Mistakes - R. Meir Simcha Sperling - TorahAnytime.com

And everyone in life makes mistakes. We know this. We're we're human. We're human beings. We are human and therefore we make mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes. Our role when dealing with mistakes when this happens is to look at the big picture. Look at the wider context of everything and be like, "Okay, you made a mistake." Instead of lashing out and and doing who knows what when people make mistakes, it's not a big deal. It's fine. And look how many times I didn't make mistakes. Look how many times the supper wasn't burnt for years. Look how many times the kid came home with good marks on his test. Look how many times he did this and he did that. Sometimes we only focus on the mistake and we it we just highlight it with like multiple highlighters and we just make it big and you know it's very easy to catch your child or your student or whatever doing something wrong and speak about it loud. It's very easy to do that. It's not so easy to catch them doing something right. You know, we're doing things good all the time. All the time. And we have to realize that, yeah, we make mistakes, okay? But it's not the end of the world. And in all relationships, it's just a very good thing. It's a very good thing to realize that this this doesn't define who you are. You made a mistake. Okay, fine. Maybe even it came from a good place. Maybe it was, you know, you made a mistake in the judgment. Whatever it was, doesn't matter. But the point is that you're a good person and that you've done so many good things so many times. So why am I focusing on this? So this is the lesson over here. Not when somebody makes a mistake that's when you should just remind them how good they are. It's true. We have to work on this. Yeah. I'm not saying that we we should make mistakes. No. But we have to remember how good we all are. And I'm just thinking