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Life or Death - R. Joey Haber - TorahAnytime.com

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I once went to a yeshiva in Israel this year and went to visit boys boys in our community in a community yeshiva that's in Israel. I said boys I want to tell you how life works. All of these fun stuff are actually fun. They really are. Drugs, gambling, alcohol, and other things. They're fun for now. Here's how it works. You take drugs. You will here's how the deal. It's a contract. You will have three years of fun and then you'll have 80 years where it'll destroy your life. Gambling the same thing. You'll have three years of fun. You won't gamble too much. You gamble 100 here, 200 here. You lose, you win. You lose, you win. You will have fun and then it'll get to a point where it catch up to you and you'll have 80 years of the worst. The same, no more talking. The same thing with alcohol. Alcohol is the same. You have a drink after a drink after a drink. You will have a ton of fun. It's not like, "Oh, it's not so fun." It is fun. You're going to have three years of fun and then 80 years of like death. So every time you make a decision, I say, "Boys, you're going to come back to Israel. A lot of you going to go to deal." I said, "You're going to be faced with a choice." But you need to know that when people tell you, "Nah, no one cares. It's not so fun. is not so enjoyable. It's not true. It is fun, but it comes with a contract. The contract of death. The contract of death is have a few years of fun and then have 80 years of destruction. That's how it works every time. And so many people say, "Oh, but you know, I'm I'm tempted." It works the same every time. You'll have a few years of fun. A party life also so much fun. You go to a party, you drink, you celebrate, do inappropriate things, you have a ton of fun for a few years, and then you'll be chasing that life and chasing that money and chasing the party and chasing that that thrill for 80 years. It's a contract of death. The good life is the opposite. The good life says you're going to have to struggle for a few years. Someone's going to offer you something. You're going to have to say no. And you're going to know it's they're having more fun than you tonight. Someone's going to tell you, "Put money on the game." You're going to have to say, "I have $100 in my pocket. I But no, I'm not going to do it." It's hard. Here's how it works. The contract of life is that you're the way to have a good life is you're going to have a few years. It's difficult because you're going to get offered again. You're going to say, "Maybe I should and it's not such a big deal and it's not the end of the world and you're going to require willpower and you're going to struggle and you're sometimes going to be lonely. You suddenly say, "I can't go to that party and I can't drink that thing and I can't take that substance." But I'll tell you how it works. Three three years of struggle after a couple of years, you're used to it and then you have 80 years of joy. Doesn't mean everything goes right for you, but it's so much easier. He said, "So when a person comes here right now and offers me to get drunk or offers me to take a drug or to gamble, to do other worse things, it's not like a temptation because once you pass the first few years, you sign the contract of life." So here's how it works. There's a contract of death and the contract of life. The contract of death says have a few years of fun and pray pay the price for 80 years. The contract of life says have a few years of struggle. You might be pulled. You might not sure. You're debating, insecure. You're not sure. You're nervous. You're sweating. You're alone. You feel like no one likes you. But once you get past it, you've signed the contract of life.