Men and Women in the Workplace - R. David Nakash - TorahAnytime.com

a person a fourth um unfortunately yeah i guess unfortunately we work there's a lot of uh non-males in the office and a person has to realize that if he is not on guard if he is not on guard i tell the boys a lot of times like you know you're walking into gaza you don't just walk in like you know hey what's going on you're walking like this you know like that with the phone like this ready to shoot at any terrorist that comes your way if you are not like that then unfortunately you're bountiful i mean i was on the phone with one of my boys married with kids very very respectable boy he's on the phone with him he's like uh he's nothing as he was working i was talking about something he's like i'll keep you all down it's indianapolis and then all of a sudden he's talking to someone in his office so i he gets better and i go i'm just curious you're talking to a girl he's like how do you know because your voice changed your voice changed you know that teal voice you know man i thought you're married he goes no i didn't think yeah it did i know there's a certain limit there's a certain fence that if you're not watching it if you're not careful about it you get sucked in rules there's no personal conversations with women in your office it's business and only business there's no how is your weekend there's no how are your kids doesn't know how is your how is your sunday how is your night there's nothing there's no hecki there's no talking nothing it's business and only business and she wants to drag you in and the buyers there's no personal activities outside the office i don't care what they say what they do there's no drinks there's no dinners there's no zoo there's no i don't know whether no botanical garden no circus whatever they want to take you there's zero zero nothing if you enter that world you have no idea where it could take you no idea remember there was a boy unfortunately again he had a co-worker started choosing married good boy started talking started this all of a sudden his marriage started getting a little rocky that's because this uh this this animal was working with him and you know nothing going on but you know talking talking talking talking talking means to thinking thinking me still so now my what is my wife compared to this girl and then he realized he went to the rabbi the rabbis told him i'll tell you the rabbi's name after if anyone i don't know if he should mention now the mommy said leave let me leave quit you're not gonna go back in the store you're not gonna go back in you're not allowed to enter the store what do you mean i have a job i have a pineapple i have kids i have a wife i don't know what do you mean what do you mean leave believe he promised him is that hashem he does because you don't risk it not even what are you giving me one more time one more time to get my stuff go no no you're not allowed to enter that's how serious it is god forbid we don't want to enter and the stories and stories of stories which we don't want to even go through a person has to from today you know the court i'm saying not a lot of calling by their first name you know you go to go you go you go to the religious offices sometimes they say mrs this and misses that that's what they say to the to the women that work in the office and these women that work there are dressed like regular like robinsons they're still calling them misses if you don't make a gather fence when there's a distance okay you'll make it they're not going to think it's crazy they'll still write your orders even if there's no no no outside activities you see guys taking on someone they're telling us one of my friends saw a guy in going a restaurant with the girl drinking whatever married guy goes what's going on you know we have a sales thing to take a meeting together as it was normal it wasn't even embarrassed drinking cocktails with the with the g in public like he got so desensitized to it so a person has to be careful about that you