Ready for Marriage But Don’t Have a Job? - R. Tomer Zino - TorahAnytime.com

what if a man wants to get married but partner size what's stopping them what should they do should it be delayed so that's a really good question so you have to know that I said this last time also when I got married I didn't have a bank account I didn't have a job um I think I would be the textbook loser when it comes to uh dating right that's what people think right I didn't have a car I have anything I had nothing to my name but what but uh but I got married right you would think you would think miraculously right no in the in the Yeshiva World this is this is normal this is very normal and uh and the people people have to realize that you have to have a Muna you have to have a Muna I remember I signed the lease to my uh to my basement apartment I was getting and my my father told me you know you have to take care of this yourself you're a big boy now I said yeah don't worry and my wife looked at me it's like I work in uh in the Yeshiva over here and I barely even gonna cover this how are we going to make this how can I do this I said don't worry we're going to jump in the in the ocean Hashem is going to split it for us we're doing the same line we're doing a Mitzvah why wouldn't I shall help Hashem help us and afterwards after a few weeks after we signed my wife got a raise and I finally got a job I got I I found the collel it was miraculously how I found that collel and I walk and decided to drive in from liquid every day and they opened the coil things that are not normal things are not normal miraculously but what it's because the person has to believe just like says every child the person gets he comes with the kikabeado he comes with a loaf of bread in his hand why would Hashem give you a six-figure salary to support a one-person home if you're single why would I shouldn't give you so much money to support yourself with if you don't really need it person has a need then Hashem will give it to him so if a person has to know only once you're married people think I need to have a million dollars first before I get married so the way around when a person has the need then Hashem will fill it then Hashem will give it to you because you need it why would you need all this stuff now so if a person should not ever be scared of parnassan should never ever be scared upon usage Hashem gives to every person exactly what they need there's people who have the same job as you went to the same schooling as you and they don't make the same as you or you don't make the same as them nothing is is a hundred percent sure no one can say for sure yeah I went to Scott I went to college I have this degree so oh that means we're going to be safe all our life it means we're gonna have part of our life yeah I should I should get married to this guy we never know there's a million people who have all those accolades and then and they're not making products so they're still looking for a job there's a guy who never went to school and he's making it he's the one who owns the nursing home that the guy is working for you understand so we never we never fully know we never fully know