We Are All Family - R. Meir Simcha Sperling - TorahAnytime.com

so it says like this suppose you have a few hundred to invest or a few thousand to invest and you decide to purchase a few stocks in a certain hotel chain now obviously you can't say that uh that you own the company you don't own the company it's not yours this is my company it's not your company yeah it's it's true you own a fraction of a fraction of a fraction some tiny minuscule fraction of the chain but your little few dozen shares doesn't have any significance compared to the millions and millions of shares in this huge Hotel chain and yet and yet even though you're not fully invested it's only a little part of you a little piece of you every single time you hear news concerning that hotel your ears are like what did it go up or down did it go up or down did it go up and down yeah the things that are going through the new rules less rules that take away this rule we're not doing well the rates went up we're doing great the stocks are rising and when everything Rises and and and your money goes up you get excited cuz cuz it's it's a part of you and when it's whatnot so then all a sudden it goes down a little bit you're like oh no you're stressed you can't focus now this hotel chain is not you it's not your company but when you have a little bit of yourself invested in something or someone else or something else then suddenly their story becomes your story it's a it's a perfect mush for this this is this is what represents exactly what's happening over here I'm not it's not me that's not me that person that's not me of course yeah he's bad he's it but every single person has a little piece of you you have invested stack in each person we're all part of the same Nation we're all connected there's a piece of all of us and all of us and we're all the children of AES so really the nation of Kel is all one when CL goes up we all go up maybe you don't know we see it maybe it's spiritual but that's the fact when someone does a mitah it raises all of us up when someone does a it brings us all down a little bit a person else's success is your success to a certain part his failure affects you also so I just think that this is a beautiful idea to think about when you're about to say lashar about somebody else when you're about to rip apart another person just remember that there's a little bit of you in him because really we're all part of the same thing now it's not easy it's not easy people go through divorce and to speak about their ex and to speak about this and speak about that it's terrible there broken engagements and to speak about the other person there's there's Partnerships that break up there's people that get fired there are people that got the job instead of you there are people that this there are people that that it's hard it's no question about it it's hard but it's something that we need to work towards and just think about this imagine we were invested imagine we had stock in each person we own stock a little bit a little bit at least Le so we also our ears are going to perk up each time good or bad are they doing bad are they're doing good it makes a difference because we're all one family that's that's this just does it with us we have to try to do it with each other so I think this is something to think about when it comes to over here the is not talking specifically speaking that in all areas of you have to look at it like family so in regards to anything and everything also everything you have to do the best that you can but but in regards I think it's it's it's extra important to realize this cuz then maybe you're going to hold yourself back Anda if you hold yourself back one time one time you have no idea what you're gaining lashar is huge that means every time you protect yourself from lashar every time you hold back it's something that you can't can't even fathom I don't know know if the could fathom it I don't know so if by you thinking when you're about to speak to somebody else or about somebody else that that person is your relative that it's your child that it's your brother it's your sister it's literally a piece of you and you hold yourself back then it was K then it was worthwhile to hear this so to look at each other even when things are hard and there's no cons to do this with your best friend it's very easy to look at your best friend and your family like this it's the people that bother you Isle the people that you work with that you're tired from the people that this the people that that ones that you're not on the best terms with that's where it gets hard and that's where taka you can make moves and you can make hasm proud ifes sees that his own children that he calls the father he's the father this his children that his children are are being nice with each other and trying who knows what that could do for the world who knows what they could do for you if you need BR in your life who knows this might be that that source of braa for you