Pesach Halacha, Hashkafa, COVID-19 & Relationships With Current Events | Shabbat HaGadol Drasha 5780

Humabon welcome for the Shabbat a adult dresser unfortunately we have to be doing this from our house we can't be doing it somewhere else this is the Knesset because pork will put on top of us and we want to speak about a couple in your NEMA connect it to pass out and of course the first 20 minutes will speak a little bit in Halawa but after that we want to speak what we can learn of this connection between Pesa and of course the situation that we're going through I know there's been many videos that are going around about the ideas that were - Emma's trying to send us but I think I want to speak to the where we say that sums after the thing itself to be able to understand why a sham is doing this to us and see how it so intricately connected to - peso - mo well start with an idea with an important idea with a little bit of a tour of ill-fate peso meaning we're gonna focus on all the nuts specifically the stringent ease that one doesn't pass alcohol the Homer that a person doesn't pass up that we go through and then this interesting holiday it's called Svante route a no but more properly probably should be called van home Latinos is mine with a lot a lot of home run obviously and we know that it's something that we've been incredibly careful to keep - out kitty cats the rush brings down and the Shogun art actually brings it in Simon tougher and bets evolve the fact that the minute was to be McGarrity ought to go ahead and scrape the walls that kitty cat they would scrape the walls me homered the path up because there's an idea called Homer the pestle that's what they would do in order to make sure that it would stay that things would stay clean she is immense she has comments but jaurim that mr. burr brings down you know feathers a Mac or for you shall me meaning it's not only 800 years ago it's 2000 years ago from the time you tell me that they would do this extra thing of what we do painting the walls there we are painting houses in this and it even comes from the Russia comes from the you show me there seems to be some type of McCoy some type of ssin mcore for such a thing in inna llaha okay my name is Relkin even know goo boy is sir because vanadium that's why they go ahead and they do sometimes an extra homer they do an extra addition things they're not necessarily army card in and from here we want to bring out like I said a number of bullet points a few a little bit of a trip to hell to pass up to be able to see a number of places where we find this idea of homer de Pesa we could just start from comets itself comets as the Hall is something that's motor all year round the only thing that we find the whole entire guitar is butcher all the time and suddenly becomes effective is sir suddenly it's not permitted suddenly it's not permitted to eat anymore you're not permitted to eat from it why not because who said that sometimes I want things to be a little bit different I'll fess up we do things different sometimes things which would normally be okay on these days we try to take a little bit of an extra step ball gyro ball you mutts are something only found on Pesa the idea of not only in this or eating or having enjoyment but also not actually seeing not actually seeing we're having it in your house that could a cog that we all know broke a Shem we're so much beat to make sure that we do a full cleaning in the house any guy in my freak to make it entirely entirely clean something that we don't do the whole entire year brush em but we go ahead and we do it in order to make sure that it stays as clean as possible because of this reason of bought your up all your mud today to feel a bit macho even a little bit we try not to make sure now I mean car I didn't only a cos I disaster but even at that we're worried that even if you have less than a cos I'd even if you have a little bit appeal of Omashu scheme' you'll find something you might find something nice and you might come to eat it so that's why people are meticulous to clean everything doesn't mean you have to throw the Lego on the washing machine out kitty cat you can go ahead and just check it over and do a 1/2 to make sure that it's okay but we see this idea of trying to be my Peter cousin each was mark bit about cleanings farm mini gisbert especially by police for add but also by Moses Casimir Schulman Salman in addition to Roger about Michelle they say that you do not require to check our arms in individual it just knows that come to the table it's good it's good to be meticulous to be able to try to try to check well know that even so even though that we capture all our vessels we go ahead and we capture everything we still cover it all up i one time saw a picture of someone's car completely covered with silver foil all over it and easy oh the car is ready for pace up cars ready for Pesach the idea of doing a little bit of extra even after we go ahead and cash for it even though we casual we go ahead and do a double cover to make sure that nothing gets through is because of Homer the peasant we try to be extra meticulous extra careful to make sure that everything stays Mavericks to stay is clean to stay as clean as possible another couple ideas we find the whole entire Targa all the time when it comes to mixtures we say in at our bit of a mixture that its bottle machine when you have sixty times it becomes a bottle it becomes but though that's required sixty when you're dealing with a mixture of milk falling into meat once you have 60 is honors that much or even if a little bit of milk falls into your cholent you can go ahead and enjoy on Shabbat to eat it why because it's about the mushy shame as opposed to one Pesa we say Avenue B modulo a bottle if it something falls in even a teeny bit of comets it falls in on pass up we say that it's uh sir that's why you'll find that some people are mastering when I was about four I remember going to someone's house and he had the big garbage can on top of his table in the middle of the kitchen no idea what was going on and I saw inside if it was full of water and the reason why is because they were being my come here to prepare all the water that they plan on using in the kitchen or drinking water before pass up because in the key narrator remember the Kinneret shem it's full on it's due to the table it's over it's overflowing but even so there's still comics inside of it there's bread all over the place inside of there so comments I feel to be miserly about those I'd get it kindly there's one thing to say that maybe the Kinneret is also not but on the water that you're getting is from a mixture of water with bread and that's why some people prepare the water beforehand in order that it'll be but all beforehand LEM I said it's a home run the car didn't want is now Clive especially this party for schemer publish all of Abijah and others are makeover zalman also says before diets but tell so much it's definitely but tell most of the postgame are definitely lenient and therefore like I said this is another one of these corners that people are taking on and pass out because of what we call Homer defensive the extra curricular idea that we find on pets out of just trying to be a little bit more meticulously meticulous than we are the rest of the year in general we have a cloud called a noob in Yama something that's no 10 time we've gotten meaning it past 24 hours if I cook inside with such a pot the food does not become a source I cooked into me teapots something milik something milky and that does not become a sword the food does not become a sewer in as much as 24 hours have passed since 24 hours have passed it does not become a sword how can that be because we say that the what the absorptions don't taste good on that sock according to the rule ma or max mere in 70 mm sign the remote brings down and see if you even know he's in town with gamma or master meaning in Binet Ashkenazi but he's fried or Maiko like that Tamar Anna like dr. Johan a rule that says that we're making with night and time with gum but l'm I said here we have another place where we find this interesting idea of being more massively on pedestals more than the rest of the year even though usually we say stamp a lemon on your mom we usually say Ackley in general is a no be no more meaning it is not it's already past to 24 hours we assume it's it's already not in time we've come but on Pesa mr. Brewer brings in seven top ensign over there in Seacoast and Annette also this idea that were more McNamara that were more math we're okay another place where we find the Homer depressive let's just give a few more examples till we move on to the next section we know that the meaning is to be max we're not to sell comets Gummer we try in general or best not to sell proper comets because there's certain questions that go into the selling we spoke about in a fuchsia about the girls ago about a five years ago okapi name there's a number of questions that go into the material comments of how the key jnanam our maiden is it real etc we definitely hold it's true the Vilna Gaon and my surrounded by autumn and others are my come here to be max we are in the messier on the sail and therefore even though it is brought down and topham hatt the idea of my period comets still we try not to sell comets goggle so we try not to sell comets good or comments good more complete comments we try our best not to sell okay mom I said many people have asked this year can we keep our comments around so the answer is it depends or you're holding in other words if you're worried about with the situation that's gonna be afterwards that there's not gonna be comments around so go ahead and hold on to it you can sell it ba-lakay it's motor like I said it's a home run to sell your come not to sell your comments got more mecard in the pie scheme all say that we Baskin that it's permitted in the matira works a wheel that it's okay so therefore if a person wants to go ahead and sell the hum eights if he wants to hold on to his humming tune that sell it it's also it's permitted in this in this situation if a person wants to be much weird to take it on visit the Shem could as well who's gonna find us a Google and a fool of a car via main you'll be my main who I'm in okay there's an interesting homerun that people take on that's like it's a an old European old European old European home run we don't see it as much these days but it has McCory trishal Mo's Amin brings it to another other place you bring such a thing when something falls on the floor and had to go ahead and need it believe it or not there's such a former like that that sometimes when something falls on the floor some people are no I could not to eat it why because of special comments who kascid the floors even casual the floors did you so it could be there was comments on the floors now if it was cold of course we know me cárdenas mutter and we know that it's comes from a place at the home right it feels odd so there maybe there's room to say something hot filter before that was comments and even though past 24 hours we're ready mentioned that that's still a problem so that's why some people keep to this form you say oh another home run another home run but don't forget right now these days if something drops on the floor you can eat it are you gonna be worried about corona the chances of corona being it onto your food is probably much more far-fetched then kitchen full of comments that has things on the floor now again I'm not saying to keep this home you don't have to I'm just pointing out that we see another place that the idea of homered the Komets comes in two comes in two into place a couple other places where we find certain home run that we add on pacifism with eggs eggs if anybody has any in the house it seems to be that there's a big shortage and nobody seems to be having them at this stage so whatever you can get your hands on you might as well get advantage of but my sell em I said many people try to buy their eggs before Pesa maybe that's why those stores are empty and one of the reasons is because they say sometimes there's some type of chemical it or on top of it or more specifically the ink on the hotel meant on the Signet on top of the on a date on top of the eggs so over there there is a symmetry finch o'connor Toughman betsy feud where he brings the ink you're allowed to write with even though it has comets and he says we're now worried that maybe you're gonna put it to your mouth but we see that even though you put it to your mouth it might be a problem if you might put it on your mouth now it is not the time we've got it is something that is Pegula doesn't taste necessarily good and therefore mecard in it's really permitted it's really okay and of course we know that the chances of that ink getting into your food is close to nil but like we said me for my defense up some people try to be micro to get only ones or the proper extra ones without and the ones with that sharing don't have on them this signet they don't have it on top of it okay following what about milk mr. brewer brings in the end of seven tough milk it's also the idea of buying milk even before before peso idea why why because we know that sometimes they feed the cows heights and you're indirectly getting enough from the company to directly getting enough from car mates and therefore maybe it's a problem because you're drinking the milk that those are the cow ate in order in order to have and maybe that's called the problem reminds me of the kate of the story of a person who had a cow and was milking his cow all the time and he ended up fight and he and someone asked him how much he he says in 50 litres a day he's able to produce and what do you feed the cow he says I feed him 50 litres of milk ISA Soares so how do you make any money if you're feeding him 50 meters and you're only getting 50 litres and you're getting 50 litres so the answer no no you understand I feed the cow 50 litres of challah bottom and I milk it 50 litres of Kahlo's and he throw so it seems to be that there's some connection but doing what you eat it and want you milk it maybe there's no connection but upon him it's a homerun like everything else what about a fourth we know with meat maker then it doesn't require special extras because over pass off as long as it's kosher it's okay but you know the chickens there's a halo called the crop Pacific which is in its and it contains sometimes comets inside of there of all the comments that the chickens my needs so therefore in the good and I have shared they usually remove this part and don't sell it during the Pesach period in order to avoid this problem of any type of that is it pogrom all boys it pogrom it's definitely doesn't taste good but because of Homer de pez och we go ahead and we take on we take on this we take on this coma usually when you put two pots together it does not transfer Blio that's why your cuts to what your your stovetop the the the grates on top of the stovetop when you put a pot on top of it it's permitted to put you permitted to put a meaty pot on top of a mil tick one or the other way around we don't it's good to have one specified for milks and three for the meats it's a better thing to do but it's not me I give going to the letter though it's okay because it doesn't transfer taste from one to the other unless there's some some ratty boot in between them some type of wetness in between them on pet sock it's brought down already in the room on simon tough new now loves eve dolla the mr. brewer lament download over there speaks it out there one more box where we try to kasher our grates if you're not able to capture it these days especially people many people have asked that i can't cash the grates these days how am I gonna I came to lien on them there's no real place to leave one you can cover it up it's fine you could turn on the fires on the highest cash to them and then cover it up and that's fine but it's also means out homer de peso because we try to make sure that even am a shoe of comets is out of our house we want to make sure that nothing gets connected in any type of in any type of way a couple other examples and with that we'll we'll finish here dried fruits and tough Simon Zion the remembering is done down in secret also dried fruits sometimes in the process of drawing they might add some type of chemical so people should be careful to get ones with a good natural purpose of all the nuts and these things especially ones with a hard shell you don't have to you have a proper special face off sure because those are fine they usually clean besides the fact you're not eating the shell on top of it but with the dried fruits it's good to be magical shotgun over there and see if Tessa he brings down such an idea very usual known homer that we take on in pairs all these lists and lists and lists different shampoo and soaps cosmetics referred to different types of medicines etc me car then we all know that something that is not right like he let scallop during the whole year something is not Rory for a person to eat so then it is not considered a sewer that's why some people would say gelatin is permitted because it's not right for a person to eat there's reasons why we're mad mayor because it's sweetened up but I'm pest if there's an extra Homer that's something that's not just that it's not enough that it's not Roy it's not befitting for a person to eat has to be that even a killer will not eat it and then it's permitted on pacer if the Hammad's becomes not befitting for even an animal to eat so then it's not a sword so based on that meat card in as many the poi scheme right soaps and shampoos are really ok ok different types of cosmetics are really ok all these things are basically ok why are the list below Merida pesto we try to make sure not to have any type of comets especial any ones we're gonna use you don't really have to sell all your soaps and shampoos there ok but if you're gonna use it so there's an idiom see focus T I'm putting it on my body I'm getting some enjoyment from it even though it's not for eating so therefore we try to go out of our way net to do it so luma you don't have to keep it but what we do what we are much clearer about with the meaning is to be much more is anything that goes in your mouth such as toothpaste very good night to make sure that you get something that's right for pass up something that's kosher lipstick that's also something that goes in someone's mouth so therefore should be careful to make sure that it doesn't it has some type of kosher chapstick or or what certain types of medicines even though it could be most of the medicines that we have if it's sweet tasting that's obvious that you have to be careful about but even if it's not sweet tasting is just a pill which is Muhtar even if it has a little bit of glucose on top of it it's metonymy a Cardian according to the letter of the law he wanted to pass up we try to put things in our body which contain comets and therefore we say to try to be maximum again inside home run to Pesa also different perfumes people different so as sometimes the cheaper perfumes may be the ones can get around in this country those are usually ok those are usually basilicum or because the alcohol is not real alcohol and no normal sane person or animal would eat it much ink and ones that can denatured alcohol the more expensive ones are the ones that come from coats are it's a lot of times those could be a problematic problematic or emotions Achuthan Kayla gimel where he's actually Mike Pitt he says a good Russian on a good day he'll drink some of that alcohol when he's thirsty if I didn't water it down diluted in a bit so in the end of the day it's kedai to try to be to be maximum if one is able to when it comes to these types of her for what and that's why we go out of our way if a person can't find it like I said me card in its permitted will end with one last case of course as matzo we all know that matzo we don't use normal flour now flour many people ask this you're allowed to sell our flour don't use it and your food but you're allowed to sell it what they do over there is tempering the wheat meaning that they go ahead and they might sprinkle a little bit of water usually it's not comments and even if it is it's a very minimal amount selling comets we sell comets which is only a minimal amount which is its elements and therefore it's permitted to go ahead and sell that type of comments cuz it's not called comets Gomora but we would never use such a flower for the mats of course over there we we use matzah we're from matzah schmira which comes from chemical that was watched from the beginning it was even picked early before it was fully ripened in order to avoid a rainfall from being able to beam a coincidence in one way or the other and then it's stored in the storehouses in a very careful meticulous way to make sure that it gets no type of dampness and it is and obviously we know that's how the special chemical is made in order the special flour is made in order to take care of our Matz's which are watched a very meticulous way mccomber de peso can also major then we try to be sure to make sure that everything is safe as can be at nighttime we use hand mats ism for on the night of the seder why do we use hand why not machine because we want with small an extradition which is something we try to be much more on to make sure that it's lush ma the Matz's and like matzah should be done with Sh'ma meaning the chef Mitzvahed matzah which is done only with the hand man says it's brought down and simon tough summit sent up some of this idea in order to be to be careful that we don't make any mistakes oke upon him we see from the homers and homers that we have on peasant broker Shem ASHRAE mr. alkyd hmm there's so much beer as the round brings down but bitter the round explains in the beginning of shocking bit about Misaki you should know it's unbelievable according to the letter of the law you only have to do a beat two comments just say all the comments is afar I don't care about it and you don't have to do all check in else incredible you don't do all check but we do also be dica so the Kamara brings down the importance of doing if they gather right in the beginning suffering explains why we're careful just in case to do a buddy cut comments but everything that we're doing all the cleaning all the weeks all the slavery that we're going through a vadim i you know during this time period of cleaning up it comes not just remembering our slavery in Egypt but also in order to be able to be maximum per second son believable never mice away the rough from brisk or it's a marble disc another bait - ladies days there are the discipline to Turin places who's incredibly maximum pets everybody knows if homersim comers on Pesach and in other places also first two homers in zone and still his wife told them to get out of the kitchen is why you told him I don't want you in the kitchen it fills up to you then plummets would be in this kitchen right now we're off to Shem our wives are very much we're to the nth degree in order to make sure that things are as clean as possible and it comes from this place it comes from from a good McCourt now here we move to the second step and that is why is there such an Indian of home art and where does it come from what's the place for adding all these home run time per second is there really so much meaning to doing it many people ask we find of course we don't here and there might be a Mac locket in the Gemara disagreement and sometimes we say that a lava is that it's moot are but still to Verona bro had to be my Khmer but it's so do why should I be much me those people that come in there as why should I be my wife so let me just tell me if it's permitted I just want to know if its water and there's some people who want to know if there's a home run of this should I be mad wish I'd not be much more whatever you say where is this place in Judaism if there's a law there's a lot there's not it's not a cuz Marvel could say yes this not this why do we have this discrepancy this type of differences that we find which is unusual that sometimes being Mashburn's sometimes not and especially here in pesos so here we move on to the next to the next step and this is Dutch cafe which I said is very relevant for a Pesa and B for our situation today and this is based on a dummy to defer to tour a beautiful piece over there which I wanted to bring out over here and the ideas like this this is from a Pincus basically in every relationship there's two aspects to a relationship every relationship has two aspects to it okay when the person looks into it the first one is the tackle eats the purpose of the relationship the zebu give the connection what is it therefore what's the purpose what's our mantra that's the that's the purpose of course if you look into a marriage the purpose is of course I'm shocked adora to build a family to have children to be able to continue the generations shallow via via get close connect of your mula we try to continue we try to continue our generations that's what we're here for and able to do the myths were / loserman to their right of course that would be the tackle eat the purpose of the purpose of a marriage but is that the essence of a marriage is that what we're here for is that everything that it's about if the essence of America was that it would be a pretty sad relationship it would be a relationship made up of him telling you listen let's make a deal you clean the house take care of the kids I'll make sure to bring in the bringing the money and that's it a nice dry cold relationship you know in the header you'll it'll open up a newspaper it'll say this right to shin-bi the Brittany level supper will celebrate right now I know and I understood that's that's the tackle eat that's the test lead of of a relationship that leads us forward what the future is gonna lead to but then the hood to the essence of the new suin the mode to the essence of the relationship has nothing to do with it it's a catcher it's a bond it's a building your relationship that has to do with enjoying each other's times together doing something a little bit extra trying and going to build the relationship that's the essence of the relationship which eventually leads to the tallit which eventually leads to the purpose that comes at the end it's interesting in the co2 vibe the marriage contract which everyone writes by the hope up if you look at the obligations there's an of obligations that are in there but mainly you know when you boils down to it comes down to sherek so to be ona shared suit you have the purposes of taking care of your wife taking care of your wife to feeding her to giving your food and clothes etc you have to take care of her needs and that's it doesn't say anywhere a word about having to spend time to talk to be able to build a relationship to be able to take your out to buy your presents bro Hashem what Apatow R if you think about it if you're either too but you got Appetit or you don't have to go ahead and do why isn't this not written in the relationship why is it written all the dry stuff where's all the other where's all the mushy bushy stuff which we were familiar with the answer is because that is no suin the essence of marriage is the Cassiar it's the relationship it doesn't need to be written when you're going into the idea that we call marriage you that that is what it is if you make it into a table obligation you lost its own value you took away its Eric it's not worth anything the whole value of the relationship only comes through the fact that you have this type of catcher after that catcher so everything else falls by the wayside everything else is a byproduct of that that's what it is there's two things there's the tackle eat and there's the Mahuta and the two should not be mixed up there's the purpose and the essence of marriage and they're both very important and people unfortunately you don't have a good marriage just seem to forget this point in here we move to what's relevant for us you open up a mistletoe charm you're so - are you surrogacy do - or shall vote at the beginning when he discusses everything what does he say - no Adam Lanier I ll eat an egg wash em you're here to get enjoyment from a Shama and not to be zip screen at all in our sermon Malaysia bath we spoke about Obama began Aydin is Eva Tina it's connecting to - Tina the aura advocate is vertical and then he talks about the idea of going to Olam haba and oil am I said in this world is only a prison or it's only a corridor to a llama button it's only temporary that's it that's all entire thing that's what we Air Force it says missile time that's it no the mistletoe charm is telling us what the tackle it is what's the purpose we're here we're here finally to get at the end to the end of days to be able to reach a guy need and to reach a mushiya to be able to reach a theater my team and to be in a very good place but as went too shabby to come soon padeen that's the tackle eat the Moho to the essence that the Brazil charm didn't need to speak about and he didn't speak about because the essence of life the essence of our purpose here is the relationship with a Kurdish particle the Cassiar that we have pnina to hahvah this meat of alpha that we have within him that is the motive our work here where we get to afterwards that's where we get to but the essence is the Hopa right now in this prison door this corridor that we here for a hundred twenty years if you're lucky is the Hopa which is the relationship that you have with the kurdish barklow that's what we're working on to see a shop to speak to him to relate to him not just to go through some ceremony of three times that Fela were being thrown out of our shoes right now because unfortunately we have a little bit of an external relationship with the Kurdish particle we just see it as a place of going in Gavin and coming going in on David and coming out Davin just going is finishing a finished product know the motive Arvada of our working is going and trying to add some type of relationship to speaking to him it's so interesting or Dovid MLF had a my gay father there was a play during the time of w ml because he counted the people and what was the way to get around it a shambo's matech head may approach if you look at the science people don't realize why there's a few sides that says you should have confronted during the hundred brats and they're saying that because of the monkey 5w melech mm Alex had a plague and during that time in the 100 brought is the way to get around that plate what's the kisser what is 104 hot have to do with the plane there's my my my-y on beans l is it what's the what's the relation if the answer is buzzards the connection is because Abraha is a de Bourgh it's speaking to a coded particle when you have a fight when you have a spat does it up to scream does it help to get angry throw things it no that doesn't take care of the situation we all know that only makes it worse you got to sit down and talk you got to be able to relate what the problem is build the Cassiar relate to the situation what we went through why we went through it and get back to where we were before that's may apricots talked to Curtis Brokaw dodged them you I say the word you to assure them you can't say you to rose and here you are saying you to Curtis bar who how do you do such a thing because it's a conversation Fela is a calm and we here we are being put alone in our Alice's in order to remind us that yes we're here to conversate with our Creator to be able to discuss with him what's wrong why are we going through this and realize that we're here we're for a reason not just three times a day not just when I have to and try to finish Montessori and try to finish with a minyan etc a little bit more a little bit more to that but and that's the moats of our relationship the FIBA the duvet Coast the love the connection that we have with a chef I said Clement can finish our India Vietnam Ally that's what it says in the park it says in the puzzle when we talk about me trying sham says to us at Amrita Machaerus city let me try and you saw what I did to the midstream and he says and the sad clever company charm I carried you on can finish our him I carried you on wings there's no wings right now flying everybody's gotta go by foot oh can we do am i I brought you to me that time show Monty's move Italian if you listen to what I say which might have been pretty analytical speaks like my little boo bullet he says I eat in my school amico la même attempt to ulama market quani Mew will be my precious child you will be my school a my my my only nation etc and you will be a guy kadosh you will be a holy nation a college bar who speaks to us as a child as a child because if he loves us this is the time where we were born pastor coz at the time when we were born and that's why there's a special hobby booth during this time we read Ashkenazim evidence to read Shira sharing during this time period so I didn't don't read it's already read it every week because the relationship there is there every week but on opening and becak especially that's the essence of the where she Reshiram is connected to his read we reach her Sherman Haggadah specifically in that your debts at the end of that Ghana or the reread the Megillah can i him do why because what is the whole she regime share Sharon BT a court te me causes our daughter he is a special coming vote for us a special love for us and he calls us as a specific Grove mishpocha our relative the people that you're around now 24/7 that you're not able to see anybody else except for your relatives but that's it because we're living to yours here and we're living together right now with a certain closeness with only only the relatives would be Kiva rights in my second said I'm in the mission miss attitude I'm Perry Kimmel Mishnah hey Reba Kiba says Shane : LM cool I could die k Yamcha Dina bush-era Sharon leise well the whole world was only kadai for the day that Sharon was given imagine the whole world only for Shira sharing colic Dubin Kadesh the cherem cottage crushing cars going to assume is the inner sanctuaries the place where things are most intimate that's the place where we have the most connection you can't go there all the time and that's where this intimate connection we have with a Kurdish bar call is call a call call a Bria here the whole entire creation was only four she Reshiram how could it be for one Magilla but the answer is pushes it's not doesn't do what the Megillah it has to do with this relationship the moment of creation the pride the process of creation the whole reason why this world is created is what's for Benes rel to have this special relationship with a cutters barcoo to have this intimate career i have five men do pimento beckett between us and a Shem varita lila um very deadly malefic guanine bar who cares about us when we went out of meets ride we didn't even have Atari yet we're still 50 days before the Torah that's why it doesn't say you're gonna be tummy that humming said he came into the news is that's why you eat that Leela I'm your mind you're my baby that's all I care about that's what I care about ten areas a Shem says I never do things I try my best not to do nice in gluey mash em only wants things to be natural the Koran chef at the noon a brings a miracle that a sham had to do for a certain person and the I'm insulted the person that a shaman to do an s in order to help you out Deborah geun-hye who is the Dick Morris says it was a good night to do such a thing why a chef doesn't try to change nature and here we have meats rhyme is a one-time phenomenon plagued after playing if you think about it's unbelievable I know we're so used to it but this is our objective during the how gotta to try to be as descriptive if possible of what happened during those plagues to try to get and read all the media regime in brochure there's a lot of books now to try to realize the details of what happened during those plagues to realize unbelievable Hashem went crazy cabbie yo Joe Gebbia Hashem said my booble is in trouble 86 years of oppression they're screaming - and even in secular Chemeketa we had a shop I got all these types of screams the chef says no I'm gonna take care of you quit yeah I'm sure we split seeds for us things that doesn't happen every every day every day or thank him I never with it that's the one in that one-year period of time the most the most calm compressed amount of miracles and incredible miracles that occurred and a Shem took care of us in a very intimate basis he kept us separate he kept a separate all the time even though we were sitting there and meats right why because Hashem is trying to point out this this important idea BT ahoy de ma I love you I care about you and that's why there's such an important Mitzvah of spirits hear me trying we have a constant Mitzvah of Oz remembering yet seeming tryman constant basis every Mitzvah exactly it's here meets Ryan everything we do is as clear elite every time the film that we put in our heads a mezuzah we put on a door everything spice rel it's always there to remind us of what just remembering that we can out of meets right okay an event that happens 3333 3,300 years ago but said there it's obviously a lot more than that to remember the relationship yes gain even if she could because Bart who kisses us he cares and he's telling us Everett I know you're in it Sarah I know you're in Masuka I know things don't look easy I know you don't understand why things are happening but discord you'd see me try him it was also either and it comes from a place of love of affection of alpha because I care about you I'm doing it for a reason I'm here for you and I want you to start thinking about it why is it coming where's it coming from every eight sorry every two haka is a place of alpha comes from a place of relationship we all know that to go and dance at someone's wedding anybody can do it any type of relative to any type of reality could be a far friend a distant friend you can go dance but to cry to funeral you have to be very connected you have to have some type of connected if there's some type of connection that comes from a connection to go ahead and give someone a prize anybody can do but to give them a slap only a father can do it comes from a place of love it comes from a place of connection and we're going through a difficult time it obviously comes from BT a hottie and Amy it obviously comes from a certain relationship that we have we've a cottage borrow it doesn't come first um now let me just point out that this has to do with what we start this year about from the beginning this has to do with the idea of Homer to Pesa homers we asked was that to do with comers in here after this introduction we can now as we're coming to a conclusion of this year have a full understanding of what's behind the idea of a homer this is based on the period Peretz is the stapler in portion vayikra he asks on the korbanot we have a carbonate devar we have me Lucas además de Kaap we have a lot of Mitzvahed which were not obligated to do and he asks why not and he says very simple he says because if everything was an obligation then that wouldn't be a relationship a real relationship comes when I give something when I don't have to if I do things only because I have to where's the words the kesha there's no real relationship in such an event the real catcher comes when I do something because I want to do it when I didn't after you go and you find something nice that your wife likes and you go and you buy fur that's the place where the catcher is if you're doing it just because you're told to do it it's not a reminder of the story I've mentioned it about three four years ago for those remember about the Russia Shiva who told the bow who got in his first after he got married use of the fresh cut Todd and six months later he got in a fight with his wife he went to his wish even he has some what should they do so he says go to the store buy her some flowers and give it to her and tell her I'm sorry so he so those so the coton went like I said a fresh cut out a little bit inexperienced he went and he bought the flowers he came to his house and he said here my russia shiva said I should buy you these flowers if that beautiful we understand the difference when it comes from a place of inside of internally so then we know that there's a lot more there's a lot more to it if I have to do something if everything is just 613 obligations there's no relationship there's no alpha maybe it's Europe maybe a little bit of fear but I'm only here we go I'm only focusing on that's a cleat I'm only focusing on the Gangnam I think I made and I know Lima but the main team if that if all I'm focused on is the booby prize at the end of the tunnel I'm just looking to win the game in order to be able to gain the prize and there's a little bit of a problem there I'm only focusing on the technique you're forgetting the mohawks you're forgetting the essence of the relationship you're not building any type of catcher the only real way to build the cash is by doing something a little bit extra by giving that extra push by trying to do a little bit more than and then as usual as the stapler over their rights I guarantee even though he was already obligated but there's a lot more connected for a very simple reason because they feel like they're doing extra they're going over and beyond what they were told to do they're doing more than they grew up with that makes all the difference in the relationship or of found a job for one of his congregants who was looking for a job for a while and the person who was working there for a few months the Rope called the bus in order to check up how's he doing is he managing is he doing okay so the person that I said yes added Gamora is all right I'm okay with him so he asked him so asked him what's wrong it sounds like you're not so satisfied he told me look the job is requires a nine to five position and easier from nine FSF a zero zero two five zero zero that's it he does what he needs to do he's here the whole time they know he does his job and that's it if he was here till five ten those extra ten minutes it wouldn't just be ten minutes more of work it would show those all eight hours had something of essence it shows that he was really ear the whole eight hours the fact that a person leaves exactly at 5:00 is as we say Cuttino kobbari on my bed to suffer it means it was never really interested in being there anyways he was just there because he had to be there there was no real emphasis on the work in the first place and it takes away real alva comes when you take an extra few minutes when you pushed a little bit more then you had to do that's a home that's someone who knows that a thing to be able to see a little bit more and this one of a hundred rights on investment rights in his country's different so for him he says even before my tenth era there were there were certain things that Hashem told us there's something called the sea voyage M&M it's what which were obligated to do there's things that he told the Navi which we're supposed to do and then there's the rots in Hashem things that Hashem doesn't right but there's the rots in Hashem we know that that's what he wants the rots in Hashem and he says that was the problem with Bill and Bill of Marussia the Russia the biggest brush and one of the biggest rashard that we know is known as bill and Marussia and the whole time in the pursue him he always says I can't be overt PSM you know what he says PS him because he was always focused on what a sham said the mouth of a sham cabbie or what he said he never cared what he wanted he knew that HN did not want to be Mikkel L to curse Binet le knew there was no interest and still the PE and still he went and did it why he got around where the Shem said Hashem didn't say no okay I'll go he didn't ever care about the Rutzen here we have it like I said the Sheep it's Russia and what did he do wrong he was only focused on what a sham said he never really cared about what a Shem wanted person has to pay attention Custer Shawn we should never be on the level of bilham but I'll complain in this idea if I'm I too busy focusing on Pia Shem I'm just what a sham says and just for anything xx to know exactly what I have to do and I don't have to do more there's no more manana yeah no more manana I can get around it or is it something that it hurts it's painful I wish I could do it of course we should be trying to do our best to be able to do more it should be a painful experience that we can't if you can do one through your from your peso to my peasant from one balcony to another you're allowed to be a great importance allowed to see one to the other is a person interested in trying to make some type of connection because he cares about what a Shem wants or is it focus a little bit more on what a Shem says I have to be doing am I only focused on the telethon Olam haba or on the mahute before i make a business transaction am i gonna decide whether i should go through with it or not it requires a little bit of chilling maybe a little bit of stealing you have to make this decision am i doing what's necessary am i doing what a sham wants or am i getting around it it's not exactly stealing it's a problem it's a bear if it's not exactly there's two different types of a sharing before I make the decision look it has the answer on it it already says on it's something that it's kosher so why can't I get it what difference does it make if it's big or no kosher is kosher that's a person who's just making sure I don't get Ganim just make sure I stay ahead of Ganon before you speak about Russian are about a certain person again as a person rethinking double take a double take to think is this really what a Shem wants for me have a person would spend a lot of money to be able to get with a gut Allah door just to be able to spend time with them a little bit to ask them a couple of questions right Navi a prophet how much you would spend just to be able to spend time with a Navi to be able to ask is this something I should do should I be spending more time with my kid should I be spending more time with my Seder how much time should be standing at home with my wife or helping as opposed to going in and learning etc a person would want to know these answers right here you have a Kurdish bar who is here you have to spend you hood now you have a lot of time to spend time with time with a college bar home and find out what's the real answer what's something that I need that I need to do and especially if we are going through our most serious issue of course with the tools that there are no tools around which I mentioned before is unfortunate that we have to miss but now's the time to realize how is my dog named I'm not talking about Kevon in the world I know we all are difficulties with cavada but is it external is it there am i walking into the shul and talking in the show am i showing the proper sanctity for that could do Shalit the shul deserves as we all know Lipkin the toaster jumped off right after tuffet at four hundred years ago which was a massive crusade a couple hundred thousand Jews were gruesomely killed it wasn't just gas chambers they were killed and very gruesome ways and he had the gall to be able to stand up in the shul and say it has to do with people talking in the show people talking the show caused such a pogrom such a such an event to happen and that's so that's what he said we can't say these things but here are some threw us out of the jewels maybe it has to do or more specifically when it comes to shul I want to mention one other points when it comes to the idea of Scholl is that we know when a person goes to a wedding there's different types of people there's some people that come for the last dance there are some people that come for the meal there's some people that come for the Hopa there's some people that come for the hors d'oeuvres in beginning maybe because it's good they want more food and there's some people that come all the way in the beginning for the pictures all the way from 2:00 in the afternoon already there for the pictures what's the difference between all these people the ones who are there from the beginning we all know that's direct family those are chromis Baja those are people that exactly know the coton McHale are extremely intimately well the people that come a little bit later those are more distant relatives the ones that come a little bit later those are friends close friends the ones that come at the end are the distant friends it all depends on how close you are that's chatons shul also you know the people that are there to put her in there to fill in around Schmo Nasser a timer to make it for Korea to mom those are the people that come at the end of the wedding I guess they don't have much of a relationship with a goodish bark or not much of a kisser I'm here to be your society just to finish up the people that come a little bit little bit earlier they seem to have a little bit more of a closer the ones that come and the beginning an incredible close relationship to having the most good are the ones that come for the pictures they come five minutes before ten minutes before maybe even make a seder to make sure they're not late to make sure they're meticulous not to be late those are the people that have a direct relationship with their creator with a coach barkal those are the ones that are the most intimately close what we're talking about is a Kenyan preemie a relationship and intricate relationship an emotional relationship with Hashem not just here to throw a bra not just here to throw it Fela mayor brought a bowtie then my gay father my gay father plague was stopped only with a hundred per court with its Fela with building our relationship with Hashem that's why I got da in that God ah the opposite of Russia is it Sadiq and it says how come everybody asks this question why is it say haha why doesn't it take Sadiq had a Rashad and then you say Sadiq why don't you say how come so the answer is to be able to know how to know what a Shem once that what a sham says what a Shem wants you have to be a ha ha you have to think a little bit you have to pay attention to what - Shem is sending the messages what he wants from us why is he doing this to us there's a reason for everything and Shem is doing it not Stumm he's doing it in order for us to learn to learn from our mistakes in order to be able to improve in the places where we're not necessarily doing what we're supposed to be what we're supposed to be doing that's this idea of Pesa peasant is a time of a late death of a birth like we mentioned before in chair shearing it's a time when we were born we were made into a nation a Shem is a tremendous in tribulation when a child is born we try to make sure the room is clean it's hermetically sealed it's sterile we try to make sure there's nothing no type of infection in the area when a person goes through a surgery we're incredibly meticulous we have a lot of homers of besa we keep all these homes because we wanted to be a medically sealed we want to make sure there's no infections usually we'll say don't exaggerate but I think all of us know these days that we're making sure we're hermetically sealed staying away from everyone staying away we stay in our houses don't walk out we don't go anywhere like we're supposed to do and these homers which are keeping now which we have to keep every little bit of it with make sure to keep to everything the the health ministry is telling us obviously but just like they're telling us to keep all these things we have to make sure to keep under these types of hormones also even afterwards I'm not saying to be much Mira and I'm not talking about the extra comers and try to take out a former that's not the idea that I'm getting at trying to try to work on our relationship am I here really just for a llama baa or am I here a little bit more to build a kisser with Hashem am I trying to build my relationship with Hashem to build that love that I have ah not just key even not just as if I wanted to be there as if it's there I'm took us away from the outside world he took us away from Marlin tearduct all the business of the outside world no more money no more relationships don't worry catcher with people nothing just to us and ourselves and start for us to rethink to rethink what we're going through and with this I finish ain't premiered by Lisa LLL be sure you saw which I know the whole world only receives what they receive because of us well because of B'nai Israel we are the reason for everything yes everything that occurs in this world is only because of us and that's why yes unfortunately it's lit up when a new but it's happening too many Jews also religious and non-religious alike that are going through these difficult times and it comes from a place to know that you should know it obviously has something to do with that something that we have to improve everybody knows what that new khuda that they have to improve on I'm speaking about the idea of building a relationship if it means an extra homer in your case that's a good thing also but try to do something a little bit extra to build a relationship that kasher with the cottage Bartlett that's all that Pesach is about she Reshiram they shoot the newness of the world the whole idea of Pesa is the idea of the laid out of birth and trying to be a little bit more meticulous and careful to make sure everything is are medically sealed with this I finish mom is the last point three minutes and with this we finished just an important point and there's incredible point here that's why I'm not skipping it out but it's very relevant for our day and age the Gemara and Baba Batra listen tomorrow which makes absolutely no sense of the Guara and I can get more Breen's I'm Arab a barber kind of famous I got it and there are many a gadget is over there and one of them is this story that one time he says I was I was going in my boats and I got to an island which was really really a very big fish but he was just floating on top of the water for so long that there was already cold it was already sand on top of him and a savvy man weeds that were growing out of the out of the hole out of the clothes I said oh I thought it was an island so I went on it and I started barbecuing I started barbecuing in order to check he's dead - okay he came from here well it can be Sheltie about feet the elk above action SLO komyatti became so hot for him and it was too much for him so the fish turned over and he said my ichika Robles FINA if I wouldn't have been close to my I to my boat I eat Anita I would have drowned I would have been lost forever I would have got drowned in the ocean brochure my boat was next to me obviously a cryptic abstract Kumar which is hard to understand but them a fortune say straight forward the things that we think are cavia víctima the things that we think are firm yet see if they will be or forever they never change and everything is perfect those are the things that when things get hot it gets turned over it doesn't last forever the things that seem like they're forever this world or if I could say more specifically in our world and day and age when people are so into technology which is fantastic technology's incredible we have Rovers going in Mars traveling in Mars how far we've gone we have people who can walk on the moon we have satellites flowing are floating around the world being able to see every person that walks around in this planet credible things were able to see DNA chromosomes and play around with them and change it around from different from different from different things were able to move with incredible excellence and magnificent capabilities that man is done in this past century incredible form though the whole big world is a little island it's a bit little island this little island which is talking about everybody's in touch you can be in touch with anybody you want within seconds literally within seconds something that was unheard of unheard of not very long ago this little island which seems that we're in control because of its meid we're the ones who know everything so nothing can factious we're in control of everything and comes along and cutters barkal and says you better hold on to that Sofia I know that boats little doesn't it looks a little bit rickety and it looks temporary and it doesn't look like it's going to be there forever but you should know that's your only point of salvation that's the only place where you're gonna where you're gonna are you gonna be able to see tomorrow all these things that look so firm and look like we're in control really our connection is only with that boat the serene the difficulties we go through and then meets what the things that meets what that a couple gives us that's the place where we will have a point of survival only there will we be able to have a true eternal type of connection we'll be able to be there forever and sometimes unfortunately a shemin's to send us little messages to remind us because we tend to forget some doesn't send us pain stop that we think sometimes we need to dive in in order to remove the pain that's not true the pain is here in order to remind us to govern the purpose is the governing the davines that it means it's an end it's there it's always an end if we would be darvany food and dabbling means when we spoke about today relating to a kind of powerful realizing that hashem is there building that relationship occasion with Hashem Hashem we didn't have to do these types of unfortunate things that come about that come about to us listen to the words of Rafa Honan incredible words of of Ahonen and it's very particular for us he says it's called heavily-laden when when during the time before as we all know before Messiah comes it's called credibly laid out the birth pangs why he says copper things because just by lay does a beautiful thing it's a simple Dola just before it's not so comfortable at least for the wife it's not exactly the most comfortable thing that's there but the point that he had that I liked that he pointed out in kovetz maman he says one important thing he says in the beginning the pain is little and it gets worse and worse and worse when it gets at the climax the worse worse worse ah there's the point of the simcha that's the point of the simcha over there you get a Mazel Tov when it gets worse worse worse worse worse when you buy number 10 over there when it's so difficult over there is when the Mazel Tov comes about that's exactly what we're talking about now he says does the same thing to me try you and me try and was pay rocket started is a little bit easy and then it started getting harder and harder until tips bit that got harder until Tevin a neat envelope funny moment they didn't even give us the tavern we had to do it ourselves to get worse it was worth and then the cooler came that's exactly what's happening with us Lowell a new Sparkle should say let's our teen who died you should give us a respite from what we're going through but over here where it's getting worse and worse and worse and worse over here we see that that must be the point of where the later is about to occur where the birth is about to come about it's only specifically from here yeah Ebola expanding we don't want to see it we don't want to be during that time of difficulty but the worst that it's getting every day one two five ten hundred thousand two thousand three thousand laura-leigh no and Oakland Berkeley should put a stop to it but o co-funding we see that apparently it comes from a place of a love from a cottage bar home well this we end an important point in it's not stung but the mission says approximant afternoo involved it brings from Ischia that he heeded the safer of reports he's here heeded that there was a book that said there were four four corona instead there were four for every there was a the medicine for Heather the you know the medicine for every single sickness that we have including cancer including our at the sickness that were being surround by a was there and his Kiowa and he hit the safer you would have sat Kumar says her a few things that the rabbi's were not happy with him and this one is it were happy when they said his school is chemo yogam why would he be happy to remember the RAM bombs not so happy with it he tries to change shot says Rashi Rashi says they cave and I used smoothly most said they were relying on this medical book Lloyd publish mu Terrell or Michael I they didn't dive into a chef anymore well I can I ask a very grim and therefore was worth it too cause listen to this because they were not relying on a Shem they relied on the book on the refers they were Elijah's him it was worth it that people should die in order that people realize where the address is where we have to be looking I'm a four-ship Mishnah which maybe unfortunately without money no is relevant a little bit for our day and age to realize that we're not here for the touch leach we're not only here to try to make sure I don't get out again and we're here to build a relationship that's Fela and I'm not just talking about learning out of doffing I'm talking about learning to make a catch when I do a mitzvah to believe that Aniyah shem rebecca has Shem is the only address and it doesn't make a difference when they come up with it with this vaccination that's not the focus to focus on the real truth father real it so that we're gonna have is a little bit of a change in us pitch feel you throw but pruney alone um it's only for us you have to realize nobody else is gonna stop this thing it's only gonna be us and unfortunately late devonian who I said it's many Jews and religious Jews and even more religious that are getting hit by it so maybe a cutter Sparkle classic shaman I'm not here to give any reasons or I'm not I'm far from I'm on Dharma to say what or why I'm just reading to you what a mission says to make us realize that we're focusing on the Yod and we have to try to focus on the relationship to try to rebuild and ask for a cottage partly to save us and the other your millets are attending with divers with the Shem we should have a hot cutter of the Reformers awesome