It' Not Natural - R. Yaakov Rahimi - TorahAnytime.com

the tells us like this famous yam the splitting of the sea was not an easy task for human beings obviously Hashem had to really step in and do one of the greatest Miracles at all times that is the splitting of the sea says a person to get a person to have P you need hashem's help 100% meaning if of course hm does everything but you need a type of Miracle for a person to have parosa for a person to have the right means to have a good job you need an open Miracle you need a it's another term of saying it's not an easy thing to find the right job then the says to find a to find the right B the right wife to find the right spouse to find the right wife oh you in a big miracle like the splitting of the sea says the when the gar says that to have parosa is hard like yamu and to find your wife or the wife to husband is hard like yamu it's not a one-time thing it's not until you find your job it's like yam but then after that it's easy it's easy as p no it's every single day when you're working you have to understand it's Hashem supplying you the money it's Hashem supplying you the wealth just like Hashem did yamu the spining of the sea Hashem is the one giving you parasa don't think it's nature don't think it's automatic that you had money that month it's Hashem giving you the money so to says when it comes to a when it comes to finding your spouse it's not that it's hard like yam it's like splitting the seat to find the right wife until you find the right wife it's like so hard it's like splitting the seat it's even after you get married every day of your marriage and every week is like yam it's a miracle to stay along it's a miracle says the to respect a wife and a wife and a husband to respect your friends is not a small task you have to be aware the just K was in front of the sea when we left MIM and we were stuck the Egyptians behind us and yamu in front of us and we're like where what do we do where do we go and then they started screaming at to Hashem and Hashem told them just go don't worry I'm going to help you out but they scream at to Hashem they had AA then the sea was split so to a marriage so to a parasa nothing is going to be automatic don't think you're just going to get along don't think you're just going to have panasa nothing should be taken for granted it's something you have to pray for it's something you have to know that you need Hashem for to help you out to have schom do you need Hashem not just therapy not just classes real to be nice to other people doesn't just happen naturally you a person has to pray for it you have to know that you need Hashem you need you have to ask hem please help me to be nice to my wife please help me to be nice to my husband please help me to be nice to my co-workers to my neighbors to my friends in Yeshiva it's something a person has to work on it's a lifestyle it's a miracle it's not a natural thing a person has to dve just like he ding foram just like we ding for the splitting of the sea and we knew we had no choice but to pray so to when it comes to parasa so to when it comes to getting along it's not automatic there's no automatic button it's not a robot it's something that needs to be worked on it's a vision it's a vision you got to pray for it every single day to make sure that a person has schom bite for