TPY Intro

When you are born, you're born with like a clean slate. It's like a new hard drive for a computer, but it has never been formatted. And of course, all the good stuff happens and the snuggly blankets and the snuggly parents and you know, I hope you had all that good stuff. But, you know, beautiful things as a baby and you're growing up and then you go to school and hopefully beautiful experiences in school. But what happens inevitably is when you're around 3 years old, three and a half, four years old, and this happens to everybody. All of a sudden, you become self-aware for the first time. And when you became self-aware, you now realized something's wrong. And not just something's wrong, something's wrong with you. Why? Because for the first three years of your life, you were living in total experience, but no self-awareness. meaning you were awareness itself and you were you know you'd express everything you know if you were sad you cried a minute later you're totally happy nobody called you bipolar you were experiencing life fully you tasted things fully you saw a butterfly like that you saw the mountains like that you heard the music and your whole body started moving you were self-expressed so if you had something to say you said it. If you were feeling something, you let everyone know. You didn't hide anything. And that being, which was your greatest asset, got dumped when you turned somewhere between 3 and four years old. When you became self-aware, you dumped that kid. Why? Why would you dump your kid? And the answer is is because once you became self-aware, now I got a self. You looked around at everybody else and you're like, they got a self, too. Hey, there's the fireman and there's the the uh the doctor and there's the policeman and there's the paramedic and everyone's got an outfit and there's mommy, she's like that and there's daddy and he's like that and there's the older kids in the class and the older classes and the teachers and what you started doing was copy pasting from them to be someone. So you dropped your greatest asset. You saw him as a liability and you began to cut and paste who you are. And based on how well that was received and how much validation you got, you just kept going with it. You're like, "Okay, that's working. That's working. That's working. That's working. Everyone seems to like me except it's not you they like." And this is the root of loneliness. There are two major roots of loneliness. One of them is copy pasting from everyone else cuz if they like you, it's not you that they like. And the other is is that you lost trust because you see little kids trust everybody. That's why if you have a toddler, you got to keep an eye on that kid. He'll get into someone's car, god forbid. The three, three and a half, four year old time, you're still trusted everybody. And then four or five, you still trusting everybody. And it was just a matter of time until you started realizing you can't trust. You know, your father forgot you here or there, or they didn't come to tell you the story you were crying to get in your bed. You're pulling on your mother's dress, or so you thought, in the market to get her attention to buy something for you, only to look up that it's some other lady. You told your friends something in confidentiality and they went and told the other kids in the class. You slowly lost your trust and as you lost your trust, you stopped sharing because why would I share if I'm going to get hurt and then what happens is nobody knows you. And that's why that's the other route of loneliness because if you don't share who you are, nobody knows who you are. And to know them is to love them. To be loved means people got to know you. But you stop sharing. These are various details of the beginning of the end of life being an incredible experience. But there's more. I wish there wasn't more, but there's more. And the more is that you start to realize other things about yourself. For example, you might have someone who was praised for their looks and you start to believe you're ugly. You might have someone praised for their brains or you're you're not such a classroom person or you're you're more math than language or you're more language than math and you start to realize, "Oh my gosh, I'm stupid." Or you have this feeling like you're unwanted. Why? because you didn't get picked a few times in a row for the team or for whatever reason your parents were focused on something else and you were suddenly, you know, maybe not so interesting. Maybe you're boring or maybe you're you're a misfit because you just don't naturally fit in. And the list goes on. You know, if you're um if you're being controlled by people, small, you might be saying you're weak, worthless, you don't have a great relationship with your father. What's a father? father's a protector, a guide. Well, if I'm not being guided because the father wasn't doing his thing, so then I'm lost. If there was any verbal abuse, any emotional abuse of any time, physical abuse, I'm worthless. But even if everything went right, even if you were totally bubble wrapped like I was growing up in West Los Angeles where nothing went wrong, even if you're totally bubble wrapped, you nevertheless have that inner voice and you're a little kid whose hard drive is getting formatted. And as that gets formatted, you developed what we call in the possible you inner negative beliefs. Now, guess what? Here's where it gets intense. Every inner negative belief comes with a personality move, a compensation. It's a compensatory personality move like in a chess game. Meaning with your inner negative beliefs, all of a sudden the the queen or the king is in trouble. And so you got to start moving pieces. And what you do is you create a survival strategy. When you were young, that survival strategy was just like, I don't know, a short-term strategy. But what happens as it gets validated, it after a while becomes who you are, even though it's not possible, you're that meaning, for example, you become the funny person or you become the overachiever or you become the the know-it-all or you become the social person who's like really good socially. Once those inner negative beliefs set in, that puts you in danger. And when a human being or any other animal is in danger, it sets up a survival mechanism. That is your fight and flight mechanism. It's part of the lower part of the brain, the hypothalamus, where you move into fight and flight. Well, it turns out that you made personality moves in both fight and flight to survive the negative beliefs that aren't even true. All of those negative beliefs are circumstantial. They're not true. They're true to you. And of course once you have that vibration because everything works vibrationally. So you start attracting more and more situations that validate that negative belief about you. So like nothing's more true about you even though the whole thing wasn't true to begin with. No negative beliefs are true. But now you're in trouble. And how are you going to survive the rest of your life? And the answer is is that you are going to create survival strategies. fight survival strategies, flight survival strategies. Just like a deer in headlights, just like any animal that finds itself in trouble, they're going to figure out a way out. Even a little cat will do everything it can to escape. But if you back it into a corner, it will fight. And that's exactly what you did with your personality. You created a fight orflight personality. The fight personalities are like being very social or being really funny or being the pleaser. Or it might be the overachiever, the workaholic, the high expectations or the control freak or the independent person or the, you know, the powerhouse. And the flight survival strategies are, you know, shy, untrusting, not sharing or, God forbid, emotionally shut down, or being the lazy person, or being the procrastinator, or being the non-committer, or being the bum. or the sleeper or being the the fantasizer or being the the uh social media junkie or being dependent on others. These fight and flight personality moves are who you became in order to survive your life. But here's the crazy part. Listen carefully. The negative beliefs are about you. The survival strategies are about who you're presenting yourself to be. And what's crazy about this is that you'll notice that all the fight and flight survival moves. What you'll notice is all the fight and flight survival strategies are actually existing only in the world of doing while all the negative beliefs exist in the world of being. I am ugly or I am stupid or I am unacceptable or I am unwanted or I or I am unlovable. Those are I am statements. Those are being. You could never video being. Be being is something we can't you know really define. Whereas all the survival strategies are the fight and flight whereas all the survival strategies the fight and flight are in the world of doing. I can video a guy being funny at an event. You hear I even use the word being. You can video a guy being funny. You can video the guy who's being the overachiever. But think about it. It's in the world of doing. Doing is not being. Like even right now, I'm talking and speaking. You're listening. That's what you're doing. But who are you being in the possible you? As you unravel all the doing, which is those personality moves you made to survive the negative statements of being and all those negative statements of being, after about the third day in the seminar, all of that just begins to crumble and fade away. And when it finally fades away around the third day of the seminar, something else is born. And what is born is that beautiful child that you were to begin with the full experience of life, the self-expression and that being which is really in the end the soul begins to be the place from where you generate. You don't generate from negative statements of being, otherwise known as inner negative beliefs, which you now have to cover up with your smokec screen of survival strategies, but rather you're generating from the true being. The true being you were born with. People don't have access to it. They talk about the soul. They talk about, you know, being. But to gain that access, you can't really gain it on your own. The way you gain it is through this intensive program where we take you on the journey to unravel all these unconscious aspects of yourself that have had you trapped. And the biggest proof of the trap is that if I'm generating from negative being and I now have to cover it up with all that doing, it gets exhausting. Let me give it to you in an analogy. Imagine you're running on a gerble wheel. You know, like a little hamster wheel. You're running on a gerbal wheel and if you go slowly or stop, you see painted onto the gerbal wheel are all the negative beliefs about you. Now if you start moving faster so you can see the words going around but as you start going faster and faster so then it becomes a really nice looking you know kind of beautiful pattern and that's your survival strategies which are meant to be this nice looking beautiful pattern but the problem is you're getting exhausted you know you're running on this you want to slow down you want to rest so you slow down a little bit and you see start seeing oh what's written on there ugly stupid unwanted unlovable all the things that you deep down and these are called inner negative beliefs which means you probably don't even know you're saying this about yourself. In fact, you might be listening right now saying I don't say any negative things about myself. Oh yeah. Well, after you hear this intro, you'll start to think about it. You'll realize that those things are written. It's just that you've been running so fast on your gerbble wheel that you don't see it. And anytime you would slow down and start to even sense it, you start running faster again that you shouldn't know of it. and no one else should ever know of it. It should never be exposed. But meanwhile, it's not even true. So, you're running and running and running to escape something that's not even real. And it's got you set up for a life that just is at all times hypervigilant monitoring every situation whether it's under the fear of rejection like monitoring your social or it's failure monitoring your professional or it's an issue of control monitoring that no one should ever control you or it's just the unknown in general. You're constantly monitoring to protect yourself and it takes its toll. I know you want to live a long healthy life. I know you want to be fresh in your old age as King David says. But it's exhausting to run like this. Stop running out there and start running inside. Look inside. Join us in the possibible you seminar. Get your life back. Give yourself the gift of this incredible soul that's in there the whole time. It's going to outlast your body and you can generate from there. You can literally live your life from the soul. And once you do, wow, all of a sudden the whole world just comes alive in the most beautiful ways. Let me explain. You see, if you're in bumper-to-bumper traffic, so you you know, you get to see uh basically everything. You know, there's the birds, there's the the river, there's the there's the trees. I mean, it's gorgeous. Like the whole world's all around you, but once you start going about 10 miles hour, so yeah, the world's gorgeous. Yeah, I still see the world. And you know, I'm going 10. Now I'm going 20 miles per hour. And all of a sudden, like, I got to start focusing on the cars in front of me. Now I'm going 40. Now I'm going 50. What is all that stuff outside where that used to be the trees and the river and the birds and the deer and everything. That becomes what are called predictive models. It's been scientifically proven that the human brain when in danger no longer sees anything around it. Well, going 60 mph means there's danger. And so you start focusing on the car in front of you. And then everything you saw when you were in traffic is now gone. You still think you see it. You don't actually see it. There could be a guy in a gorilla suit juggling on the side of the highway. You will not see him. Your passengers will be like, "Look at that." You won't see it. Well, it turns out that you've been going 60 mph into weddings, into business meetings, into dealing with authority, into dealing with the entire unknown, which is the entire world because every second is the unknown. And you're moving into the unknown. And boy, the world's gotten crazy lately. And so what happens is that you're not actually here. You're not actually you're not at the wedding. You don't hear the guitar solo. You didn't see the centerpiece. You're not even tasting the food. Some poor fool's paying $80,000 for $500 people to survive his kid's wedding. You're not here. You're not present. You may even have people in your life and complain you're not present. After the possible seminar, all of a sudden like your senses are here. You're like feeling touched. the sheets of your bed, the the sound of music, the taste of food, the love of relationships, the connection, the connection of people at work, people you do business with. They just want more and more of you because now your vibration's clean. It's coming from the soul. You're in pure being. And when you're in pure being, so now you are in the soul vibration. People sense it. It becomes a vibrational pattern that is clean and easy and inviting. You become a magnet. You get your life back. You can get off the wheel. The wheel doesn't say anything other than the fact that you're beautiful, that you're amazing, that you're holy, that you're wanted. Not just that you're wanted, that you're essential, that you're powerful beyond measure because God is the source of your power. I know it sounds too good to be true that the four days of the possible you and then the four weeks of followup and then the we have a community called the pop circle that you can join afterwards as well. Most people join it. I know it sounds too good to be true that this can get done in a 4-day intensive, but I promise you it can. I promise you it can. I've been doing this for years. It works. Most of the people are coming are coming because of word of mouth, which means they know someone who had this breakthrough and then they said, "How can I do this?" And they're like, "Join the possible you." You are worth the time. You are worth the money. Invest in yourself. Join me at the Possible You Seminar for the experience of your lifetime.