Turn Friday into Erev Shabbos #119 - Erev Shabbos Begins on Motzei Shabbos

[Music] welcome back to turn Friday into Arab Shabbos big thank you to our generous sponsors Mendy and support Fishman is foreign commemoration of the 10th year at site of carmi's beloved father Dr Emmanuel Mordecai Stadium today and Ali it's almost time for Shabbos here comes that siren and let us get ready we last left off we've been learning ravicha Myers by Andrew the new beautiful safer on Shabbos first of all if you've not signed up for our turn Friday to air of Shabbos WhatsApp group to be able to know the shooter's schedule to get a link to past and upcoming shiram to get some bonus material go to Rabbi Efron goldberg.org WhatsApp Rabbi Efron goldberg.org WhatsApp so we last left off Richard Meyer has been telling us the many stages we have to prepare for Shabbos you have to get ready in some many different ways in so many different manners you have to shop you have to cook you have to prepare you to set the table you have to prepare ourselves you also have to be learning about Shabbos orienting ourselves around Shabbos we also have to be purifying ourselves and preparing for the Holiness the sanctity to become a clay cable to become a vessel that can receive and that can accept the Shabbos that can hold the light of Shabbos all of these are different ways that we prepare and we get ready for Shoppers so with this he ends the introduction and then he begins the actual say for now if you ask me if I were writing a safer about Shabbos where would you begin maybe you'd begin about Wednesday morning the shiroshima Wednesday morning is not the end because Wednesday is really the beginning of Arab Shabbos maybe you'd start with Friday how to turn Friday into air of shamas that would be the beginning of the safer maybe you'd start with minhar kabala Shabbos or candlelighting or kiddish that's the many possibilities I would consider when starting a safer about Shabbos but that is not where avicha Meyer starts what he starts is mozai Shabbos he starts by talking about the mentality The Attitude how to get ready on mozai Shabbos and he does so following the president what is the effort what is the work what is the attitude when it comes to moto Shabbos the moment you make Abdullah and you go from the sanctity and the Holiness of Shabbos back into the weekday you've already begun the preparation for the next shamas Saturday night is not just Saturday night is also air of Shabbos it's an amazing mentality an incredible attitude Arif Shabbos is not only on Friday when you wake up you turn Friday into Arab Shabbos Arab Shabbos is not just Thursday because you've got a plan and shop and cook every Shabbos doesn't just begin from Wednesday when you can no longer say Abdullah of the previous week begins we started it all again we get ready all over again we take what we got out of the past Shabbos and we've used it to build momentum to prepare to create traction into the Shabbos that is foreign it's not a concession a consolation prize we feel bad for you we're sad for you there's no more Shabba so we'll give you mote Shabbos get together eat a little something sing a little something light a few candles you'll feel a little better that you've lost Shabbos no altest Taco almost Shabbos is over great let's get ready let's plan let's start let's anticipate let's count down what did what when what went right what went wrong what can we repeat what should we never do again how can we bottle and expand and how can we build upon them so when is Arab Shabbos it's a great riddle let's get around the Shabbos table tonight when does Arab Shabbos begin is it Friday is it is it Thursday night is it Thursday is it Wednesday when does that Shabbos begin the answer since begins so that's why he begins to save her from here it's hard to have a great neck Shabbos if you're not already orienting and thinking about it on mozai shops now I'm not suggesting you have to start working on the joshan I'm not suggesting you have to start the shopping list and the menu on mote Shabbos but I am suggesting that the week revolves around Shabbos a Jew's orientation is around Shabbos and here let's leave ravicha Meyer I want to take you to another beautiful safer it's a safer on Shabbos that was put out fairly recently beautiful volume of Moshe Wilson uh on on Shabbos and he says the following he quotes the students of the bashanta are the following tradition what has to long for and look forward to and anticipate you know when you start thinking about your next vacation on the way home from the previous vacation does that mean we don't like work we love work it's a calling not a career it's a passion but we also long for that vacation and you look forward you anticipate you count down Shabbos is that Weekly Interruption disruption it's that vacation it is that immersion of what really matters it is the return to the makura so therefore what does that mean this tradition for the bachel what does it mean to look forward to long to anticipate all week long listen to what he says everything you do all week long all of the mitzvos that we do all the preparations we make all of the gashimies we work hard to amass and accumulate it's all through the prism of Shabbos so a Jew puts on that feeling and they say in the Merit of putting on my filling I should have a beautiful Shabbos based at Philo when you're davening I Davin let it be a restful and a beautiful and an uplifting and enriching Shabbos I'm washing my hands for a meal oh I can't wait to wash my hands for the meal on shabbosi right now I'm just having a sandwich right now I'm having a lava right now I'm not gonna rap but Shabbos I can't wait for that you're sitting down to learn you go into the Daffy on me my head's in it but I'm also out the door I've got to run I've gotta go I can't wait till shot office when I review the Daffy I mean when I immerse myself in learning when I'm sitting at the khaburra or the sheer and I have nowhere else to go yeah so you don't first wake up and start thinking about Shabbos on Friday or Thursday night but already beginning a tradition from the bauschem all week long everything we do is oriented is filtered through the prism of Shabbos kodesh it says on Sunday he would buy a beautiful piece of meat but then until on Monday if he found a more beautiful piece he'd say ah we'll eat the first one we'll save the second one and each day whatever he found whatever was nicer he's all weak it was all I found the schmuck perfect for Shabbos I made a great dip perfect for Shabbos I have a great idea a great menu a great recipe perfect for Shabbos I found a great provocative question that will stimulate great conversation perfect for Shabbos everything is oriented around saving it and dedicating it and preparing it for so when you eat the Lesser piece of meat and save the better one the whole week is oriented around Shabbos says the Torah six days you do work what it means what's the work you're doing so this is the tradition of the baashem the six days that we're working normally we translate normally we understand to mean what does it mean six days that we work and then we get Shabbos means six days we go to work you're a lawyer you're a doctor you're a business person whatever you do you work at home taking care of raising a family whatever you're doing for work we work and the reward of the macor is understood differently you do the work of orienting your life around Shabbos you do the work of all putting out thrilling or sitting down to learn or saying tell them or shopping in the supermarket or whatever is going on orienting it around Shabbos every interaction every conversation the friendships that are blossoming that are growing oh how can I spend time can we have them over can we start will we sit outside Boca Raton December will we sit outside and enjoy Shabbos afternoon together when you do the hard work about thinking about obvious all week then the yamashvi is only said about Shem only when you do the hard work about thinking about Shabbos all week Ken and Chavez you get the payoff the payday only then what you have over yamashree so Shabbos doesn't begin on Friday every Shabbos begins on mostly showers and that's why that is where we're going to begin that's where Victor Meyer begins that's where Vitale began so we start to get ready Moze Shabbos right after Abdullah you start to think about oh and right what went wrong what can we work on who do you want to invite what will be great about the following Shabbos aireav Shabbos is already begins on Moze Shabbos wishing everyone a beautiful a happy a healthy an incredible Shabbos and Arab Shabbos a beautiful mote Shabbos the whole world is how weak should be the serenity the peace the Tranquility The Joy the satisfaction of Shabbos have a wonderful Shabbos foreign