What makes you different from others

no matter what success we have in life no matter how great we become no matter how big we become there's always going to be people that try to knock us down there's always going to be people that try to take us on what differentiates the people who make it through that to the people who fall and cower and cry in a corner are the people who either have something real inside of them what they're doing truly matters versus the people who are just showing off the entire time it's not that it's unimportant we need things and stuff and that's fine but does that represent who we are or does who we are represent why we need that stuff