Be Slow To Judge Others and Elevate Your Students (Pirkei Avot Class #4)

we we said last week um remember we mentioned the nepheim College we're building our own it's not there and we're just working towards what exists we are is that we are in the process of building now right it was very important you saw what we said foreign who said what um but I don't remember but we'll see the Russian Kabbalah is only with to receive you can only receive according to have you know the size whether you want to pull something in and accept something so depending on how big the vessel is that's how much you can take right when you get over something and keep over everything like you can pour out everything everything can come out right so now because he was a couple more than any human being that lived the face of the year of the Earth but it was only kibel what must but that massage everything over to Joshua and then now what we said you mentioned this last week so he said why me so he said um this action I can quote is in the third Israel who says missing I think we're supposed to have done for me it says we learned from Sinai got from Sinai to tell you that this is the the olive bed for kabbalata Torah is humility like how Sinai was the lowest like moshabbin was enough he was the right person to get the Torah he was he was on the right place to get to our house tonight everything is symbolizing towards another we say just like remember God says just like toys compared to water just a water goes from a high place and gravitates down so too the Torah only gathers as whether yam shall tamud if you were right the Sea of the talmud gathered in a low Place sea level's low yeah that's where that's where it gathers yeah in the low place and that is very very important now I'm just adding myself we know that it says in the in the sukim before last week it is and the people and camp opposite the mountains they camped in the plural plural past yeah why third person passed why does it say why does it says foreign ah yes um that when when is Hashem in Canada Israel when they are together when they are together Russia says when did the shrinder come when is present in a place of unity and if there is period if there's this people are separated from each other then there's no astrada and that what was what was the greatest greatest Revelation hashem's presence residing in this world right so Michelle's gonna come the biggest and this is all my own ideas which I think I hope are true um the the this this is also included this is also included in um another when it says which symbolizes right um a person who is humble doesn't get invited to other people no person who's about Guyver ever gets in his way he's everything only you know me I myself everything's me everyone else forget it tramples and everyone yells at everyone tries to put everyone down because he's great there's no Unity with the baldiva right the person's humble and he respects other people he doesn't push over onto other people so if everyone is in that state you have you have right so that also is the same the same idea yeah why not for me said no for my college board to represent another right which is one that Elizabeth now we mentioned went through the Starships I forgot to mention last week in in um in Yuma when it says why why they call the men of the great assembly yeah why do they call them men of the great assembly the great assembly we said we're in the in the great assembly so the good morning says and it says yumia came with Daniel yeah they didn't say they said look at Christopher where we see the gurava college which is the awesomeness look at the Jewish people murdered slaughtered thrown out against Israel bit of English destroyed where's the gurav Hashem where's the narab Hashem how can we say it how can we say such a thing right now um they they um they still said right because you know awesomeness where where is right that that is Hashem strength that is awesomeness you see Hashem strength there is Hashem strength we still see the fact we are one sheep surrounded by 70 wolves and we're still safe that is only because the the greatness and awesomeness of Hashem they're still we still can't wipe us out however hardly try and they still can't get us because of the the Greek right and therefore that's what the rap says now um we had a few deal Kim which we said from last week it says which we said over here says they saw this as a king of the Torah for the future Generations right the end of the prophecy and now this is and what do they say you should be slow to judge we said even in in A din they normally understand the first and even if you've seen the din before and you think you know it already no don't rush take it slow take it so be very careful I make and set up many times we say because I hope that yeah as many come in then at least some are going to have you know big tummy gonna come out or we should be very picky and careful and yeah and mentioned that was Heroes says why does it say hey that's what you need to do right so he says no and I quote he says he says it means when you put them up it's referring to making sure they're standing upright they're met we said stand up check in or Glam and make the sign which stands firm and immediately they should be clear you should teach them the Torah Torah they should get the right to our understanding and then they're standing right the upright the other positions means also make them stand on their feet in a physical sense that they are being supported and looked after in order they can learn put him on his feet in in in a financial sense also it's also needed right they should be financially stable there is this is all the fences around the denim right we said well we mentioned last week riding a horse on Shabbat is because he might pick a branch off which is and hit the horse and Robin young explains that this is based on and that's why it says that in a certain as a certain aspect the d-ray software than the Torah itself because the deviation is real right we're worried we we we we don't want Shalom to be aware in the writer so they made many many didn't around and Arena goes as far as to say that if someone keeps mitzvot that doesn't mean necessarily as you are that means that he really fears and he's doing it because you know he knows the imitation was a terrible thing could we just he does what suits him right whatever goes he's happy he doesn't mean he's brought up that way so he goes with the flow yeah if he keeps his Torah that proves that even when he's keeping the outsham itself it's all because of your mind he's taking it seriously because when you keep that when you keep the ninja we say people say oh it's only only right um and that's not right opposite so I mean the the keeping the rabbinical laws prove how serious you are about the Torah itself you're following me yeah that's why it's so important now um the right we said the robin who says in here and also in charge with them right Hashem wants to Iran because that's the ass is now this was basically I was a bit of extrus since from last week now we said last but the end of last week that even though this seems to be referring to the Sanhedrin right the lead is a generation right be careful in Bedding the roshishiva should have many tal medium yes all the generations should be kept however says is also referring to an individual he's referring to every single one of us every single one of us how to explain you should be slow to judge similar to have you done it every individual in his daily life to be slow slow to judge other people their actions or to decide who they are or he's like this he's that he's that don't jump to conclusions yeah don't jump to conclusions um Louis brings down I think it's also means um I want to say the right the right the right um yeah means also a person himself should be very careful in his in his in his in his daily in his daily life his business be careful don't run into something it might be of a rubies or take wrong measurements or this or that and everything else which applied to you in your business go slow don't run into things I mean because you could ask for many mistakes right you don't have to be an Albert dinner in your own personal life how when you're keeping alcohol don't rush into things right don't get something from the store and then by looking in the action properly you're not even sure I'm sure it's right no it's slow you know anything applying be slow that's number one number two times so what they apply to me first of all the person's marriage got children his own children and not only that he says my person in again in in his daily interaction with people yeah he can have many tell me them if he's you know with numb from people for example in the office or with you know with from people you understand whatever it is you understand how he behaves how he talks yeah he has influence on other people and he can make many tal medium just by being who he is in his own life right you don't have to be a position an educational position right of some of some institution you and every person has everything will tell me about that his darshan is um okay right he says you have to help other people go you know his influence he can be a positive influence meaning actually you know go and tell people inform people what the right things are to do you know he knows more than other person and he can help that person you're with me today is what is foreign refers to himself yeah everyone knows the person says good they live sure every person knows where his yay Sahara is stronger so even though you've got the cloud of the dini drabanan which everyone has to keep the Evan shamer the Vanagon mentions this in in the safe haven that um everyone has to have their own if a person knows that he looks around too much and see things he shouldn't see so he has to make sure that he makes his own uh say again right when he's going out another person who knows that when he's with people his tongue is very loose you know I mean he just he just doesn't think and he just ends up talking whenever he goes to people in some sort of crowd he wasn't up saying about this one talking about it and he's always kicking himself oh wide my big mouth again Etc yeah so you have to think speak to remember think of ways to yeah to prevent yourself from coming to these things there's no crazy thing of it everyone has to be careful don't go in the crowd don't speak to people late at night this and that because then you end up talking no Shannara that's his particular thing yeah you understand they give general rules in foreign right now like every God godding something to make sure you have the God on the army base the gods and outside the factory whatever it is to make sure or terrorists don't come in you're on God and you have to be on God he's there ready on God watching what's going on so do a person has to be with his mouth with his tongue he has to be on God right and he says there and and one of the ways is I'm just saying it's an example so yeah that before you open your mouth stop and think get used to you're about to say something just stop just for a second what am I what am I about to say okay you understand now normally as we don't it's just and it just comes out right we don't even think it's just a thing try and train yourself to think that's an example of the circulator anyway um now is as an example of a sayag no Torah he says a very good thing is make sure a person literally sayag no Torah to his limunda Torah he should make a boundary for his learning of Torah which means that could be UT he should have fixed times when he learns his Torah right even if he has everything goes Haywire excuse me in the day it goes certain times which are fixed and he brings a famous martial story that's already in the comic Suba whatever it is yeah about there was some famous the whole country Nationwide the new about him a very famous tailor Made Beautiful suits to all the princes and Lords you know and all from the king's Palace was to come to him to make suits and he hadn't been hug that in the in the morning he used to go and learn for an hour or two in a baby rush and no one could disturb him and one warning came this big huge yeah Lord sir I wanted to make a massive order of the most expensive suits a huge all day you know we make a big big a big amount of money and he said where is he five seconds sorry after do you come back two hours come back in two hours you gotta be annoyed he waited for two hours he said what's going on where were you he said look I was learning Torah and it says the Torah only will stay with someone who kills himself over it and he says therefore for hour two a day like he's dead it doesn't exist and the souls were impressed and then gave him the big order and everyone lives happily ever after yeah so the the Mala of the Creator Torah I mentioned this to my father the vanish High talks about based on the Yahoo based on the mara in in um it says asparagus foreign to a sort of alcoholic drink and the vegetarian explains it was some wine based with they used to soak different types of cabbages to to to soak up the wine and put flavor into wine and rashes they used to drink it for rafua every morning on an empty stomach that's what I used to do and it's good for the heart the eyes Etc and the intestines says one of the drinks yeah which is wine milk and and water Yarn yeah the toys is compared to wine and we're saying over here this is mermaids to Torah that he says we're a person named Torah in the morning that leaves had his drink in the morning on empty stomach he learned through in the morning and he's fixed in his limbo tour every morning he has this thing when he learns before he goes to work he has this thing when he fixed the lung um he goes to learn he learns he explains his stuff it's good for his mind he's left he said the left he's praying to his mind he'll understand he's learning better because once in the middle of the day even you have a sheer in the middle of the day your mind's ready busy with all the things you've got to do you can't concentrate as well two it's a fairly iron it's good lion which is the Inner Circle you'll be able to get to the troop shot you'll be able to get to what you understand be able to get to the troop shop you'll get 100 shot good troop truck and Coach came the name is put bread on the table right so if you do that that will be a you know a school out for you if you have good pandasa if you have this commute and then he says this unbelievable thing I said to Amber the other day he says right he's learning this this brighter Derek Ram is that's not the chart he goes so far to take another Mama's and says the following he says whoever learns make this Torah kavua Le mansulo if you make your toilets fixed Hashem looks at this if you learn the whole day now obviously it doesn't mean it can't mean as if like a person I've read or a person Yeshiva who's learning the whole day but it has a certain aspect has the mind of learning the whole day why because it says and first I preface I'm gonna have to finish because they're going to start Mario soon at least I have to finish and lots more to say but what can you do um if you have 10 shops nine kosher shops one trade fund you find a piece of meat unmarked in the street you can go back out of the road call the parish miruba Parish if it wasn't in its way it's supposed to be the meat supposed to be in the shop the store it's on the street you can assume it's separated from the Rope roll over the shops on a kosher that's it however if it's fixed Place meat supposed to be in the store in the fridge right in the freezer and it's in the store there's a mix-up in the deliveries and there was a whole freeze in the kosher shop and we're not sure if it came from the trade shop it got delivered to the wrong place it's unmarked with kosher foods [Applause] whatever fixed if the the the the place the root of the safek is in its fixed Place what's what's in this effect is a piece of meat it's in its fixed place we look at this 50 50 and you have to go could be trade right says [Applause] half half meaning he's he he's just like we assume I spoke to all my friends that let's like you know a person has to look after his physical needs so he was a half half he spent whatever time he needed looking off his physical needs and the rest of the time it's as if he was learning Torah yeah they haven't started that right so that's what he says okay now um the uh uh we'll just we'll just start the um whereas yeah we'll just start the next missioner just restart the next mission tell me yeah and he said it says the war was created for these three things now how do you know it says if not for that if not yeah if it wasn't for the fact that we accepted three thousand odd years ago tomorrow night or in the morning yeah it will be created why it says or something it wasn't for my British for the Torah right so accepted there is no point for the world yeah foreign