that yeah because that's that's the of the relationship the depth of the relationship of marriage means whatever is going to happen even when Sarah wasn't in this world still felt loyal to her and devoted to do her will when wanted to become a Eid says so her mother-in-law tried to dissuade her and she said wherever you sleep I'll sleep and said that means she was telling her you understand that you send the severity of being you might get killed for being you know you're signing up for she says yeah wherever you're buried all buried that means even if I'm killed by sod rest in a special place I'm in for that too that means the relationship goes it transcends everything the idea of means that it's not just when you're feeling it. That means a fire. Ah, I'm in the mood. I'm on an emotional high. I'm on a spiritual high. I want there to be a fire. And there it means it always has to be that. The the rule of is consistency. Whether you're feeling it, whether you're not feeling that, whether you're in the mood, whether you're not in the mood, whether you're in an exalted state or you're in a diminished state, what say godless makes no difference. The fire has got to be there always. A person who is being overtaken by Zarus. A lot of times nobody is overtaken by in the middle of the pro or on nobody has that problem. It's cuz they're somewhere they shouldn't be they're not feeling it or they're feeling bad or they're feeling distant or they're feeling cold. You know what the for you the fire never goes out. You know why? Because the relationship you're all in. You're part of something. It's so much bigger than this moment. It's not about your moods. So grab onto the fire and get warm.