Most Common Response - R. Tomer Zino - TorahAnytime.com

to me. I'll tell you a conversation I had with somebody one time. He said he was about to get married. He was engaged. He's like he's like, "Rabbi, I have cold feet. I'm thinking I have doubts." So, what happened? He said, "You know, Rabbi, I think I could do better. I'm not sure. I don't know if I should go through with this." I said, "Listen, what's bothering you?" You know, a lot of times when I give, my wife is a I suggest a lot of and a lot of times we get a no. I said, "Why was a no?" The most common response I get, they're not my type. It's not my type. So, that's a very tricky word. What does it mean? What's the reason they're not your type? What does that mean? They're not your type. So then they go and they tell me uh till finally they get out of them. They're not attractive enough. They're attractive. I think I could do better. I sat down one time my guy and I said, "Listen, what do you think?" Be honest. What did you rate her? He said, "She's seven out of 10. I could do I think I could do better. I could get 10 out of 10, I think." I said, "Listen, be honest with you. Do you think you're a 10 out of 10?" He said, "I said it's very debatable. Let me tell you, I don't think you're 10 out of 10, my friend. I'll be honest with you." I said, "So, why are you think you deserve a 10 out of 10?" Be humble a little bit, right? Right? And he was willing to throw away a good girl and say no to the because he thought I deserve better. I am God's gift to the world, you know.