Looking Out? - R. Meir Simcha Sperling - TorahAnytime.com

bam wants to curse us he comes who changes it around and he gives us a a major major wow what a says b says the medish what's the the BR is focused on how impressive pool is why because they finish every day no their is unbelievable no sh what's going on no that's not what it says it says because look how their tents are set up look at their tents no two doors face each other yay we're CL all B A you know that that's the no that's the no that that our doors are not facing other people this is what we needed a NOA for wow I went to and their doors were that's what was good about it the doors were were next to each other okay my doors also not next to any other door like what what why is that the what's theat over here and the says something fascinating he says that this is really from he says that the reason why this is such a this is such a holy nation is because look at the motivation behind the fact that the door is where I'm facing what's the point of a door not facing cuz I want privacy right so the Sha is everyone wants privacy even non-jews want privacy why is the answer is what's the motivation behind the privacy is it so people shouldn't look in to see your door to see your shabas meal to see your family is that theat because then what's the what's thees or is theat that you shouldn't see out says unbelievably he says the motivation behind K not putting their doors facing have nothing to do with you looking in you want to look at me learn no problem you want to see on my sh I have no problem you could look at if you want but I'm not looking out why do you have shades on your windows so people shouldn't look in or so you shouldn't look out don't worry about the neighbor is so focused on their life on their marriage on their self on their Sim that they don't care what's going on there now we do care if you need help or come but as soon as it's a threat there's jealousy there doesn't exist anymore I close my door it's over finished because I have my own life I have my own that means your life has nothing to do with me your wife has nothing to do with me your kids your kid has nothing to do with me your money your pessa your job your lottery that you just won has nothing to do with me I'm very happy for you but that doesn't creep into my life I have a war right here blocking me cuz if it does I'm in big trouble now oh what does he have oh and who is oh wow and now his kids well if you would just be more like his kids if you would have said what she said and all of a sudden you're lost you have no life anymore this is the hug that it's the motivation the motivation behind it we're not interested in seeing outside