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morning Welcome to our visitors viewers from touranytime.com a little partious mattress a little partials must say and the three weeks we start with Bashas Matrix but we start actually with something general how many misses do we have 6 13. sure you counted them did you count them foreign 6 13 and 7. it's not so early in the morning 6 20. Crown the crown a Jewish person wears is a 620 mixers great what is the hardest Mitzvah to fulfill for all the missions that we have and we have thousands of meters that are born thousands what is the hardest Mitzvah to fulfill able why so be nice to your bear your parents are nice they're not so much you were nice what's so hard maybe in the level of Hindu but who says it's hard to fulfill be nice so hard to be hard to Denice the appearance so eight days wear a nice big smile make sure somebody's right next to you tells you jokes the whole time gives you good food I think you'll be able to do it sleep a lot you'll be able to do it [Music] true but what's the hardest Mitzvah in the world the Mitzvah isn't our portion the government says throughout the eight days some surface is something else and what he says is unbelievable to his talmud and he writes you should know my dear talmud I was thinking about this my whole life and I was wondering if there's any person who's actually able to fulfill this mitzvah a pasok that is mentioned in our Pasha the passage says be clean in the eyes of Hashem be clean in the eyes of his soul says the heart of the matter it's not so hard to be clean in the eyes of Hashem make sure you get up real early learn Navin Davin three times a day eat only but that's in the best make sure you do everything right what's so hard but how can a person be clean in the eyes of Claude why says it's almost unavoidable that there's some people sitting somewhere in a bar that's his language and they're speaking about the Sadiq you know once they do that he did not fulfill be clean in the eyes of quality and he thought therefore he says I think that's the reason is there is no one that doesn't sin why not why not is a person who sits and just wants to do good and that's all that makes this why does my mother says no one escapes a sin why because if somebody spoke not so good about you you now didn't fulfill the midst of it is who cares what they think but once the passages you should be clean um that means that means even those people sitting in the bar and that's just a startling startling tradition however sitting comes a little before because this is Hashem what's the meme doing there me sword and not Coley soil from from those who are the Believers and not from the non-believers in other words if the Michigan want to speak negative about you no problem with you we're talking about those people who are said they came if you cause them to say something wrong then you have a problem in fact who wrote didn't write just he wrote a few other things and one of his foreign however we're talking about Brios you're talking about people we're talking about intelligent normal people not that he should be responsible for everyone and he should be also has to be this obligation from a fool from a person that person that sits in the bar and speaks negative about everybody else according to the show is a tremendous tremendous tradition let's go now to babakama beginning of abacama there are four avoids nizikim and their names are bull shobo mave in heaven I know what the show looks like I I made it last time I went to the zoo I know what the ball looks like because I saw one in the middle of a street heavier is fire everybody great what is mave was the first two pages of babakama argue whether rap holds it's an Adam he is the avnazikin or it's a shin easy way to remember it Shin shmuel is a Shin Shin chin and Rivals I have a question can we be a little provocative here foreign who comes first the author of all the missionaries katana who comes first so tell me about nothing if you hold like shmuel your mother is ashamed why didn't she write there are four of us show both in heaven and if you hold like half that mave is an Adam so why didn't you write therefore Adam and Heaven why cause us to be method two pages in The Giver to break our heads to figure out if mother is really Shin Like shmuel or Adam lycraft the truth is we would like to ask this question many times why do we have to go back and forth back and forth foreign because it's not my question it's the question about 450 years ago a man who wears two hats most people do not wear those Duets it was the greatest boy sec in this generation it was the greatest Generation normally you're either a great voice but you're not both but he was both wrote many minutes for him so he wants to know why didn't you came first before she wouldn't laugh just tell us what it is what's the connection to pasius matus the end of pauses the pastor says that the sons of women built all kinds of cities foreign did you ever see it on the map who cares they built a city called and only he can tell us a thing like this because he knows what goes on upstairs Sigma is one of the cities of Edom in a direct area line from base Amigos there's a lot of avoiders over there and it spreads all the Courier is [Applause] and when you learn you shut down The Courier of the tumor to break through and to go and expand and go all over and to go khalila to base he didn't want you to know what he holds is in other motion because he wants you to break your head he wants you to be misfortunate and to learn the tudapim in babakama because when you do that you stop from bursting out from the city of sivma and the koyage coming from your learning spreads as opposed I think it's just fascinating but it just tells us it just revealed the uh the curtain from a little tiny little thing that we learned but this obviously you have to assume it's true anywhere we just don't have someone to tell us what this specifically does and what this stops and what this there's so much in the upper worlds in the bottom where we don't know we just need to learn because commanded us but we should be aware that there's so much in our learning to stop the Tuma to stop Terror attacks and to spread kadusha and Taha is one of the Imperial climate base we learn about the different cities built all those names very interesting but who cares why do I need to know what the city of sivama is shin base and that's why mave is listed as mave enough as what it really is according to buddhanasi Adam ocean in fact yes you do make sure if you dig one to cover it and if you don't you're responsible that's what the Gamora says who is responsible when one opens the book is it in my private domain if it's English you're responsible for creating a nasik a damage to others whether it's you lit the fire and the fire crossed over from your field to someone else if there was a regular wind or there was a very wild wind unexpected one those things that belong to you the show your car if you don't watch it then it starts rolling down the street and it hits into something you're responsible that one may be responsible for it it's like it's not yours however there is a mayor I think it's in what was he asked him why did you create insects what's the benefit what good do they bring to you she's interesting because he's asking we would expect a minute to ask I was asking him tells him at the time that cloudy soil don't behave the way we're supposed to behave looks at these insects and he says if these if there's no real usage for them in the world yet I keep them around bloody soil there's a real serious benefit for them to have them around I'm gonna not gonna keep them around so it comes out the only reason that you are here is because of those insects to those insects not nezech not a damages they're the ones keeping us around that's true ecological uh chain of course the person says we should be merciful walking his ways the eighth positive Mitzvah of the rambam in his 613 count is ways and if he is merciful upon all his creatures we should be the same but that means when you see an insect in the street and it doesn't bother you why would you go around killing it if it bothers you if it poses some kind of a danger to you or to others of course you should you should be the first one to kill him it's a Mitzvah so it depends you shoot away are you in your house and it really is bothersome to you always are you in the suite somewhere very far away and you can just continue walking so business get rid of it if you are Sadiq on the highest level you'll just somehow sweep it away and take it out throw it out if you don't have the time to do that's Beetle toilet for you you get rid of it in any other way you see fit a nice uh nondered word so this partial will then we have to keep our words vows keeping our extremely important tell your Maison there were people in the city a small City that the Mickey stopped working they needed to build a new mechan so they didn't know what to do nobody had enough money to sponsor them there were some rich guys but they weren't in the Pasha so they went to that they went to Hasidic Shalom of kaminka and they got them and they explained the problem they said a mix is not working anymore we have serious problems we need a new make of it what do we do Anthony Rich guys in your town since there is one guy who's really really rich but he's so rich and yet he is so stingy not sure I have to take anything from him so the rapper says you know I'm going to come to your turn for Shabbos and let's see if we can do something he came over for shoppies multi sharp is everybody comes to say goodbye to the rabbit everybody learned a little about the switch guy who apparently lived in a Palace by this guy was or even oh he raised me a terrible fine celebration guy comes in and asks you know wishes farewell to the rabbit and he says I'd like you to give me a burger says what type of Baja would you like [Music] the rich guy says I'd like you to give a blessing that my wife should die that your wife should die so what do you mean he says it's hell living in my house is hell she is a woman from him I'm gonna get rid of him see listen I don't give Brothers like that I usually give the opposite but I have a nature for you because I'll teach us in Shabbos that if someone makes a vow and doesn't keep his word his wife may die so after being here all shall be saying understand that you guys in town need a number why don't you pledge to sponsor the mcvit but don't fulfill your nether this way your wife will die I love this it allows me to continue being stingy like I am and I get rid of my wife and he lives he figured by the time he comes home his wife is going to be already in bed she's sick you know she is 100 strong and healthy two weeks later she has her annual and she's great in great shape and this goes on a week after week and after three months he runs back to the businesses doesn't work you promise that if I don't go through with my my wife will die that's the words of hazal what went wrong my wife is getting strong now she's lifting weights heavier weights than ever celebrity says listen the problem is because I'll speak about one's wife you treat your wife like a shmate because I never spoke about if a person they spoke about a person's wife so the only eight says you have to come back home and start being nicer if you're going to be nice to her Intruder like a wife the words of Hazard will apply then she'll die what can you do what can you do so you have to listen to the river he goes back up and he starts being so nice to his wife shopping for her and taking her out to this and giving you compliments when you're nice to others others will be nice to you it's a reflection it's like looking in the water melee his wife her husband is so nice she became so nice to him was flourishing it was unbelievable a week and a half later his wife becomes extremely ill she's in bed she can't move this guy runs back to the revises that my wife should heal what you said you want your wife to die yeah that was then things have changed we have amazing slumbers but you wanted her to die not anymore I need her to be healthy she's unbelievable we have slumbers it says listen there's no answer for that except for you to go through with your nether the reason she's about to dive is because you made an edit to help the migrade and you didn't say a person may lose his wife but now that you want her to live so just make sure you go through with your nether pay for the make them your wife will be healed that's what he did and that's what happened [Music] what's the M is for this is better not to make a vowel and to make a vowel and not go through with us we said in Shabbos it's actually the fluid base because I'll say if one makes a vowel he may lose his wife his wife and kids because the Russia tables have foreign don't make a payment is of those three words because if one khalilah doesn't pay his visiting once somebody came to the basil kharif and he said to him I don't understand aren't the words of hazal true of course how come my wife is still healthy what do you think who has to give you a prize for not keeping your vows for someone that's a punish for him the punishment so his wife dies somebody who's expecting his wife to die is she doesn't die that he don't writes the same thing that writes the same thing one who expects his wife to die is a tipesh he is a fool that's his language because doesn't give prizes for those who don't fall through punishes them and therefore his wife will remain if that's what he's looking for is that she's died she's actually going to stay alive and well but he's going to be punished with a different punishment says how important it is to keep our words make sure we we use our mouth properly Asha writes that there was once a woman sitting with her friends or joking around making comments all kinds of wrong things and one of her friends told her you know what are you going to do when we go upstairs after 120 and they're going to ask you you know why did you say this why did you do this you know why weren't you careful and she says I don't think there's a problem when I go upstairs after 20 I'm going to say sorry I'm mute can't answer you yeah she was joking she thought it's a lot of fun says a few days later she became Youth and she remained for the rest of her life because unbelievable clean a vessel called a mouth we have to use it properly nothing else in bojas when you have to say abraca over something there's prioritization right the shivamini what if one has two fruits and one of them or none of them are from Shiva samini they're both shalim which one should he prioritize which one should he say the brother for first both are not the one who likes better good what if this is foreign you like better the other a little less but the one that you don't like so much is more nutritious the nutritional breakdown is better more vitamins more minerals less sugar the other one you like better better it's sweeter but which one should you say the bracha for first the healthier one or the one which is heavy to you that you like better the one you like better who told you who told you you have a liar for this to differ and he says eat the one which is nutritious first where does he get it from says for more pressure hard to imagine we want to build fences for our sheep Guido's son we will create fences here and the arim LA tapeno and we will build cities for our youth moisha said why do they do that because at that time to them was actually their sheep before their kids says to them that's not the way to go that's the wrong order of events and therefore Moshe responds and says first build cities for your youth Vegeta teaches us in his answer too that the right prioritization is first the kids and then your sheep and therefore later they respond to him and they say yes we accept what you saying our kids our wives our sheep they will be there you see perhaps this is the source that the khabib is the best thing for you and that should be the khabib in other words when we speak normally about we speak about two things which are not bad for you or good for you it's just you happen to like one of them better but they're on the same level of health-wise but here we're speaking about something which is khafif to you but the other thing is a little better for you the right prioritization based on this should be the one which is more nutritious before the one that you like better said the sheep first before you take care of yourself let's defeated not to build fences and to build our whole place for them to dwell before you take care of your kids your kids hopefully should come first you have the red wine right but that's regarding not which one you should prioritize by eating it first two people made another Vishal Sarah aldas when you make another the time of atsara there's no way to nullify it we cannot know the nether after they made the nether we will give a thousand dollars to sadaka because they had a major problem they both became very poor is there a way for them to fulfill the nether when they don't have a dollar to their name is there any way to help these people out living in Shimon were in trouble they made another we're going to give a thousand dollars to chadaka and there is no way to annoy this nether but they don't have a dollar that's very nice of them but can they they made a net they're going to give a thousand dollars helping is very nice when one steals from someone and doesn't know from whom he took he has to do another means you have to give a thousand dollars they're 99 years old I wish them well but 119 you know what you wish a guy is 120th birthday right have a nice day so how can they get out of this and how do you exactly want to pay back so you're very close to what the beneficial says finds a solution for these two people it's over and Shimon they have a friend his name is Levy says a thousand dollars now Ruben has a thousand dollars of his own to Shimon receives the money Reuben fulfilled this nether is good shimu now has a thousand dollars great he should now give sadaka to an ani to whom two women who doesn't have so now fulfilled his nether whoever now has a thousand dollars give it back to Levy who lent you the money and they both fulfill the Nether and they're both and returning the Alva and Illusions and that's a tremendous they made a vow of giving a thousand dollars we found way for them to do it even though they don't have a dollar to the name problems we see it back from Shimon as it's sadaka because he doesn't have anything and now you get a thousand he gets a thousand dollars he owes those ten dollars to Levy he borrowed money from him give it back to Levy myself why are they called to get stuck in the desert and traveled for 40 years made a trip which is 11 days from in three days because he wanted to call his soul to enter it is so fast but their complaints and their sin extended their stay in the desert so they caused it to themselves therefore it's called you cause those traveling to yourselves and that's why it's called Masai so that's what the al-sharakota says a riddle big day una how many other is there any person in Tanakh whose name is like one of the big day kehuna Fiona Ramos in one of the pastures of Tomorrow Matos said Mase wanna is your limit impossible effort who is he not a phone efforts Ben effort it's like the backwards uh apron that the Korean War and you get three points for that one what is the first GPS you know nobody would leave the house today without ways right what is the first GPS system in the world when was it invented does it say on it please don't don't write when you're traveling how do you know that was a GPS system have a source uh maybe uh [Applause] maybe he didn't know where he's at it when it says that that means they encamped and they traveled who said go camp go camp they did what's the GPS system what guides him in the right direction says what was their GPS that literally is the question of the ocean the ark was the first ways in the world that's the answer of the ocean who goes to the City of Refuge killer can it be an intentional killer that goes to the City of Refuge intentional killer that goes to City Refuge nope why they all go if he's intentional killer he gets capital punishment if his unintentional kill he goes to the average and yet I'm asking can there be an intentional killer that goes to the City of Refuge an intentional killer not a Suffolk s listen to the language of the Ramba there is already a person an unintentional killer in the City of Refuge is he allowed to leave the city unintentionally he was wandering around thinking and he left the Border he left the city anyone who kills him whether it's relative whether it's Adam the person who kills him he has to go to the City of Refuge that means even it's an intentional if he killed him within the confines of the city of so then even if it's the relative he will get capital punishment because it would he's in the City of Refuge one is not allowed to kill him it has about her but the gate was open go to prison and yesteryears all cities Iniesta years all cities had a wall how do we know it where do you read the magila in Walled cities from the time of Yeshua cities have walls protect themselves was it's not like it's not a prison it's just a way of protection of the city why should there be you want to make sure you live don't leave and kill them he's not allowed to you're suspecting kosher Eden is to do wrong things he's not allowed to kill them was it gonna help him hopefully there's a police there inside they're going to stay going to see him because he left Bish Gaga he didn't leave intentionally the unintentional killer why is it that unintentional killer has to go to the City of Refuge what's in there what's what's the idea behind it this city is a refuge of the city are the cities of the levim what's the Indian to go to the City of Refuge what was behind this what was that as if thinking what should they learn from the living foreign they have to show us how it's done they are that's all they do they served therefore like the rest of the Los Angeles they are the unit in the Army belonging to akadesho you learn from this that in the cities of the in the cities of the vims which was the City of Refuge when a person goes around is just soaks up the kadusha there's no marketplaces there there's no entertainment centers it's kind of like one big Yeshiva you have the levim constantly teaching and that's all they do there's no entertainment there's no marketplaces when a person goes there he is so elevated and he learns about who wants who doesn't want that's the best place Gaga to be in order to change his ways to be a little more careful next time you see it also for myself Shining the pastor says you have to bring the message so you should learn to fear Hashem how exactly by bringing myself do you learn fear of Hashem the sifri says how because when you go to your line and you see everybody is involved in it affects the person and this is for a person who takes imagine how long does it take him to finish all this messenger all these fruits talk about a few days a person in an unintentional who stuck there for many years how much more so it will affect him and with that says you can understand another if the City of Refuge has more the majority of the people there are killers you don't go there it doesn't absorb new unintentional Killers why because if the whole idea is to learn from the Sadiq from the levim that live there hopefully you can learn from the live the living but if there's too many really to learn from them and therefore at that point it's not it's not right for the unintentional killer to go to that type of City look for a different city one which is saturated with caduce show us how it's done and therefore a person has to go there to uh hopefully to change his ways to understand the value of a nephesh of Aid and hopefully next time it will be a little more careful symptoms it's great according to that because they will see what a city which is all to Hashem looks like they will learn the best way to learn somebody who's again comes from nowhere he goes wow this is great I want to be like them so inspirational is there a better place for him to be it's fantastic doesn't need to go a personal intentional killer but even again he can also visit in this sort of situation is it takes care of the family and the family is also allowed to travel with him and in fact if he's the rabbit what happens who comes with him he's a receiver right who comes with him they'll take care of him hopefully shouldn't happening will come don't worry they will take care of him and why are you worried the mother of the coin godo anyways comes every Thursday night she brings the children enough for Thursday night for Friday and for Shabbos she buys him a new suit because she doesn't want him to Daven that her son the coin goddal will die they're taken care of a terrible myself in Yemen we're traveling there to Yemen about 14 years ago in the month of Kiss Live on a Thursday a Muslim pilot ex-pilot in The yemenite Army Goes to the middle of town and shoots and kills foreign this man was 35 years old a father to nine when he was younger he learned in Shiva discount and this Muslim warned the Jewish people a month before he sent a letter if you don't all become Muslims like us or leave we will kill you I'm the representative of and he signed his name but for some reason his offer wasn't accepted by the Jewish community so he came to the middle of town and a nice famous Square there and he shot and killed nahari since it was done publicly they couldn't you know sweep it under the carpet and they took him to court the judge said to the family his wife all his kids his parents emotionality Spirits according to the Quran law the two options you choose either we kill the Killer or he pays Miss Ransom I don't think it's going to be a big amount but the family was extremely poor motionary was the only provider he was a teacher the family wanted to know what should we do should we take the money or do we have to make sure we have to kill him does it apply by going voiceai through my sin what do you say he's on the street so this is my life continue doing [Music] if you don't make sure to stop him by killing him who knows tomorrow he goes with his gun and he's going to kill others but the next time is going to happen the other family may say kill him who says he has to be you you need the money the family is extremely poor there's nine miles ten miles to field the wife and nine children they're going to kill him and with what exactly do you want them to eat breakfast lunch and dinner tomorrow I'm responsible for somebody he was really brought to court once and they almost killed him you think he would do it again why do we have to worry about that he pays them off he doesn't go to prison or anything yep but you assume that he's not going to do it again because tomorrow the next family maybe is going to have money and not going to be so nice like you so he's gonna be afraid [Music] we can't but who says that's our prayer prioritization why not worry about your kids what's that who told you he didn't do it until now it took him a month from the time he wrote the letter for that [Music] everybody else as well he says the opposite you in case good question a discussion for a whole shoe Maybe but now we're talking about can goel Adam does that apply to go him as well and there's for you forget about prioritization it's a hue for you to kill the person who killed the relative or maybe not maybe it's a mix of only applies to Jews does it apply because today there's no Cities of Refuge today does there is there a gorilla Dam today what do you say everybody saying yeah an intentional manner there's no capital punishment today so get rid of the murder and get all the Jews out of there so you're protecting them the community itself is poor extremely poor about 400 years ago and he studied in the bach Yeshiva he was a friend to the Tas we're going all the way back 400 years ago he was born 420 years ago and there's about 200 years after him 200 years ago so we called the early one to differentiate between the two and he writes a tremendous he says of course it's a mixer that applies also by going not just by Jewish Killers what's the Savannah to say that you have to get rid of a Jewish killer and you don't have to get rid of a grayish killer can it be that the deener of the will be easier and lighter than the one of the Jew but that's a svela he brings a proof what a proof he brings normally we don't bring to Allah discussion approve from the Agata part in The Giver but he brings Agatha David America is going to fight with Goliad what does he take with him a sword a knife a gun what does he take stones how many stones five stones and how is that going to help exactly that guy is protected with a shield if a stone is going to do it so why do you need five one is also good if a stone is not strong enough to penetrate through that Shield so however five Stones make a difference why does he need five and the mother says took these five five to revenge against five things goliathu was curious one stone is foreign one stone was foreign and another three stones to Revenge foreign was cursing their descendants all it says don't worry I'll do it for you you see that it also applies to going he's going to fight Goliath is a goyal Adam you see he brings from here from these miss about stones that it does apply for government based on that we should make sure to kill this guy who killed however we can only do this in a condition that it's not going to awaken the hatred of all the Muslims against they're going to go shooting all the Jewish people in town you have to consider that as well you just looked at what this single Murder World will do tomorrow what about all his friends and family everybody else in town they're going to be upset that the Jews decided to kill him instead of taking the money so if it's not gonna cause the animosity of the yemenite people around so then we can do it but they might say what happened is not surprising the court afterwards decided that this Muslim guy al-abadi I think was his name was not saying at the time that he did it and they made him pay I think it was like a maybe twenty thousand dollars a joke of a sum of money and they let him go three years later his wife I think his name was luasa some like Luisa luaza she came to Otis oil and shortly after his parents came to etisal and that was the end of that myself we learned that clal is soil cried for him because he used to love peace and pursue it shalom to what degree how much did love peace and pursue it this is as well when Ariana Grande died eighty thousand Boys called Aaron walked after his bed eighty thousand Boys called that one because that one made peace between their parents and once they had the next baby they called him out to honor our own acquaint now let's do some math if in 40 years in the desert eighty thousand little Islands were born that means 80 000 different families you normally don't call your first and your second your third and your fourth kid the same name so it's 80 000 different families eighty thousand families divided by 40 years that's 2 000 families that Awana coin made Shalom every year that's five to six families that he helped every single year no vacation every single day sorry no vacation days no sick days no personal days Shalom between people but the truth is it's probably much more because it doesn't take into account if you made challenge between two between a couple and then they had a baby girl they're not going to call him Arona or if they already had an hour in the family you're not gonna call them too who are in junior was more than five to six families every single day now we understand I knew they mentioned I'll say again maybe I get it again oh yeah no they were so good what it did the first time there was no need for that our one was oh yes that leads us to the three weeks because that's what we need to concentrate on oh yeah so all the nations have a minute they celebrate days of Independence days is a day that they finally were victorious they won in battle they gained their independence no one points to the days of defeat this is the day where we fell and we were destroyed and we lost millions of people why do that that's an embarrassment so because of that they try to erase and rewrite history we do the exactly opposite not only do we commemorate the Day of Defeat Tish above Besame is destroyed millions of people died we go out to gallus we do ahana for three weeks and it intensifies as we near this date why is that because all the nations of the world celebrate because I'm so great I'm so successful I was able to be victorious so when I don't when I'm not successful it's a tremendous embarrassment but since we know everything that we have Successful Failure so we understand if we have success we have to celebrate a quotation about whose help if we have failure we have to start understanding that there's something that we need to fix something needs rectifications and we did we need to do some introspection you know there was a year that once came to his Rabbi and system you know I don't uh I don't do Toshiba so why not he says you know after all this is something from 2000 years ago 1955 years ago anymore the rabbi didn't comment a few months later he saw him celebrating in Purim dancing and drinking and it's so happy and he says them you know why are you celebrating that's also something from 2000 years ago so I tried to give all kinds of excuses the rabbi told them you know is a pasok image if you forget you and you don't mourn for you who's your mini if you don't participate in the morning you have no way to participate in celebration for Purim because I say one who Mourns for you shall I will immediate session really soon celebrate but one who doesn't has no no part unless one so do we mourn for the physical structure that we lost the truth is today we have more impressive architectural uh structures than base so today with the advancement in technology they're very very impressive buildings out there so what do we mourn for Bishop based was created in order for the to be a place dwelling place for the Divine the pastor says in in them in other words when the Eid makes room for the in his heart it dwells there but when the Jew does not make any room for the srinam it does not dwell there it is removed it goes away so it comes out not in Tish above itself came the destruction the destruction came before that we don't know exactly what day it was but it happened when the Jews decided not to make room in their heart for the shrina to dwell therefore whenever was very angry they said ah I destroyed the bus called from base comes out and says you fool a burnt Sanctuary you burned you ground flower ground flower you ground Sticks and Stones you broke in other words the shrina was already removed the lack of intimacy the lack of connection the lack of open and revealed love that is what makes a big dish represented we say lack of open and revealed love because there is love there's tremendous love for me to us Hashem Saabs and hashems weeps for us in Exile even more so than we do but this is a a hidden and concealed type of love foreign itself is the building of Base and since we know building based amidesh does not override Shabbos you don't build base limitations since your morning is the same software interprets a person containing password base Hashem is future is Russian does it make sense the person really should say evening will build soon spiritually in our days foreign it was going to be built and that's how it's going to be brought down to us and who's building it says that some social we are building it with hour of values the availus itself builds the ocean that's why the pastor says right now is building you tonight from what from our tears and then when it's ready will bring us down the house that we built of some services and that's a very suitable for the same because of some safer every single year would cry would fill up a cup of his tears and would drink it is and I would drink my tears that's the level of availus and that was the example if that's what he did there was an editor of a Jewish from magazine something uh Country Country magazine something through magazine forget the name he went around and did a very interesting survey and yes a lot of people if you were able to invite three people from our past three Jewish people from our Collective history whom would you invite you could invite them for dinner and they got a lot of interesting answers some people said I would invite my father I miss him I didn't see him in a long time my grandfather said you know I would write my rep it was an Adam gado I miss him some people said I would invite the number I would love to have dinner with Abba some said Einstein Professor Einstein other said I found myself and he got very very interesting questions a lot of people a lot of questions a lot of different answers but he said the best answer that he got was when he asked this question and he asks him I can invite any Jewish person that I want a mystery anyone says here three people from the past says yeah anyone so I would invite three hungry Jews three hungry Jews brilliant why is it brilliant because all the other answers are all about me who wouldn't want to put on his resume you know I once had lunch with the Ramba who doesn't want to have a picture in his album hugging a Verma Vino and yet suck on the other side it's all about me I miss my grandfather Francis polished his videos so much so it's all about others what I can do for others and therefore his first response was three hungry Jews destroyed base amidas thinking about others first is what's going to build the base of English the end of this man Amish before it was system I understand that you're organizing organizing a trip I'm not the organizer I'm one of the organizers a bunch of guys and this trip is and to Daven and we made sure to do it for business money but it's not gonna conflict with the times of the Yeshiva so what's the capital what's the problem I told him you should know it to you like this is a very very healthy thing it's very important every so often you need to do this but you know what this is like imagine a family other brothers and sisters are sitting shiva because the parents died in a terrible car accident so when they're sitting shiva they're planning the great deal that they're going to take right after they get up from the Shiva you're now in the nine days and now you're planning that to you you're gonna do next week how is it possible and that's what you're occupied with the chief Rabbi of yerushalayim interesting Maison was the chief Rabbi about 120 130 years ago and he was already very old he was 91 years old and he felt he doesn't have the koyage and he needs somebody else to replace him that's his nickname foreign [Music] and the fact that his grandson told you that who says that's the correct way who told you that's the correct version because I wasn't there I heard it from great people one of them is a problem didn't hear from him personally but he said this myself I'm 91 years old he feels doesn't have any more he asked that they should bring somebody to replace him and he asked that they go to Europe to bring the adirit the aderit was the love in the mirror and in the ponovich nothing is in the cities of ponovich and in the city of Mir in Europe they came to him and he agreed he came to us he was very young he was 62 at the time via direct was an Adam Pele he wrote 120 swarim only two were printed in his lifetime we have manuscripts of other experiment that are printed now he came to us alive to become the chief Rabbi and he was we have a letter that he writes back to his family in Europe and he says to them the people Islam think here that they did a very big favor to me they rented an apartment for me overlooking the Mako mamigdash and they don't know that every time I look out the window and I see place of the Midas destroyed its shortening my life he prophecies and he didn't even know very prophets he only lasted two years and when he died was still around and he eulogized eulogized him in his funeral so we go to the question like he did when we take pictures and we hug and we smooth his big smiles apparently that's not the attitude that we are supposed to have it shortened his life but the truth is we do cry we do cry we know how to cry when The Neighbor buys a new car why don't I have this type of car but we need to cry for Stones not for cars it's not true we we we know how to cry for stones when The Neighbor gets a new marble floral marble counter but we need to cry for the right type of stones and when we cry for the right episodes he misses who will bring us back those stones during these three weeks sometimes I think that uh [Music] we feel it's not so bad so you started last week with a fast day so you take the pill you know Khalid so everybody has it and some people actually say that it works no so now we can listen to any music today oh Hashem very very sophisticated type of singing vocals without any instruments and some boys came whole that it's okay to listen to we can get by the nine days you can eat meat amazing amazing soy meat imitations and there's fish and you can have as much pizza and as much ice cream that you want and you can even have coffee in the afternoon so what's so bad about that comes Tish above no so you take again the college home or whatever pill that you guys use and you sit in an air conditioned environment and you go to shul which is air conditioning you come back home and you rest you take a nice little nap you listen on the radio to the stories of the destruction and you even having this nice padded short chair and it's not so bad and you even have time after your nap to plan the vacation you're going to take next week you come to school and you have some nice and a nice juicy watermelon and whatever else they give in the shoes we went through it not so bad not so bad in other words we have a solution for everything the problem is we forget why were these limitations and restrictions given to us a beat don't try to get through to deal with the Cuban we have to ensure there is no gurban and that is in our hands how do we do it we're finishing with this myself after the Holocaust Ed goes to show with his son there's a guy who sits right out of the shoe right outside the shoe and he looks very sad very unkempt in the Bible foreign maybe you'd like to come to show with us maybe you'd like to put onto feeling thank you very much thank you but no thank you I'm not into that tries again maybe you would like to be the cousin oh I like that I can read they go in and he allows them to be the cousin a few days later Shabbos again goes with the son naftali and they go to Shore and right outside the show they see this guy again smoking cigarettes would you like to come in and again lead us in prayer be the housing for us I can be the cousin and he comes in and he prepares to be the house naftali the Bible son says to him Tati daddy whatever language you used what are you doing um why are you calling him what do you mean why he's smoking cigarettes in the middle of the street why don't you say the show says I don't think he's smoking cigarettes on shoppers I thought you didn't see him looked at his son and he says he should know he is he is not smoking cigarettes and Shabbos it's the nothing you master man that are smoking those cigarettes not him he can be the cousin fast forward 50 years a guy has long face a long beard looks like a nice because it comes to the Bubba forever you probably don't remember me but I'd like to invite you to my grandson's wedding I want you to be the message what day is it I'll come to one of the show about us and he did when he came to the house he saw a hundred little Kindle there oh with little peace look this gorgeous sweet little kids and he says to this fellow wow what a beautiful mishpaka you have look at your children look at your grandchildren these are not my children these are not my grandchildren these are your children these are your grandchildren is when you said that when he hit you you brought me back to life these are your children these are your grandchildren that's how we build the base of English