The Nefesh Stays Alive Even After Death (Afterlife Series #8)

in the news [Laughter] today ready yeah now we're on we already on we'll keep that okay here we go I just want to recap here because we had two weeks we had a break a little bit everybody on vacation for kanuka basically last time we spoke about the idea that's coming in this week's actually we spoke about the three different types of uh disappearances we have the which we mentioned about when a person is as okay we mentioned about the fact that a person dies by the N naturally wanting to go back home he wants to go back to his place he wants to go back to his place and then automatically he ends up finding his way up to Sham that's what we spoke about more or less okay we spoke obviously last time you could look at the last year that we uh we did I want to mention a couple one is a zor in this week's par actually and this is a in the first sheer the second sheer we summarized a little bit of the events of happens after a person dies now I just wanted to bring it in detail about what happens after a person what happens at the with a lot of relevant that will come out that will be this year and the next year we will start on the of burial what happens when a person is buried and that goes together with kib what we call kib which is one of the first one of the first things that happened to a person but we'll speak about that next week right now I just want to finish conclude this this thing that we've been speaking about about what happens to a person after death with uh this idea so the zor says like this the nees and this is the main thing I'm focusing on today the zor says the stays by the body by the K even after the N disappears as we mentioned there's a the might go up to sh when you're sleeping when you're sleeping that's why you're 160 at death when a person dies the ru also goes that's the second level the ru goes up to sh and that's why he's not functioning that's why he's brain dead he's not able to do anything but the here which I'm sure not too many scientific gestures would agree to this is that the nefes is still around there's still something called the neish which is connected to the body even though the ru is upstairs in G hopefully but still the nees stays by the body and as the breakdown of the zor is over there the ne stays by the body the r is in G the lower ganen something will be speaking about later when we speak about ganen even next week we speak about a little bit and the is in G is in a higher ganen it's in the higher opes over there okay that's uh that's what it says now where does this spal this difference come from so it's like this is you do from the he brings these ideas more or less that there is something that a person receives from his fathers called hav Army which is the spirit of your bones the bones has a certain type of neish it's actually a lower neish the higher neish you get from your mother you all have mothers so we all have a neish right because our our mother gives us a neish which is a Mak which is a more powerful a more powerful kind of neish it's a neish which is surrounds your body when a person is nifter than the Bones still remain with this NE it still has in it this NE which gives a little bit of life there's still a little bit of life in it from the neish that a person receives from his from his father this is known as the it's an expression for people who are busy with these Farm who like to learn these Farm not like me but people like to learn F they know thei is a very famous expression of the neishi you can make many interpretations but simply in your bones right the spirit that lasts inside of your bones he brings the that there's a certain type of neish that surrounds you and it continues around you and therefore it's around if a person did not have a little bit of neish in his bones and I'm referring of course after one is niftar one is dead then his bones would just or disappear or just Fall to Pieces it would be completely uh disintegrate which is in in there's in talks about the what's more dry than a bone all all bones are dry Dres are bones are dried by by uh by by Essence but what he meant is that it didn't have the Havi that's how some interpret it it didn't have this Havi and therefore it was not able to contain anything and it was just not even bone it was frivolous it didn't exist it didn't have anything okay this is a idea it's a concept that we have in the creation of the world everything works in this way of course I'm not going to get into this but there's also an idea I'm definitely not going to speak this just there's an idea when that when the world was created or came into the world okay ore came into the world and it was too much ore K into the Kalin right into this CLE some ore came into it and that's what is able to contain the light and because the light was so expansive so powerful it exploded the CLE the CLE the CLE destroyed the CLE got exploded and the light had to go back upstairs but even when the light goes back upstairs and the light went back this is what we're left with is you have what we call Aim a little bit of a r a little bit of leftover light okay this this is a concept that we have all the time you're familiar probably with the gar the we all know that a person when he's in the stomach knows you remember it of course right and when you even though you're born you forgot everything but there's still a ran there's epis there's epis masu sometimes you remember something sometimes you connect to it sometimes you have a certain affiliation to that Torah because it was there once and it's the famous question why you have to learn if any was I'm going to forget it that help but the answer is there's always that's how the world is created everything's like that that's how it is with death also we have a certain within us and everything leaves and we lose everything unfortunately that's what happens hopefully will come before them but even so when it leaves we're still left with a little bit of aim we're left with a little bit of which is the which is a little bit of the leftovers of the ne which comes upes which was written on is referring to this little NE which is left over the that we still have a little bit uh of leftover okay so that's an important concept that again I'm going to show you a lot of places where this is relevant in as you know I'm trying to bring both together this idea is not just a esoteric interesting and uh Curious idea but there's more to it it has a lot of relevance okay but that's what happens when the goes up and then the you're left a little bit with this with his NE now the also writes in now I just want to tell you a lot of the zor which I've been quoting is in this week's para it's swimming in in this because Etc and all the ideas of death Etc not all but a lot a very big amount is written over here also if anyone wants to find I could show you inside he has a lot of these things he says like this for the whole seven days of then goes back and forth from one place to the next from the K to the house to the house of the G it keeps going back and looking at its body and he has he's a on it he still has he brings a that he still has he still has pain about his body he sees his body but he goes back to the house okay he goes back to the house and he goes back straight from the words yeah he sits in the house he sees everyone upset and the also sits a together with everybody else okay for seven days and is there sitting together with everyone else and like I said there going to have a lot of about such a thing just one second and therefore we see from here for seven days and not after seven days he hangs out at least by the house we'll see about the Kev in a minute but more or less his adventures are back from the Kev to the house to the Kev to the house until the Goof turns into this is words until he sees that the Goof the body has dissipated or is decomposing and then he goes up to where he has to go I'm I just want to finish the listen to this he goes to you ever know that he goes to and that is the funnel the tunnel is the tunnel to how he gets to sh that's the adventure if anyone wants to know the secret code then that's the way to go maybe underneath there is a lot of places down there you're not allowed to go it could be that you'll find the way to G in one way or the other maybe also right but that's what it is from there you goala that's the words through very could be that in these near-death experiences we all saw that people saw a light and a tunnel a tunnel tunnel could be the tunnel that's not relevant if it is it is it's not not you do see in the ideas that we seeing that he goes back and forth he's always looking at his goof all the people always say we saw my body I don't know what's going on I felt bad I see everybody upset I saw my D my sister in the waiting room crying for me I didn't know what was going on suddenly I realized o that's my body I didn't even realize it was all confused which is M the words of the zor here he writes about the confusing of the what's going on here I didn't realize what's happening yeah sorry I'm a little confused okay this is a better type of confusion I thought I thought the then goes up to he started by saying that now he's I said he goes up to the oh the yeah no I was talking about I was talking about in general that's the that's going to be the situation he's not gunting yet no he doesn't go straight he doesn't get a one way ticket no in general that will be the conclusion all right say again but the n's son sitting shiver in America you got yeah good yeah I hear it's a good question yeah where does he go if you look in the yeah I know if you look in he usually goes to his house where he is now he's saying the nursing home is a little bit good question if he's really in the nursing home and there there a lot of Spooks in the nursing home then because everybody's dying there but uh but he goes to his house his residence where he was for the majority of life for where he was in general the house yes is definitely to be done I also was just relevant really recently I was I tried to say it should be but they waiver it in h sometimes when it's completely meaning for the and that it's not possible so you hope for the best but really really it should be in the house of the nft it really should be there yeah that's definitely it's brought down that that should be what's what's done but again in you know sometimes we have to waiver things for convenience I'm still I'm still confused in the same he's also confused we have here was in the pretty in the near experiences they immediately have that thing and go the light said they only go to the light after seven days after the light was a and it was a kind of like walking towards let's I don't know if I want to call what he says but it's walking towards a certain end you understand so it's very first of all all these people said that they see their body and they're going around and then they see the light and they see the body and they see the they're going back and forth they're seeing it right so they're still around but remember they're not dead we didn't speak about dead people yet if they were dead then my guess is that something happens in The Next Step that they then they start going to the house and they come back and they see and they're going around in this and that but they were still like in the middle of a decision whether I should follow through or come back and all those guys end up coming back that's what I mentioned with them you can't bring the a good proof because a lot of things we see that they say everyone says the same thing but you can't bring full proof to everything we're speaking about because they didn't die could something else explain differentes different levels could be two levels of consciousness that may be part of the Mind conscious is down here okay if you want to get scientific about it I hear no SCI there different levels maybe one level's up a higher level and lower Lev they're working in parall rather than being I mean in this stage I'm not sure if that's 100% what's happening yeah in the beginning I I think it's all together and then afterwards there's the split you're right about the split afterwards but I think in the beginning it's more one thing why that good question I'm not 100% sure but that's the source of where you know started that's where that's the source of the world was started creation from that area so Eva yeah Evan I don't know I can't give a good answer it's truth what person there's immate there's IM like this separation like looking above is very separate from the body look of the feeling of still being in the body and feeling phys he didn't feel you certainly say all person person leaves that's right and then now seeing their body they're traveling everywhere exactly so how does that also reconcile with you mentioned a person can feel the pain of oh we're going to get to that that we're going to get to you'll see but uh you're right I'm going to Mom speaking about that today okay at least we're saying right now that those seven days he goes back and forth back and forth we mentioned three days the first three days he's he's when he finally realizes his body's decomposing he realizes oh boy I really the person's really dead he realizes about himself that he is really dead but he still goes back and forth for seven days he just gets more clarity Apparently after 3 days and that's why it's the he brings down in the of three days we say the first three days you can't work really all seven days a person should not work if he's an noo but three days no matter what even if he's poor he doesn't have any money he's not let it work after three days they have to ask a rabbi but the rabbi could allow you to work after the one to work after three days okay and the reason for this difference is as the first three days the N is really in Buble and you have to M be sitting that's the most serious point of aute in the last 4 days then at least uh it's a little bit better okay it's a little bit better and therefore sometimes you might be allowed there's more heavy of a loot the first three days the first three days of is much more of heavy because is in a real in a real bad situation what do me what's the guy sitting available for he's sitting available for for the dead person what he's sitting because because the dead person so the more he's in s more that's why when he's finished after 12 months like we speak about so he stops sitting as long as he's in s then the person sitting on that's what he's sitting on loot about so the the more intense the SAR is the first three days the more he should be sitting on loot there's noing no no budging one should speak NE during these days because he around okay we're going to get to that okay guys let's keep going okay okay that's brss has a certain s about the be about what his what his goof looks like now let's bring out a couple I'm going to address a number of things you guys spoke about don't worry okay so we learned from here that the first those seven days when a person is sitting shiva okay and you learn that you have to come to be there's idea of being okay so during that time that you're that the is actually there in the place and you come to be both of them you're being the person sitting and your the also and that's one of the reasons why at least right you say right you say even though there's only one guy sitting there you say who's there's one guy sitting there what are you doing the answer is he's sitting there next door right the is also over there waiting for for this uh for this for this thing that's why um every kades is extremely important because he's there and he's hearing every kadish and he sees everything and every that's why they speak very strongly during these seven days of p and this that that's why in a b if you go a lot of times when you go to they might be talking about this and that and you should know it's always brought down they don't say why that you should speak about the met you speak about the met so say of course you're supposed to speak about the met but know you speak about other things you should know that the Met is listening so the more he hears about you talking about him what a great guy he was and how fantastic he was so it makes him feel better you the more you start speaking about the best football team and who won this right so then he is it gives a to him it gives a certain s to the so when you know the inside when you read the you say okay we'll try our best but when you read the inside you realize is sitting there listening and he wants to hear what you're interested in and if you're talking about him or you're talking about something else and you realize it's much more of a painful thing the Met knows everything that is set in front of him he hears everything he's there he hears everything everything there in front of him okay just like just like we saw in the near death experiences but isn't that when the when the mace is ly there so in ly no but we said he also goes to the house he's in the house and Al front of the me you don't speak but but that's but this is different because the MCE is there where is he in the the m is in the No No the body of the mace but I'm talking about the nees or the the still how applies yeah shouldn't speak he still feels it he still hears in front of the front of the L then correct correct that's right yeah right and like I said I'm going to show you a lot of things where he feels and he's able to know even though of course the Met is in the C the m is in the C but still he's able to he's able to know now listen to this I saw recently from okay that he says like this we know that you put a near in the house I didn't know this until not long ago you put a near in the house for the whole seven days we all know that you're supposed to get a near that you put in the house he says you should put it by the you should put it by the door of the house you know why because that way the Nama knows where to go that way you give him an entrance to the house here's the go I always thought n's flying through windows I didn't realize that he was the front door but apparently he says that in order that he will know where CU he like I said he's going from the Kev back to the house to then come back he's bouncing back and forth a little bit so in order for him to know which way to enter he said I'm quoting question I mean he says therefore you should put the there that now noway we have electricity maybe it's a little bit better I don't know cuz then the only way to know to get to someone's else is by the front door you had the light you had a candle in front of it in order to be able to get in but I don't know I don't know if they use electricity yeah I don't know I don't know I thought about that also shouldn't leave the the OV what shouldn't leave in generally stays in the P because he's together within sh yeah for sure now you know we have contradictory Halas here also a little bit if you look in the ashkanazi the're very mock not to take anything from the house okay you don't take anything from the house including food or anything you're not supposed to suppos to take things you're not supposed to do it and because of this reason because is there and there's a certain R inside of a house of an no I eat tons of food but here we go thein you know they you can't tell them not to eat can't it's too hard there but there's an opposite reason why because we hold that when you're in there and you you want to be so they actually da put out a lot of food with a different in order to be the which people do on the Y side or whatever it is in order to do that so the far him take a different can which I would have thought should be the opposite stuff care about this stuff usually and here we have the opposite much more than they that no you should be in order to be able to be which also makes sense because you're not supposed to take things from the house but this is for him this is to help him so he won't be mad at you there won't be any so it should be that it should be helpful okay to take to my house because the is in there yeah the is there's a certain inside of the house it's written all the all the time in the in a beta of there's a certain type of they have to eat or whatever I'm saying they do what they do they can eat you're not supposed to take things out of the house cuz there's a certain not you're not to be to you're to a goof like he was mentioning right you can't go to the B but you can go to the you can go to the thing is there any hbgb reason for the mirrors okay the mirrors is a number of reasons the most simple reason if you want chat if you want to be more simplistic is because you're doing in the house for seven days and you're not let it do in front of a mirror in Sim right right that you're not let it D in front of a mirror so since you're not let D so they cover the mirrors in the main room where you're doing that's one of the reasons brought down but there is also a reason there's a second reason also because mirror brings SIM for some people yeah some people not maybe right it bring Sim and since you don't want to have SIM so that for that reason you're supposed to cover all the mirrors in the house and the third reason and the third reason that they bring is like you said for HEB because because in is around and there's a certain bua yeah there's certain a reflection that it shouldn't be that way to get a reflection I don't know if it's means that something can happen so but it's also because the N is in the house so therefore you should cover it up that's the third reason there a child if you want to few more about that if a baby hasn't had a brist yet or something that he shouldn't shouldn't look at his reflection you had that before Oh that I didn't hear no not to see a reflection of it I know if you hear it tell me I it's connected what I'm talking about though is it connected the same thing okay I don't know s if you do tell me I'm happy to hear most happy to hear new things about not to do it maybe that's why I didn't hear about it it's connected okay anyways um okay that's uh that's that's that nuda now basic on what we're saying we're saying that met knows everything that's going on now very important there's a how how long does a met know how long does someone who is know what's going on in this world okay now follow me till the end Okay because I'm going to make your understandings first of all this is a like this thear says like this says okay he says until they close the K and say says a until the buser decomposes meaning according to immediately after he closes the the goo then he's still cognitive of what's going on like I said until now but really really uh Hearing in attentively to everything that's being said is only until the go is closed okay that's why we're mid because of this to do all the hasp him while the while the Met is still around why don't you bury him then talk you can talk from here tomorrow but why why do you have to leave the Met around we don't like to leave met around which we're going to speak about next week why we're not M at we don't leave him around and here we are leaving him around and that's making a SP demon sometimes it could take a while right depending on who's talking it takes a while and it's not not the answer is like I said once he's once the K is closed then he he's cognitive what's going on but it's not the same he hears everything until he is buried until he's buried until he's buried and therefore we da put the met there it's strange the Met is sitting there when you you ever think about why is the Met sitting there when we're taking being M with him the answer is cu he's sitting there andish hears every single word the person saying you realish knows everything 100% cognitive of everything that's going on according to um according to the second which is he says that even after he's buried he's still cognitive of everything that's going on until there's a decomposing of the uh of the Goof okay until it actually things and now so we have the brings like this the first three days after the it's on top and everybody agrees and therefore he knows about the brings therefore you do Asim Etc in order to to do that soim are important and that's what it is people are M and and there's a big question if you can be M especially by Etc but you should know that are actually heard by him and centes for the people to know and you're supposed to speak about the nft that's what it's supposed to be they bring in it's actually brought in by one of the I don't remember that those people who just say just to as they say show off or just to sound good or just but they're not speaking about the Met you're allowed to say if you're helping to express something but come to say it's a it's very bad it's very negative and it's not good on the person who's saying it it's not good for you it's not good for the person to do that because the ma is listening he's like what is this you have to know that you're speaking to him and there's a gar the gar brings in Shabbat if you want to look it up very interesting gar that asked from he said please before I die after I die can you make sure to do can you give a good H because I want everyone to I want to heat everybody's hearts up I want be I want crying I want people to go because the gar over there says that it's to know if a person's a real sadic or not is dependent and here this is how some people think even myom is depending on how many people are affected by by the in other words if a lot of people are crying or this or they really feel it so that person was a proper as opposed to someone who nobody knows just give me one second as opposed to nobody knows it's not so much so then the nextar brings if that's true that everything depends on how much how big of a toic you are so this is a great question abay asked Raa AB said to ra what's going to be with you because you live in p and everybody hates you that's the words in the soash says they weren't nice people and they were I read if you they were not such nice and they didn't affect him and R used to give him over the head he used to give him so said you poor guy you're going to be n you're big everyone's not saying no one's going to appreciate ites there's a sense of yeah afterwards that's true so he anwers very simply he says it's enough that you and he mentions one another more the two of you should cry for me and I'm sufficient with that nobody else cares it's okay was when was I think he wrote or he said it remember he wrot it was in the actual no someone someone said it over Bish that he said just try to make sure I have a minion there I have a feeling I'm not sure if I'm going to get a minion because a lot of people you know he was very involved in things he said I hope that there's a minion there that are going to be willing to come to my Levi CU he felt bad anybody who was there I was there there's about 250,000 people there okay just so you know but he was hoping that he would get me because he felt like everybody was upset at him or you know whatever it was because he was very into you know there was there's gar which this guy goes down lays down the ceter there his exactly I'm going to get to that yeah right so it sounds like he still knows you're asking right sorry so so what are you asking so that was years and years after very good very good okay I'm getting to that in a second yeah I I you know can you can you give shabat just I want to show it inside yeah I I learn that person one ofid to make yeah that's that there's oh that's something I'm going to speak about also you're saying there is such a thing yeah the gumar does say right Mr is correct he says the gar says that there's a Mila for the Goof when he's he he dies on a day when it's raining and it's pelting on his body and there's nobody around and there's no and and nobody's around thear says a few different things which we will speak about later so it sounds like there's an advantage that people are not Masid for you that's what he's asking because over there it says it's good for your then gets a higher alyah because you the person suffered when he was here so in the in the next World he's going to get a higher thing but because over there it doesn't mean that nobody cared about the guy it just meant that because of the situation nobody was around to be masit and died in bad time and nobody was around able to get there we're discussing when people are there and people really care or don't care on this that's what makes a person on a higher level but there's a certain kapara that a person has if he doesn't get hisp him if he doesn't get if he doesn't get hasp him okay that all shows you this idea that during these seven days um that during these 7even days that is what a Nisha is going through he knows he's able to be cognitive and a person has to be careful to to treat him uh to treat him correctly now you're asking a good question he's saying there's a number of garat we have a number of garat in many places one of quoted in the past which is of people who are cognitive people who peopleas who are still knowledgeable of what's going on in this world even after many years we find many places where Nas are fam familar with the Years first of all I quoted it once if I'm not correct if I'm not mistaken somewhere I think that's what it is yeah okay that over there we have that that got in a fight with his wife or whatever it was and he went into and he slept in the and he heard these two that were talking to each other and he was able to hear about the whole entire future based on their discussions that they have that they have in the so we see that they're able to be cognitive of uh of what's uh of what's going on we also find that Yu right Yu buried his wife ra why in a why because we always know that she will be she's always going to be there to DAV for us she's always there around to be able to take take care of us that one of the amim one of the am was being really pestered by by some of the go over there they were pestering him pestering him a lot and they were bothering him a lot I think it was I don't remember who it was 100% it was one of the morine that they were pestering him a lot and one time they were walking through the B with their horses or whatever it was and his father of this Amora was not alive stuck his hand out of the C and grabbed the grabbed the leg of the guy who was pestering him all the time and and he threatened him that if you ever bother my son again you're going to come down here with me you're get in trouble it's dangerous walk sometimes right and it helped right it would helped me right so anyways it helped so you see that they still are coming there's another one by the father of RA came to him in a dream R was alive and his father was not alive and he came to him in a dream and he told him son I want you to go into the other bed switch beds why ABA I said just go to the other bed you don't ask questions on your father he said it was in the middle of the night 3: in the morning he told him please switch to the other bed W it up and so ra said you know your father tells you he would have M even if he's not alive so he went and he went to the other bed he went to the other bed okay so what you wonder with the punch line is Right basically he woke up in the morning and he saw his bed was cut in half by the Satan was coming to get him and he missed his whole bed was sliced into two twoim into two pieces okay because of from by the Shad that were coming together uncle that was back in those days they had you know they had a lot of action back then it was much more exciting anyways so we see from all this that it seems to be that there is some type of connection even after the 12 months we have S days and then 12 months where there's a minimal connection but even after 12 months there still seems to be some type of connection so what's the answer so already he doesn't bring all these garas I just quoted this himself says after this period of time it goes up then the sh and it doesn't come down anymore right he's able to go up and not come down when he wants he's allowed to go back in other words the first 7 days 30 Days 12 months he's limited to where he has to uh to go he's limited to where he has to go it's okay yeah he's limited to where he has to go but after the 12mth period he he's upstairs he's in ganeden like we're going to speak about he's okay but he wants sometimes he's allowed to go down which is really if you look in the that's really what they're doing they came down in the middle of the night I don't know then they decided to come down and for whatever reason they they decided it wasn't that they were hanging out their dka they came down in certain periods of times they came down there he brings another gar from batra famous gar over there was sitting by the of the this already connected a little bit and he saw in the in the P of the of the cave he sawu sitting there together with his evid elz you know those garas those esoteric garas for those of you who might know the book jugler and the king or the with the the pi of the you know the book it's all these esoterics and batra but anyways over there it talks about aru and elzar and he was the talks about that he was he was his his head was in the lap of Sarah and she was checking his hair for life have to figure go figure and they have to to read the go to know what everything's going on there but over there you see so he go what's going on I thought was long he's already quite a while ago few years what's he doing down in the K the mar and all that so he says says based on this that sometimes if they need to come down they come down they come down sporadically for certain for for what for Life check for Life Check to come down when they need when they need to come down okay what Shabbat do they come down also okay Shabbat I'm going to get to in a second I'm coming right now m is right now okay now I'm going to give a lot of examples sorry about this idea I'm just going to give about 10 examples about this idea to show you especially this idea that by the the dead person his nees is still there there's still an AA there's still an AA there's still a little bit of his existence in that area and you'll see how that has relevance for us in which for let's say does not have relevance and I'm just going to number examples I we'll finish the year I'll take about 5 six minutes just to show you a few examples of how you see that the neish is still connected to the body yeah I'm sorry they come down with that include they speak to appear into a dream dream to somebody uh yeah I don't know if that's called coming down I'm not sure yeah it's coming up and a dream in a dream you're still in sham you're still high up so I'm not sure if that's called it needs to come down but uh to a certain extent yeah so let's give a few examples of how this works okay how this works first of all we find that a person doens by a c on a yard site right when it's a when someone was y site today we see that a person goes to DAV by the person's K why is the person going to the C start from to go from here why do you have to go to the C the answer is and by we have coming up you go to the K to say kades why do you do that to say because the is there especially by he's going up to the next dark guy he's going up to the next stage where he's starting to have a certain din a certain din upon him so therefore you come to the Kev because he still has affiliation the nees right the Havi which we spoke about is still there there's a certain amount that's still there and that of course is a second example with the we go all to people are willing to fly to the we places of the world like let's say I don't know Russia uman or whatever right right and they're willing to go plac because they still have some apparently some type of AR some type of tus that's still left over in these certain placees it leaves a certain Ros like we mentioned before there's a certain leftover place which is still there which is taken care of it and you just have to be careful when you go but you have to know that the have a certain thing I have totally separate cheer I spoke about it on um I forgot what it was on Sim it was on R I spoke about it I'm not speaking about it now we spoke about for whoever about when you doen by the C of theim how you're supposed to d right there's an to the Shalom no one's allowed to do that and we spoke about all the about it Etc we spoke about but it's not for now it's a whole separate CH it'll take a 45 minutes to speak about okay but there is this idea of doing at the Kev just like you do at the kot let's say but you don't do to the met at all you don't D to him you do about him is what is special was there cuz she's able to but you still can't Dove to her but you're right there is that she there is a certain thing more about than you're right than other than other there's a special to go because he was put there to do that to D for you so that's why there's much more of AA being answered over there it's true because that's that's her that's why she was buried in she should be buried not there because of that that's why that's the to that's the that's the way to going to G that's that's where it is and this is a sniff a continuation to what I just mentioned he brings this things the M the dead people have Han um they have they have H from the fact that people come to them their relatives come to them people that they love their loved ones come to them I'm reading you the words of the if you want to see it and you come and you ask for your loved ones that things should be good you it helps them in the next world and when you talk to them they do for you also it helps you when you do for them that everything should be good for them over there which I don't know how many people do that there is one thing to go to the K and of course say kades Etc but you go and you say everything should go and should be good in and you know Etc when you do these types of things they help you just like you help them to a certain extent and the of course brings from froma when he went to he went to thear of his forefather in order to D that's what he says in writes like this a a dead person that comes in a dream oh he brings a Misa hear this he brings a m scary M he brings a he came to a dream to a cahal to a certain group of people who were leaving the or they were in the area or they were nearby it's not clear exactly if they were there on purpose or not on purpose and they told them please don't leave we need you here a little bit longer to do and do with us or do for us Etc that's what he says we have a certain and they the person got and that's how he got in a dream and guess what they decided to leave they decided to leave you know what happened because they left there the words that they all died that's said they all dropped dead all you have to know the te are very helpful but they're also very dangerous so try to be a little bit careful when you go to a thing but that's that's another connection that we see uh to there on the opposite Spectrum on the other direction I'll quote to you the zo and partti in two weeks the Z says in like this if would not be doing for us and trying to help us out upstairs we wouldn't be able to stand there and be successful and be protected Etc if the I assume especially our our our our loved ones Etc if they were not doing for us upstairs we would be in big uh trouble like the Y says that they they Mish and they know and the says like this another it's all in the same area he says there's one night where all this is continuation to that same zor there's one night where all the M come out of their K okay get ready scared what he said Halloween come out of their C he he says that they get on film doesn't work they don't they don't get onil it's on H Raba H RAB comes out close to not so far depends on the year I think when we're up all night which is a special night he says on they come out and they don't just come out they come to help and Dav for they come to D they make a minion it says they go everyone calls out to the other one wake up wake up what are you sleeping get up no they they come and they DAV for the yeah okay that they come and they they D in for us on they all come up so if you want to see them you can go on you can see men and women huh women also you said they make a Min yeah I made I said minu was a joke but it's a good question you're asking I don't know if it's I don't know if it's I mean it's oh no he says he says I have one in home if anyone wants to see it I could show you a few of them okay oh and the continues that's why it's called by the way got all the that two hid themselves in the and they heard one calling to the other on asking they say let's be for for clel okay what you say and he brings also and even if someone has a on him that he's supposed to die that they can't stop that obviously says they D that at least it should be not difficult he should go with a that's his they try to D at least that it shouldn't be a heavy it shouldn't be hit hit too hard okay so here's another example of this idea the are still as they say they're still around a little bit they still have some connection affiliation affiliation with us we talk about the three parts of yeah yeah yeah this is when you talk about the yeah are you talking about all three mainly what in general we're talking about that there's in general a nees that's there only the and everything is up there and what the T was telling is here and there sometimes they are able to the R I don't know if it's a I I would be more in the r but we call the r and together because they're connected that sometimes it comes down like let's say on Raba and it might come in special times and do a special thing in order to help us but the neish is there is 24/7 more or less so almost 247 I'll show you one exception shouldn't do which you shouldn't do and they bring which right they're bringing the shamas no they're bring they're bringing R they're bringing R that's R and again it's hard to say they bring down but a for sure they can bring down which is connected to the and they can only bring we're going to speak about I mean if we get to get to it I'm not going to say we're going to do it don't get excited here right we're going we're going to show you what happens there but but what happen What happens in a is they bring down a Ru which is a low Ru they can't bring down a sadik they can they'll never be able to bring down a a big person the only time we've ever seen such a thing happen is when sha brought down or whatever it is and that was within 12 months the da bring was dka within 12 months because it still didn't go up and it was and he was was a big man so he had some capabilities to do that and he got punished for it also it wasn't very good when he did that it was considered a negative thing he did that but that was only in only within 12 months he would have never been able to do that after 12 months so uh AIC or they always get low r tons of stories believe all I'll give you stories and there always they see like their father remember it's usually who is it the or whatever people are not religious they do and they see relatives of theirs who are also very not and there are spirits that are walking around you know there are stories that the r came to them and it was helpful because the ru came and you never said kades for me you jerk right I'm still flying around here I'm not able to get off and he said kades and then he said kadish for a week and then after he finished he wasn't able to talk to them anymore he wasn't able to get in touch with them anymore cuz the r went up so someone story somebody came up to me very quick I'm sorry I'm overtime I feel bad it's okay well we'll do two three more minutes I'll try to finish you know let me let me just finish I'm sorry CU I just want to I want to close this I want to start next time okay not you understand speak about it let me let me just make a quick another which we all know is which brought down of course we know it's brought down the idea that you can't wear because the says because when it drags on the it's which means that they will be but the which I don't know if everybody knows is the m says you're coming to us and you guys are and you're showing us that you can keep and we can't keep he says now we're going to pull you in with us you understand it's a it's a dangerous thing to do one one day you're also coming you're one day you're also going to be buried and now you're coming making fun of us that we can't do mitat and you can do it so it's a certain type of if you look in thear it sounds like a certain type of K also which only comes as a result of the fact that the M te are still are still are still around another we find in that if you didn't ask from someone that you need to ask it says in the over there they have to bring 10 people to his K and you ask from the K he can't answer you the answer is because the is still around his neish is still there and there's inion still to go go ahead and uh and try to uh try to get a little bit of a uh of of okay that's a that's that's that I have a couple more yeah uh no other MIT it says also don't go with the learning you're not supposed to what I mentioned before about the about the by the I mentioned before about you're allow to say only if it's for conect that's not good it's all he's not allowed to do that only the cover the make drink water something are you allowed to make a yeah you have to you're not all to drink that's an iser talking about doing doing something but that's an iser right let me just bring two more examples and we'll stop okay the brings when a person does a right this is a little bit connected this is important to say people I've heard people say this in the people know this because unfortunately sometimes one's parents are not around and you should know the it's not stop made up that when a person makes a bring their father and mother from G from comes down if it's a not a birthday party yeah you're doing a a proper wedding or even a or whatever right in such a cases in such cases then it's a and the father and the mother come down from sh to be to be he knows what he's talking about you can't this just shows you that is still here they're not completely disconnected one last one Mo we have to invite them to come um he doesn't say that but uh I understand yeah could be you going inv could be invitations address go to B you no that a in here really you go to Bor you ask any of the the shovels that are floating around in in the source of I give stalker in your name is you should give a message to my parents to come to this I didn't know that I didn't know that that's what it's written yeah I've seen people here invitations on uh okay okay I hear I don't know I'd be very interested to see if there's such a m in the zor itself it's not written but maybe some of the taught me through got it so he said he talking about putting invitation right that's to and name of to to bring that information to okay I hear usually they do this type of invitation they do at the they say you know I want to my ABA and Ima and this they bring some type of uh invitation in general get have to get them there in the first place yeah they have to get dressed and everything they have to get ready right it's not simp I hear I'm not coming Incredible One Last is he brings a Chua from Rashi and the Chua Rashi we have the by the way that he says within the first 12 months theas come to the at night time they come to the at night time CU they find a certain relaxation there to be there in the and that's the reason why as we know it's one of the reasons why he doesn't explain but I think I understand why that's why we say we know after we say the extra that we say similar to the we say now the reason it's brought for for that is because the because of the Extended Stay people somebody would D in a long right and their shoes were in the fields so he would be left alone and it was dangerous for him to walk back so they D in an extra we du in an extra thing after on arv in order that everybody can leave together that they won't ditch them that they'll stay in order to do that so it could be it's a similar idea because there's many R in the on Friday night because they come to sh on Friday night in order in order to get a certain and maybe it's not to stay there by yourself you're staying learning don't don't don't be for this but there's an idea that trying to um stay extra there's idea that the r come on on Shabbat on that note I do want to say one last cont it's a little bit contradiction 100% we said that you go to the Kev of your of your parents or the etc etc fores I do want to mention that in and it's also about the styple brings this it does bring one quick thing that they say there's no reason to go to a on Shabbat and B on Y and C ones he's not there even the goes the ne I said 24 hour 7 I said there was one exception it's really 24 6 he doesn't he's not there on shabat he doesn't work on Shabbat so he goes up to Shay it sounds like and the his is over there he's not M anything and therefore it's not there's no reason to go like if people live inat the Bas part is right there it's a great place go visit their and this and this but on Shabbat according to this idea it's not so simple that there's any purpose of doing that you go six days a week but not that the best times to go they say is Ares that's before they leave I guess there's an extra oppos Fe and the 15th of the month the 15th of the month which uh is the most powerful the Moon is its fullest as apparently the most powerful time that he's around so therefore that's now not everybody agrees to this you should know they say disagreed he said also onat there's still a hav there's still a certain type of rimo there there's still a leftover it's a disagreement and for you'll find people that still go on Shabbat I'm just mentioning it to you but there is this question if there's a purpose of going in the thing moral of today's story was basically the idea that don't think that when a person's n it's all over he's still around of course the in the and the ne is by the Goof still kind of hovering around with periodic vacations okay but is there and as a result of that we find a tremendous amount of which like we said the think it's a bunch of baloney well go to the Kev go to this what they don't do all this stuff they go to the cev you know throw them in the river spread them out in Seven Seas and that's it what do you have to do burn the body because there's nothing there but that's why we're so mid about the next subject which is and this because we knowe that there is a tremendous amount of kadha to the Goof and then which is still connected to it so with that we're going to speak about next time we'll speak about which is the bouncing of the K and also we'll speak about a little bit scary the worms that come into the body which are also connected to what we're speaking about today how it's painful for the Goof okay than