This Kid Needs You! - R. Tzvi Sytner - TorahAnytime.com

I think at the beginning with the Torah is telling us here is ordinary parents can have extraordinary kids but it also goes the other way around you can have extraordinary parents who have ordinary kids you have parents who do all the right things we did all the right things and to all the right camps and all the right schools and we G them all the best and we did everything we did the best we could and then you have parents who feel bad what I do what did we do wrong what did we Why didn't it go why maybe it was a career path you didn't want them taking maybe it was a religious path you didn't want them taking I think what the Torah is telling us is you're not your kids and your kids are not you and a man married a woman and they had Moshe Rabin R work my Reb I heard him recently saying he was coing from somebody else who said how could it be that a ter the great Idol worshipper has an abrahamu how could it be Anu has how could it be that a Rifka have an asov how could be a Yakov ofu has children who fight it's what I have to remind myself you know when I'm like in the car in the car pool I mean my family is perfect I meant everyone else is what every this is what everyone else should remind themselves of when your kids are fighting right how could it be these are the greats who gives every a different different Nas different people different different genes different everything and and each child to each family and if your kid becomes M does have to do with your parenting become an ASA have to do with your parenting either you're not your kids so we we so we question so what did I do wrong maybe he didn't do anything wrong actually right maybe Hashem knows this Nish needs you