Preventive Measures - R. Meir Simcha Sperling - TorahAnytime.com

So, we spoke in the I think in the second part of our schmooze solution series, which Hashem we've been having a lot of success We spoke about being down the right. We said that a person is so he takes it so seriously when it comes to prevent it preventive measures by you know security when it comes to your money the cash in the banks when it comes [snorts] to your health dieting cleanliness exercising all these different things that's extremely important to keep safe and to keep healthy and to prevent things from happening. That's what we wear a mask saying that's I mean that's not enough that we wear because they told us to wear it but that's why they say to wear masks right and vaccines want to prevent prevent prevent prevent. Okay. We get filters on our devices to prevent issues, right? So, what do we have by Lashon Hara? What do we do by Lashon Hara? How does a person prevent? We know how damaging Lashon Hara is. We know how dangerous it is. So, how do we prevent that? How do we prevent Lashon Hara solution? >> [clears throat] >> So, we said that the says but said that I miss her. If a person is down the if a person judges somebody favorably when you're not sure exactly what happened or you're very quick to judge that is if you could just slow down for a second and be like yo yo one second. Am I seeing the whole picture here? Should I say what I want to what I want to say just the first that popped in my mind I'm going to say it. Am I going to think it? Am I going to repeat this? Maybe I don't see the whole story. And if a person [snorts] is down the very often later on in the story you will notice that all the details all the facts that you that you thought were facts taco were not and therefore the whole story changed and if you're down the it will prevent a lot of Lashon Hara and if you work on this but said that to judge your fellow Jew favorably you'll be saved from a lot of devastation. You'll be saved from a lot. You know when a person speaks Lashon Hara we said this a long time ago. When a person speaks Lashon Hara if you ever take a look at a tornado or an earthquake or a hurricane and you see the damage that happens after, you ever saw like pictures and stuff like that? Or whatever. When you see that, that's what it looks like in the next world when a person is over a verse. All that devastation and earthquake and volcano, you see like you just mile. You ever see a picture of Hiroshima? After you have these pictures in World War II, you have all these big pictures, right? You see like, "Whoa, devastation." Everybody say in all the elements up there, well, what do you think happens when we do a verse? It's devastation. What do you think happens with people in China? So, you have to work on to be done with the cuffs close. Done with the cuffs close means slow down. Slow down. Before you judge, before you say, before you send, did I see the whole picture? Should I say what I'm about to say? Or maybe I should just chill for a second and be like, "Wait. I don't know what's going on in that person's life. I don't know why they said that. I don't know why they responded that way. >> [snorts] >> But let me be done with the cuffs close that something's going on. Got it? Preventative measures. We need to be careful.