This Marriage is for You - R. Fischel Schachter - TorahAnytime.com

oh I want to tell you interesting story that somebody once shared with me and I say this story was permission he first got married he is a very delicate you know sensitive person and his wife is very efficient tough General like she runs a house managed like prefix and span you know and he said at the beginning he was having a lot of Shovel by his powers he felt that she wasn't sensitive that he felt that she's too rough that she's intimidating it was strange because usually it's the other way around right she was saying that about it and it got so bad that at one point he was thinking maybe this marriage is that for him and I said I'm telling you the marriage is for you he said how do you know he said because gave you this wife he challenged that so so when every marriage works out but in the context of what your situation is you have to decide what bothers you what doesn't Bobby I'll tell you an interesting thing he struggled with this marriage a lot tiller came to covert and covety was in the hospital and for all practical purposes without getting into the details the doctors threw in the towel and they decided that they're yanking out the respirator because they'd rather give it to someone who has a better chance of survival they were making decisions and his wife came in where you weren't allowed to come in she got through the security guards as she opened her mouth full throttle and she said Over My Dead Body are you pulling out that respirator and he survived that he's okay now I said do you realize that if you would have had any other wife you wouldn't be here now okay I know but I don't live my whole life and I understand but it's irrelevant how you live your life because you wouldn't be living now