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The Luz Bone, For Resurrection of the Dead
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In this class about Halacha, Jewish law, the Rabbi shares the fascinating power of the 4th meal, which is eat after Shabbat on Saturday night. Also known as Melaveh Malka Meal.
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a person should prepare his table
on in order to escort Shabbat
out even if you plan on eating a little
bit that is sufficient we quoted the gar
already that's how we ended the last
year that brings out the
M um the M with r I think it was I'm
pretty sure it was with ra that he ended
up preparing every Shabbat he would
check the full animal just to eat the
kidneys he would just have a little bit
of the meat but he would check the full
animal heeld was a special cover to do
it his son when he grew up said ABA
aren't you overdoing it just make it a
before Shabbat and whatever leftovers
you have from Shabbat you'll use it from
he did it and says he did it to be his
child that's what he says he did just
for the sake of being M's child to teach
him he prepared it and the lion ate the
whole entire animal he ended up losing
the whole entire piece of meat the whole
entire thing in order to show that yes
from here we see a very important thing
this is what we're going to speak about
today a few important aspects first of
all we see from here that there's an
inion to
make make something from don't make it
as a minimal a minimal you're supposed
to make it nice he would check the whole
animal for the sake second of all even
you should make a special preparation
for malava you shouldn't just be eating
leftovers officially according to this
thing it should try to make something
for um from that okay and sometimes even
more than and the third thing is that
you should try to have meat that's what
it sounds like from there ideally
speaking one should try to have meat
okay that's what we came out now what's
with the inion of malav let's get into
the importance of it
basically again I quoted a couple quick
mamers in the end of the last year so
let's just put it in a nutshell together
okay the Von is quoted in my also theot
is is is the he he's an ancestor to the
V he has a head like you know you could
tell from the smarts also to the Von he
quotes them very often he says it was
known that Von was very very very M
excited about malava Mala he used to be
very mockit to take some delicacy from
him delicacy to be able to do it what's
a delicacy for the seven layer cake some
ent's donuts what what do you think he
used to have he used to have a a turnip
wow gaka he used to have a nice gisha
turnip in order to be able to enjoy his
malava that's what he used to eat to be
able to to have fun but besides that he
was very mid to always have it even if
he was sick and one time he was throwing
up and he still forced himself to do it
to bring a m there
even that one time came to him and he
wasn't feeling so well and the and the r
asked him the V asked him did you have
your malav today and he said I'll tell
you the
truth I
appreciate I I did have but I'm really
not feeling well so I had some honey
cake you see back then even the was
willing to have honey cake now V would e
honey cake I said the delicacy of the V
was a
turnup that was his treat right he said
I had some honey cake and they say over
there there's a l in the the V laughed
at him you can't do that what do you
crazy he mly sat him down and he made
him wash and he said you're eating bread
he made him eat bread now we'll speak
about eating bread in a minute I just
wanted to bring out that the villain go
was
very that everyone should have at the
said
if you don't have a k Bread on you're
going to have this this only 80 years
ago 60 years ago 7 years ago he said
that you should have um such a such a
thing and we see from here the
incredible importance of malav Maka now
I have to put things in perspective
malava Mala is not as crazy important as
the three meals that's what the gra says
the Bal it's not on the same
ramification as the three meals of shus
and therefore Naina if a person only has
some meat so he should save it for the
three meals of Shabbat instead of
dishing it out to malava Mala but you
should know that still malava is of
essence and therefore if you have extra
you definitely should be using it for
meat like the gar which I quoted to you
before okay if you only have enough for
one or the other that's one uh that's
one you should do or if you're not able
to do both so yes the meals of Shabbat
take precedence as we know and therefore
because that is a smack from the P
goinging the Taz three meals are even on
Shabbat and this is there is an
importance to know the importance of
this Mitzvah to be able to have
something good something that you can do
it's a very and it's to be you can't
just go ahead and have just any little
anything you're supposed to go ahead and
take advantage of it and do something
good with it okay that's the uh that's
the idea okay now over here we have a
very important nuda which I want to
mention
okay and that is we all should know I'm
going to show you a lot of things that
connect to this that Mala Mal we feed a
very special bone we feed a special bone
that's known as the lose bone everybody
knows it a lose bone it's funny because
in the it has a lot of names you should
know it's also known as
the that's what's known in
the
meaning like that it's untouched it was
unfiltered it was that hit by by by by
sin it's pure that's a another word for
it is is the same gatria as Kum is
getting up because it brings you
to that's brought in the it's also
brought in
the it's called the we spoke about this
in the life after death sh has a few
names the L bone of course we know
there's the city of L which also is a
place of invinci people did not die when
they were in L so the idea of the lose
is something of of
invincibility what's the secret of this
loose bone what's the secret now first
of all it's located all the way on the
top it says even so I don't know that
works the top of your spine is the top
bone which is in the back of your neck
over here but it's parallel almost to
the place of the Tain it goes up to
around here so it's almost place to the
to the K the M of the of the till the
highest the highest bone in your neck I
think is where's an and the pure I think
if I'm not mistaken any doctors in the
house okay but anyway it goes up very
high to the back of your orph and it's
almost con parallel of the m and that's
why it has so much capabilities now why
is this bone so special because what's
special about this bone and this is very
interesting it's also mentioned over
here in the sh in
sh z z is because it is only it's only
able to eat foods that are eaten on
shabas anything it eats during the week
it is not sustained meaning the only
time you actually feed this bone and
keep it alive
sustain it is Shabbat so that's why it's
not to miss a Shabbat Shabbat that's the
place where it last that's the place
where it's able to
live and there one second and therefore
it's very important to feed it every mon
Shabbat so it
doesn't and because of that we want to
have it alive and kicking in order that
it will bring us back
in So if we so good I didn't finish but
say you want to wait till I finish okay
so this is the bone that will keep usive
and gets fed on in order to be come back
in and that's why this is a scho now why
is it that this brings us back in so
listen to this very important is since
it only eats
on what does that mean Onish when did he
eat from that from that when did he eat
from it was on Friday Friday on I would
put it call Y call Friday it's okay
right but but he at on y on the sixth
day of cre
since he AE from the sixth day of
creation we all know I feel bad to break
the news but on the sixth day of
creation that it that it that you fed
that bone on the sixth day of creation
that fed the bone that's when we all had
a death sentence upon all of us nobody
in this is going to come we have to die
which is also if we're going to die and
come back but anyways during that idea
because of that everybody has a death
sentence on top of them because of that
faithful day that adish ate from that
but that was
on so everybody ate from that tree all
parts of his body ate from that tree and
therefore ad maian is going to die in
all his descendants except for one part
the one part that didn't eat from the
tree the loose bone the loose bone never
ate from that why didn't he eat because
he only eat some say so he didn't get
any sustenance from the tree on Friday
on y so since he didn't get on the other
day so he lives on forever what
a now if someone didn't go he was the
one who's around so therefore the loose
bone lasts forever because he never in
effect really ate that fig tree or or
the other two okay he never ate from
from the geffin or the Fig or the r he
never ate from it because he doesn't get
sustained on that day so here we have
this fantastic vehicle within us why
waste it make sure you feed it on and it
will keep you intact for the fact that
you can come back on beautiful that is
the of the Lor and that's the Mal that's
why Mal is more important than any other
meal
any other I shouldn't say that it's
that's why it's a very important meal
and that's why there a lot of on this
meal because it's the one that keeps you
on forever it's one that keeps you keeps
you alive and going for a long time good
beautiful that's what happens say again
why you mean because it doesn't die
anyway as you're saying has to come back
with with the rest of the Goof so it has
to come back but
yeah said brings down when he talks
about it he actually says that no matter
what you do to it nothing affects it
it's invincible you could burn it with
fire you could do everything it lasts no
matter where you know no matter what
happened what happened in the Holocaust
the loose bonees stuck around and that's
where your body is going to get built
from that bone so the stronger it is the
better it is for you that's what you're
trying to uh that's what you're trying
to do okay that's an important to what
it is and from here we can understand a
lot of based on that idea of a lot of
skot you'll hear a lot of when we talk
about eating malava Mala and they're all
connected in my opinion to the same that
it is based on it's the it's the meal
that gives us invincibility it's the
meal of or more or less it's the meal
that is above the it's the meal above so
here we have it listen to a few of them
first of
all says that if a person
eats you don't get the slamming of the
Cave the the grave what is that there we
had two or three sh in the life after
death sh about what is but basically
it's during immediately after a person
gets buried it's not comfortable how
about we'll just say that it's not
comfortable inside the grave now how
does a person get saved by eating from
it saves you from eating from there so
that's also connected because the whole
idea of being in the grave and pain in
the grave all comes from the sin ofish
Mal can actually save you from there
it's interesting where
St has a cha in where he has a different
CH it's actually connected to our NV
this it overlaps what we're speaking
about Navi and also here but he
basically says that he gives a different
chot which we're speaking in Nish here
about um time zones in international
daylight right now b c and uh the idea
is that we know that even though we're
in Israel right now and it could be
Shabbat today it's not because I have a
camera on but if it would be Shabbat we
all know that it's still uh even Shabbat
in Isel but it's still in America it's
still it's still a Shabbat or if if
you're on Friday an Arab Shabbat in in
in in AR Israel in Australia it's
already Shabbat so he says a big K the
opes of we we're the center of the world
in AR Isel however the opes of Shabbat
influence us even from Israel and
therefore even if it's Shabbat but since
there's still Shabbat in the air there's
still Shabbat on the planet still
Shabbat exists in the world so therefore
this meal connects to shabbat and
therefore it's as if I'm eating still on
Shabbat and it saves you from that's
what he wants to say I'll tell you why
he's referring to because he's referring
to there's a there's a DIN and it's
important to know this that on Arab
Shabbat if a person gets buried on Arab
Shabbat some people say only is you get
saved
from person doesn't get so you know it's
K when when you pass away try to do it
on Friday try to make sure it works out
on Friday do your best that you can try
to work it out I don't recommend doing
it but if you do ready to work on Friday
work that me sh also with the uh early
on Friday ear no after you mean because
it'll be too late then you missing it
right so try to we have watches these
days you can figure it out not a big
deal you can do it the truth is you
should know in the in the the har
Massacre they all got buried after
besides the fact that they died on Kem
they all got buried
M Shabbat and they all were Mish
definitely were safe from i m tell you
100% they were safe from kib cuz what
they what they went through obviously
but what they big sikim I knew a few and
besides that they were whatam call it
they were buried at at the right time
also so they were saved but that's
that's that a person is safe from so he
saysat he says the reason why is because
on a Shabbat it's still Shabbat in other
places so it's ke you're getting buried
on Shabbat also so since you're also
getting bu on Shabbat he says you get
saved
from that's what he says I just want to
point out that you see that this meal is
the one that saves you from the grave a
it gives you B it gives
you a protection from as we just said
from
the also we find that um the says
in it's a person it's if a person eats
it's it heals a person it makes him feel
good brings us
in and he writes that
it's he says it's it's it's it helps you
listen to what he adds based on the by
the way says and even if you're
fool you're not interested in eating now
I'm not talking about okay but still
you're not interested in
eating you should still push yourself to
eat
something if you don't want to take
medicines and be stuck on pills all your
life and to have problems of being sick
you should eat we know the was a very
healthy man he was a man that didn't go
to a doctor until because it was very on
how he ate and how how he did in general
okay but that is the also that is
brought here that even if you push
yourself based on the it's a healing
mechanism okay it's a healing mechanism
next another thing that it does it also
helps for Z to have children and a woman
to have a when a woman is pregnant if
she wants to have AA everybody likes to
open the par everybody likes to open the
uh the uh English the curtain of the of
the SE everybody jumps at it and fights
about it and they forget the easiest
thing this is directly to the woman
that's just you doing it for her let's
do it easier right it depends what
she'll on then she'll do it but s
usually we try not I wasn't sure what
they did once but but the easiest thing
is that she
should is a great thing for a it helps
her to have a that things will not be
will not be hard it's also in here he
brings
that people don't know about it he says
we're gonna get to soon about what you
should be eating but he's being lenient
he's saying a I would have said bread
personally but he says as he being make
he's letting you get away with cake but
we're going to speak about what that a a
d is supposed to be but at least you see
that he knows that women are not always
going to want to eat and this he knows
always the diet and you know so they
don't want to but at least they said eat
something for this L and I think this is
my own s s i just connected I think it's
very connected to what we spoke about
before because what do we say before the
whole idea Mal that's the that's the
suda against marish that's the scho the
sud that's above we all know what was
her punishment what was the the woman's
punishment that she's going to have and
also to
have
it's going to come with a very big
difficulty so
therefore meaning theed the that she did
this is the anti-ed to be able to save
her from the it all falls into the same
category the same idea of
sickness I know you want let me just
finish one more and one last one also
it's brought also in the it's also in
the in a different in bet that it's also
for uh par now we're talking one second
Rabbi expand here a little bit let's he
if you eat over here you're going to
have good parnesa it helps for the it
helps other things that's what the
brings also from the he brings us to
scho from he says why what's the reason
why because uh this sud is the connector
from Shabbat to the whole entire week
you want the Z of Shabbat to last the
whole entire week so therefore it works
to be able to give you a certain type of
influence during the week and he says a
very important important you he says
this listen closely that there is two
aspects to um to the connection between
Shabbat in the whole week There's the
external and the internal the and the P
we try that's it's like that in all of
cabalistic writings we have a connection
to the rest of the week in a Piney Way
in a more internal way and also external
way he says the external way of
connecting Shabbat to the all week is
with our meals so we have a sud and
externally that connects us to the rest
of the Shabbat to the rest of the week
and that helps us on oura and there's
also a connection that's with our with
our daving that's why we
say after our in order to make that that
connection between the Shabbat and the
whole entire and the whole entire week
so we have a connection externally and
internally with with the boat and writes
that you should actually have when you
do it to be he
says he says that and you to
between the two
things you know he says that's a you
should have an order you're trying to
make a connection with the meal and with
the ding of you know between Shabbat and
to spill over to the rest of the week
and that's aula for parasa why parasa so
I go back to what I said before and I
think it's conncted we said the sin of
the woman of course we know the
punishment that she
was and therefore shall have an easy lat
of course we know what did the man get
smacked
with he's going to get it's all parasa
all our parnasa issues is because of
that fateful day you know okay so we
can't live for 120 years but why parasa
why parnasa that's the hard one and you
have to go ahead and deal with all your
parnasa which you know it takes up much
more time than anything else in in your
life it's crazy if you think how much
time you put into your pessa the amount
of years you learned in school to be
able to finally get whatever degree or
whatever you to get to be able to get
there and then the amount of hours you
put in Daily and the amount of time in
work space and and mind space you put
into it it's a crazy thing you you would
just say you wish adisha never ate from
the tree saying it's it's an annoying
thing since that was again so can I get
that punishment so here we have it can I
get all three punishments one parasa B
can I get the woman and C the idea of
death all all theas all the scholas all
the all with Mal what's wrong with you
why should we should be having the
dur this is incredible it's incredible
how much of a power this of this has yes
Mr ask me
forgot earlier he said
that
sorry yeah there is a this is brought in
also that of opening the when when one's
wife is pregnant is a for it
helps in the last month especially in
the last month yeah and especially in
the last month and you'll see many
people fighting over it because of that
idea is very against he never lets
people do
it he doesn't like this
school he brings from the he says he
brings and it's also in the I'm not
mistaken
yeah I don't think
it's anyways that's uh that's that okay
now that's uh that's that with the SAS
that was the fun
part we know always like suas but
there's a lot more the r first of all we
have a whole separate Simmon
inin this is the last Simon that is
discussing this topic but we have all
SEP that discuss the
idea and that's the ra also brings that
this suda is brought together with the
rest of the sud chabat he brings it to
show a s how important this is and
whoever and that's why it's so important
the
brings in the it says more or less that
these are words of the quing
from you didn't either and therefore he
says it's very important that's based on
the now what's the reason for this so I
want time I think the the meaning behind
it is because everybody eats at night
time we all have dinner we all have
supper Everybody Eats every night so
here you have it you had a meal on sud
sheet which went is spilled over into n
and therefore if you only ate it doesn't
show that you ate because you're
interested but if you go afterwards and
eat malava so then you're proving that
each meal was for the sake of doing it
for for the sake of Shabbat for the sake
of Shabbat not because I was St hungry
or because that's the appropriate day to
eat I one time said this for the same
that's why sh is called right we know
it's called but another expression the
should call it is why is it called so he
say the reason is at night time I'm
hungry I eat daytime you're hungry you
eat shalas you're not so hungry so
therefore if you eat shalas that proves
on the first two meals that you ate
Shabbat but those people and it's really
true people are not you know people are
like the modern the modern type of
things they don't eat chalas they eat
the night meal and they eat the Day meal
why don't they e chalas the answer is
they only ate those meals because P it
that's just you know that's when we eat
meal we're hungry we want to eat so okay
so we'll say Kish beforeand to just to
make it a little bit more festive it's
fine but it shows it wasn't necessar
when you eat sh it's not only on that
meal but on all three meals and that's
why sh is called sh it has the
tangibility of three meals that gives
you the of three meals so says the same
thing with Mal when you you're showing
that you're not only eating for dinner
purposes you're eating because you mean
it and therefore he brings also in the
says as a long CH in that someone said
that he's doing
P the 84 84 fests and part of doing it
overlaps with the eating and he asked if
it's okay and said you don't sacrifice
your don't you dare
sacrifice
and not allowed to go ahead and and do
it as a lot of in the cabalistic worlds
and therefore we have to be very moid
not to switch I already quoted from the
Von that his wife was doing the big fast
she was fasting a lot of fast the wife
of the Von I guess to be the wife of the
Von that's brought in the myav that she
was doing it and he found out someone
sent a message to him it was his wife
but someone to sent a message that his
wife is going to sleep on without
eating because she went and she started
the fast right after say right after
Shabbat she started her next fast
because she's doing a certain amount of
fast and he sent a message to his wife
you know they were very close but you
know he saw her once every once a week
basically Friday night was the one time
he saw her
basically and he sent a message to his
wife shabat tell you tell my wife that
she has to eat tell her to get out of
bed she was ready in bed you told her
get out of bed wake her up and go ahead
and eat something don't try this at home
the about to do this don't don't try
it's too dangerous say but at least was
allowed to do that and he made to do
that so you see from here the importance
of um of doing that s that's that's that
now also in addition to everything we
said the brings and we know that this is
an
important uh
concept that we all know this is called
the
of this is called the sud it's know the
sud there's two things that's called the
sud of and it's not a contradiction
because it's a sud mashia we know that
mhia doesn't come on Friday night Friday
because you just pushed doesn't want to
bother us your wife's busy cooking he
going to come not nice you know he's
going to come and tell
M my soup and's Ben it's frustrating so
he's not going to come on Friday Shabbat
he's not allowed to come so he's going
to come on Shabbat he's going to come
that he's
coming and that is D the King of Kings
the king of Messiah he's going to come
and explain to us and that's why that's
that's a that's one of the reasons by
the way another reason also brought why
it's called the sud of besides the ing
of msia is because um why because D was
meant to um was meant to pass away on
Shabbat as we all know that's why we
say and both knew that they were going
to pass away on shabat and since they
were meant to pass away on Shabbat they
were very every time when say Shabbat
happened he made a festivity he made a
big party D was very excited every Mala
was a big party for him he just got
saved from M he knew he had one more
week of life he didn't know when that
Shabbat was going to be and he always
was very happy when he was n from from
from that thing and therefore he
says to say that I'm coming to be this
and therefore you have in mind that it's
a sud of as he points out here that's
the idea that the tells us so that's
important to
know that that's why we
say and you say for that reason and
that's what you're trying to do besides
the the which is also brings down you
say because of this reason also you're
supposed to you're supposed to do it
okay that's that's
that you say 130 times that's the Ben
the Ben says to do 130 times
with all say why 130 times the gatria of
Eli with the k for those who are
actually doing the math is 130 okay with
the means you count the letters also it
comes out to 130 also the Gant of el is
the Gant of Ben which is 52 Ben is one
of the names of aesu it's one of the
higher one of the high names of aesu how
you have it and therefore he says that
we tried to say Eli during this um
during this time period that's uh that's
that okay that's that's that by the way
the Mishu and
over there he brings back coming
onab because of because of this reason
one more thing I want to mention also
when you're doing
this there's an inion of lighting
candles to make it to make it
festive immediately after also we try to
delay Shabbat so therefore we sing We
Sing
like I said it's also a festive meal so
therefore even before abdah after abdah
we go ahead and we try to make it as
festive as possible and we do that by
singing and having candles and trying to
make it and people do that you see many
places when they make a a laa Maka
they'll have it a candle at dinner
they'll make it very very nice in order
to be able to uh to make it as nice as
possible okay that's the CL more or less
of the malav Mala of how it's supposed
to look and what you're trying to uh do
it now we want to get into what you're
supposed to eat what are you supposed to
eat at the time of Mal my goal was to
finishin today okay so let's try our
best here we go what are you supposed to
eat at the time of classically speaking
I think we all know that you're
basically supposed to eat
bread okay you're supposed to do
every we know that is with it's supposed
to be with a also the sh in bet if you
look in in bet in the Mish when the
mishab writes it's in the G that you
should make a on the pot you should make
it on bread he brings
because says usually when you make a
table you make it with bread and also it
says that he would be Shabbat so just
like an a Shabbat just like when you go
into Shabbat you have it on bread so too
when you exit Shabbat it should also be
on bread based on that also we find that
the Ben and the and the say to try to
have even believe it or not you should
try to have two breads if you're
entering Shabbat and exiting Shabbat
with the same opes so maybe in both of
them you should really have a a double
in order to be able to uh to be able to
take care of it very interesting uh idea
to be able to try to try to be M he also
mentions it's good to have hot Bread on
Shabbat because that isma that's a way
of doing ref so meaning you should have
fresh bread don't take some old stale
piece of bread that's left over in the
corner right or something have something
try to have something nice it's very
ideal ideally speaking again I'll say
I'm talking the ideal but really person
is supposed to try to make a special
kala just from make a special kala for
each meal you should really try to be
eating uh the best that you can a hot
hot thing and that's what he brings over
here in the also the idea for to
have and he says over
here don't have very hot you should know
having very hot bread is bad for you
it's brought down in the gar that that's
considered one of the Sak to have very
hot bread he just says it should be
taken out of the oven cool down it's
still a little bit warm probably what
you're used to with your kalas hopefully
when your wife if your wife makes kalas
and therefore you warm it up and try to
do it and therefore that's how you can
enjoy your your hot the K of hot bread
without it being a Sak okay he says
that's
called it's only if it comes out boiling
out that you shouldn't eat but if it's
car a little bit it cools down so then
you're good to go that's the words of
the who says that is sufficient sounds
like if if you were to take bread later
and warm it up that has no problem right
correct that's fine that's also fine
yeah you take but just don't make it hot
bread you tell about straight fresh it
could be it could be I know what you're
saying no because I mean we make pizza
we he says yeah he does say that he says
when you do that so yeah it's if it's in
a way that's good that's not so bad
you're right you're right he says he
says when
you're dumy then it's okay he says if
you're just coming to reheat something
so then it's okay until it comes fresh
out of the oven boiling out and this
then you should be waiting till it cools
down like you said I I I would say you
know just all people shot because then
the dough still hasn't uh congealed
hasn't gotten hot so maybe that's bad
for you it's very bad for your stomach
gives you stomach aches okay anyway
that's that's that that's a ideally
speaking we have bread many times it's
very hard for us to have bread we can't
have bread we don't have bread it's not
around in
Ora Etc things are a little bit of
problem so says m in coton Al um it's
good to have
bread you should definitely
have if you're worried about you just
can't have bread just not going to
go where it's very you know it's very
L you should at least have classically
just like we have
by that if you're not going to have it
on bread then we know you're allowed to
do cake specifically not not noodles and
I'm talking about ble you try to do with
P which is bread and or any of these
types of things I said bread any type of
cakes and all these types of things
which are okay that's the way to be able
to take care of it if that's not
sufficient so then you can go ahead and
says the you can have some type of
fruits says if you can't says if you
don't have that in the IIT so you can
have a nice hot drink a cup of coffee
have some hot chocolate with cookies
Once Upon time we do that right the hot
chocolate with cookies that's also a
good thing you have cookies you have hot
food at least something should be done
you asking that's what you're asking
what what are women obligated to have
that's these minimum is what they should
have they should actually have something
that they're able to to do to be able to
keep
to
say yeah he
says that's really really should be
having okay so leftover Chillin what's
wrong with the leftover Chillin for
Sunday or for for sun that's for Sunday
right they'll say they say B have Chill
on Friday on Thursday night and have it
on Sunday night right the children
Sunday
night he said to have B yeah he
definitely says you should you should
definitely the gar the gar says he would
prepare that that
steak says that you would an animal in
order to have so the and the brings it
but others say that you should have meat
they help with the
lose the better the more you do the more
it helps with the lose B the more
festive you make the meal they say like
this listen to this even if you don't do
that you look in what does
say says even if you're not going to eat
a teeny bit forget it you're not going
to eat at least prepare the table if you
can't even eat at least make the table
festive make it look good try to get it
it says over there by rimi the person I
spoke to you about that he would prepare
a lot he would prepare meat and do
everything but even if he didn't that at
least it would be he would try to do
something like the says in the beginning
of make it a little
bit to make it a little bit a littleit
estive to make it look good and lastly
that the you know that would bring out
is actually making food for other
people's you mean if you don't even if
you prepare the food just for your wife
or for your kids or something to make
something to make it a little bit there
that's what you should do the tasses at
the shabas at least you should try to
make it so that something else is uh is
there okay so therefore or you could
leave the the the from Shabbat or or and
you also should be dressed for malab
they sayki I know someone who was there
he said he would immediately eat Mal
because he he was mid to have shabas
clothes on until the Mal so in order to
avoid wearing shabas clothes too long
onab you would immediately right after
there wouldn't be a problem and I still
to this day I cannot figure out what's
called shabas clothes by doesn't wear
thae he wears the same what did he wear
much different maybe his jacket Pi of
his jacket I guess I'm not sure what it
was but he was very ferment anyway so
that's uh that's what it is that you
wear big day Shabbat and you're supposed
to do it with big day as it says also
brings over here andol this idea and I
brought to you already about the Nar and
doing everything you should make a z if
you're able to do
a and you know the the stip they even
bring down would take off the bring it
back the and
the all of them say that we say m
instead of to show that it's a it's a
special type of that we do because we
even are showing to the extent of the
greatness of um of of what it
is that's the things have a minute or
two or not just to finish up or not what
wait do I have another minute or two or
not should I stop should I stop
or two minutes one minute let me just
finish up here because I really want to
finish okay the says that like we said
you Roy the over here says just like we
spoke out already from the m and the
that you should make it festive with a
lot of good things and meat and all this
fancy stuff that's what you're supposed
to do not to eat to try to do it as best
as um
as you can the Ben brings and I told you
already from the Von to take some type
of delicacy something that you like
something special you like some type of
special cake you like some type of
special dessert some type of I don't
know what some type of special food you
should save it especially just from they
say da something you did not eat on
Shabbat something special that's and is
a beautiful in his he says the reason
why is you're supposed to cook on
Shabbat something special why like R did
instead of just having leftovers for
Shabbat because you're trying to connect
this meal to the rest of the to the rest
of the week so the way to make the
connection is by cooking on now on
Shabbat and that cooking connects this
meal to the rest of the week it complet
keep it keeps it completely um uh
connected okay and that's why um that's
why you shouldn't just take over only
leftovers you should have something
special however there are those that say
you should also have leftovers because
there is something special about Shabbat
food we know that even during the nine
days when you can't eat meat during the
N9 days the says from you're allowed to
have leftovers from Shabbat if you have
a chicken soup allow to eat it on
believe it or not because it's leftovers
from Shabbat the K Shabbat the of
Shabbat inside of it so you can have
leftover so therefore we have two things
on one couch is supposed to have
leftovers on the other count you're most
supposed to special meal so they
actually say to do both the says he says
take something left over and reheat it
on Shabbat which is what we do you know
we reheat them the CH sometimes to be
able to do that so you should have the
best of both worlds but to try to have
something that actually spills over into
uh into Shabbat also women are are are
meant to eat this meal like I told you
already before there's no reason want to
even it's not considered and it helps
with the like I've already told you that
you're supposed to um you're supposed to
do it many times people have difficulty
doing it what they rely on says the says
some of the the the says that which you
ate into shabat maybe that can count as
Mal extremely B we don't hold that way
obviously but that's a little bit of a
or another thing that they do is to
drink something have a little bit of
something to eat you should always have
the minimum of the or set your table
like I said to you before that's the
best way to be able to do it the latest
and with this I finish the latest time
to eat is a it seems to be in the you
have four four hours into the Nightfall
which comes out let's say 10 o00 or
something like
that brings
also ques it
in if you look in the and the and
everything the of is until most of the
the place can go with this that
therefore
the they said don't
do until after you can go ahead and do
because it's still a little bit of
Shabbat so we see that the lasts until
Shabbat and therefore most of
the the
stier say you have
until to eat it you should try as soon
as possible to eat it because they all
ask what's the connection between this
meal and Shabbat it must be that you try
to do it as soon as possible that there
are some people who have the opinion
disagrees that you should not do any no
until you actually eat believe it or not
that's already hard to do they say it's
hard to do so they say have a cup of
coffee say or do something but you
should know that there is such a thing
that and sud shabat should always be as
interned possible that in a sum up is
love say we finish next week is a
special for