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Many Parents Make This Mistake… - R. Yaakov Harari - TorahAnytime.com

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again we we're trying to work on proactive parenting and not put the main emphasis on reactive parenting because reactive parenting always comes after the problems and after the problems come up it's much more complicated so we want to try to avoid as much problems as possible the second problem with reactive parents just to bring this out is that reactive parents usually don't have too many tools in the tool shed of how to deal with problems okay they usually know about shouting punishing something like that that's like about as many tools as they are it's like a person has for example if you have only one tool in your house you have a hammer okay if you're going to fix all the problems in your house with the hammer you'll probably do way more damage than fixing so when parents don't have skills or tools other than being tough getting upset punishing that's like like it's basically the same tool so they only have one tool when you're going to be a proactive parent you're going to learn different skills the more skills you have and the more tools you have then you know which tool to use when okay so that's very important we want to do proactive you