True Compassion: Listening Without Fixing

The second thing I think we're other than working on ourselves and growing in our midos and how we show up in the world and how we engage in in relationships with others is this idea of true compassion to truly understand the essence of compassion which I think most people when they try to define it for themselves will use some version of empathy putting yourself in somebody else's shoes but we see it a little bit differently the way that Hindi and I like to approach this and think about the idea of compassion which again I think is for all of us to learn in this suga is the ability ability to sit in the room listening to how somebody else feels sometimes negatively about you without trying to change it or fix it for them. And as a parent, we just want our kids to grow up and to have happy and peaceful and successful lives. But it's not for us to fix what's going on for them. It's for us to be in it with them without change. Not yet. Not until they're ready and have communicated what that change looks like.