The Talkers - R. Meir Simcha Sperling - TorahAnytime.com

so i want to share with you one story that just happened the person that had happened who told me himself that it happened and that is that friday night he walked into a shul and as he's walking in he sees three middle age maybe a little bit older than middle age you know to the age of 30 and standing outside hacking right in the middle of davening he heard the moldovan he walked in he's like he wasn't part of the show in a long time he's in a troll or something whatever the kid so he came and he's looking like wow and one of them even had a legitimate gray here he's like oh never never these guys there's carve he's like sizing them up looking at them he's like yeah classic leaving shul schmoozing the whole time yeah this is what it is initial of ada and he was busy judging and he's like writing notes in his head he's going to give a speech about this after shabbos get into jewel and he said he told me that the the person with the white here with the gray hair he's like such a nut like a chennai at this age you still you can't figure out how to get to schwann's not talking [Music] anyways he gets in davening and he's like hashem ah i'm the best guy ever i'm dabbing and he's like mom he's like hashem i'm pushing i'm moving things around up there i'm one of the most questionable people in the world that's what he was thinking or maybe not the kits are right after liquid was finished and these three men walk in and everybody says and this guy is like oh there's those guys oh they just lost their father oh so they were outside schmoozing probably something in tara were you know staying healthy emotionally because they're going through gehenna right now because they're in the middle of shiva they just lost the parent and they weren't allowed to be in shul so they were standing in the hallway and like they walked past him and he's like whoa awkward and he felt so dumb so dumb he started adding letters you know well the b is really there but he he put it like he's thought he felt like like mama's like an idiot he's like i was so busy judging and judging and judging i was gonna write a whole story i was writing it safer on these people and what happened i was so wrong i was so off they were me there was a mitzvah for them to be there he said it like it hit him to his core well like a small little story hit him to his core rabbi said you don't know what is going on by yenem you have no you don't even know what's going on by you you have no idea so you're gonna judge why they're doubting that minion why they didn't come why they're not invited why they didn't invite you why this system was coming after how do you know who had a miscarriage you have no idea how to miscarriage because it's private you know who goes through trauma you have no idea because it's taboo that's private you know who's suffering certain things you don't know their story nothing yeah but i was there when i was i was i saw yeah but they knew you were there so they were acting different because they were in front of you rabbi said it's always a time for this but venezuelan especially is the time to be very careful to be down the cuffs cross always give the benefit of the doubt if you're judging don't even judge because you don't know but if you are be very careful because you don't know you do not want those three people to walk by you and be like so i'm like can we just put the shots outside well you're busy judging us i'm just we don't want that to happen so be very careful and see this right and that's just cloud your soul will be protected we will protect ourselves ambassadorship we should bring the gulab hair of the amino have a wonderful dane hazmatum you